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Lara Lillibridge

@laralillibridge.bsky.social
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(she/they) Pan sexual, genderqueer, queerspawn. Author of The Truth About Unringing Phones; Mama, Mama, Only Mama; and Girlish:Growing Up in a Lesbian Home.

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Slippery Elm @slipperyelmlj.bsky.social · 27/04/2025
We have a winner in our 2025 Prose Contest! Congratulations to Victor McConnell, for his story "Before It Gets Cold," chosen by this year's judge @laralillibridge.bsky.social! Thanks to all who entered, as we continue to build our 2025 issue!
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The Gaily Show @thegailyshow.org · 16/03/2025
This week for our Thinking Clearly, Thinking Queerly episode we talked with @laralillibridge.bsky.social about writing craft and writing queerly. And with everything going on right now, we need to be thinking queerly about how we write! Check it out here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/w...
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Writing craft talk: writing queerly
Podcast Episode · The Gaily Show · 03/13/2025 · 45m
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 09/03/2025
I'm not against the idea of daylight savings time as a rule but not really a fan of spring ahead in practice.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 14/02/2025
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It's Valentine's Day and the World is Burning
but we must save ourselves and each other
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to comment.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 31/01/2025
I was so excited to have a pice on Jane Friedman's site!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 31/01/2025
Thanks for reading and sharing!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 31/01/2025
Thanks for sharing!
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Sierra Heart 🐈‍⬛💙🩵💙🐈‍⬛ @sierraheart.bsky.social · 23/01/2025
From the aclu if ice come to your door
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Lisa Cooper Ellison @lisacooperellison.bsky.social · 21/01/2025
If you need a pick-me-up, this is just what the doctor ordered. Many thanks, @laralillibridge.bsky.social, for this beautiful piece and the images that go with it. I want those shoes!! laralillibridge.substack.com/p/run-toward...
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Run Towards Beauty
Except When You Can't
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 23/01/2025
Thanks, Lisa!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 01/01/2025
Happy New Year from Poppy Strudel!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 25/12/2024
To you as well!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
Little baby me still gets all excited about the Breyer Christmas horses.
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I Know Why She Stayed @iknowwhyshestayed.bsky.social · 15/12/2024
When we decided to share our stories, we did so because we wanted wanted other women to understand that they are not alone. When we asked @laralillibridge.bsky.social to write the foreword for the memoir, we had no idea how perfect her understanding of our work would be. Thank you, Lara!
“Sometimes it is easier to see the trauma in others than it is in our own lives. It is in reading that we find validation. And in I Know Why She Stayed I had that experience, over and over. I did not know the term “economic abuse” but I have suffered from it. It is that shared experience that gives us words and power, for if we can name it, we can mourn what we lost, allow ourselves to feel rage, and finally release our pain and say, ‘never again.’” - Lara Lillibridge, author of The Truth About Unringing Phones: Essays on Yearning and Girlish: Growing Up in a Lesbian Home
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Slippery Elm @slipperyelmlj.bsky.social · 15/12/2024
Announcing @laralillibridge.bsky.social as judge of the next Slippery Elm Prize in Prose! See her work at laralillibridge.com, and send us your best at slipperyelm.submittable.com/submit.
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Lara Lillibridge - I write
Lara Lillibridge's Lara Lillibridge - I write
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 10/12/2024
When I got divorced, I promised myself I'd say yet to any opportunity that came my way. I 100% agree with Amy Fish. Yes, You Should Go. open.substack.com/pub/persiste...
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Yes, You Should Go.
Persistence requires adventure
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
I may not be the perfect mother, but at least I’ve taught my boys not to sleep before Brooklyn and never go 88 mph.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 08/12/2024
My favorite boss died in the AIDS epidemic, and when he selected his funeral home he made them promise to put out bowls of branded emery boards so everyone would have a party favor.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
Thanks for doing this! I'm still learning my way around this place, but I likes it.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
I would also add "The Prettiest Star" by Carter Sickels.
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Wiki @wikioo.bsky.social · 30/11/2024
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 25/11/2024
Storytelling/speaking is an art separate from writing. It can take a while to find your spoken voice as opposed to your written voice.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 22/11/2024
Sometimes it takes me a while to be able to lower my defenses and accept feedback. It took a few weeks, but I finally tried a CP's suggestion on my WIP and OMG I love it so much more now! #booksky #writingCommunity #Memoirists #CNF #writers
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
I wish my staffie would wear pajamas!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
Love this #essay in @bendinggenres.bsky.social by M. Florence. bendinggenres.com/taste/
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Taste
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
The world needs more Maine Coon shapeshifter kittens!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Enchanting!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
I mostly write in a cabin while the kids are at their dad's. I only keep a few changes of clothes there, so there's no big laundry pile, no teenaged athletic gear, and not as many fun craft projects to use to avoid writing. But if I'm in the zone I'll write anywhere, even defaulting to phone apps.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Boosting. Survey was quick and painless.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
It worked for me.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
I did need it!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Isn't art the entire point? And tacos, of course.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
I love me a good puffer fish.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Good times.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Always.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
I agree, with the caveat that no one can teach you the desire/passion that drives us to keep returning when it's hard.
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Brevity / Dinty W. Moore @dintywmoore.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
"There's no such thing as a born writer. It's a skill you've got to learn, just like learning how to be a bricklayer or a carpenter." ~ Larry Brown
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 20/11/2024
Thanks! It really lingered for me.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
Thanks! Watching it now.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
I am fascinated by this and have been just dipping my toes in the water of this study.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
Now I want to watch it.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
I recently reviewed "The Presence of Absence" by Desiree Richter for Mom Egg Review. What I love about it is how it honors life-long grief. 📚 merliterary.com/2024/11/05/t...
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The Presence of Absence by Desiree Richter - MER - Mom Egg Review
Review by Lara Lillibridge   The Presence of  Absence: Kitchen table talks about parenting, leaving fundamentalism, and the very messy business of living with loss by Desiree Richter   Desiree Richter...
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
So very sorry.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
It's the best feeling in the world when you can get into that flow. So elusive, though!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
I use brevity essays when I teach (perfect length) and I also tell my students to start their writing time by reading anything on Brevity. Seriously some of the best writing on the net.
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
I am embarrassed to say I have not submitted places that require them because I dread the proposal so much!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
Same!
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Lara Lillibridge @laralillibridge.bsky.social · 19/11/2024
Excellent!
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Paul Reimer @etherealhothouse.bsky.social · 18/11/2024
Occasionally
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