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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨

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👩🏻‍🎨🤓🍷🍝💕⚜️🇮🇹🇭🇰🇬🇧 The world is vast and I must know it 💕 Driven by curiosity, runs on ☕️ + 🍸🍹🍷🍶 London based oil painter; Exhibited in […] 🌉 bridged from ⁂ mastodon.social/@kangaroo5383, follow @ap.brid.gy to interact

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 24m

Check out my Sargent from temu 🥴🤪 Accountability is great, monthly mentor session be like o shit, 2 days i better get cracking 💀 #oilpainting #masterstudy #mastoart #portrait #portraitpainting

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 20/10/2026

“The Swiftie community can also be a supportive and inclusive space.” Another thing that’s weird about the hate - she created a culture where Swifties is about random kindness and gifts to strangers - best example being friendship bracelets people made and gifted to each other at concerts 🫶✨ […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 20/10/2026

After recently being subjected to yet another weird, misogynistic, and pointlessly aggressive insult against Tay, imma just gonna be posting at least one TSwift fact a week 💁‍♀️ It’s sad that ppl think shaming and insulting empowered and successful women would make their pathetic lives feel […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 18/10/2026

Seems like everything is going to be getting worse, as expected? www.politico.com/news/2026/10/10/ic…

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 18/10/2026

Interesting experiment, pleinair in japan - japanese playlist, in China - chinese playlist, thankfully i have plenty of both saved 💪 Brb time to time to dig out those Ayu and B’z 👵🏼… omg is that the Inuyasha soundtrack 🥹 Exciting times 🥰. It’s wonderful how music encoded so much history / […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 18/10/2026

* press I told you so button * 🙄 Is it depressing i didn’t even try to vote? … yeah apnews.com/article/california-justi…

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026

FYI people in NYC and are into classical music (specifically piano) 😄🎹💕 […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026

@cdf1982 honestly i thought i was imagining it, then i was hanging out w my asian friends in nyc and before i even finished talking they were like omg yeah it’s absolutely a thing. It also makes perfect sense you wouldn’t know about it 😅

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026

@cdf1982 better bc physics and muscle mass yes… 😕 but yeah… ppl are so fuckin crazy about social power, like y’all too dumb to realize social power is fiction and it makes u look stupid….. -_-

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026

@cdf1982 actually mostly white women and some Dubai looking women who are overdressed, men are in the minority here 🤷‍♀️ i know weird right?

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026

@cdf1982 well walking with a white friend (man or woman) is a completely different experience 🥲 Wondering if i should get Meta Glass to record for analysis… it’s like so crazy.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026

@cdf1982 lol here it’s mostly in the form of people purposely plowing directly into you on sidewalks (even when they are mostly empty)😕 Verbal confrontation count: 1 Thanks to tennis I’m stronger than I look so… but yeah, i don’t understand why ppl can’t just leave strangers alone and mind […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 17/10/2026

@cdf1982 😨 You know, i love London and have been having a grand time x optimism, but random microaggressions add up and I can only be aggressively countering for so long before i give up here too. But hey I still have my HK passport and it’s nice to know that China is winning bc I never cared […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 16/10/2026

Maybe it’s bc I’m getting older and i just don’t give a f anymore, but I’m just gonna come out and say it: NYC is more gross than any city I’ve been to in China, but weirdly whenever I tell people they should check out cities in China, ppl (esp Americans) would look at me like I just told them […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 16/10/2026

O hai

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@migratory envious people, back stabbing assholes, status obsessed fuckers who are nice to your face and talk behind your back - those are the enemies of society.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@migratory i agree with the challenge i disagree with the inevitability. Literally ppl like Buffett and Scott and Gate and others have spent a lot of time structuring their giving to resolve for this complexity. Your argument doesn’t hold bc it’s like saying charities are inherently corrupt too.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@cdf1982 hahahahahaha to her defense, one was about ethical standards, the other emotional reactivity? 🤪 But tbh it’s a totally fair question, i have no feelings on Seneca but i can see how he can feel like a boring rock to a 🤌🤌✨passionate ✨🤌🤌 people 🤣💕🇮🇹 Also sad thing about italy, i love it […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@cdf1982 some people become arrogant in gain, bitter in loss, happily accepts praise, become cruel in insult. The point of the quote is just “chill” 🤷‍♀️

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@foon yes i’ve read the monopoly study, no i disagree, and no you don’t have to be a psychopath to become a billionaire.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

As I’ve been saying in the last year, London is going to be the new innovation ecosystem as the SV implodes from confident ignorance x egotistical tech bros. I hope with its culture and knowledge of basic human decency and manners, the UK can learn from the SV about what NOT to do, and develop […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

Money doesn’t change ppl only show you who they really are.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

A lot of people like to hate on billionaires these days, but weirdly not enough hate on shitty status obsessed people who would do exactly (or worse) what they are doing if they had the money. Meanwhile decent people, MacKenzie Scott, Melinda Gates, Taylor Swift, regardless of money, have […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@darwinwoodka it is also setting precedence for easier denaturalization of any opposition congresswoman or not

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

When ppl say “you have a citizenship, your worries are unfounded” … lol www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2026/10/…

