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Kacy Zurkus

@ksz714.bsky.social
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Writer, reader, mom, yogi. All comments are my own. Join my writing community at www.penspalsprose.com

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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I've been struggling with the loss of a friend who overdosed last month. The news of #HaydenPanettiere and now #PresleyGerber makes it clear that we aren't doing enough to help people in crisis. www.penspalsprose.com/blogs/nn9v00...
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A Tough Pill to Swallow: Hayden Panettiere Is What Addiction Looks Like — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Hayden Panettiere’s death came as a shock even though she confessed her struggles with substance abuse in her memoir, This Is Me: A Reckoning . New reports confirm an oxycontin pill laced with fe...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
Before reading an interview with #JanetCaperna in @vulture.com I wasn't very familiar with #thevalley, but I know what it is to be a #controlfreak. www.penspalsprose.com/blogs/being-a-control-freak-made-me-a-better-mother-and-a-worse-wife
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Being a Control Freak Made Me a Better Mother and a Worse Wife — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Janet Caperna is a control freak. So am I. Whether it’s an admirable trait or not, I share the classic traits of impatience, urgency, and elevated levels of stress and anxiety associated with a Type A...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 03/05/2026
If you have a teenager with a phone, this is required reading. Not fearmongering — facts, legislation, platform accountability, and the 2025–2026 data that should be driving every conversation about kids and social media. Check out my piece. open.substack.com/pub/penspals...
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Social Media Risks for Teens
What parents need to know about what their kids are exposed to online
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 01/05/2026
Dropping memoir excerpts about the year after 9/11 and why being at teacher at that time deeply changed who I was, who I wanted to be. Read about the road trip that started it all. www.penspalsprose.com/blogs/a-memoir-in-pieces
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A Memoir in Pieces — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
A personal essay about identity, anxiety, and self-discovery in the aftermath of 9/11. When the world stopped making sense, I packed a tape recorder, got in my car, and drove from Boston to California...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 28/04/2026
I was 28, broke, injured, freshly single, and estranged from my family. Somehow 9/11 made all of it worse — and also, eventually, better. If you're reading along on the journey of my memoir, the next piece is now live. penspalsprose.substack.com
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Pens, Pals, & Prose with Kacy Zurkus | Substack
A place for thoughtful prose and sharp insights, designed for readers who value depth and connection over constant noise and mindless scrolling. Click to read Pens, Pals, & Prose with Kacy Zurkus, a S...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 17/04/2026
I started teaching weeks before the #September11 attack. In the summer of 2002, I was 28 when I took a solo XC #roadtrip, the story of which became my #memoir, Found in US. I'll be dropping excerpts on #Substack. #anxiety #identity #Americanhistory open.substack.com/pub/penspals...
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Just One
An excerpt from my memoir, Finding My Way Home
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 13/04/2026
There's a difference between awareness, education, and training. Parents need to understand what AI is and how their kids are using it. Read more and share your thoughts www.penspalsprose.com/blogs/our-ki... #AI #teens #technology #parenting #teaching #K12 #techinschools
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Our Kids Are Already Living in the AI Era. Are We Paying Attention? — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
A new survey reveals how teens are quietly building their understanding of the world through AI tools their parents don't recognize, don't use, and by their own admission, don't understand.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
A really beautiful piece, Love in the Shelter, by Nancy Shekter-Porat #onbeingjewishnow #war open.substack.com/pub/onbeingj...
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Love in the Shelter
Caring for my husband in wartime
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 04/04/2026
Reading @jacindaardern.bsky.social A Different Kind of Power and thinking about what it means to lead through crisis, as a #mother and as a #human being. Just wrote about seeing her speak live. www.penspalsprose.com/blogs/the-leader-in-the-room-seeing-jacinda-ardern-speak-live #leadership
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What Seeing Jacinda Ardern Speak Taught Me About A Different Kind of Power — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Seeing Jacinda Ardern speak live was unforgettable. A personal reflection on her leadership, her book A Different Kind of Power, and why it matters.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
Deepfakes target minors and are a growing crisis inside our schools. My piece in @thefulcrum-us.bsky.social breaks down what schools should do now, and why AI companies can't wait. Thoughts? 🔗 thefulcrum.us/media-techno... #AIPolicy #Deepfakes #TakeItDownAct #TechAccountability #DigitalSafety
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Deepfakes: The New Face of Cyberbullying and Why Parents, Schools, and Lawmakers Must Act
As a former teacher who worked in a high school when Snapchat was born, I witnessed the birth of sexting and its impact on teens. I recall asking a parent whether he was checking his daughter’s phone ...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
Schools buried tips. Companies profited. Teenage girls paid the price. I wrote about the deepfake crisis and what has to change. #deepfake #ai #teens #cyberbullying #sexism www.penspalsprose.com/blogs/ai-dee...
