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slop enjoyer @slop.guru · 15/07/2025

fantastic foreskins

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

I understand that I, by definition, signed up for this when getting married. And most nights I don't mind saying "yes". But it would be nice to be able to say "no" on nights like tonight, when I'm not emotionally up for it and I know that saying "yes" is just gonna make that worse.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

CW: vaguely TMI/NSFW relationship stuff I was feeling kind of depressed on my way home tonight, and when I got home Finance requested sex (with the strong implication of "has to be tonight since you were too tired last night") and I do not have good enough mental health to deal with this tonight.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 21/05/2025

I've been off social media for a few days and have no idea what The Discourse is about. I kind of want to though, because I enjoy popcorn.giffing when things are on fire.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

Did you know that you can create an email that the recipient can't forward, print, screenshot, or copy-paste? I've also been told that I'm not allowed to talk to anyone about the email's contents, because it contains "private information" (ie grievances against me, which aren't even true).

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

I'm not fired, but also, things keep escalating in ways that are both shady and baffling. I tried going to HR, but it turns out that we don't really have in-person HR at the moment. Something about their cubicles being remodeled.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

Ok, whoever guessed "passively suicidal" wins. Am I going to try to actively off myself? Not right now. If a tornado heads directly towards my house, will I seek shelter? ...... you know, if I'm dead, my problem magically goes away. Sounds kind of nice.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

I have one from the previous release (in 2017-ish) and it was worth every penny. Zero regrets!

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

Absolute worst case scenario is that I get fired (either in retaliation or if my manager decides to spin the facts to make me look bad). Who wants to place bets on whether I'll want to unalive myself at this time tomorrow? I'll set up a prediction market.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

Currently freaking out because my manager, rather than talking to me, decided to go with the nuclear option. I suspect there will be a meeting with HR in my near future. I'm too stressed/sick to sleep and have a sneaking suspicion that tomorrow is going to be worse.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 30/03/2025

This has been going on for months/years and I'm at the end of my rope because he absolutely REFUSES to communicate in a direct way.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 30/03/2025

I've told Finance that he needs to be explicit when asking me for things, because I'm stupid and autistic and do not get hints. So what has he been doing? Hinting that he wants things, and then getting upset when I don't give him those things.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

It was an entire decade ago. Because I was broke and living with my parents at the time

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

I will be at World's this year! Are any mutuals coming? I booked one of the nearby hotels and I'm currently looking for roommates. (Finance will be coming to LA but not staying at the hotel with me. He's staying with friends instead.)

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

"A few years back" she says. You are doing the old person thing.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 07/03/2025

Also, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth that I'm not allowed to have certain haircuts, but he can do whatever he wants. He's straight up told me that my opinion will not be taken into account on his haircut and facial hair. If I don't like it, tough. Which seems like a double standard.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 07/03/2025

My hair is getting long enough that it's getting unwieldy. I would like to cut it short, but I keep having second thoughts because of what Finance said. He insists that he doesn't want me to cut it "short enough that it looks like a man's" (whatever that means).

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Bleak⋆Squeak @bleaksqueak.bsky.social · 20/02/2025

7 degrees outside: I am too cold turn my heater on: I am too hot turns my heater down: I am too cold Turns my heater up just a hair: I am too hot Weeping.

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Ro Salarian @rosalarian.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

In my city there is one cybertruck and one DIY parody of a cybertruck and the parody truck has become a local celebrity. Meanwhile, I always wish I had some rotten eggs to throw at the tesla whenever I see it.

A parking lot showing a cybertruck in one spot, next to a car that has built a cybertruck-esque shell around it out of green plastic. It's really hard to describe exactly how silly this vehicle looks next to the green car.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

I'm fine with having sex even when I'm not in the mood, and my husband knows this. The problem here is that it goes beyond me not being in the mood. "Actually, I'm sorry, but can we do this tomorrow?" will require an explanation that I don't know how to phrase without being too blunt/honest.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

How though? I have ways to ask for a raincheck if I'm not feeling well physically, but this whole "my brain has randomly decided that this feels like sexual assault (even though it isn't)" thing is new. I'm usually a blunt person, but communicating that bluntly isn't gonna end well.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

Posting this here instead of at the other site because 1. I don't want to attract the pornbots. 2. Finance checks that account sometimes, and I don't want him to feel bad.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

I guess this falls under what the fic writers call "dubious consent", but I've never been taught how to handle those types of situations in real life.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

I've been dealing with this recently, not all the time, but sometimes. (I know the root cause but it's not something I can fix right now.) Ignoring my feelings and having sex anyway means I end up sobbing afterwards, as if I was sexually assaulted or something. Even though I wasn't (WTF brain?!?)

