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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

So I live in an apartment now o_o; All mine :D Got furniture moved in yesterday~

My new bedroom, ben in corner with lavender-pink sheet

Entryway with bookshelves on either side

View from entryway, looking in on living room, kitchen bar, kitchen

View of living room from hallway to bedroom/bathroom

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Apartment wasn’t as bad in person as the google maps pics made it seem :D Still gonna look at and pray for other options o_o;

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Looking for somewhere to live 🫠 HOLY HECK, do people really think places will sell when units in the same building are haphazardly boarded up??? I’m looking at two units in this place later today, and I dunno if I want to get out of my car 😰 Reviews: Rats, roaches, bad management/neighbors Scary

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Brother update: They kicked him out XD He’s living in his car in the parking lot where he works. He didn’t get his intoxlock recalibrated, so his car’s shut down. Didn’t pay his car insurance, didn’t pay his cell phone bill. He has money for them, he’s just spending it on booze. Good riddance 🤷

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

FWA next year XD Got a bit to wait before it gets here

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

Might be going to Furry Weekend Atlanta 👀 My first convention in like 10 years My first furry convention in like… 20 years

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

Sanji will now forever be Snaji to me 🤣🤣🤣 The mistake on this packaging! 🤣 The correction being a tiny strip of tape 🤣 I’m dying! 🤣 But I got Chopper, the one I wanted 🤩

Blind bag, One Piece Netflix, possible characters

Tape over Sanji’s name pulled away to reveal spelling mistake originally printed on packaging saying ‘Snaji’

Tape with correct spelling ‘Sanji’ peeling up

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

My brother is a literal piece of trash… and mom still feels bad for him and keeps telling him he’s can come live on the farm. NO HE CANNOT! “But he’s my son 😭” He’s also a LIAR, THIEF, BUM, USER, BOOZER, ABUSER, MANIPULATOR, CHEAT, and chooses to repeat every one of those offenses, and more.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Niece’s husband smacked him upside the head and told him he’s about to go live in his car in his job’s parking lot 🤣 They’re so done with him already 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Brother update: So he’s been living with stepmom’s niece and the niece’s husband. He thought he could rehabilitate my brother, having been in a similar boat a while back and recovering from it. Brother got a third shift job, keeps them up all night, bums beer money off his coworkers, leaves messes.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Momo from Xenosaga has been added as a new character for Xenoblade Chronicles 2? :D WHY IS WORK STANDING IN MY WAY? I MUST PLAY XENOBLADE 2 AGAIN 🤩 Might just do me a full sixth playthrough with Momo in the team (legit, given that game five plays already, is one of my top favorites)

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

I was like “D: … What do I do??? X_x” Shook the can and knocked the raccoon off, couldn’t see it, so I pulled out my phone and turned on its light, raccoon stared at me all offended on the ground for a moment before walking off and hiding o_o; Meanwhile, it’s pitch dark and I can barely see XD

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

Almost had to fight off a raccoon this morning @_@ Went to put the trash can up for the garbage truck, heard something in the can, stood back a moment, tapped the can with my foot, paused, started moving the can, and the lid opened and a raccoon popped out staring at me o_o

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

🤣🤣 It really is 🥹 Up like 7 whole stairs, then a turn, then like 5 more stairs 😩 And then down a hallway 😵 🤣🤣🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

Truth ^_^ So much heart and all the lightning 😈

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

Coworker: Is your internet down? D: Me: Let me check :3 … Is down D: Coworker: Been down for at least an hour D: Me: Have you gone upstairs to tell IT? Coworker: No XD Do they have a phone number? Me: … They’re literally… upstairs. 🤣 Coworker: Surely someone else told them :3 Me: UPSTAIRS! 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

😍 One of my favorites, even though his movement range isn’t great in battle

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

Replaying my way through Chrono Cross… again 🤣 Because I wasn’t perfectly happy with my previous playthrough and strategic saves for Continue+ character recruitment. I’m nearing the last stretch of the game, just got Serge his body back, and can’t decide on a final party.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

Birthday stuff :3 Lunch with grandma at Deano’s, an Italian place, and ice cream at Scoops DanDaDan manga from mom and stepmom ^___^

Garlic knots (mine) and chicken marsala (grandma’s)

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

Sleeping in these ones tonight 😈🤤❤️ Gonna use bigger ones for the rest of the week 😍

My chest, shirtless, pump cups on my nipples

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

Visiting family on the farm a four hour drive from home :3 Here on vacation for the next week~ Puppies 🤩 Also, my birthday is in two days @_@

Chiweenie (half chihuahua, half dachshund), Bruce

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

Thinking of doing a little bit of a challenge run in Final Fantasy 5 :3 Early in the game, each elemental crystal gives its essence to one of the characters Gonna lock each character to job classes from their crystal~ So Bartz gets ONLY wind crystal jobs Lenna = water Galuf = earth Faris = fire

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

Also Xenoblade Genesis (NEED!) Persona 4 Revival Tales of Eternia EATING SO GOOD

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

Xenoblade Chronicles 1-3 Switch 2 upgrade packs Persona 6 Fire Emblem: Fortune’s Weave Final Fantasy 7 Revelation Final Fantasy Resonance This gamer’s gonna eat so good

