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My FIV+ baby was supposed to have surgery tomorrow for tooth reabsorption, but they got his bloodwork back and he’s too anemic for surgery right now 😭

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Melissa Stewart @lissajostewart.bsky.social · 27/01/2026

It’s not just ok to celebrate this victory, it is ESSENTIAL. Celebrating wins keeps hope alive. Hope fuels the fight.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 23/01/2026

Why aren’t any Neon Trees songs used in Heated Rivalry? 2010s indie rock band with a gay front man who wrote songs about being closeted? Absolutely fumbled that opportunity.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 21/01/2026

So, big streaming day for CANCELLED!, huh?

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Movies Silently @moviessilently.bsky.social · 17/01/2026

How to Make a Good Movie: Use one of the following hooks Ship hunting submarine Submarine hunting ship Submarine hunting other submarine If your movie is not set on a submarine, ask yourself why you hate good movies, change to submarine

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 17/01/2026

I should really just start making fan edits. I’ve been silently critiquing them all since like 2002. The only reason I didn’t back then is because I didn’t know how to get decent quality video clips in the analog days.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 12/01/2026

With all of your support, I finally made it through the first episode. I binged the whole series yesterday and am now on my first rewatch and also just downloaded the first book 🫠

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two men are making a heart shape with their arms

ALT: two men are making a heart shape with their arms

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 11/01/2026

Not to be dramatic, but I keep trying to watch Heated Rivalry and I don’t know if I can get through this. I might be too much of a lesbian for this one. There’s just so many muscles.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Made a really good soup tonight. Too bad I was in a blind fury the whole time and don’t remember what I put in it.

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Jen 🧡🤍🩷 @nursejen84.bsky.social · 03/01/2026

TLDR: An illegitimate criminal president dictator who abuses his citizens attacks a country and kidnaps its leader because he is an illegitimate criminal president dictator who abuses his citizens. Every. accusation. is. a. confession.

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Marisa Kabas @marisakabas.bsky.social · 03/01/2026

marco rubio is such a dumb bitch

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 27/12/2025

The holidays are hard and families are hard so I’m making a playlist of songs to help me shake off other people’s bullshit and feel my feelings without getting stuck in them. Suggestions welcome 😊 open.spotify.com/playlist/4Uw...

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A playlist for crashing back in

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 12/12/2025

I DON’T DO 8-COUNTS EITHER, TAYLOR! They make no sense to me. I went my whole competitive cheerleading “career” timing everything to lyrics/sound effects in the music. I’m assuming that means she doesn’t count in music either? I could never count in band or choir. (Yes, I’m audhd).

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 12/12/2025

Watching the first episode now. I knew including the “we can see you 🌈” sign was going to be A Choice no matter what, but the context of where it’s at in the episode is wild. They could have just thrown it in anywhere, but this feels like a very careful choice.

Still from episode 1 of The End of an Era. Ed Sheeran sits on a couch backstage at Wembley Stadium and says to Taylor “I feel like people have forgotten that, like, you’re a human being.”

Still from episode 1 of The End of an Era. Taylor sits on a couch backstage at Wembley Stadium, wiping tears. The room is full of flowers and Taylor is wearing her orange and pink Lover bodysuit. A voiceover from Taylor says “I just do live in a reality that’s very unreal a lot of the time.”

Still from episode 1 of The End of an Era, showing close ups of fans in the crowd cheering and waiting for the show to start. In the far right of the frame, a fan holds a sign that reads “WE CAN SEE YOU 🌈 👁️ “

Still from episode 1 of The End of an Era. Taylor is wearing her orange and pink Lover bodysuit. She’s alone inside the “cleaning cart” riding to her entrance for the show. Her face shows mixed emotions.

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MC🥨 @mcpants.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

This is how you recalibrate your window of normal. You are not watching to feel better, you are watching to remind yourself of what bodies actually are, how they serve us, and how their size literally only matters insofar as it is intended to keep up small and frail and easy to control.

