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Mate your metaphors continue to get right up in my soul yes yes smashed it

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This is the most accurate metaphor for how I’m feeling ever. I always drag myself to the end of tv shows even when they’re not as good as the first season/s because I want to see the ending, even if she show starts to really fkn suck lmao yes yessss

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that I haven’t bought into that. I understand if your responses were in the heat of the moment & please do let me know if that’s the case. Otherwise, we’ll probably be better off blocking each other because this way of interacting doesn’t feel good for me ✌️

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It doesn’t feel like you’re coming at this in good faith & whether intentional or not, you’ve got some straw man fallacies going on in your replies. You’re making assumptions about how I feel that aren’t actually what I’m saying e.g. I’m waiting for the NRs to come out when one of my main points was

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amanda 🐞 @amandaahope.bsky.social · 11h

You need me to give you help with sleep? Of course! What kind of sleep problems you got, pal?

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she did say you need to find another guiding light and we didn’t lol

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thank youuuu! I really was catching myself in the “I’m the only one oh no!” story. What’s great is that the facilitators in my therapy training would always respond to negative assumptions like this with “do you want to check that out with the group?” & it seems I’ve internalised their voices!

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Thank you Amanda!! I agree that the “playing two sides” part of her art is so intriguing, it’s part of why I see her as a mastermind. It feels like the two different messages are just getting further & further apart these days and there’s a tension in that (that hopefully will mean it snaps soon?)

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Also I’d ask that you please provide content warnings when speaking about this kind of thing online. It definitely is a horrible behaviour that needs to be called out, but I’d appreciate a CW for topics like these.

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I feel like I’ve provided multiple examples of why I’m disappointed in Taylor’s actions, not just the actions of men she’s affiliated with. I agree with you that she’s expressed toxic ideas of love before, I just see the recent ones are worse because of the context surrounding them.

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Hey Ally, it feels like I’ve hit a nerve here. This topic is important to me & I want to have a constructive conversation. I’m wondering what you think I’m saying here when I’m critiquing Taylor? Because I’m not saying “women are their husbands” but that seems to be what you’re hearing me say.

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Yes 100%! This recent like is just another thing to throw onto the pile of I Hate It Here in the Showgirl Era.

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Being the damsel that’s rescued in TFOO (instead of “you don’t need to save me, but would you run away with me?”), using the word “bitch” in a derogatory way on TLOAS after how much that word has hurt & enraged her (rightly so). I could go on. But Taylor has done enough by herself imo.

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Is being expressed in her own actions in TLOAS era. Having her engagement at the end of the credits for a docuseries about the biggest tour in human history, talking about how dangerous Travis’ job is & comparing it with her choosing what verses to sing of Shake It Off, cuddling w Brittany Mahomes,

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Are choices in her PR machine), means her connection with these men does mean something. Unless she makes it clear that she doesn’t approve of certain behaviours, even if it’s her husband/bf. And tbh these critical views I have don’t mainly centre Matty or Travis’ actions, but what

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As many other things, sends the message that they are excusable actions. Even if, in private, she told him how deplorable those things are. Because of Taylor’s influence as one of the biggest popstars in the world (and especially because I believe she’s not actually in love with these men but they

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