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Daniella Mestyanek Young; Scholar of cults, extreme groups, and extremely bad leadership. Author of UNCULTURED. Combat veteran; TEDx Speaker; Organizational psychologist, Harvard MA

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Cult Podcasts @cultpodcasts.com · 09/05/2026
"Top 10 Reasons you Might Already be in a '#Cult' (And not know it)" Cults to Consciousness @knittingcultlady.bsky.social 9 May 2026 [1:36:24] #ChildrenOfGod s.cultpodcasts.com/0AS7YTdiN0KlRI0f…
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Top 10 Reasons You Might Already Be in a “Cult” (And Not Know It)
Cult survivor, military veteran, and bestselling author of Uncultured & The Cutting of America, Daniella Mestyanek Young further dives into the investigation of invisible systems of control shaping our lives. Raised in the notorious s*x cult the ChiIdren of God, she escaped to America as a teenager—only to find herself inside another rigid institution: the U.S. Army. Years later, as a Harvard-trained expert in organizational psychology, she began asking an important question: What if we’re all in cults? Find and support Daniella! Website & book “The Culting of America”: https://knittingcultlady.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/daniellamyoung_/ TT: https://www.tiktok.com/@knittingcultladycaptain Yt: https://www.youtube.com/@KnittingCultLady Subscribe to our C2C "CLIPS" Channel! https://www.youtube.com/@CultstoConsciousnessClips Support C2C - Any donations are welcome and appreciated to support the making of this podcast. Find our FULL (uncensored) merch store here! https://cults-to-consciousness-shop.fourthwall.com/en-usd Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cultstoconsciousness Venmo @sheliseann Find us on Social media! Instagram @cultstoconsciousness https://www.instagram.com/cultstoconsciousness Host Instagram @sheliseann https://www.instagram.com/sheliseann/ Co Producer / Host @jonathan.rosales_ https://www.instagram.com/jonathan.rosales_ TikTok @cults.to.consciousness https://www.tiktok.com/@cults.to.consciousness Twitter @cultstocon https://twitter.com/cultstocon Chapter Marks 00:00:00 Intro 00:03:32 Recognizing Cult Patterns 00:11:43 1. Following a Charismatic Leader 00:20:45 2. Sacred Assumption 00:25:48 3. Transcendant Mission 00:38:35 4. Self-Sacrifice 00:54:02 5. Limited Access to the Outside World 01:05:20 6. Distinguishable Vernacular 01:11:55 7. Us vs Them Mentality 01:16:07 8. Exploitation of Labor 01:21:31 9. High Exit Costs 01:25:53 10. Ends Always Justify the Means 01:32:51 Linda Listen & final thoughts **Disclaimer: Thanks for joining us at Cults to Consciousness. This storytelling podcast is meant to be for entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for medical advice. We may discuss triggering topics and we ask that you make your personal mental health a priority. This podcast provides a platform for guests to share their personal experiences and opinions. The views expressed are solely those of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views of the hosts or producers. Any allegations discussed are unverified and represent personal accounts only. All individuals mentioned are presumed innocent unless proven otherwise. The podcast assumes no legal responsibility for statements made by guests.**
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Traci Ravenhawk @traciravenhawk.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
"After we get the machine gun away from the toddler, we need to figure out how the toddler got the machine gun in the first place"-- Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social
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BeechlerMom @megbeechbyrne.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
As @knittingcultlady.bsky.social often says, cults always promise space travel. A transcendent mission. An unachievable goal, often with no real end. I think this can apply here with these continuous bogus wars.
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Parkrose Permaculture @parkroseperma.bsky.social · 08/02/2026
Hey, Portland Knitters!! There is a huge Knit-In on Mar 8 in DC hosted by my friend @knittingcultlady.bsky.social. I am not able to go, and would love to put together a satellite event here in PDX. Is anything in the works already? Can folks connect me to Knitters Against Fascism?