Trump administration seeks to strip Ilhan Omar of US citizenship: WSJ

Investigators have subpoenaed relatives and examined immigration records, the newspaper reports.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

An execution-focused manager asks: Are we completing the planned work efficiently? A systems-oriented CTO asks: Are we doing the work that most increases our probability of shipping a successful product? When you put an engineering taskmaster on things requiring creativity and unknowns, they […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

"The final test of freedom is this: Can you remain the same person in praise, in insult, in gain, and in loss?" -Seneca Seneca knows what’s up 💕✨

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@waffles lol that’s what the step 2 is for - which is an equivalence of what the current process is, the insanely obvious choice is to let the government use the default if and only if ppl don’t file. They aren’t too bright eh…. 😮‍💨

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 15/10/2026

@waffles i hear it’s mostly just turbox tax lobbying no? If the libertarians really wanted that, the process could just be: 1. Government do the easy auto math bc it has all the numbers anyways! 2. If you want more deductions do something stupidly extra libertarians! 🤪

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 14/10/2026

Apparently in the UK, the HMRC already has your employment income and none of the W2 submitting nonsense… can you imagine??? Actually working government??? Crazy 🤯

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 14/10/2026

Love that London has heard my plead. I hate bikes omg these ppl are so awful 💀 *spiked anxiety * www.cityoflondon.police.uk/news/cit…

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 14/10/2026

Really curious how Republicans will explain how they won the midterm because no one likes them… Maybe the reason it won’t end until after midterm is Putin is promising to help republicans win if he keeps giving them money for oil. Really the only way this makes sense 🤷‍♀️ […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 13/10/2026

As a bare minimum. Makes good sense.

"I think the likes of the Cornell 7
shouldn't be allowed penises
anymore. They used them as
weapons, so now they have to be
confiscated. I think jail time, legal
castration and a removal of the
shaft seems like the
bare minimum."
Jameela Jamil
VARIETY

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 13/10/2026

America the aggressor www.instagram.com/reel/DeZOJIzIIm9/…

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 12/10/2026

@darwinwoodka there’s the thinly veiled “o but her immigration papers” …like forging info is not gonna be hard for these people, and it is obviously at least an intimidation tactic. Honestly wondering when it’s gonna fall into martial law

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 12/10/2026

ICE is raiding sitting member of congress now.. www.cbsnews.com/news/ilhan-omar-imm…

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 12/10/2026

NYC subways smelling like pee is what happens when a society treats private responsibility as a virtue but collective responsibility as an ideological threat. 😛

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 12/10/2026

Toxic narcissistic social patterns: Low interpersonal interests High shame Collective mockery / ridicule as bonding So weird to see this in adults tbh, you’d think ppl would’ve grown out of this loser mindset after high school…or realize this belonged only in shitty movies. 🤷‍♀️ #EndRant

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 11/10/2026

This is what freedom and agency is all about.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 11/10/2026

“Socially polished people can be very good at making cruelty deniable.” Crazy that people find it acceptable, also interesting that people who operate in socially cruel environments actually don’t believe in kindness - only pretense and transactional relationships. Sad but true…. Gross.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 11/10/2026

Also walking on the sidewalk is a completely different experience with white friends it’s noticeably weird. The microaggression is really escalating these days…. Just talked to some some asian friends yesterday to confirm I’m not imagining things -_-

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 11/10/2026

This topic should get some attention in the conversation around race and gender discrimination. It’s something I’ve noticed more in the last few years. The couple times I’ve had overtly racist interactions were from white women. So weird, why is that […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 10/10/2026

Day 3 of complaining about America… Some of the best (18th-19th) art here is tucked away behind a $30 paywall a la Frick Collection. And they don’t let you take (non flash) photos either. There’s just such a weird treatment of art here, like yet another contrived status symbol as oppose to be […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 10/10/2026

I’m a strong believer in that the best investment you can make in your future self is find a *good* therapist. It’s tempting to think friends are enough, they most definitely are not…and should not […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 09/10/2026

Hi 🗽

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 08/10/2026

This is like what Russia and China would do. Lol…. www.reuters.com/world/americas/us-l…

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 08/10/2026

Weird sexist(?) trend why is it that when you’re a woman at a nice hotel BY YOURSELF, people just call you mrs 🫩 Do you see a mr??? No?? Well!!!! 😑

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 08/10/2026

It seems MAGA’s goal is to prevent more US citizenships / greencard which actually makes sense for a white nationalist state :P “No one is American unless they are white and born here” is their definition […]

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J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 08/10/2026

👏 www.euronews.com/2026/10/02/solar-s…

Solar has saved the EU €37.4 billion since the war on Iran began

Europe's solar boom is cushioning households from the crippling costs of gas, as the war on Iran continues to highlight the dangers of fossil fuel reliance.

J Lam 👩🏻‍🎨 @kangaroo5383.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy · 08/10/2026

After 6mo of 🇬🇧 I was back to the weight I have been most of my life without trying… and had none of the weird bloating I’ve had in last couple years in the US. 1st meal in the US (actually nice place), and the weird bloat is back 🫩 i don’t know what it is, but it’s def something weird in the […]

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