hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 23hGreat news! Horace has gained weight since his previous vet appointments and he's looking healthier for real and not just in my hopeful imagination. Will get test results later today or tomorrow to confirm but I am so relieved. Stress levels immediately down by like 15%. 020
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 04/10/2026I did it. I got the outside Halloween decorations up at the beginning of October. Now I just need to get some mums for the planters. 🎃👻💀🕷️ 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 30/09/2026These hydrangeas we planted two years ago bloomed this unexpected bright magenta-y purple this year. Some of them are darker, almost like a red wine color. I swear they were a much paler pink last year, but I'm into it. I hope they get huge and cover the whole back section of the yard. 🤞 011
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 25/09/2026Got an idea that would just mean bumping up the timeline on my plans (totally doable) and would take about a day to set up (& free, since I already pay for it.) Driving to VT after work and will be back late tomorrow night. Want to have a call on Sunday to talk about it? 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 25/09/2026I have some thoughts but don't wanna be the unsolicited suggestions friend. 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 17/09/2026Oops! The part where the handsome black and tan tabby so obviously misses me, his beloved housemate, seems to have been left out of the alt text. :p 032
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 16/09/2026Yes! BBC NL is the only channel that isn't news we can watch/listen to while cleaning out my uncle's house. I keep confusing the characters because they were suspects in the previous show I hadn't realized had ended. So many are set on islands. So many plots involve cults. 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 13/09/2026Hazelnut in Dutch is hazelnoot and I think that is the cutest and would be a great name for a pet. 000
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 13/09/2026No wonder my uncle had so many sets of cups and saucers and teapots. So many visitors. Oh! And we successfully re-homed all of his plants. No orchids neglected on our watch. 010
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 13/09/2026Today I hung out on a cool houseboat my uncle's friend built himself. We had homemade jam and mocktails with syrup from their blackberry harvest. (Zo lekker!) Then coffee with other friends at the now mostly empty house. It's been good to chill after so much organizing and cleaning. 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 11/09/2026I drove my uncle's car with its Dutch display text and strange icons and even weirder controls to get lunch and go to the hardware and grocery stores and we survived. 🥇🏆💪 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 10/09/2026The ladies are even closer today. I love when they do little hop-skips in excitement over arriving at the grass they couldn't reach the day before. 011
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 07/09/2026Everyone speaks so cruelly of the distraught onion man tasked with holding his brethren as they await the chopping block. But his sorrow speaks to me. 030
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 07/09/2026Approx four million gorgeous teapots in my uncle's home and this wretched thing was his daily driver. (He did use the cool ones for company, at least.) New rule: Use your nice things yourself. 010
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 06/09/2026Holy shit there are thousands of books in the little apartment next to the garage. In a dozen languages, about languages, the history of languages, learning Dutch, German, English, Spanish, Japanese... and I'm not through a quarter of them. What do I do with them all? 010
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 06/09/2026Was awake for over 24 hours and tried to reset by staying up until this time zone's normal bedtime for, like, kids at least, but then was thwarted by the world's loudest mosquito three hours ago. It is 6am. The mosquito is tireless and insatiable and has my respect. 010
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 05/09/2026Two decades of capturing Beaver the cat's best angles. These are my faves so far because he developed/printed them himself. 120
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 05/09/2026I'm helping my mom clean & pack up my Uncle Fred's house in the Netherlands. I'm gonna make a thread of things that make me smile even though this is rough. First up: photos. There are thousands of photos & slides from decades of travels and good times. 130
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 28/08/2026Also it takes up so much less space than Windows. Boots so fast! 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 28/08/2026I don't have a Framework laptop but I wiped an older model Dell that and installed Linux Mint and there's not really anything I need to do anymore that I can't do on it with open source applications. Mint is probably the friendliest distro for new folks. I dig it. 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 26/08/2026They seem to understand that the power lines are an everyone problem. I think the disease killing all the trees is too. Having my trees treated but not the neighbors on all sides would be pointless. This needs to be a community effort before they weaken and fall on houses _and_ power lines. 020
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 26/08/2026My city contracted a service to trim the trees encroaching on power lines. Yes, sure, do that without destroying them, thank you. But can we also bring in an arborist to do something about the blight that has spread across the local trees and caused a premature Autumn leaf fall in August? 120
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 14/08/2026Look at these cool lino prints. 👁️ Can you guess which one called to me the loudest? AND And and there's a book about folklore? Yesssss 061
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 14/08/2026Yooo this is so good!! I knew it would be and you know I love being correct! 🙏 193
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 03/08/2026I've not kept a gratitude journal but if I did it would be mostly "very glad the bathrooms have regular doors." 020
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 25/07/2026Horace investigating the cool new nightlight less than a minute after I plugged it in is a delight I didn't anticipate. Excellent. 010
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 23/07/2026Yoooo good job me. 😺 hankgreen.com/smush · Jul 23 764 pts · PERFECT 💯 · 5-day streak 🥞🥞🥞 🥞⭐🥞 🥞🥞🥞hankgreen.comSmushA daily word game. Each letter gets 5 uses. Except the gold one, which is always required. 000
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 21/07/2026100% understand. I had to move here for work and, well. Several notes. It is very 🌲green🌲 and scenic at least. I still find myself going "oh damn" when I drive around a bend into a postcard. 100
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 20/07/2026We are Garfieldin' ahead of schedule on a Sunday night. 020
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 10/07/2026For real. Have you had those enormous autumn crisp grapes? 010
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 02/07/2026Was digging in the fridge for a moment and turned back around to find Horace on the counter chomping on my freshly washed rapini as bold as can be. An unrepentant broccoli rabber! 042
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 01/07/2026I'll write more myself soon but I liked this memorial post from his opera friends of 30+ years. 000
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 01/07/2026On my uncle: "Since 1995, Fred has been an indispensable part of the Spanga theatre scene; staring dead in a bathtub with a burning cigarette in his hand in Gianni Schicchi, [...], and this summer, no longer as the barber in Der Rosenkavalier. No more Fred in Spanga." www.operaspanga.nl/en/ 101
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 22/06/2026Did that all that just fall through the chimney?! On its own? 100
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 13/06/2026I swear every time you mention anything about your new place it feels like maybe we are kinda neighbors. If we are (!?) then yeah, super chilly and windy spring this year. My farm share was mostly greens and radishes this week. And carrots from overwinter storage. Late start this time. 000
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 10/06/2026How is your writing published? Are we talking blog posts or eBooks? I think I saw a thing like that for pdfs/common eBook formats but I'd need to dig. For blog posts it would depend on your platform. Easier on a diy website to, say, inject code that traps crawlers in a maze of garbage for example. 110
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 08/06/2026My new phone's battery has been good for nearly two days so far on a not-even-full charge. And its still only down to 70%. Amazing. 000
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hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 02/06/2026“Thank you for your suggestion. For more information related to your idea please read the FAQ linked next to the Provide Feedback link you are familiar with.” ~ definitely not me, and most certainly an AI assistant that must’ve picked up the tone of your submission. I’ll make a note. 000
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 30/05/2026I was having a pleasant day and once that thought occurred to me I panicked and have been bracing for the tides to turn. 100
hoodie full of spiders @fatalizm.net · 24/05/2026Horace (left) and Nibbles (right) — named by the shelter. I don’t know how Horace got Horaced but Nibs would delicately pull each kibble from her bowl and drop it on the floor to eat individually. Took forever to finish her meals. Animal Control had named her Stubs but the shelter was kinder. 250