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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

All rapists and their sympathizers should have their junk sawed off with a rusty butter knife and then fed into a wood-chipper, feet first

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Prisonculture @prisonculture.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

we do not have to live this way.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Awwww 💔 Side note: this picture always makes me smile.

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Marisa Kabas @marisakabas.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

dennis hastert and jim bakker in the same day feels like an apology for dolly and tim curry

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

School update: despite my intense grief and associated brain fog, I took the last 2 tests of my current class, and got an A on them both, with one of them being 100%. This class is just building on prior knowledge but I was really worried I would fail this class.

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Viktor Winetrout @viktorwinetrout.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

If you love the boys, set them free. If they come back to town, they’re yours

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

My manager let me take a half day because grief has me behind on school stuff, and I’m trying to catch up. Anyway, I was taking a break from brushing up on alcohol and substance abuse and this popped up on my TikTok feed. I don’t think this is just the lighting, or a tan.

Pete Hegseth at a conference looking extremely jaundiced, indicating liver failure, likely secondary to alcohol abuse

Pete Hegseth at a conference looking extremely jaundiced, indicating liver failure, likely secondary to alcohol abuse. You can see here that his hands are also very yellow.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Looking forward to the day I don’t immediately start crying when talking about the loss of my friend. Having to tell people about it is just awful. It makes it seem more real, although a part of me is still in denial. Grief is such a bastard.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

You’ve heard of trickle down economics, but have you ever heard of TICKLE down economics? I bet you haven’t

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

They should all be publicly dismembered, I’m not joking

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

This is a whole different level of grief I’ve never felt before. I know there’s no “normal” way to grieve or whatever but at what point do you wake up not feeling absolutely wretched every single day? Crying every single day is so exhausting emotionally and physically.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Just thinking about the time my spouse and I went to his coworker’s house to get weed and we ended up being propositioned to swing with him and his wife, who were easily 20 years older than us

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I think I’ve reached a new low in life. I just had beef jerky for breakfast.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Oh btw some dickhead car detailing small business owner directly across the street from the funeral home had this bullshit up on the side of their building:

A flag that says Charlie Kirk: his voice lives on

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

One thing bringing me comfort today (besides my amazing group of friends) is knowing that my friend lived a really good life, even if it was cut short. She did a lot of living in the years she had, and she touched a lot of people. I will miss her forever.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Today is going to be really hard. I’ve been going between denial and deep grief all week and now to face the reality that she is really gone. I’ll never forgive the universe for taking her so young. I love and miss you, friend.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

The universe must know how bad I’m hurting because I keep ending up talking with people at work who are also suffering a loss. Helping them helps me too but I hate seeing so much pain and suffering everywhere I turn. This world has gotten so ugly.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Trying to find joy where I can, and today while digging through photos to see what pictures I have of my friend, and I found this pic of me when I was around 7/8 years old, and I suddenly remembered a very similar photo of my paternal grandfather (who I never met) and it’s crazy how alike we look:

Me around age 7 or 8, dirty as hell, and holding a puppy and looking very happy.

My paternal grandfather, Charles Francis Jones, age 7 with his dog

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

I’m really glad I worked today, even though I didn’t think I’d make it without crying. Had someone say “thank you for being so nice to me” and that tells me that working today was the correct thing to do. Still hasn’t been a great day but I needed that more than I knew. Sometimes the patient heals.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

It’s true what they say about it seeming like the world standing still when you lose someone that’s precious to you, and it’s maddening how the rest of the world just keeps moving along normally. How can things be normal right now?

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

I feel the most awful I’ve ever felt in my life so why not listen to something extremely depressing

open.spotify.com

Loss Of Life - Album by MGMT | Spotify

MGMT · album · 2024 · 10 songs

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Grief thoughts this morning: I was so lucky to have my friend in my life as long as I did. It’s just not fair that I’ll never get to talk to her or see her again. I love and miss you friend and I will never ever forget you

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

I always forget about that part of grief where you think you couldn’t possibly have any tears left for the moment, but then more seem to come from some deep reserve you didn’t know existed

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Nature’s first green is gold, Her hardest hue to hold. Her early leaf’s a flower; But only so an hour. Then leaf subsides to leaf. So Eden sank to grief, So dawn goes down to day. Nothing gold can stay. -Robert Frost

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

On a lighter note, I just saw a video showing pretty much all GenX/Xennial toys, and one of them was the tiddlywinks game. I never really played that one so I did a Google search and fell straight down a tiddlywinks rabbit hole.

tiddlywinks.org

North American Tiddlywinks Association – Since 1966

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

I super love how our air-conditioning decided to fucking go out when it’s unseasonably goddamn hot in September. And on a Friday so we’re not gonna be able to get anyone out here until Monday probably. Fuuuuuuuck

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

There’s no knowledge that justifies genocide. Yall do realize what Israel is doing is making Jewish people around the world less safe, right? Why would you want anyone to associate your religion with a murderous ethnostate?

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

I’ve always thought Pink was a huge poseur and fake af, I knew I hated her for a reason

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

I got a new ergonomic keyboard quite a while back and have been putting off replacing my old one with the new one, and I finally started using the new one. It’s going to take me some getting used to.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Makes one want to fly on in for Subtember 11th deals

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Got this on clearance at ALDI and this flavor is actually really good, surprisingly. I also got the root beer float flavor, which was kinda meh.

A can of Waterloo Sparkling Water in the Apple Pie À La Mode flavor

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

I'm having a hard time with this passage from the article I'm reading for school because why are you collecting toenail clippings????

In 2016, during the first year of the second wave, 2,000 nurses who had participated in the baseline survey underwent anthropometric measurements (e.g., waist circumference), had their blood pressure evaluated, and provided blood samples and TOENAIL CLIPPINGS (?????), which were analyzed in conjunction with the questionnaire data (3). Additionally, for 500 of these

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

I’m so ready for this heat to be gone. Every time it gets this hot lately, my joints hurt and my feet swell a bit, and my allergies act up to the point my eyes are streaming, and I look like I’m crying. I love climate change

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

Thrifting chronicles: Picked up a Stardew Valley mug for $1.50 and someone’s beautiful hand crocheted cotton afghan/blanket for $7.99. Ngl I don’t have the patience to make this kind of blanket myself so I’m happy to give it a home.

A cream colored crocheted Afghan with 20 large square motifs seamed together. It’s almost as wide as a full size bed.

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

I’ve always wondered if this happens to other people. Anytime I listen to a new song or artist or album that I really chive with, afterwards I have days and days of jumbled up bits of the songs playing in my head. It has literally disturbed my sleep before.

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Bedtime Music, Involuntary Musical Imagery, and Sleep

Many people listen to music for hours every day, often near bedtime. We investigated whether music listening affects sleep, focusing on a rarely explored mechanism: involuntary musical imagery (earwor...

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Fitting, considering that’s exactly what her brother did

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🕯️Non-biMary🕯️ @karlamarx.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

God DAMMIT. First Dolly, and now Tim Curry? 2026, thou art a cruel mistress

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