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@ifmencantlistento.bsky.social
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If men can't listen to women, LGBTQ+ people, minority groups, or anyone else different from themselves, maybe they can listen to a man modelling for other men (and everyone) how to listen to them. Learning how to be a better option than the bear.

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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
At least I hope you're smarter than that. Privilege protects privilege, there's your answer. Powerful men will always point towards the disadvantaged people to use as human shields on accountability. #deception #exploitation #humanity #truth #immigrant
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Who will you meet at the end of time? A poem written while on a hike of bountiful solitude. #poetry #nature #reflection #self #authenticity
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
What?! I'm just giving meal prep technique advice with no metaphorical application or implication at all. Also, totally unrelated, prosecute the Cornell 7. #cornell7 #sa #accountability #consequences #predators
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Never underestimate the ability of a mediocre white man to play victim when he's the real threat. #tantrum #fail #fragilemasculinity #mensmentalhealth #growup
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Jeanelle Austin for the People (MN-SD62) @jeanellefortheppl.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
Thank you for the endorsement and vote @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social! Go to mnvotes.org to find your early voting and polling locations! #LetUsLive #GOTV
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 03/05/2026
You've been scammed by a society that wants you broken and controllable. Have you tried decent human being maxxing instead? #mensmentalhealth #manosphere #looksmaxxing #selfconfidence #selfesteem
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 03/05/2026
Was there a BOGO on bullshit and betrayal in Minnesota? Twice in one week we learned from our elected representatives just how much we're on our own here. #politics #backstab #betrayal #democrats #thisisnotnormal
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 27/04/2026
I'd expect this lapdog obedience from Emmer, but Jacob Frey has some explaining to do... #dino #betrayal #democrat #demandbetter #explainyourself
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 20/04/2026
Men: what does a redemption arc look like for you? An apology only has meaning when it's followed by action and improvement. #redemption #mensmentalhealth #selfimprovement #feminism #betterversionofmyself
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 19/04/2026
Shame must change sides, and until it does we will keep seeing the same systems of predators enabled by the selfishness and silent complicity of weak men. #shamemustchangesides #predators #yesallmen #accountability #feminism
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
In the vast space in between excusing and demonizing sits accountability and growth but we need to welcome the discomfort of holding space different perspectives long enough to process them before any of that can happen. #accountability #growth #conversation #empathy #resistance
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 08/04/2026
I'm exhausted. We can't keep going back to this. #USA #broken #checksandbalances #abandoned #exhausted
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 08/04/2026
I refuse to be an unwilling sacrifice to the vanity of a dying, malignant narcissist. How about you? #resist #tyranny #armageddon #thetimeisnow #constitutionalcrisis
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
What does being a patriot even mean anymore if the word has lost all meaning? The tree of liberty is withering having been watered with the excuses of cowards. How many lines in the sand must be crossed at full steam ahead before the 25th amendment is invoked? #patriots #resist #tyranny #fascism
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
Centrism is a side effect of comfort. The luxury of disengagement is a privilege held by an ever shrinking segment of the population. At some point engagement will be a necessity, but at what point will it be too late? #resist #tyranny #centrist #politics #toolate
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 05/04/2026
Tending to the garden of freedom so that others may harvest its fruit is often unpaid and unappreciated work. Check in on your activist friends, some of us aren't OK right now but somehow keep getting up to fight another day. #mutualaid #communitysupport #wekeepussafe #resist #fascism
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 03/04/2026
According to the supreme court, a child's sense and expression of who they are is less protected free speech it's then the ability for society to abuse and consume them. #lgbtrights #endconversiontherapy #supremecourt #freedomofspeech
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 02/04/2026
I can't do an obligatory April fools joke any better than the one being played on us by our government so I'll just point out the obvious lazy screenwriting in whatever this is we're experiencing. #werecooked #aprilfools #truthisstrangerthanfiction #resist #tyranny