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wyv @bearinglux.com · 08/02/2026
finished listening to @knittingcultlady.bsky.social ‘s new book “The Culting of America”. heavy stuff, had to take it in chunks. HIGHLY recommend though all through her last checklist of cult-like behavior, found myself thinking a lot of the furry fandom
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NikkiG @nikkigwrites.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
What do you do after escaping a cult? If you're @knittingcultlady.bsky.social , you teach tens of thousands of people to knit as an act of defiance.
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The Hero Files: The Knitting Cult Lady
MAGA likes conformity. Daniella Mestyanek Young is their worst nightmare.
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Jim Hawkins @jimallthetime.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
@knittingcultlady.bsky.social Norwegians made and wore red pointed hats with a tassel as a protest against Nazi occupation of their country All proceeds from the sale of this pattern go to local immigrant aid organizations who support those impacted by the actions of ICE payhip.com/b/TqQL1
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Melt the ICE Hat Pattern
In the 1940’s, Norwegians made and wore red pointed hats with a tassel as a form of visual protest against Nazi occupation of their country. Within two years, the Nazis made these protest hats illegal...
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David Levine @davidlevine.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
Her friend Joanne Freeman is also a godsend. And I just finished The Culting of America, by Daniella Young @knittingcultlady.bsky.social
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ACO @nintyfan1991.bsky.social · 14/01/2026
From @knittingcultlady.bsky.social: www.youtube.com/shorts/LHTr9...
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We’re actually not in Red Dawn
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RolledLow ☞ @rolledlow.com · 15/01/2026
#MAGA 🖕as a #cult explains more than than MAGA as politics. How did Rump take over the right? The tactics are right here. @knittingcultlady.bsky.social, this brilliant! I haven’t finished yet, and each page is illuminating. Thank you. #WeThePeople are #TheResitance 🗽
Book in its jacket of The Culting of America, What Makes a Cult and Why We Love Them by Daniella Mestyanek Young and Amy Reed. Two partial flags in bright blue, red and yellow. Book without its jacket titled The Culting of America, What Makes a Cult and Why We Love Them. Pink spine, blue cover and white lettering on the spine and lower right of cover bPage from a book, tilted in the frame, text cropped out from top and bottom. Visible text reads:

“I believe a cult is both a list of qualities a group possesses and also a journey that the group and its members go on. These two cannot be easily extricated from each other. To help us assess where groups fall on the cultiness spectrum, I propose a ten-part framework, which gives a nod to both the qualities and the journey.

A cult is a group that:

1. has a defined, charismatic leader
2. requires a shared "sacred assumption"
3. pursues a transcendent mission so big it justifies sacrifice
4. demands continual sublimation of individuality
5. limits members' access to outsiders
6. creates a private vernacular
7. programs an us-versus-them mentality
8. exploits members' labor
9. enforces high exit costs
10. justifiese extreme behavior as their endgame nears

At a certain tipping point in the cult journey, with the aid of inflexible group norms and strong systems, the leader practices nearly complete, and often coercive, control over its members. The "endeame" <missing text> include acts of violence, even on a mass scale, which <end of connected text >What a lovely book mark. The planets, stars and galaxies contrast nicely against the dark blue background.
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Jill-Duh @gildafoster.bsky.social · 17/01/2026
Strongly recommend you watch @knittingcultlady.bsky.social weekly Cult Situation Report Every Friday youtu.be/LC4FEsRlX9A?
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Weekly Cult Situation Report 1/16/26: ICE Updates, News From Nigeria, BBC Gets Targeted, and More
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lowcoelle.bsky.social @lowcoelle.bsky.social · 11/01/2026
Hi Daniella omg it's so great colorful & gorgeous just like you 😘📚 #BookSky
The Culting of America book which features colorful flags. There is also a sticker next to the book that reads "Have a Day" with a saluting 😐
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AngiePangie @angeline989.bsky.social · 12/01/2026
@knittingcultlady.bsky.social IT'S SO PRETTY
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
Here’s the book where I explain why Cults always promise space travel:
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The Culting of America PRE-SALE (SHIPS BY JANUARY 20, 2026)
These Culting of America hardcover bundles offer exclusive products only available at knittingcultlady.com.  By ordering direct from the author, you’ll get early access to the e-book and audiobook as ...
