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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 18/07/2026

In my FL inbox from someone who broke our group's 'No personal ads' rule LOLOLOLOL *sigh*

Screenshot of text that reads: "I was just timed out from this group due to “personal ads” what about my post was a personal ad? I’m simply looking for useful subs within my city."

Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 10/06/2026

Did you know that the amazing @omisspearl.bsky.social is doing regular in-depth femdom book reviews on her blog? She recently reviewed my Domme Chronicles book of erotic stories, and oh my heart ❤️ I'm still glowing from it Go read it Then read all the others :) www.omisspearl.com/nonfiction/d...

Image shows a book cover showing a naked man's upper torso from the back, his head is bowed and he is wearing a metal ring around his neck. A woman's face is partially visible, cheek to cheek with him, as if she might be whispering in his ear. Her hand is behind his head, cradling him towards her. The title is Domme Chronicles. Subtitle is Erotic tales of love, passion, & domination, by Sharyn Ferns

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 26/04/2026

My new reaction pic: Eternal screaming :D

Image shows my cute little white and tan doggo (Eesha) looking to the side with her mouth wide open as if she's screaming

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 12/04/2026

Anyway, here's Eesha looking adorable with her new soon-to-be-destroyed stuffie <3

Photo of a very cute white and tan foxy-whippet mix pupper on a grey dog bed looking up at the camera. In front of the dog bed is a pristine silly-looking blue fluffy toy that looks like an alien

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 05/04/2026

Motivational poster for y'all: Whatever it is, you can do it: I BELIEVE IN YOU! :)

Photo-image of the back of a person in a red hoodie & dark pants who is balancing on a smallish possibly unstable rock on top of a mountain peak that they appear to have successfully climbed.

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

This innocent little baby had to be muzzled and have 3 vet techs holding her while they tried to trim her nails because she was determined to kill them all They told me she has to be sedated next time Honestly, I think they made the whole thing up because LOOK AT THIS TINY CUTIE PIE

Photo of a small white and tan dog with a fluffy toy between her paws looking quizzically up at the camera

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 02/02/2026

LOL Just checked a dominant woman's fetlife profile to get context for an odd post These screenshots show excerpts from her 2024 pinned journal entry vs her latest 2025 journal entry immediately underneath Got me some serious whiplash over here 🤣

Screenshot of two portions of 2024 pinned journal entry. Text reads:
It's embarrassing to even be here......
grouped with all of these lazy, uneducated, weak 'women' who claim to be dommes.
I don't know what these failures are thinking- or doing- other than taking advantage of the internet as yet another way to take someone's money

Screenshot of two portions of 2025 journal entry by the same person. Text reads:
Heading in large red font: Cash Is Love 2025
my services of being AMAZING, deserve a tribute

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 02/02/2026

Timeline cleanser My adorable little Eesha at the beach, discovering for the very first time that waves aren't, in fact, scary-evil, but Big Fun 🥰

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 10/01/2026

Inquiring minds clearly aren't obsessively following my posts :P All done (on schedule and everything!) Well, except for the splashback: I still need to choose a tile for that :)

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 14/12/2025

Day 13: The quartzite is in! The vein-matching is A+ despite the stonemason having to change my cutting plan It's very striking & I'm a bit shaky about it tbh Every time I see it I'm all 'woah!' I've delayed the backsplash: I needed to live with it for a bit before making that decision #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 12/12/2025

Kitchen reno day 10 (forgot to post) Cabinets finished :) Today is day 13 & the stone is being installed Right Now #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

New Australian law about minimum age for all social media platforms has just gone live Age-restricted: -Facebook -Instagram -Kick -Reddit -Snapchat -Threads -TikTok -Twitch -Twitter -YouTube Bsky isn't even on the list, but here we are :/ WHAT COULD GO WRONG?!