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
No King's day 3 at the MN Capitol 3-28-26. This is only the beginning, solidarity is the vessel we ride to glory and a better future for all of us, not just a select few. #nokings #wesaynokings #resist #tyranny #iceout @50501minnesota.bsky.social @50501movement.bsky.social
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
250 years later, we still fight to free ourselves from the cruelty of kings. This time, lets make sure everyone is free. #nokings #freedom #resist #tyranny #wesaynokings
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 20/03/2026
The SAVE act takes by coercion and deception an election they can't win honestly. There's a word for that... #callyourrepresentatives #votingrights #vote #saveact #resist
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 17/03/2026
Mohommad Nazeer Paktyawal deserved our gratitude, not a death sentence outside of due process. No ICE excuse will justify his kidnapping, mistreatment, or murder. Nobody has freedom if it can be taken away, nobody has freedom until we all have it. #resist #tyranny #injustice
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 13/03/2026
If men can't listen to the news, maybe they can listen to a man listening to a woman explaining the news from her kitchen in 3 minutes or less. A conversation with Michelle Glogovac helps me knock the rust off the podcast and release the first episode in about 8 months.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 10/03/2026
Somehow 30% of the country still doesn't understand they're being played as a sucker. MAGA is a matchmaking service for con artists and their victims. When is it going to be one con too many? #nowar #nokings #democracy #resist #war
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 10/03/2026
Understanding why patriarchy hurts us all is a good start to seeing women as whole people. #womensday #womenshistorymonth #resist #patriarchy #humanity
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Kaleidoscope of love art mobilization in Minneapolis, MN on 2/28/26. Over 1,000 people came together in solidarity for our neighbors and formed a giant butterfly. #minneapolis #minnesota #love #solidarity #butterfly
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
USA men's hockey & fascism: "All that's required for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing" 🤔 "I expected nothing and was still let down". Men need to show up even when it's inconvenient; fascism thrives on the shoulders of weak men. #olympics #usahockey #bethechangeyouwishtosee #resist
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 25/02/2026
Minneapolis update 2/25/26 - a marathon, not a sprint. ICE has retreated into the shadows, the suburbs, and rural areas but is still very much active. Keep up momentum, this is working. #minneapolis #minnesota #iceout #resist #wekeepusafe
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Nick Benson @ottergoose.net · 22/01/2026
I keep thinking about how we haven’t seen minors boarding the dedicated deportation flights here at MSP; how many kids are the commercial airlines at Minneapolis - St. Paul International flying to detention camps, and which airlines are they? Whistleblowers, ping me on Signal: ottergoose.11
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50501: The People’s Movement ❌👑 @50501movement.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
Did Air Traffic Controllers just start the general strike?!?? 🤝 “…Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy claimed that many air traffic control workers were calling out sick.” Read more: www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/... #GeneralStrike #ShutItDown #AirTrafficControllers #50501movement
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50501: The People’s Movement ❌👑 @50501movement.bsky.social · 05/06/2025
🚨 URGENT: CHICAGO ORGANIZER DETAINED BY ICE, SHOW UP NOW!!! 🚨 A longtime organizer in our Chicago community has just been detained by ICE. And she’s not alone, demonstrators outside have seen 3 people shackled in chains. 📍 GET TO 1930 Beach St., Broadview, IL RIGHT NOW.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 04/05/2025
May Day International Worker's Day Rally at the MN State Capitol, set to an inspiring speech by @marciaxthree.bsky.social Thousands of Minnesotans marched despite the rain to show that there are many of us, few of them. #mayday #internationalworkersday #protest #march #50501movement #resist
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
Thank you to everyone sending in a guest inquiry! I'm using this week to get organized so unfortunately there will be no episode this week. From the guest inquiries I think there's some good episodes coming up. #ifmencantlistento #podcast
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 31/03/2025
Happy trans day of visibility! Episode 7 of the If Men Can't Listen To... podcast is live! Eve and I talk about music, transitioning, emancipating one's true self from societal demands, the selfishness of trans-panic, and mantra of persistence; squeezing lemons. #neweposode #translivesmatter
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Part 2 of Episode 6 of the If Men Can't Listen To... podcast is live!