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Leigh Harrison Helberg @leighhelberg.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
“Cults turn to space when people on earth stop believing.” @knittingcultlady.bsky.social She cites space force as an example.
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
Huffington post article about the Ice murder of Renee Nicole Good, and how we could be so polarized that we are looking at the same thing and seeing such different things
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Katherine Speller @kathriller.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
If you’re wondering how we can possibly be watching the same videos as MAGA-verse (and feel absolutely gaslit about it), this might help. featuring: @therapyjeff.bsky.social, @knittingcultlady.bsky.social and NYU’s Emily Balcetis. www.huffpost.com/entry/same-v...
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This Could Explain Why MAGA Had A Wildly Different Reaction To THAT Video Of ICE In Minnesota
"I kind of think that Americans are not experiencing the same reality anymore," one expert said.
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🟰🦋🐈‍⬛️GingerG🚫👑🚫🧊🚫AI @pickledginger13.bsky.social · 09/01/2026
Ordered "The Culting of America" book & workbook set direct from the author. 😗👌 Love ordering direct from the source & not the greedy billionaires. knittingcultlady.com/products/the...
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The Culting of America PRE-SALE (SHIPS BY JANUARY 20, 2026)
These Culting of America hardcover bundles offer exclusive products only available at knittingcultlady.com.  By ordering direct from the author, you’ll get early access to the e-book and audiobook as ...
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Omedon @omedon.bsky.social · 09/01/2026
I honestly don't think I could process the world right now without the perspectives of @hcrichardson.bsky.social @franifio.bsky.social @perezbrenna.bsky.social @knittingcultlady.bsky.social and @leejamiller.bsky.social . If you're looking for clear eyes in these dark times, I can't recommend higher.
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Traci Ravenhawk @traciravenhawk.bsky.social · 06/01/2026
Today was a good day to finish #Uncultured by Daniella Mestyanek Young. I might get the workbook some day. Two weeks until the release of The Culting Of America. Thanks for getting me back into reading @knittingcultlady.bsky.social #resist #BlueCrew #Pinks #sisters
A paperback copy of the book "Uncultured" by Daniella Mestyanek Young.
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 22/11/2025
Remember when I said MtG had a crack in the brainwashing and everyone told me I didn’t understand cults?
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elihuroberts.bsky.social @elihuroberts.bsky.social · 22/11/2025
Great 🧵👇 For those who may not know, this is Daniella Mestyanek Young, aka Knitting Cult Lady and author of Uncultured & The Culting of America. She spoke today at the “Remember Your Oath” veteran protest in Washington DC today. #Resist #FightFascism #RemoveTheRegime #RememberYourOath
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 22/11/2025
Alright, real quick. Some folks want you to think patriotism means obedience. That loving your country means cheering for a guy who thinks the Constitution is a vibe, not a rulebook. Sir, with absolutely no due respect, that’s a no-go. Here’s the actual intel:
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 19/04/2025
When you’re wearing pictures of the guy’s face… Cult scholar: welcome, welcome my children, let me explain.
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
This is called sexual terrorism, by the way!
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
When you talk about the military, it’s “our men and women” every time. “And women”… Every time! Women veterans are referred to as “invisible veterans” and we suffer from the veteran problems at much higher rates than the men.
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
He’s like “inconceivable!” (in a world of all American fascists…Be this guy.)
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
Every woman veteran that you know is probably raging deeply tonight. Because we all had to serve next to that guy, that toxic masculinity, barely disguised white nationalist, misogynist to the core, guy-who you-know-raped-somebody-or-held-them-down…
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Thomas E. DeCaulp @decaulp.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
youtube.com/shorts/7NjkY... @knittingcultlady.bsky.social Greatly analysis on kegsbreath and love you knitting. I'll be purchasing your books The Culting Of America and Uncultured. Deep up the great work 👏
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Maybe This is All Cause Nobody Would Respond to Hegseth's Emails?
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
Secretary of War is giving “I wanna pick my own nickname, mom!”
