Reposted by EmbersAsher Dearing @asherdearing.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Ghosting is an active severance of communication, either by repeatedly ignoring messages, blocking you or so on. It causes so much harm to another person, more harm than it would ever cause to send a short sentence explaining they want to stop talking before blocking. 011
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 4hThink i should ellaborate more on the kindness point After a long day of work, college, volunteering or spirt, hearing that i did a good job makes me very happy. Or that im a good girl for getting it done. I feel these simple words can go a long way in a CG/little relationship 000
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 9hIve loved reading shine, i shoukd get the first 2 books still if there available. It was my first step of accepting my little side, and the possible challenges we may have. Definitely my favourite comic to date 000
Reposted by EmbersStar @babystar.bsky.social · 10hbewere.net/order.php?s=... Look Look Look. It's finally ready for preorder Shine book 3, with lots of lovely art and random stuff and um things... If you have the other two books you may want this one too, and before Christmas. 726437
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 10hThats it for now, remember to take care of yourself and always listen to your CG.static.klipy.comCute Cat S'more Sandwich AnimationALT: Cute Cat S'more Sandwich Animation 000
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 10h6. Reminding, reminding them to get any work they may have done. And if they're an athlete reminding them to train before doing any little activities (maybe punnish them if they dont do their work or training. 7. Tease/embarrass the little 8. Remind them that your the one in charge. 100
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 10h4. Kindness, being teased is great and all, but hearing that i did a good job today makes me happy. 5. Respect, respecting boundaries is extremely important, along with both participants (especially the little) having a safe word and respecting that. 100
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 10hWhat i expect from care-givers 1. CG asking how my day was. Or other related questions like "what did you have for lunch?, did anything make you laugh today" 2. Checking to see if i brushed my teeth or telling me to go do that. 3. Random out of the blue diaper checks (aslong as im wearing one) 100
Reposted by EmbersAsher Dearing @asherdearing.bsky.social · 13hAs much as I'm pretty much fully a grownup now, I'll always be a crybaby~ Seeing little ones smile, explore themselves more, and gain more confidence in themselves pulls at my heartstrings so much~ [ABDL/kink content only shows/refers to consenting adults without family ties] 141
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 15hForgot tobadd this one but just came to mind. 8. Im alot happier now then ive been all year 020
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 15hThats it for my new weekly post of things ive learnt about my little side this week, not sure how long im going to keep this up for but ill try do this on wednesdays or thursdays. As always, be kind and gentle to yourself and other 🥰 130
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 15h7. Its feels good not having controll of what diaper to wear, as i mentioned earlier not exactly an option fir me right now, but hopefully ill be able to get a few more diapers soon so a CG can decide which i wear. 120
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 15h5. Its nice having to keep a diaper on and do as a CG says, and hopefully once my college sorts out all my bursary stuff ill be able to get a slightly better diaper stash 6. I feel my sexual side to wearing diapers gets stronger with a CG, though this will be tested later... 120
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 15h4. @asherdearing.bsky.social is amazing, and i wanted to say how much i appreciate them, the communities ive been introduced to i wouldve never heard of. The events they've recommended me to go to and i defo plan on going to a few more next year. Maybe possiblu meet mr asher but we'll see. 120
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 15h3. I love how embarrased i can get and how a CG can make me blush like mad, and honestly, would live to be teased a little more since it makes me feel super cute and adorable 120
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 15hThings im learnt about myself this week Im probably going to repeat a few things from a prior pist i did just as a FYI; 1. It feels so much better putting a diaper on for a CG, and having to buy the ones they tell me to 2. The loss of control is actually really nice and helps me feel extra small 130
Reposted by EmbersAsher Dearing @asherdearing.bsky.social · 17hAbsolutely this, what matters is a little is not in control. I wear diapers for fun and convenience, a little wears them because I decided for them. [ABDL/kink content only shows/refers to consenting adults without family ties] 2102
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 13/10/2026Omg, i would love this to happen to me. Just need a CG to hold a vibrator up to the front of the diaper to. 020
Reposted by EmbersJoy and Co. 🏳️⚧️ΘΔ @squeakyholly.bsky.social · 13/10/2026angle practice based on some recent experiences,,,, 315127
Reposted by EmbersMalva.Exe 🔞 @malvaexe.bsky.social · 02/11/2025"Soggy Fever" Cute, and very fun mini-story. Our por little friend was exposed . . (Don't think I've forgotten... Part 3 of 'Yes... Mistress?' is currently in process :3) . . . . . #abdlart #abdlboy #abdlfurry #DiaperArt #diaperboy #diaperfurry 223652