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

I'm not talking about just feeling tired or having a headache and needing to postpone a day. I'm talking about situations where you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, and would withdraw consent if that was an option.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

CW : sexual consent A thing that no one ever discusses about marriage, but that I wish they did, is "how do you have sex (without also having a breakdown) on days when you don't want to have it?"

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 30/01/2025

I do not know how to get him to stop! I don't even realize he's trying to "emotionally support" me in the heat of the moment. I just assume he's wanting to solve a problem with the discussion, and if solving it harms my mental health then oh well.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 30/01/2025

And then he rants about always being the one who emotionally supports me. I did not ask for these conversations! I am usually only having them because he seems to want to have them! But no matter how many times I say "I'll tell you if I want to talk about it", that DOESN'T WORK.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 30/01/2025

I am at the end of my rope. Work is terrible and I'm worried about not having a job in a few months. My home life is terrible because Finance keeps insisting on talking about things that are stressing me out, and when I inevitably have a meltdown he says it's my fault for needing "emotional support"

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 27/12/2024

The specific rule is "if you're going to ask for X, only do it under Y circumstances" and I don't trust myself to be able to tell if we're in circumstances that qualify. I've solved this by never asking for X, but apparently that's not good enough.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 27/12/2024

Finance and I had an argument today about (among other things) the fact that I couldn't remember the specifics of one of our house rules. "You're really too stupid to remember this one simple rule?" he kept repeating. Yeah dude, I am! I already told you this!

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 15/12/2024

TCG pulls from the new Japanese set. I didn't expect to get a full art Eeveelution in each box, but getting a *different* full art instead of 2 of the same would have been nice. Anyone want a flame ogrepon?

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ARCdraws @arcdraws.bsky.social · 17/11/2024

He reminds you to take a break

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 16/11/2024

The other big home maintenance thing I did recently was hiring landscapers. Gardening (and even weeding) is not a thing I can keep up with, with my bad back. The flower beds look so nice now! I should have done this ages ago. It was expensive but worth it.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 16/11/2024

Our leaky skylights have finally been replaced! Aside from no longer needing to worry about water getting in when it rains (hurray!) the new panes are also much clearer than the old ones. I can see the beautiful trees outside again! ;__;

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Diana Chan @thingsbydiana.bsky.social · 14/11/2024

🔥💧⚡ Neon galaxy eeveelutions

Jolteon, Vaporeon, and Flareon (eeveelutions) with a bright neon color palette

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Rine @rine.bsky.social · 19/10/2024

Which as a reminder, Bsky has had a sizeable korean and japanese population for ages, and unfortunately this setting could mean you're missing out on a lot of cool people. This is not a preference or what you post, this -limits- what languages you see! Set it to nothing!

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FRAN!! 🖍️🖊️🔖📗// JW VALENCIA @franchescovaccari.bsky.social · 10/11/2024

ASI ES COMO FUNCIONA UN TEST DE ANTIGENOS POR DENTRO

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Erin Biba @erinbiba.bsky.social · 10/11/2024

If you see a lot of folks replying to posts with a 📌 emoji it’s because they’re using this feed. It’s essentially a bookmark! Reply with the emoji and it pulls the post into your own private feed and saves it there for you! Here:

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 10/11/2024

And our Walmart is right next to Sam's, and the cards are located right by the entrance, so it's literally a 2 minute check. I would do it myself except I'm trying not to get people sick!

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 10/11/2024

I'm probably more upset by this than I should be, but I've had a shit week. There were TCG sets released a few days ago that I really wanted to grab a few packs of, but getting sick means I couldn't. And they're sold out online.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 10/11/2024

I know this is petty, but Finance asked if I wanted him to pick up anything at Sam's/Walmart, so I asked if he could check for TCG at Walmart, and he was like "I'm just going to Sam's, I think". Sir, then why did you offer Walmart?!

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 09/11/2024

I can kind of understand it for old/rare sets that aren't in stores anymore (because everyone wants to know if there's a mint condition Crystal Lugia hiding in that sealed Aquapolis pack) but it seems so pointless for current sets. Please just take photos of your pulls like a normal person!

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 09/11/2024

This is very petty, but it annoys me when people stream openings for TCG boxes. I'm not sure how to explain it, but the way they talk and even the way they open the packs (gotta line up the cards perfectly and pause for dramatic effect) feels performative. Like trying to profit off a hobby.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 09/11/2024

Because I'm still sick/contagious I had to buy the boxes online. All next week, I'm gonna be doing this when the mailman arrives.

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Kyo @kyogres.bsky.social · 09/11/2024

I've had a really bad week, so I am drowning my sorrows in trading cards (Pokemon and One Piece). I was planning to buy some packs anyway, but ended up splurging on a full box because I wanted a little treat. Farewell, remaining hobby budget!

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