Screenshots of notification on Bluesky. It reads:
The laws in your location require you to verify you're an adult to access certain features. Tap to learn more
Age Assurance
Due to laws in your region, certain features on Bluesky are currently restricted until you're able to verify you're an adult. Age assurance only takes a few minutes.
There is a blue button that reads 'Verify now'

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 05/12/2025

Kitchen reno day 4 I love that my cabinet maker leaves the space clean & tidy before he leaves <3 Tomorrow: Stonemason measuring & templating A little break on cabinet work now, a week until the stone is ready #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 05/12/2025

Some FB marketplace sellers are hilarious :D "Tell 'im he's dreaming"

Photo of very old, rusty laundry tub with sink. Text at the top from FB marketplace "Laundry tub $30"

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

Kitchen reno day 2 Yeah, this is a daily thing I'm doing now YOU'RE WELCOME! :) #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 02/12/2025

I'm well into Homelander & could have sworn Orlando Bloom is playing Peter Quinn He's not, it's Rupert Friend But, c'mon!

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 02/12/2025

Kitchen reno day 1 My greatest fear was them finding some Big Issue with the house at this stage (rotten studs, termites, cracked floor, dangerous electrics etc) But nope, full steam ahead :) 🤞 #HouseDomme

Photo of a stripped kitchen, blank walls with electrical cables sticking out, part of the drywall removed, concrete floor visible where the cabinets previously were, cardboard protection on the wooden floor

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 22/11/2025

Kitchen reno starts in a week: Excitiing! Had to choose a new stone after learning that my countertop looks darker than I expect despite all my huge windows Chose this bright linear white: Totally different aesthetic than I planned, but hopefully it'll be awesome 🤞 #HouseDomme

Photo of a recent installation of the same stone as the one I chose. It's an island benchtop with a waterfall edge. The stone is mostly white with many very narrow straight grey veins that run at an angle up the waterfall edge and across the bench. One of the grey veins is wide enough to stand out as a feature

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 08/11/2025

I just DIYed my laundry in a day for $350 Why didn't I do it earlier? Because I wanted to do a *proper* reno (cabinets, tiles, splashback, counter, lights etc) & was doing endless rounds of research for some 'perfect design' I exhaust myself Before & after w bonus Eesha <3 #HouseDomme

Left & right photos of a small laundry from the same angle looking towards an open back door
Left shows stacked washer/dryer with open metal shelving on the left of it with a lot of messy 'stuff' on it
Right shows white cabinets and oak benchtop, a niche under the benchtop for the washer, dryer above it on the counter, with Eesha at the door looking adorable

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

OFC: A problem :/ I got a sample of the cream part of the slab after the deal was done Just as well Turns out it looks great in the light beside my glass doors, but 3 feet away on my benchtop, it's an awful dirty-beige IT DOESN'T EVEN LOOK LIKE THE SAME STONE! WTAF?! Have to start over now :/

Photo of the same piece of stone side by side
On the left is a creamy white coloured stone with some variations in it
On the right is a much darker beige-looking stone with darker variation

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

I know y'all will be very excited to see the kitchen benchtop slab I chose: -Polished Patagonia Creame quartzite I'm obsessed w the distinct stone & crystal in patagonia That pinkish hue is lovely & there are glittery 'gems' along that edge Photos don't do it justice It's stunning <3 #HouseDomme

Photo of a stone slab: 2/3 is cream coloured with random greyish veins and pale pink edges that edge that section. The rest is white crystalline stone with dark grey and gold veins. Overall it has a lot of variation in the two distinct sections

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

Anyway, it was a bit hot here yesterday

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

When you've had chemo & your hair grows back everyone who knows tells you how great it looks Obviously I can't trust any of them But when someone who doesn't know tells me my hair looks great, & adds a comparison to Annie Lennox, well, that's a different story WHY YES THANK YOU VERY MUCH! <3

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 22/10/2025

Eesha went for her first swim (ever?) :) She was on the Long Red Leash of Privilege & saw a seagull bobbing about on the river It took off & she ran in, out of her depth She is NOT a good swimmer, all paws splashing water into her face She didn't freak out, just splashy-swam back So brave 🥰

