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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️

@ksej.bsky.social
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Trans, mental, trying to write more, gestational dad to xCLP and Scunthorpe United until one of us dies. Now with a Ko-fi ko-fi.com/ksej2610

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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 14h
Me: did you hear what I did on Saturday? Boss: what? Me: I think it will hurt your feelings Boss: what terrible debauched thing did you do? Me: I came in and worked an extra shift Boss: *elaborate performance of being hurt that I worked when he wasn't there*
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 17h
Seems a little unfair to the anti-fungal pamphlet, which might at least be relevant to some people
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 17h
"How dare you call me a transmisogynist slur! I'm actually a transmisogynist myself, just like you!"
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 18h
From what I've heard about dogs on both sides of the pond, they eat whatever you are incautious enough to leave within reach
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 18h
It's so cute when cis people think they aren't transphobic. You grow up in this society, you pick up transphobia. Even trans people get it - why do you think it takes eggs so long to crack?
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Messaged my sibling to confirm I treated myself to a latte and Dubai tiffin as a reward for the form. WhatsApp offered me the option to use AI on the picture of said latte and tiffin. Why in the green and yellow fuck would I want to do that?
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
They think it produces justice by balancing some kind of cosmic scale, and then they double down in the face of evidence it doesn't because the idea there are no shortcuts to justice is a very uncomfortable one?
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Yeah, I'm pathetic. See the top of the thread :-/
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Partly also internalising that transphobia that says we shouldn't encourage people to transition (even though cis society works overtime to discourage them)
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Why don't I just say it? Partly because our relationship is delicately balanced and I don't want to risk a blow up. Partly because there's no good way to say "don't do it the way I did, that sucks"
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
She(?) is still going back and forth on the question. I've offered a listening ear, but what I really want to say is that I am the world's biggest expert on talking yourself out of transition because it's scary and ultimately the person that hurts worst is you
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
I used to think we just had to keep pointing it out for the people who were genuinely confused until the grifters couldn't get away with saying it. But I'm losing hope that that's even possible
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
"Do you have any history of self harm" Me: there was that time... Sibling: when was it? Me: when did we play King's Lynn? Sibling: I'm not the one who made Scunthorpe United my special interest
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
"Do you have any unusually intense interests" *sibling laughs because it's so obvious I do*
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
"Do you have any sensory difficulties?" Not since I became an adult and got to choose what I wear and eat. Unless you count never being correctly dressed for the temperature, I guess
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
With assistance from my sibling I have filled in the autism assessment form. It was tiring just like I knew it would be
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
The irony is that it would be trivially easy to make a bot that just accuses others of being bots...
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Did he use AI to write this post, or is being wrong online one of his gainful and awesome hobbies?
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Sorry, wait, the Czechia keeper is called "horny Czech"?
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
You could probably create definitions for "one of" and "paraphilia" that makes it true, but it's not a particularly meaningful statement
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Nervous laughter while estimating the distance to the nearest exit is also reasonable
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
My theory about university, based on my own experience but supported by other stuff too, is that you learn much more from The University Experience than from any specific course
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
If more people understood that sexual harassment is not just about leering over people and cis women can absolutely perpetrate it, that might help
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
I kind of envy the confidence that says "like all [demographic] he just wasn't ready for the facts I was spitting]" rather than "idk guess I must have expressed myself badly"
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Snapchat have Halloweenified their icon with cobwebs and I keep thinking the cracks on my phone screen are worse than they actually are
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
That's an extra problem certainly, but we tend to find each other so wife and friends might also not have a neurotypical sense of what's normal
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
The autism assessment form wants a parent to fill it in about me (they say they can make other arrangements if you have no contact with your parents). But asking the parents of an autistic person, possibly unDX autistic themselves, if their kid was a bit weird growing up, seems a little flawed
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Careful, he might take it the same way as Eve Fartlow
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
My bank: hey did you know you're overdrawn Me: oh shit, better buy these football tickets with my credit card In my defence, if I hadn't bought them, somebody else would have
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
My dad: I went to choir practice last evening Me: does this mean that 50% of the chat is now in a choir? My sibling: as long as it doesn't become a re-choir-ment
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
What condition are they for?
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Yes exactly, you know I'm a really ugly man 😛
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Me: the country [🏳️‍⚧️] with the most beautiful women @lucypaw.bsky.social: and the most handsome men Me: and also some really ugly men Lucy: oi, you aren't ugly Me: and yet when I said "really ugly men" you knew I meant myself
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
"The Republicans make use of voter suppression therefore if your vote is suppressed that means you're helping them. I am very smart"
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Ah, I see. Illuminating
Me: I always wonder if this [claim that not voting is a vote for Trump] extends to people who have been purged from voter rolls or who have simply been prevented from voting because it suits the powers that be to make it as inconvenient as possible. It seems like that would be victim blaming and yet

Interesting Times Fan (reply to me): it can be fun to apply logic to cult behaviour but it's important to remember that it's purely a thought experiment. At the end of the day their solution to every problem is "elect more Democrats" even when the problem prevents electing Democrats

Progressive J (replying to the post I was replying to): When one side's number one method for winning is Voter Suppression then not voting is actually helping them more than the other side. It's really not that complicated to understand
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
I always wonder if this extends to people who have been purged from voter rolls or who have simply been prevented from voting because it suits the powers that be to make it as inconvenient as possible. It seems like that would be victim blaming and yet
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Oh she can. She loves cis men, the more abusive the better. It just suits her argument to pretend she can't
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Gosh imagine someone who doesn't care to make Trump face meaningful consequences, that would be truly terrible
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
If it wasn't very obvious incitement, it might be funny how crap it is. But the incitement part rather spoils that
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Me: I did a bj last night Snapchat bloke: lucky man His intended (I assume) interpretation: that man you sucked off was lucky My initial interpretation: you are a lucky man getting to suck cock
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
"If you replace 'Brussels sprouts' with 'Jews' in that sentence you sound like a Nazi" level argument
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
In danger of becoming party leader?
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
They were multi tasking
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I remember my mum saying she "didn't see the point" of blogs and I was like it's the same as the point as the opinion pages in the newspaper, you have no problem with those. But she was obsessed with this one site she came across that was just some crank rambling, which she took as a personal insult
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Just for once I'd like one of them to lead with "hello, I want to jerk off". It would be so refreshing
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Love blokes who message you all "how are you" "wuu2" etc before getting to the point, which is invariably "I want to jerk off but I don't feel like doing it alone"
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I did once try to go to lunch with someone who thinks Muslims are about to take over Britain and stone us all to death and I ended up being led away in handcuffs
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I just forgot the word for laptop or desktop and called it "big phone"
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
That's not very gneiss
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Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️ @ksej.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
If I was a cynic, I'd say it's deliberate, that people want to bring "innocent until proven guilty" into disrepute so people stop caring when people accused of crimes are described in official statements as "criminals"
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