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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

So I live in an apartment now o_o; All mine :D Got furniture moved in yesterday~

My new bedroom, ben in corner with lavender-pink sheet

Entryway with bookshelves on either side

View from entryway, looking in on living room, kitchen bar, kitchen

View of living room from hallway to bedroom/bathroom

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Looking for somewhere to live 🫠 HOLY HECK, do people really think places will sell when units in the same building are haphazardly boarded up??? I’m looking at two units in this place later today, and I dunno if I want to get out of my car 😰 Reviews: Rats, roaches, bad management/neighbors Scary

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Brother update: They kicked him out XD He’s living in his car in the parking lot where he works. He didn’t get his intoxlock recalibrated, so his car’s shut down. Didn’t pay his car insurance, didn’t pay his cell phone bill. He has money for them, he’s just spending it on booze. Good riddance 🤷

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

Might be going to Furry Weekend Atlanta 👀 My first convention in like 10 years My first furry convention in like… 20 years

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

Sanji will now forever be Snaji to me 🤣🤣🤣 The mistake on this packaging! 🤣 The correction being a tiny strip of tape 🤣 I’m dying! 🤣 But I got Chopper, the one I wanted 🤩

Blind bag, One Piece Netflix, possible characters

Tape over Sanji’s name pulled away to reveal spelling mistake originally printed on packaging saying ‘Snaji’

Tape with correct spelling ‘Sanji’ peeling up

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

Brother update: So he’s been living with stepmom’s niece and the niece’s husband. He thought he could rehabilitate my brother, having been in a similar boat a while back and recovering from it. Brother got a third shift job, keeps them up all night, bums beer money off his coworkers, leaves messes.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

Momo from Xenosaga has been added as a new character for Xenoblade Chronicles 2? :D WHY IS WORK STANDING IN MY WAY? I MUST PLAY XENOBLADE 2 AGAIN 🤩 Might just do me a full sixth playthrough with Momo in the team (legit, given that game five plays already, is one of my top favorites)

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

Almost had to fight off a raccoon this morning @_@ Went to put the trash can up for the garbage truck, heard something in the can, stood back a moment, tapped the can with my foot, paused, started moving the can, and the lid opened and a raccoon popped out staring at me o_o

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

Coworker: Is your internet down? D: Me: Let me check :3 … Is down D: Coworker: Been down for at least an hour D: Me: Have you gone upstairs to tell IT? Coworker: No XD Do they have a phone number? Me: … They’re literally… upstairs. 🤣 Coworker: Surely someone else told them :3 Me: UPSTAIRS! 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

Replaying my way through Chrono Cross… again 🤣 Because I wasn’t perfectly happy with my previous playthrough and strategic saves for Continue+ character recruitment. I’m nearing the last stretch of the game, just got Serge his body back, and can’t decide on a final party.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

Birthday stuff :3 Lunch with grandma at Deano’s, an Italian place, and ice cream at Scoops DanDaDan manga from mom and stepmom ^___^

Garlic knots (mine) and chicken marsala (grandma’s)

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

Visiting family on the farm a four hour drive from home :3 Here on vacation for the next week~ Puppies 🤩 Also, my birthday is in two days @_@

Chiweenie (half chihuahua, half dachshund), Bruce

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

Thinking of doing a little bit of a challenge run in Final Fantasy 5 :3 Early in the game, each elemental crystal gives its essence to one of the characters Gonna lock each character to job classes from their crystal~ So Bartz gets ONLY wind crystal jobs Lenna = water Galuf = earth Faris = fire

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

Xenoblade Chronicles 1-3 Switch 2 upgrade packs Persona 6 Fire Emblem: Fortune’s Weave Final Fantasy 7 Revelation Final Fantasy Resonance This gamer’s gonna eat so good

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

I’m CACKLING right now 🤣 My brother reached out to our dad’s first wife for ‘help’ I debated warning her about him lying and stealing She took him to church He begged for ‘food’ money at church She gave him money for food He used it for beer and was drunk all day Saturday She blocked him 🤣🤣🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 06/06/2026