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 29/09/2025
Today I unbaptized the spirit of the newly departed Mormon prophet/profit, seer, and revelator true, into atheism. Please respect my choice. It is my religious freedom. 🫡
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Craig Browning @cbmusasd.bsky.social · 29/09/2025
@knittingcultlady.bsky.social youtu.be/-aoepnKhw_g?...
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My Mormon Mom reached out for the first time in YEARS!
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 28/09/2025
I honestly have no patience for creators who compare us to Germany or other dictatorships, without also listing the differences. Your threat analysis is not valid if you’ve only looked at one side.
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Comedian Tiffany Norton ✨👄✨ @tiffanynorton.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
@knittingcultlady.bsky.social is one of my favorite creators, here’s just one example of her work Her book, Uncultured was as fantastic, as it was heartbreaking I highly recommend checking out her content, and supporting her work
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Jill-Duh @gildafoster.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
If you don't follow @knittingcultlady.bsky.social today is a great day to start #Veterans #Women #WomenVeterans #KeepDefendingTruth #KeepDefendingDemocracy #HaveADay youtu.be/ncTlrUQpiLo
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Weekly Cult SitRep 9/26/25: Did Anyone Get Raptured? Plus Moonies, RFK, & Hegseth's Meeting
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
Do y’all think somebody was like? “ sir, I don’t know how to say this…, There’s this woman, knitting cult lady,… and sir, She says…, sir, She says that if you put 800 military flag officers in one place that’s about, well, sir, that’s about 24,000 years of military experience.”
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FL4GG E4GLET0N @nmche56.bsky.social · 25/09/2025
Like @knittingcultlady.bsky.social says, it’s always about labor. Inside the alleged forced labor, laundering scheme run by church leaders in Michigan, other states www.clickondetroit.com/news/local/2...
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Inside the alleged forced labor, laundering scheme run by church leaders in Michigan, other states
Forced labor, terror through text messages, and denied food and sleep all to support a luxury lifestyle. That’s the case the U.S. Attorney is building against a Taylor man and his business partner.
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Émile Darkheim @rntropy.bsky.social · 25/09/2025
More and more, I feel the best way to understand the current moment in American history and How We Got Here is through the lens of cults and cultification — particularly the cultification of the American elite. I am very much looking forward to @knittingcultlady.bsky.social new book on this
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
Honestly, Seth Rogen being the highest Emmy winner of all time explains so much
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Jill-Duh @gildafoster.bsky.social · 23/09/2025
@knittingcultlady.bsky.social interviews a survivor with fellow cult survivor Scot Loyd. Link in reply www.the-independent.com/news/world/a...
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Founders of ‘Orgasmic Meditation’ group found guilty of forcing workers into sex acts
A jury found that Nicole Daedone and Rachel Cherwitz had manipulated vulnerable individuals into performing thousands of hours of unpaid work
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
Every accusation is an admission
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
Hey evangelicals, are you afraid He came and saw you and left? #rapture
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 23/09/2025
Disney really thought Americans cared more about “happily ever after” then about freedom
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Zora Neale Hurtin’ 📚🔮✨ @alexaesperanzaa.bsky.social · 22/09/2025
Reminder that rapture theology was made up by some unhinged white lady in the 1700’s and then popularized by an equally unhinged white man. Revelations was about the Roman Empire. The Bible is pretty clear about no one knowing when “The End” is.
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 22/09/2025
Hey, Grindr crashed when all the Republican men got together again! How’s your week going?
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
A tyrant’s biggest fear is being laughed at. Use this information accordingly
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
I would bet every single dollar I could borrow or steel, that the CEO of Disney has been on that island
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Knitting Cult Lady @knittingcultlady.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
Call me unAmerican, but I just think I like my presidents not raping children
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Doozer @doozer2u.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
Absolutely one of the best channels on YouTube. #IfYou’reListening Matt Bevins (I’m not sure how to spell) @mehdirhasan.bsky.social @meidastouch.com @muellershewrote.com @jackcocchiarella.bsky.social @ivehaditpodcast.bsky.social @parkroseperma.bsky.social @knittingcultlady.bsky.social
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Charlie Kirk’s murder sparks calls for revenge | If You're Listening | ABC NEWS In-depth
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