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50501: The People’s Movement ❌👑 @50501movement.bsky.social · 22/03/2025
Something is happening in Indiana, and across the U.S.! Our next day of National Protests will be April 5th, but don't wait until then!! FIND or HOST a protest at www.FiftyFifty.one. Ty @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social for the vid. #50501movement #PeoplesMovement #FiftyFiftyOne @polrev.bsky.social
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 22/03/2025
Episode 6, part 1 of the If Men Can't Listen To... podcast is live! Amber and I talk about parenting, masculinity, and femininity evolving through empathy. The conversation wanders on many wonderful tangents... #ifmencantlistento #podcast #newepisode #parenting #empathy #learning #communication
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
Episode 5 is live! conversation with Zoe Larkey - a survivor advocate, founder of the It Will Pass project, and member of It's On Us.  We talk about reclaiming life, joy, and safety after an assault, the workings of Title IX, preventive college campus resources, and... avocados?
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
DJT's plan for Gaza? Yikes. I feel like I've seen this one before. #gaza #dictator #idolatry
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@AmbassadorLeaderAG @ashleythewriter.bsky.social · 25/02/2025
New York Doctor Dr Margaret, a carpenter indicted in Louisiana case a leader for reproductive rights and women's healthcare 💪 #StandWithDrMargaretCarpenter💪 #Abortionishealthcare #ReproductiveRightsArehumanRights #Demcast #Proudblue Shes was indicted on February 23 👇 amp.cnn.com/cnn/2025/02/...
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
Well it's been a while since I've been banned on Meta, YOLO. What happened to the GOP's balls? I'm old enough to remember when they were adamantly against Russia and Russian interference in world politics. Now? They roll over and eagerly await orders. Reagan would not approve.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 09/02/2025
Episode 3 of the podcast is live! If men can't listen to women, maybe they can listen to a man listening to Colleen - also known as "The Abortionfluencer" on social media. @abortionfluencer.bsky.social
If men can't listen to women, maybe they can listen to a man listening to Colleen - also known as "The Abortionfluencer" on social media - discussing reproductive rights, when (and how) supportive men should step up, and when they should step back to center and amplify women's voices. Plus, a deep dive into leftist and resistance collaboration, working around social media algorithms that are preferential to and programmed by the right-wing, and how to win the messaging war.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
Fragile, weak men will try to convince you of how strong they are, then throw a pouty fit over getting their feelings hurt. What did the bwave widdle alt-righters used to say about the left? F-you and your feelings, that was it.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
Scolded toddler's gonna scolded toddler
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
Extol the ideals of real outlaw country; choose love, speak truth to power, protect the downtrodden, shine a spotlight on injustice, side with the people instead of bolstering the wealthy, and get a little rowdy doing it.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
Episode 2 is live! A conversation with @brown19170.bsky.social about unconventional thinking, addressing intellectual dismissiveness, how we move forward not only as individuals but as a society, the book she's writing giving guidance on love and relationships, and many side-quest tangents.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 11/01/2025
Episode 1 of the If Men Can't Listen To... podcast is out! I'm asking a lot of potential guests in terms of vulnerability, to ante up the first episode is with my Mother talking about her success in the 1990s tech boom then starting a new, different career - all centered around public speaking.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 07/01/2025
The toxicity and self-incrimination of men seeking to bully women in comments section is as hilarious as it is frustrating. Men: take a stand and do something about it, clean up our own kind. Apologies about the format, I had to combine due to the 4 image limit.
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If men can't listen to... @ifmencantlistento.bsky.social · 07/01/2025
I'm absolutely supportive of the deserved public shaming going on right now.
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