Mom: “If your brother stops stealing and lying, we can move him to the farm with us :D” Me: “NO!” Mom: “But if he fixes his act-“ Me: “NO!” Mom: “But if he becomes a better person-“ Me: “NO! NO! I said NO!” Mom: “But- D:” Me: *hangs up*

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 28/05/2026

Brother just took off on one of stepmom’s nephew’s bikes after drinking something that may or may not be alcoholic (I wouldn’t be surprised is it is).

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 28/05/2026

Brother came back this morning to get a few things. Was staying at a neighbor’s place, neighbor found out he’s a thief and kicked him out. Brother made threats against himself to his wife, police got called for wellness check. They took him, they released him.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 27/05/2026

Brother is trying to say “We could’ve talked it out, cops didn’t need to be called.” We DID talk, he wouldn’t listen, he wouldn’t work with us, so we HAD to call the cops. We TRIED. As soon as he finishes getting his things out of our garage, I’m going no contact.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

Brother agreed to move out last night, has a friend’s place he can sleep at. Was supposed to go to work today and I’d let him in after I got off work to let him pack more of his stuff, but he called out! And mom and stepmom don’t want him here by himself, so I can’t go to work today!

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

Brother has alcohol. Home safe from the farm, I check the trash, I see alcohol cans that weren’t there when I left Just handed him a copy of his contract with all his violations marked. REMOVAL FROM HOME is the consequence he agreed to. Handed him locations and numbers for homeless shelters

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

Got internet fixed a few hours ago Life is getting back to normal XD But I go back home tomorrow morning 😭 I demand a redo on this weekend. At least I don’t work tomorrow.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

Sounds like brother’s wife is officially done with him. He used her last bit of money she’d been saving for her diabetes medicine, used it for snacks for himself. He tried to apologize, she said “I’ve heard it before, not believing it this time.”

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

Water is back on 🤩 I can shower 🤩 Internet is still down 😑 Might need to learn me some hunting and gathering for this farm life 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

Got a three day weekend (off work Monday), so I visit the farm. Storm. Power goes out. Power comes back. Internet and water are out. I want a redo on this weekend 😑

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

Stepmom’s out of town for work stuff, was supposed to be one week, but looks like it might be three 😑 So I’m home alone with my brother and his wife 😑 And I’m vibrating with a need to kick him OUT 👹 As soon as I’m allowed to, I’m ON IT 🤣 Maybe I’ll give him a list of nearby homeless shelters 🥰🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

Mom’s been living on the farm for a bit now. She loves it, looking more and more like she isn’t moving back home. She’s more and more talking about selling our house. I’m hoping she’ll let me keep it on my own for at least a little while

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 22/05/2026

My brother’s about to lose this job, then I’m kicking him OUT 👹🤩 Monday: Almost made both of us late, ‘slept through’ his alarm but later told mom he didn’t set one. LIAR! He’s lucky I woke him up and waited for him (he owes me $10 a day for carpooling on Mondays) Continued in next post…

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

Mom and stepmom (mostly stepmom) are taking over my brother’s money and MAKING him pay back what he owes (fines, rent, debt, bills, etc) because he can’t be trusted 🫠 He should be caught up paying them back by October

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 08/04/2026

Mom and stepmom went to dinner with brother’s wife yesterday. Brother’s wife told them that, before getting arrested, my brother had been gloating about getting whatever he wants out of mom, calling her spineless. Mom: “That little shit. I’m about to show him who’s spineless 😡”

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 06/04/2026

Brother update: He called being all “I get out next week at about 2am, have someone pick me up!” And we’re all like “We need to talk before you can come back here. Lots needs to change.” He said “I miss my life! Just bring me back home!” Excuse me? What space do you have to make demands of us? 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 06/04/2026

