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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Six weeks of strap-on guides, and the honest summary: it's two objects, one conversation, and a lot of lube. Everything else is preference. Ten guides, free and unshamed. → g-silicone.com/pages/strap-... All written by @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Godemiche's complete guide to strap-on sex and choosing a body-safe silicone dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Lap dance: you sit, they straddle you and lower themselves down. They run the whole thing. Depth, speed, when to stop, when absolutely not to stop. Add a hand and nobody's finishing alone. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the lap dance seated strap-on sex position

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Butterfly: they're on their back, you kneel or stand between their legs. The access one. Their whole front is free for hands and mouth while you're still in it. Legs on your shoulders optional. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the butterfly strap-on sex position

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Reverse scoop: fronts together, face to face, lying down. Kissing, eye contact, both hands free, and the guide reckons it hits the G-spot and the clit at once. The intimate one. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the reverse scoop face-to-face strap-on sex position

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Spooning is the lazy one, and that's a compliment. Both on your sides, nobody holding themselves up. Made for slow morning sex when you're warm and neither of you wants to untangle. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the spooning strap-on sex position

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Reverse cowperson: same setup, facing away. Sounds like a small change. It isn't. Completely different angle, and the guide flags it for the G-spot. Also the view. Let's not pretend. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the reverse cowperson strap-on sex position

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Cowperson: they straddle you and take over. They set the depth, they set the pace, and you lie there contributing almost nothing while getting the best view in the house. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the cowperson strap-on sex position with the receiver on top

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Doggy is the depth one. Best angle for the A-spot, which sits deeper than fingers comfortably reach. Also the usual pick for anal, and it leaves a hand free for whatever else you're into. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the doggy style strap-on sex position

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Missionary with a strap-on. A classic for a reason. Skin to skin the whole way, and you get their face doing the thing it does. Also the hardest work of the eight for whoever's on top. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Diagram of the missionary strap-on sex position

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

Strap-on sex can be intense. It should not be painful. Pain is information, not a hurdle to clear. Stop. More lube. Change position. Or come back another night. Pushing through earns you nothing. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Strap-on safety: lube, hygiene, materials and avoiding injury

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Right. The practical bit. Eight strap-on positions, one a day from Monday, each with a diagram so you can see what goes where. Doggy for depth. Cowperson for control. Spooning for the lazy. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

The best positions for strap-on sex, with diagrams

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Most useful thing to know about strap-on sex: the toy has no nerves in it. The person wearing it can't directly feel what's happening inside you. They're half flying blind. Say it out loud. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Strapless strap-ons look like the effortless option. They are not. Your kegels hold it in, you can't feel what the far end is up to, and "hands-free" is doing a lot of work there. Brilliant. Just not first. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

Lube, in one post. Water-based with silicone toys, always. Oil-based can irritate. Silicone lube plus a silicone toy is a bad marriage. The anus doesn't self-lubricate, so go heavier than feels sensible. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

Once upon a midnight grind… Throbbing at the chamber door… Quoth the Grinder: Forevermore 🖤

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

Aim for a yes in that conversation and you've lost the room. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than pressure. "What does that mean to you?" is your new best friend. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

How to talk to your partner about trying a strap-on

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

Underrated bit of strap-on sex: plenty of tops say the toy stops feeling like an object and starts feeling like part of them. Which is why "what do you get out of it?" is the wrong question. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Busting the biggest myths about strap-on sex

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Texture hits differently when you're the one moving. You're grinding, not thrusting, so Jordan's shaft detail builds slowly and keeps making itself felt on every rise back up. Your hips, your pace, your call. g-silicone.com/products/jor...

Close-up of the Jordan rideable dildo shaft, showing the subtle realistic vein texture along its length

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

18.4%. That's how many women in a 1,055-person survey said intercourse alone was enough to make them come. So the other 81.6% have been quietly improvising. Hands, toys, angles. It all counts. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

The anatomy of pleasure, why strap-on sex feels good

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Some toys are busy. Ribs, nubs, a whole texture shouting for attention. Ambit isn't. Tapered tip, firm head, and a curve that finds the same spot every time you sink. One good angle will ruin you for the rest. g-silicone.com/products/amb...

Close-up of the Ambit rideable dildo tip and head, showing the tapered point and the curve of the shaft

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

The famous "8,000 nerve endings" clitoris stat came from cows. In humans it's over 10,000. Most of it is internal too, up to 4.25 inches sitting behind everything you can see. Angle matters. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

Best thing about a rideable? Both hands free for whatever else takes your fancy. Jordan straps down and stays put, so you're not steering with your wrist. You ride with your hips. Extra soft, soft or medium. g-silicone.com/products/jor...

Jordan realistic rideable silicone dildo, full product shot showing the realistic head, textured shaft and strap-down base

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

Saturday reminder: strap-on sex doesn't have to involve penetration at all. Grinding against one. Being teased with it. Wearing one just to see how you feel in the mirror. No "right way" to get off. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Strap-on sex 101, a beginner's guide from Godemiche

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

Riding isn't thrusting. It's slower, deeper, and all of it is yours. How far you go, how hard you grind, how long you hover before you drop. Strap the base down and let your hips get greedy. Solo or partnered. g-silicone.com/products/amb...

The Ambit rideable dildo flat strap-down base, showing how the toy anchors to a surface

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

To the men reading this at 3am with the brightness down: Wanting to get pegged doesn't make you gay, and it doesn't make you less of a man. You're curious. That's it. → g-silicone.com/blogs/advice... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

Pegging and masculinity, a guide for men who feel nervous about trying it

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

Realistic isn't a look, it's a feeling, and most of it lives in the ridge. Jordan slides in narrow, flares into a defined head, then widens. Going down is easy. It's the slow lift back over that ridge that makes you swear. g-silicone.com/products/jor...