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AI Deepfakes Are Targeting Teenage Girls. Schools and Lawmakers Must Act Now. — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
A federal lawsuit against Elon Musk's xAI puts a spotlight on the growing crisis of AI-generated deepfakes targeting teenage girls. From Lancaster County to South Carolina, schools are failing victims...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
I've been thinking about surveillance apps. What the research actually says might change how you approach your kid's screen time. #ParentingTeens #ScreenTime #OnlineSafety #DigitalParenting www.penspalsprose.com/blogs/the-watching-problem-what-research-says-about-surveillance-apps-and-your-kids
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The Watching Problem: What Research Says About Surveillance Apps and Your Kids — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Learn why parental control and surveillance apps may undermine teen safety. Research-backed insights on protecting kids online through trust and communication.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
The classroom taught me a lot about kids and myself. Vulnerability exists in the digital age. It just looks different. #Teaching #Vulnerability #DigitalAge #Education #PersonalGrowth #TeacherLife penspalsprose.com/musings/what-years-of-teaching-taught-me-about-vulnerability-in-the-digital-age
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What Years of Teaching Taught Me About Vulnerability in the Digital Age — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
I stood in front of my classroom for nearly two decades. During the first several years of my teaching, I’d watch nervous freshmen file into my English classroom, armed with the same defense mechanism...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 08/03/2026
The best thing I ever did for my writing had nothing to do with writing more. It was finding the right three people to write alongside. Here's how it happened: #WritingCommunity #AmWriting #WritersOfBlueSky #WritingGroup www.penspalsprose.com/musings/why-every-writer-needs-a-writing-group
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The Value of a Writing Group: Accountability, Feedback, and Community — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
I started a writing group after a Sue Shapiro class — and it changed my writing life. Here's what I learned about feedback, accountability, and finding your people.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 17/01/2026
Sharing my latest #personalessay on #healing from #familytrauma medium.com/@kacy_55513/...
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Breaking Generational Shame: A Family’s Hidden Tragedy
A personal essay about confronting family violence, alcoholism, and the courage it takes to face generational trauma and break cycles of…
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 13/01/2026
In my latest #substack, I write about the lessons I learned from my grandmother more than a decade after she died. open.substack.com/pub/penspals... #FamilyStories #Grief #Forgiveness #LettingGo #Grandmothers #writers #writingcommunity
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
LAUGHING MATTERS, and as we head into 2026, I think we will all need to find laughter. You can find it here: lisastlou.substack.com?r=4rkuzp&utm...
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LAUGHING MATTERS | Lisa St. Lou | Substack
LAUGHING MATTERS is for people who find that laughing matters...even when it's no laughing matter. Join me in finding humor in navigating midlife, music, memoir, and moving to France for a year. Spoil...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 21/12/2025
Anyone else feeling the #holiday crunch and trying NOT to lean in to the #impulsebuy urges in these final hours? #christmas #gifts open.substack.com/pub/penspals...
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The Gift of Presence Over Presents
It's so hard to quiet the fear of not having enough
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
My Husband Asked if AI Gives Me Anxiety. I'm More Concerned About Human Apathy #AI #ChatGPT #anxiety #socialmedia #reasonforhope open.substack.com/pub/penspals...
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My Husband Asked if AI Gives Me Anxiety. I'm More Concerned About Human Apathy
My fears about the power of AI are not just the ramblings of an anxious mom
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
Aging in the era of #AI and social media isn't easy. I'm far from a luddite, but I can't quite wrap my head around how to share my thoughts with the word. So, I wrote about it in my latest #blog #writing #writerslife #writingcommunity www.penspalsprose.com/musings/3up1...
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Why I’ve Gone from Reluctant Social Media Gal t Documenting My Digital Growing Pains — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
There is a specific brand of irony in being a writer who loves words but avoids the places where people actually read them. For a long time, I’ve treated social media like a loud, crowded party I wasn...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 07/11/2025
It's been too long since my last post, but I felt moved to muse this morning! #workingmoms www.penspalsprose.com/musings/if-im-not-perfect-what-am-i
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If I’m Not Perfect, What Am I? — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Last night I enjoyed dinner with some work friends, one of whom retired about 5 months ago. After seeing the positive impact not working was having on her life, her husband decided to take an early re...