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 13/10/2026Im a cute, good girl who will make a diaper super soggee for a CG 000
Reposted by EmbersFetimation @fetimation.com · 12/10/2026Some smelly fanart of the grossest anime catgirl of all time, God I love this show~ 🤭 [Wet/Leaking] 122020
Reposted by EmbersAsher Dearing @asherdearing.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Stopping messaging isn't ghosting. Ghosting is cutting off contact to the point where if they are trying to message you they can't. If you are the sole person keeping the chat alive, the other person has no right to complain if you stop messaging. 141
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Np mr asherstatic.klipy.comCute Mocha and Milk Bears CuddleALT: Cute Mocha and Milk Bears Cuddle 010
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Im excited to see what the future holds, stay safe and remember to be gentle with yourselfs 🥰🩷 020
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Honestly, i never thought this would happen, and its been a massive help on my mental health as a result. Ive also learnt alot about events i never knew existed. so im excited to go to them to meet new people who are accepting and or part of the #ABDL community. 120
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026I love being smol, in just the past 4 days ive learnt so much more about my little side. And found out that im alot more submissive than i originally thought. I massively appreciate @asherdearing.bsky.social for this. Its nice being completely helpless and made to follow the orders of a CG. 241
Reposted by EmbersAsher Dearing @asherdearing.bsky.social · 11/10/2026So got some rope yesterday to start learning how to tie, one of the things I wanted to try was this diaper shibari idea from @softcollar.bsky.social and @lambydoll.bsky.social. [ABDL/kink content only shows/refers to consenting adults without family ties] 2162
Reposted by EmbersDez (fawn) @diapiedeer.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Don’t be ashamed of your diaper kink Your stickies *belong* in your pampers You’re doing a great job every time you rub them The crinkles are your favorite sound in the world You love diapers 344277
Reposted by EmbersAsher Dearing @asherdearing.bsky.social · 11/10/2026I've written an article on Substack about the plan I have for my content moving forward, but I'll do a TL/DR here too: asherdearing.substack.com/p/moving-for... #abdl 1/3asherdearing.substack.comMoving ForwardI have been thinking about the content I produce online, as well as the CGing I give to people in DMs and hopefully, when I have the space available, what that looks like with regards to babysitting i... 132
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Baby powder smells so nice 🥰, didnt know it was possible to make your own so dats pwetty cool 110
Reposted by EmbersPikacatmon @pikacatmon.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Omg, @tuliphonk.bsky.social has made me goated 002
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026I do want to try and get better though, since it's not a very big deal for me messaging everytime. So it really shouldnt hurt as much as it does. My guess is that it has something to do with my Autism and ADHD. Along with my littke age being pretty young. Sorry for rambling. Any advice is nice 😄 000
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026Im not to sure why it hurts me so much honestly. But i di like it when i message one morning, and the other person messages the next, then repeat. Then both people are putting in equal responsibility with messaging each other. 100
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 11/10/2026I want to know if im just overthinking. It kinda hurts when im the only one to send a message first. For example im always the one saying good morning. It makes me feel like ive been forgotten until i send the message. I guess my main question is, if i stop messaging am i ghosting? Or are they? 100
Reposted by EmbersMiss Mommy Maya 🍼 @crinklemommymaya.bsky.social · 10/10/2026#ABDL Mommy knows how much you love nursing from her boobies, but next time she's changing your diaper, she's got a very special little show and tell lesson planned. You're about to learn what a boobjob is, sweetheart~ Baby's first tittyfuck! Better get the camera ready for this one 🥰 21039
Reposted by EmbersTulip Honk @tuliphonk.bsky.social · 10/10/2026Isn't it better if I don't say anything? 022
Reposted by EmbersAki (commissions Open) @babyakiko.bsky.social · 09/10/2026commission for @BellaDWitch(on X) #BellaAfterDharq 140165
Embers @emberlittle.bsky.social · 09/10/2026I donts know hows to bully, but teasing is definatlee differant to bullying 100
Reposted by EmbersAsher Dearing @asherdearing.bsky.social · 09/10/2026So, @alicethebot.bsky.social thinks that a little bit of teasing is bullying, so I think she should find out what bullying really looks like~ Please comment on all her posts and bully her as much as you can, if you’re not a bully, share this post. Her safeword is “RED LIGHT” and must be respected. 431
Reposted by EmbersMister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 08/10/2026The most healing exchanges between Caretaker and Little are the moments when the Little hugs the Caretaker as thanks for making them feel safe, or the Caretaker snugs and reassures the Little that everything is going to be okay. Not for any specific cause, but because both appreciate the other. 413421
Reposted by EmbersStarlight @onedumbmouse.bsky.social · 08/10/2026partner was playing the cute dress making game and made a dress for the bunny he wears it well indeed, lmao. also cute to wear ones ears up when being fancy~ 6608108