Photo of a small white pupper at the end of a long red leash walking beside a river

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

For those who asked, this is the Very Much Marble slab: So gorgeous :/

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 15/10/2025

Eesha is a pretty pretty princess 🥰🥰

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 09/10/2025

Went to look at some natural stone slabs, small shop, first time I got to talk to the actual stone guy Mentioned the fabricators my cabinet-maker recommended: They did NOT inspire confidence in handling natural stone when I met w them Him: LOL no [big chat about it] Meanwhile, on reddit :D

Screenshot of reddit discussion header: Need advice from fabbers on my plan to DIY my quartzite

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

I finally, FINALLY, bought, built, and put up a permanent screen on my deck: It's the only side I have neighbours It's timber-look aluminium because I'm a lazy cow and will never, NEVAAAAR, maintain real wood I forgot some screws because REASONS. I'm sure they're not important :P #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

It's available, yes I made the mistake of properly looking around & getting wow'd by so many truly gorgeous natural options I mean, look at this stunning quartzite in a mockup of my new kitchen <3 Give me an engineered stone that looks like this & I'll take it in a heartbeat :)

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

Fully immersed in kitchen reno decisions & redecisions (is SO a word!) The cabinet finishes I finally chose add $4000 to the cost WTAF?! I did a tumeric test on the standard & high-end finishes Guess which is which :D Just saved myself a bunch of money Go me :) #HouseDomme

Photo of two surfaces: the one on the right has a clear yellow stain

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 02/10/2025

I have to make a decision on my kitchen benchtop stone Me before really looking around: Eh, that low spec engineered mineral stone is fine Me now: WHY YES, THAT RIDICULOUSLY EXORBITANT PRICE FOR NATURAL QUARTZITE SEEMS PERFECTLY REASONABLE! #HouseDomme

Close up of greyish engineered mineral stone with white and gold veining

Image of cristallo quartzite, a bright white crystalline base with irregular flowing shapes and small random gold veins

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 18/09/2025

Thinking about this external back door so I have more light in the laundry Brain: Yeah but it's GLASS, that's so risky!! Really bad idea Me: Oh. Good point, brain ... ... Wait...I already have huge floor to ceiling glass deck doors! HOW COME YOU'VE NEVER FUCKING WORRIED ABOUT THAT, BRAIN?! Brain: 🤷🤷

Image of a door with a large internal glass panel

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 18/09/2025

I'm shortlisting potential kitchen benchtop stone before I go to a showroom I want bright white with flowing veins, hints of gold The website product pics: Ooh, so pretty!! The sample: WTAF is this hideous thing?! Every. Single. Time LOL #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 17/09/2025

Sanded & primed interior of the door & all the trim: Looks fine for shit DIY :) Also primed the inside of the back door & trim which had also been subject to Eskie's wrath #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 14/09/2025

Ah, fuck it. I just filled it If I can sand, refill, resand & get a subpar 'Yeah it's shit but nobody will notice' result, it will save lot of bother :P Crap DIY FTW! #HouseDomme

Photo of Eege of door & trim with obvious damage & rough-as-guts white timber filler all over it

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 14/09/2025

I was optimistically going to just fill & paint it, but decided it's too far gone My very-much-loved little Eskie 💔 had Trauma & Separation Anxiety & he had a really good go at it :/ #HouseDomme

Image showing the edge of a door and trim chewed up and scratched

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 13/09/2025

Today I let Eesha out to play w her 3(!) pupper friends (she refused to come when called last time I did this) I kept calling her before she got out of sight: She was a Very Good Girl every time🥰 I took them into my fenced yard & kept calling her to me there also Certified Good Girl :) #DommeLife

Image of a yard with ferns and trees in the background
In the foreground, Eesha, a white and tan foxie cross, and Max, a brown puppy, are running towards the camera