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Cynthia Yoder @cynthiayoderauthor.bsky.social · 11/07/2025
My memoir re-launches today under this new cover. I’m glad I was brave to put this out years ago! If I’d write it today, I’d be softer on my dad…we made our amends. But now I write about those conversations separately! Thus is the nature of writing memoir. #memoir #writingcommunity #books
Cover of Crazy Quilt: Pieces of a Mennonite Life showing a barn door and close-up photo of author in wedding dress and white hat.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
What an incredible week in #SanFrancisco. Hoping things stay on the upward trajectory. You can read about the big wins in my latest post. #JamieFoxx #MagicJohnson #BryceDallasHoward #RonHoward #Common #writers #writingcommunity www.penspalsprose.com/musings/the-magical-happy-days-that-make-me-cry
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The Magical, Happy Days that Make Me Cry — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
It’s been a bit since my last post, but ‘work’ has been busy. I put quotes around work intentionally, not because I haven’t really been working or because I’m being hyperbolic and making excuses. Rath...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 30/04/2025
Excited to share my piece in @nextavenue.bsky.social went live today. Anyone else #goinggray? www.nextavenue.org/im-done-colo...
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I'm Done Coloring My Hair
My family opposes my decision, but I am ready to wear my gray hair with pride
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 21/04/2025
There's so much to love about #marathonmonday here in #Boston. #running #writing www.penspalsprose.com/musings/mara...
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It’s Marathon Monday in Boston. Cheers to All the Runners — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Reflections from a runner who’s not supposed to run anymore.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 17/04/2025
Sharing my reflections on #writers block. I have so many thoughts swirling about in my head. Yesterday, I told my daughters, "I have a hurricane on top of a tornado, on top of whirlwind going on up there." Slowing that down to put pen to page can be a challenge www.penspalsprose.com/musings/deal...
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Dealing with Writer's Block — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Is writer's block real? Or is it just procrastination in disguise? This article explores the idea of writer's block as a choice, offering insights and practical advice to overcome fear and get to work...
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Olivia of Troye @oliviaoftroye.com · 17/04/2025
He stood for truth. Trump’s now coming after him. What side of this moment will you be on? I stand with Chris Krebs.
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I Stand With Chris Krebs.
Because standing with him is standing for America.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 16/04/2025
Sometimes fear is completely irrational. That's how I felt this morning met with giant bumble bee. www.penspalsprose.com/musings/tiny...
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Tiny, Scary Things — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
I walked into my bedroom this morning to find my cat staring up at my armoire. Initially, I thought she was eyeing the diaper hanger bag that is now home to single socks waiting in limbo to see if the...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 15/04/2025
@golden.house.gov Can you elaborate on the #misinformation about the #SAVEAct? Are you saying that for married women whose names don't match those on their birth certificates WON'T be impacted?
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 12/04/2025
My latest post on #teaching and #poetry #writing #writers #writingcommunity www.penspalsprose.com/musings/memo...
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Memories of Happy, Happy Love — Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Though I’ve made it obvious in previous posts that I am not a poet, that doesn’t diminish my love of verse. In fact, I asked one of my daughter’s friends about a book she’s currently reading, and she ...
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
Good news at @rsaconference.bsky.social today! #cybersecurity www.forbes.com/sites/tonybr...
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Reimagining Cybersecurity Collaboration For A 24/7 World
RSAC launches a year-round platform and app to extend the power of its conference, enabling cybersecurity pros to connect, learn, and collaborate anytime, anywhere.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 01/04/2025
Claudia Koonz published The Nazi Conscience in 2003. ON her study of the Nazis, she said, "Once someone is labeled as dangerous or inferior, they become outsiders: We may say their culture is primitive, or they're terrorists, or they're infected with HIV, or SARS." today.duke.edu/2004/03/koon...
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The Nazi Conscience | Duke Today
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Kara Swisher @karaswisher.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
Tracy Flick be lying
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 11/03/2025
Excited to launch my new website, a #writing community where all are welcome. Thank you to the incredibly talented Kimberly Sullivan-Ferraro for building the site. Have a #blog you want to share? Let's connect. www.penspalsprose.com
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Pens Pals, and Prose: A Writer's Community
Join Pens, Pals & Prose, where writers connect to share stories, give constructive feedback, and build a nurturing community. Discover inspiration, improve your writing skills, and make lasting connec...
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Jesus Maria Alvarez @qb-yanqui.bsky.social · 28/11/2024
May you find something to be grateful for today and always ❤️
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My wife almost died on Thanksgiving. The holiday carries a deeper meaning now.
I hadn't heard from Anita in hours and was starting to worry when the phone rang saying she had been hit by a car and was in a coma.
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
To celebrate 20 years of Innovation Sandbox contest, each ISB Top 10 Finalists will receive a Finalist-friendly $5 million uncapped SAFE investment beginning at RSAC 2025. Join the top #cybersecurity #innovators - Applications open January 14. Learn more here: www.rsaconference.com/library/pres...
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RSA Conference 2025 Innovation Sandbox Contest Celebrates 20th Anniversary; Introduces $50 Million Annual Investment Program for Top 10 Finalists
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Kacy Zurkus @ksz714.bsky.social · 15/11/2024
Interesting read in @theatlantic.bsky.social today. www.theatlantic.com/magazine/arc...
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How the Ivy League Broke America
The meritocracy isn’t working. We need something new.
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