Thinking my pinky toe was just dislocated maybe. It feels ok. A little sore to walk on that foot, but not bad~ Pinky toe is bruised at the base close to my next toe.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

JUST BROKE MY PINKY TOE FUCK MY LIFE I NEED 5 VACATIONS BACK TO BACK

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 04/04/2026

🎨: @taigher.bsky.social 🐺: My fursona, Lavender Had to grab up both versions of this YCH :D Lavender all muscled, and Lavender with muscle gut 😈

My fursona, Lavender, thickly muscled, sitting nude, erect and leaking precum

My fursona, Lavender, sitting nude, muscled with a gut, erect and leaking pre

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 02/04/2026

A slow, painful death to whoever left this bungee cord thing in the road that I ran over when I was almost at work. Back side of my car is all scratched up, BRAND NEW CAR Tire needs fixed FUCK WHOEVER LEFT THIS IN THE ROAD 😤 I JUST got this car, BRAND NEW, last month

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 02/04/2026

Update on brother in jail: Judge went easy on him 😑 He’s locked up for this week and next, 14 days total. Mom, stepmom, and I had a big talk with his wife over dinner. We’re writing up some rules he HAS to stick to if he’s living here after getting out, if his wife stays. One misstep and he’s OUT

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

Another update on my brother, because wait, there’s more! 🤣 Petty theft! He went drunk driving for food, stopped at a gas station, grabbed a case of beer and walked out without paying. Employee followed him out and said “You didn’t pay!” He said sorry and handed it back Employee reported to police

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 30/03/2026

So my brother’s in jail 🤣 4:55am this morning, I go to my car to head to work. My brother’s car is gone. Weird, he NEVER goes anywhere that early, though he dod go out at 3:30am the other morning, drunk, wanting a hotdog. 6:30am, at work, mom and stepmom call, “Guess where your brother is…”

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 26/03/2026

So proud of my mom! She kinda tore into my brother in a series of angry texts He’d bummed $20 off of her (again…) for gas to get to work, and he only put $10 in his tank and spent the rest on booze. Mom has HAD it with his ass 🤣 He didn’t talk to her at all today. He knows he can’t bum anymore here.

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

Decided to get Pokemon Pokopia 🤣 Not sure if it’s worth full price… BUT it’s VERY charming and chill, cozy. Got my house built, made it rain, sorted out some homes for some of the pokemons I’d met, made my way into an industrial looking area Will definitely play more

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 27/02/2026

Coworkers: *talking about how one of them wasn’t born when Lion King came out* Me: “Lion King? :3 I think I was a kid when that came out.” Coworker: “No, I don’t think you were born back then.” Me: “🥹 You’re my favorite. And I was almost 8 when it came out, so thank you for calling me a young’un 🤣”

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

Got me a new car last weekend :3 He’s been super good to drive~ Hyundai Tucson, 2026 Needing a name for him My previous car was named Honeybee, after a Steam Powered Giraffe song~ ^_^ Thinking of going with another song title for this guy~

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

On a similar note (mobile games)… Those ads for other games where the player is clearly purposefully playing extremely poorly and getting a game over. Gripes my goat 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

Been big on a few mobile games lately :3 I have to say, it’s a turn off when an ad for another game is all “Here’s how noobs play :D” and it’s peaceful, “And here’s how elites play 😈” and the ‘elite’ player is all intense. Let me play how I want, I’m gonna be chill no matter how good I get 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 01/02/2026

Got snowed in yesterday :3 Not going anywhere today~

View out my front door, snow covering the ground and my car

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 26/01/2026

No work for me today :3 Ice on streets, I live on some hills, not risking my car~ Though I guess I can work from home 😑 Benefits of having a desk job? 🤣

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Lavender Way @lavenderway.bsky.social · 06/01/2026

Picked up a 50lb free weight and a pair of 60lb ones >:3 Gonna be bumping up my workouts from my 45lb ones ^_^ I need more space in my room for weights and workout space D:

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