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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Need gay men to stop having shitty opinions about bisexuals and trans people ASAP

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I fear I may never recover from the stranglehold that Expectations by Olivia Rodrigo has on me.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Dealt with an angry client this morning without crying or throwing up, please clap and call me a good boy 😌

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Hey, so, two quick questions: 1. Would you all still love me if I chipped a tooth? 2. What if I chipped it because I was being extremely stupid? No reason. 🫣

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

The whimsy of this shirt is getting me through this last long work day before the holiday weekend (feat. belly)

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

In unrelated news, it's almost ren faire season and I for one would like to thank the universe for once again providing me an opportunity to ogle hot dads in kilts

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

Feeling scruffy and sleepy. Work's just about fried me this week. Imagine Maslow's hierarchy of needs, but all the layers of the triangle have been replaced with a single "no thoughts, bury face in a furry chest."

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

So are we gonna talk about the very attractive ginger bear on the latest Game Changer? Because him flexing at the camera made me feel something.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

Listen, I don't wanna say I've discovered the cure for depression, but I woke up sad this morning and then I made out and 69'ed with a man almost 20 years older than me and now I'm not sad anymore.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Listen, I love edging as much as the next person, but I need this storm to commit to the bit and properly knock the power out at work.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

I applied for 2 jobs tonight that I'm pretty well qualified for and they both would reduce my commute by 45 minutes each way while giving a big jump in pay and probably a significant stress reduction. Send good vibes please? (Also dick pics. Not for any reason. Just cuz.)

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

Pelvic floor physical therapy slaps in that I'm building strength, becoming more limber, and releasing trapped muscle tension throughout my body, which makes me feel more relaxed and present. It feels like the "step 2" of somatic therapy, which I'm a huge fan of.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

Y'all, there's a prize inside this bath bomb, and after this week, I am entirely too excited about this

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 18/07/2026

Listen, I'm not a safe space for gay men who put "NO WOMEN, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED" in their bios. I'll block you. It crosses the line into misogyny for me, and I'm not trying to collect followers who will hate to see me be my best self on the gender front. ✌️

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

I thought my eyes looked pretty this morning

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

Me: Oh man, I can't wait to get home and play Pathfinder. It feels so good to unplug and just be a simpler version of myself for a bit. The looming question of whether or not I'm a pup: ...hey, so,

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 03/07/2026

Anyone else having issues with Bluesky not loading pictures, or is my Internet being dumb?

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 29/06/2026

Listen, I'm not saying I manifested this, but I DID tell my friends that I would randomly break into Elle Woods's monologue about how Chutney killed her dad when I went in for j*ry d*ty earlier if it seemed like they'd pick me, and the jurors were excused shortly thereafter. I'm just saying.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 29/06/2026

I would like to know what witchcraft Buc-ee's performs to attract the hottest dads every single time I visit

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

For real, though... I just really fucking love making out

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

No boy kisses for me today, unfortunately. Anyone wanna help me fix that?

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 27/06/2026

Fingers crossed I get to kiss a boy today 🤞 (Tragically I will have to put on pants tho 😔)

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

The more I work, the less I'm joking about offering to be someone's Pool They

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

Can't sleep tonight. Belly rubs please? 🥺👉👈

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 25/07/2025

Deciding to bring back the NGL! ngl.link/holisticcub9... Ask away! 😘

A screenshot from the NGL app that says, "Send me anonymous messages!"

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 13/06/2026

So there's a small Pride nearby with lots of queer businesses and local drag queens. Do I want to: A.) go in Bear Mode (cutoff, jorts, mildly suggestive baseball cap) B.) go in Femme Mode (skirt, button up tied at the waist) C.) stay home, where the air conditioning lives, and play Kingdom Hearts

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 09/06/2026

I am in such a mood to flirt and make out with a lil cutie today

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 01/06/2026

Gotta say, the feeling of waking up feeling lonely and then getting to spend an afternoon with good friends and making new connections with people I've wanted to get to know for a while, all while ogling hot bears? That shit SLAPS

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 28/05/2026

Me: Yeah, sure, there's a lot of stress right now, but I think I'm handling it relatively well? Also me: Anyway they're changing the Carousel of Progress and why am I crying about it

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Aster 💫 @pageofrings.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

friends don’t let friends tag porn as Graphic Media 🌠

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

So like, mayyyybeeeeee I was a little pent up

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 15/05/2026

Inside of me are two wolves. One of them is so excited I have my first gym membership. The other is pissed.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 07/05/2026

I had a consult for surgery the other day. Part of the prep work that's been assigned is for me to lose about 30 pounds. I won't lie to you, folks, I'm Displeased™️ about losing my belly, lmao. It's part of what makes me feel like I give off what softie vibes I do, which is important gender-wise.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 05/05/2026

Genuinely need a regular fwb but the benefit is just cuddling naked

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 03/05/2026

Gay powers restored? Or something? Eh? Just couldn't find a happy place with the long beard this time. It's time for a break, methinks.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 01/05/2026

I've gotten a couple variations of this question and I have hesitated to answer them because it feels like the "right" answer is to just name a kink. However, YOU came to MY house, so buckle up, lmao. Presented in a three-step process:

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

hey so what the fuck Hi, everyone! I'm incredibly flattered, lol! (I'm bout to end up on SO MANY "keep porn away from me" lists today, lmao)

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

Took this for a very good pup yesterday. Decided to upgrade it to a Bluesky post. 😘

Me with my hands behind my head so you can see my hairy armpits.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

God, nothing hits better than a realization that you've been measuring your inherent worth according to others' insecurities/toxicities and you don't have to do that anymore, followed immediately by a soak in the bath. The way tension just melted outta me. 🫠

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

Good morning! I need a beardy cutie to come cuddle and make out. Who's coming?

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 04/04/2026

Not sure what bear needs to hear this, but if my sphere over the last 3 or so years is an accurate sampling, it's a lot of you: You're allowed to like your body right now, how you currently are, without ever changing anything about it. Including if you're fat.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 24/03/2026

I have gray chest hairs now. (Zoom in just above my finger.) V sure I'm gonna be thoroughly salt and pepper within the next 10 years and when it happens, it's over for you bitches.

A photo of my chest. I'm pulling down my gray tank top so you can see a few gray chest hairs. You can see the bottom of my lightly graying beard at the top of the picture.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 22/03/2026

Huh, I've never had a sex dream about someone from Bluesky before. That's new.

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

Kinda need to cuddle with someone who didn't wear deodorant today 👉👈👉👈🥺

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alex 🐻 (they/them) @holistic-cub.bsky.social · 12/03/2026

My toxic trait is that if you're a daddy and you flirt with me, I implode.

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