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MC🥨 @mcpants.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

do not comment unless it is to truly engage with the content, not to tell them they are brave or inspirational or any of that shit. They are just a person with a body living their lives just like you.

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MC🥨 @mcpants.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

If you want to counteract the fatphobia & hyperthin ideals fascism is installing as the cultural norm currently...every time you have a negative thought about your body while online find a creator bigger than you (significantly if youre thin) who seems to be enjoying their lives & watch their videos

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

And on that note, Medieval art looks the way it does on purpose.

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the cat @l3thia.bsky.social · 17/11/2025

having like half a dozen friends & trying to maintain those friendships is genuinely overwhelming a lot of the time. I tried to catch up on unanswered text messages tonight & made it through about two brief conversations. yeesh

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the cat @l3thia.bsky.social · 17/11/2025

just kind of exhausting to be somebody for so many people & have to remember all the people I'm somebody for

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the cat @l3thia.bsky.social · 17/11/2025

one thing I wish were different about me would be for me to enjoy socializing a normal amount instead of being largely indifferent to all other people

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 05/11/2025

I haven’t spoken to my (suspected undiagnosed/untreated OCPD) mother in 3 months and the rest of the family is mad at me for breaking the status quo and refusing to keep up pretenses anymore and I’m so grateful Florence released this album right when I needed it 🖤

Still from Everybody Scream music video by Florence and the Machine. Florence dances in a red dress to the line “Here I don’t have to be kind, extraordinary, normal all at the same time.”

Still from Sympathy Magic lyric video by Florence and the Machine. Lavender text on a black background. “So I don’t have to be worthy. I no longer try to be good.”

Still from Sympathy Magic lyric video by Florence and the Machine. Lavender text on a black background. “It didn’t keep me safe like you told me that it would.”

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MC🥨 @mcpants.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

every so often I just giggle a little at the thought of taylor being like "I need to make an album that is ear worm material but sounds like AI.... of course... I will ask max martin!"

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 05/10/2025

Back when I posted this, I assumed it was a kind of a reach, but it’s pretty fucking spot on actually.

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Lark @larkinspurs.bsky.social · 04/10/2025

“I can show you lies” At no point does she actually tell us what the life of a show girl is like… we’re sweeter than a peach, too soft for it

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MC🥨 @mcpants.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

I can’t believe we were just years early to this 😆 like holy fucking shit we really did see the whole game board from the very beginning

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

It must be nice to be The Man and make boring music just because you can or whatever Florence just said on her new single.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

1) She famously loves opals 2) Travis’ birth stone happens to be opal 3) Instead of writing some invisible string metaphor about that, she wrote a song comparing her relationship to opalite, a fake man-made opal. 4) When asked about the song, she said “happiness can be man-made too.” Okay, Taylor…

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Oh…are people not getting that Taylor herself isn’t the narrator in Father Figure? She’s definitely not. The narrator is Scott B. It’s about Taylor from his perspective.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

I mean, I see the vision. I get it. I understand what she’s doing with this album. I just find it unpleasant and boring to listen to it.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Chat, what does it mean that my phone mysteriously died halfway through the Life of a Showgirl (title track)?

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

“You'll be sleeping with the fishes before you know you're drowning Whose portrait's on the mantle? Who covered up your scandals? Mistake my kindness for weakness and find your card cancelled I was your father figure You pulled the wrong trigger This empire belongs to me”

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Opened the app to see all the hype leading up to the album release but I guess instead, everyone’s just talking about whether or not Taylor got fillers or is wearing a wig…

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a woman in a red cardigan is standing in front of a man in a suit .

Alt: Woman looks around awkwardly and then slowly leaves the room.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 18/09/2025

As much as I would like his commentary on it, I feel like menswear guy probably decided not to say anything about this outfit for the same reason MST3K never did an episode on Plan 9 from Outer Space.

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🧡🤍🩷 @lavender-gaze.bsky.social · 29/08/2025

“Just get it done.” — Scott Swift

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