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

I’m proud of her, she learned quick 😁

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

I’m CACKLING right now 🤣 My brother reached out to our dad’s first wife for ‘help’ I debated warning her about him lying and stealing She took him to church He begged for ‘food’ money at church She gave him money for food He used it for beer and was drunk all day Saturday She blocked him 🤣🤣🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 06/06/2026

Mom: *calls back* Me: “I said NO!” Mom: “That hurt my feelings 😞” Me: “I’m sorry it hurts, but I will NEVER live near him again. You heard that he stole from me AGAIN during his last weekend here, right??” Mom: “Yeah 😞” Me: “Move him to that farm and you’ll NEVER see me again.” Mom: “Ok 😞”

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 06/06/2026

Mom: “If your brother stops stealing and lying, we can move him to the farm with us :D” Me: “NO!” Mom: “But if he fixes his act-“ Me: “NO!” Mom: “But if he becomes a better person-“ Me: “NO! NO! I said NO!” Mom: “But- D:” Me: *hangs up*

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 28/05/2026

Brother just took off on one of stepmom’s nephew’s bikes after drinking something that may or may not be alcoholic (I wouldn’t be surprised is it is).

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 28/05/2026

Brother came back this morning to get a few things. Was staying at a neighbor’s place, neighbor found out he’s a thief and kicked him out. Brother made threats against himself to his wife, police got called for wellness check. They took him, they released him.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 27/05/2026

Brother is trying to say “We could’ve talked it out, cops didn’t need to be called.” We DID talk, he wouldn’t listen, he wouldn’t work with us, so we HAD to call the cops. We TRIED. As soon as he finishes getting his things out of our garage, I’m going no contact.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

Mom and stepmom had me call the cops to have him removed. But legally, he lives here, and our contract isn’t legally binding since no one ‘official’ signed it, so cops said he can stay

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

Brother agreed to move out last night, has a friend’s place he can sleep at. Was supposed to go to work today and I’d let him in after I got off work to let him pack more of his stuff, but he called out! And mom and stepmom don’t want him here by himself, so I can’t go to work today!

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

Brother has alcohol. Home safe from the farm, I check the trash, I see alcohol cans that weren’t there when I left Just handed him a copy of his contract with all his violations marked. REMOVAL FROM HOME is the consequence he agreed to. Handed him locations and numbers for homeless shelters

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

Got internet fixed a few hours ago Life is getting back to normal XD But I go back home tomorrow morning 😭 I demand a redo on this weekend. At least I don’t work tomorrow.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

And he has the nerve to tell her SHE’S the problem

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

Sounds like brother’s wife is officially done with him. He used her last bit of money she’d been saving for her diabetes medicine, used it for snacks for himself. He tried to apologize, she said “I’ve heard it before, not believing it this time.”

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

Water is back on 🤩 I can shower 🤩 Internet is still down 😑 Might need to learn me some hunting and gathering for this farm life 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

I try to take a quick break from life and life is like “Lol, no 🤣” 😭

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

Got a three day weekend (off work Monday), so I visit the farm. Storm. Power goes out. Power comes back. Internet and water are out. I want a redo on this weekend 😑

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

Stepmom’s out of town for work stuff, was supposed to be one week, but looks like it might be three 😑 So I’m home alone with my brother and his wife 😑 And I’m vibrating with a need to kick him OUT 👹 As soon as I’m allowed to, I’m ON IT 🤣 Maybe I’ll give him a list of nearby homeless shelters 🥰🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

Mom’s been living on the farm for a bit now. She loves it, looking more and more like she isn’t moving back home. She’s more and more talking about selling our house. I’m hoping she’ll let me keep it on my own for at least a little while

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

He’s not just taking steps towards losing this job, he’s RUNNING for it 🤣 And the second he loses it… OUT 👹

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

Thursday: He was late to work, I didn’t bother to wake him when I went in a little later (Mondays we go in at same time, other days I go in later) Friday (today): His car was still at the house when I left, so he’s at least 2 hours late AGAIN

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

My brother’s about to lose this job, then I’m kicking him OUT 👹🤩 Monday: Almost made both of us late, ‘slept through’ his alarm but later told mom he didn’t set one. LIAR! He’s lucky I woke him up and waited for him (he owes me $10 a day for carpooling on Mondays) Continued in next post…

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

I don’t want to be in the house by myself with my brother those few days 😑 But none of us want to leave him home alone, as much as we’d love to surprise grandma with me visiting too. But I plan on going for my birthday in July

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

They (mom and stepmom) are going to farm to visit grandma for Mothers Day, mom is gonna probably stay there for about a month to spend time away from my brother, brother will have to sort out his own way to work that Thurs/Fri 🤣 We don’t think he’ll go

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

Mom and stepmom (mostly stepmom) are taking over my brother’s money and MAKING him pay back what he owes (fines, rent, debt, bills, etc) because he can’t be trusted 🫠 He should be caught up paying them back by October

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