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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 29/09/2026

Mum throwing up cos her kidneys are failing, so I had to take dad to his dentist appt and all the way there and back he repeatedly asks me if I've been there before/is this my dentist too? I'm watching the people I depend on dying in front of me and I have nowhere to go except to follow them out.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 29/09/2026

I haven't lived at all. I don't live. Just writhe in the unbearable weight of oontless existence. And I really hate myself today* And I know that's no good but I just really do hate myself Despite the meds, the several rounds of therapy l. Nothing can treat the fundamental error of being. *every day

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 29/09/2026

Old, drawn, haggard, past it. All I did was try to take a selfie, and ew.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 27/09/2026

Well, I tried it on. Quite comfortable actually.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 27/09/2026

I mean, it isn't particularly comfortable, nor what is it even supposed to be doing for me????

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 27/09/2026

I've never had one of these before. What does one do wirh it???

Bloke in yellow t shirt holds a jock strap

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 27/09/2026

Not mine. But there's a private WhatsApp group for UK guys to bare it all, and you HAVE to show face as well as an entry fee. Which means no anonymous lurkers... chat.whatsapp.com/Bs5RVSFLfN40...

chat.whatsapp.com

UK Nudies 2.0

WhatsApp Group Invite

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 26/09/2026

Wakes up, gets up, blinks, bed time. Repeat.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 26/09/2026

signup.tweet.app/r/abyssalist They rescued the bird. Get in early.

signup.tweet.app

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 25/09/2026

When I got them last week, vs after a week of settling in.

A small long fish in an aquarium on a log.

A small long fish in an aquarium wirh plants.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 24/09/2026

Sarcastic Tea Towel. dychestudio.etsy.com/uk/listing/4...

A white tea towel laid flat on a wooden table, showing the handwritten-style text “You don’t need permission to use this…” with four bubble illustrations and the Dyche Studio signature.

Close-up of the tea towel’s fabric corner showing neat stitching and reinforced edging.

Close-up of the cotton canvas care label with washing instructions and ethical production details.

Detailed view of the hemmed corner of the tea towel on a wooden surface, showing stitching and fabric texture.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 23/09/2026

For those not on the gram, from last night.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 22/09/2026

Little randy bitey fish is off to a new home. He can be someone else's problem now. Though I will miss him

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 22/09/2026

You can have thighs this morning. #ThighTuesday or whatevs

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 21/09/2026

I've barely had sex before age 50. FML. I'm such an abnormal cunt.

Fucking newspaper headline "Get tested and talk to your partner: how tp have safer sex after age 50

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 20/09/2026

Made a pick me up. Ruined my dinner.

One and a bit chocolate cookies on a white square plate.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 20/09/2026

The only adult thing I can and do do is grow grey hairs.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 20/09/2026

It hurts being an adult but denied adulthood.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 20/09/2026

I don't really have many friends. I have like, one gay couple friends, so that's like one but two, but one. And then I feel isolated. But then to keep friends you have to do stuff, and I like being at home, and hate sudden plans. But then I get lonely and feel cut off. Catch 22. 🤷‍♂️

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 19/09/2026

My autistic anxiety makes me undatable, even if there was someone who liked me back at first.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 19/09/2026

Well that dream made me want to drink two litres of clove oil.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 18/09/2026

It's little. It's literally 23p in my pocket. BUT I made my first Redbubble sale! Considering how much stuff is on there, somehow someone saw something of mine, and bought it. Yay!

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 18/09/2026

She's still alive! Despite buying CDs, I've not actually played any for years.

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The abyssalist @jamesdyche.me · 17/09/2026

Listen. It's all the very well if Des'ree doesn't want to see a ghost, and would prefer a cosy evening in with some toast, but WHAT IF the toast was also a ghost???? Did she think about that? Get yourself a lil' sticker and support this somewhat haunted gay. www.redbubble.com/i/sticker/Gh...