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 18/08/2025

Eesha has suddenly started using the ear-standing-up muscle in one of her ears at nearly 2 years old It's so fucking cute I can't stand it ❤️❤️ #DommeLife

Photo of Eesha, my adorable 2yo whit & tan foxie cross laying by the window. She is looking straight at the camera. Her right ear is pointing straight up, her left ear is floppy. Cute as fuck

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

Got my new shower screen installed Installer: Woah, your dog's been busy in here! Me: I'm not sure I know what you mean :P (it's been raining: she gets a ton of stuff to destroy when she's trapped inside :)) #HouseDomme

Photo of Eesha, a small white & tan very cute doggo, looking up at the camera. Around & behind her is the remnants of many many chewed up things

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

My hair has grown enough since my last chemo that I had to snip it where it was starting to stick out over my ears :P I'm now boldly going out with my silver buzz cut Another 2 months and I might have to *gasp* get a haircut! :) #DommeLife

Photo of Iris Law with a white-blond buzz cut

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

The 2 switches I replaced 2d ago are perfect The 3 switches I replaced today are functionally upside down (i.e. on-off are the wrong way around) I meticulously wired like-for-like, w photos, & labelled which side is up Cool cool :P Looks pretty tho': Before/after #HouseDomme

Two photos of a 3 button light switch. Left is a slightly yellow switch with rounded corners. Right is a white switch with sharp square corners

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 20/07/2025

Just saw this and I'm preeeetttyy sure you didn't enjoy your Saturday :( I hope the depression isn't sticking around Sending lots of positive thoughts And here's Eesha letting you know she will share her new toy if that will help

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

Please enjoy Eesha playing with the little terrier next door I let her run around off-leash in the unfenced yard with her new friend for the first time (no road here, just other yards and bushland) Kisses! Zoomies! To my utter shock & delight she came racing back to me every time I called her <3 <3

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 15/07/2025

In the last week, I prepped, primed, & painted 6 (SIX!) large wardrobes which were 'previously-white-but-now-yellowed' glossy oilpaint colour SO SATISFYING :) A before and after to show why (plus a glimpse of my bedroom styling project: The mirror was covered bec it freaked Eskie out) #HouseDomme

On the left, a photo of the edge of a white comforter with pink flowers & green leaves on a bed. Past the bed is a three-sliding-door built-in wardrobe. The left and right doors are a light yellow-beige. The middle door is covered with a sheer curtain
On the right is an image from the same angle. The light yellow-beige doors are white. The middle door is uncovered, it's mirrored. In the mirror is a bed with a white textured bedspread with different sized white pillows, and a sage green throw over the end. Above the bedhead are three wooden-framed pictures with green foliage (eucalyptus leaves)

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 30/06/2025

This is the design (before/after) (details in alt text) I like it, but guess how much? -No new appliances -No plumbing/electrical moves -No layout changes So demo, then new cabinets, new countertop, new splashback, no fancy inner cabinet fittings Go on, guess ... ... ... $40,000 LOL #HouseDomme

Side by side before/after pictures of U shaped kitchen:
Left is 80s off-white cabinets with silver handles, beige backsplash, brown laminate countertop & brown trim
Right is white upper cabinets & pantry, a glimpse of lower wooden cabinets, no handles, a white slightly patterned stone countertop with waterfall edge & seating overhang, wooden front, and a pale green glass backsplash

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 28/06/2025

I did, in fact, make it fit and it didn't fall apart :) Anyway, if anyone wants any DIY tips, the answer is always 'smash it with a hammer' You're welcome :) #HouseDomme

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 28/06/2025

The NOT social media version :P I WILL MAKE IT FIT! #HouseDomme

Corner of screen where I hammered & forced & siliconed looks a fucking mess

Holding the screen vertically shows it's all askew

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Ferns @fernss.bsky.social · 28/06/2025

Tahh daah! This is the social media version Don't zoom in I SAID DON'T! :D #HouseDomme

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