Close-up of the Jordan rideable dildo realistic head, showing the defined ridge where the head meets the shaft

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

A strap-on isn't one thing you buy. It's two: a dildo and a harness, plus a few choices that make it yours. That's the barrier to entry everyone's been standing outside of. No shame, no jargon. → g-silicone.com/pages/strap-... via @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

Suction cups are a lie. Nobody ever came hard while chasing one down a shower wall. Ambit straps down. Chair, cushion, thigh. Climb on, take it at your pace, and use both hands for something better. g-silicone.com/products/amb...

Ambit rideable strap-down silicone dildo, full product shot showing the curved shaft and flat strap-down base

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

Jordan starts fairly straight for easy positioning, then curves hard near the top, so it delivers focused internal pressure exactly where you want it, no overthinking the angle. Hyper-realistic detail, harness-ready. Shop → g-silicone.com/products/jordan-realistic-curved-strap-on-silicone-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

Meet the swell. Hugo's shaft builds to a thick bulge that stretches you, eases off, then builds again with every stroke. That shift in pressure IS the point: girth, zero wasted length. Handmade body-safe silicone, 3 firmnesses. Shop → g-silicone.com/products/hugo-girthy-realistic-silicone-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 26/07/2026

If you want targeted G-spot or prostate contact on a slim, easy-to-control shaft, handmade, body-safe, and great for a first curved toy, then you want Morpheus Thin. Precision over girth, every time. From £39.99 → g-silicone.com/products/morpheus-thin-curved-g-spot-prostate-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 24/07/2026

That signature curve, now with real weight behind it. The bulbous head presses into your G-spot or prostate while the thicker shaft fills you at the same time. Precision and fullness together, and still steered by nothing more than a small shift of angle.

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

Soft when you squeeze it, structured when you use it. The soft outer layer gives like skin while the firm core keeps that deep stretch coming through the swell. It's about as close as silicone gets to the real thing, and you'll notice it most once things get moving.

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 23/07/2026

Ambit's tapered tip slides in easy, then swells into a rounded head that presses right where you want it. As you move, the curved shaft sweeps the head upward: G-spot or prostate, no fiddly angling. From £34.99 → g-silicone.com/products/ambit-curved-gspot-pegging-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

If you want a dildo that stretches, that's handmade to order, and that's 100% body-safe silicone, then you want Hugo. Girth-led, swell-heavy, none of the unnecessary length. Built for anyone who likes to feel properly full. Shop → g-silicone.com/products/hugo-girthy-realistic-silicone-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

If you want hyper-realistic detail, a curve that actually targets, and a harness-ready base, in your choice of three firmnesses and three sizes, then you want Jordan. Just as happy solo as it is in a strap-on. Shop → g-silicone.com/products/jordan-realistic-curved-strap-on-silicone-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

Morpheus Thick is the same spot-finding curve, now with a fuller shaft behind it. The oval head targets the G-spot or prostate while the girth brings real fullness. Flared, anal-safe, harness-ready. From £39.99 → g-silicone.com/products/morpheus-thick-curved-silicone-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 20/07/2026

If you want a smooth curved toy for G-spot play, prostate massage or pegging: pressure over texture, body-safe and handmade, then you want Ambit. Nearly 300 five-star reviews; base upgrades for suction, vibe or Vac-U-Lock. From £34.99 → g-silicone.com/products/ambit-curved-gspot-pegging-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 19/07/2026

Dee keeps it real: a circumcised design with an exposed head that changes the sensation as it moves, a light upward curve that focuses pressure, and detailed testicles for a natural, secure grip. Realism, none of the fuss. Shop → g-silicone.com/products/dee-realistic-curved-silicone-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 16/07/2026

You kept asking for girth. Not a little more: the proper full, stretching kind you actually feel. Trouble is, most thick toys pile on length you never asked for. So we built Hugo around the swell instead: fullness first, depth optional. For people who know exactly what they like.

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

Smooth and natural, with gentle shape changes you notice most once things are moving. The defined head creates a soft shift in pressure as it passes, while the light upward curve does the aiming for you. Predictable, easy to control, and reassuringly body-like.

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

Morpheus Thin was designed around one thing: precision. We paired a genuine curve with a slim shaft so the bulbous head presses exactly where it counts, G-spot or prostate, and you steer the whole sensation with the tiniest shift of angle. Proof you don't need girth to hit the spot.

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

Same swell. Softer skin. Hugo Dual Density keeps all of Hugo's girth but wraps a firm inner core in a soft outer layer, so it holds its shape while feeling far more skin-like in the hand and during use. Girth with realism → g-silicone.com/products/hugo-dual-density-girth-realistic-silicone-dildo

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

Ambit was built around one idea: reliable contact from shape, not texture. We shaped a smooth, rounded head and a carefully balanced curve that naturally sweeps upward as you move, so it finds the spot, stays there, and stays easy to enjoy from start to finish. 299 reviews agree.

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

Jordan started with the shape. We've always loved designs that break away from straight and predictable. That deliberate bend near the top changes how the whole thing feels: a focused kind of pressure a straight shaft simply can't give you. Realistic to look at, intentional to use.

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 08/07/2026

First I make it wet. Then I make it mine. Watch the lube run down every inch of Jordan, that curve hits exactly where I need it, the wand drives deep and I grind until I feel all of it. 💦 g-silicone.com/collections/...

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

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Godemiche @godemiche.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

The Grind Pad. Strap it down. Grind at your own pace. Hands completely free. Pressure where you want it for as long as you want it. Up to 50% off today only. 24 hours GMT: g-silicone.com/collections/...

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