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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 15h

The are plenty of days where I just want to get home from work, get a cute, padded but into my lap, and watch with my chin perched on their shoulder as they draw or play some cozy game, with no interruptions other than the occasional check, change, or sippy cup refill.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Caretaker who decides to break a Little of their smoking habit by giving them a vape built into an adult pacifier, so they can only get a hit by nursing on the pacifier. And then slowly but surely lowering the dose until it's just the paci itself that they're addicted too, grown-up up vices gone.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Thinking of making friends take selfies with their pants tugged down for long distance diaper or training pants checks while they're at work or college or just out and about for the day. After all, can't trust them to decide for themselves if they need a change.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Have you taken the opportunity to contemplate an orb lately? Okay, maybe it's a balloon, but close enough. 📸: @foxyhop.bsky.social

A snow leopard fursuiter wearing a scarf holds a shiny blue balloon in his paws, with an entire wall of balloons behind him.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

It's great for folks who only like the DL side of ABDL that diapers pair so well with other kink play. Latex and rubber? Diapers under and/or on top! Pooltoys? Great for grinding while diapered. Hypnosis? Straight to diapers. Med fet? You'd better believe it's better with diapers. Fursuits? Diapers!

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Every Little(and Middle) should have a cozy spot to help connect with their 'real' age. Maybe it's just a plush pile or a puzzle piece rug, maybe it's a crib or even a whole nursery, but whatever it is, it's your safe place for feeling small. If you've got one, share a pic to inspire others!

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

My favorite Middle aesthetic is pouting tolerance. They're in a stroller(That they obviously don't need!), they have a pacifier(That they obviously don't use, GOSH) clipped to a bandana, and they're looking grumpy but they're not throwing a tantrum(Yet!). Oh, and don't even ask about the diaper bag.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Having trouble getting in touch with your Little side? Try taking a break from your phone. Actively focusing on coloring or puzzles or Legos without grown-up distractions makes it a lot easier, and more fulfilling, to just exist, and helps avoid getting self conscious or reminded of adult life.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Hey look, it's a snep, a sabertooth spottycat, and a chew toy, all hanging out together! So much for that whole food chain thing. 🦷: @frostbitefox.bsky.social 🦌: @tyafterbedtime.bsky.social 📸: @pepper.snowcat.link

The fursuiters, a snow leopard, a sabertoothed spottycat, and a deer, smiling for the camera and generally being cool cats(And a deer).

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

POV: You're looking over my shoulder as I give a lesson on changing a puppy's diaper. Try to pay attention, from powder to wipes to tapes, every part of the process is important! #Babyfurcon #FursuitFriday 🐕: @meko.bsky.social 📸: @powdercrew.pics

An over the shoulder view of a Fursuit of an Anthropomorphic Snow Leopard poised above a fursuit of an Anthropomorphic floppy eared puppy with a pacifier in their mouth. The snow leopard is in the process of changing the puppy's diaper. Yes, they're all obviously adults, but you know how excitable puppies are, and every one of them belongs in diapers. Chances are, if you're reading this, you belong in diapers, too. Yes, that means you.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Wanting to help someone feel Little and wanting to do naughty things with someone can be very separate for me, which is challenging given how many folks into ABDL have diapers and the dynamic around them as a core part of either their identity or sexuality, or both.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

You belong in diapers. Don't bother fussing that you "don't need diapers", that's not what I said. Excuses like "I'm not a baby" or "someone might see" are besides the point entirely. Your butt belongs in thick, snugly taped up diapers and that's all there is to it.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

How you communicate feedback after intimacy is important. Listing the actions you enjoyed is just as valuable as explaining ones that didn't work for you. If you only provide negative feedback, partners may get discouraged, if you only provide positive feedback, partners won't know what to repeat!

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Caretaker Tip: You're going to make mistakes, and that's okay. The first time I changed a diaper, I missed a tape, it happens! Being nervous, or just having a lot still to learn, is fine, and anyone you're babysitting should understand. You'll get better with time, just keep at it!

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Caretaker Tip: One of the most important questions you can ask before babysitting is "What are your limits?", even if sex isn't the goal. There are plenty of ABDL activities that some folks just aren't comfortable with, and that's fine! Strong communication helps everyone have a better experience.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Whose fault is a diaper leak? Most littles I know are happy to blame their babysitter, but your better understand that if you say that, you're surrending your right to choose your own underwear, and opening yourself up to getting checked wherever you are and whatever you're doing.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

Okay, I know most ABDL artists would prefer to hear appreciation for ALL the elements of a finished piece, and do I try to credit all the parts that they did well on. ...but sometimes I just want to be cringe and gush about how goddamned awesome a job they did on the diaper and how great it looks.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

One surprising thing about being a caretaker is the profound impact you can have on others with simple validation and kindness. So many people have hidden any interest in age regression or diapers or anything related. Giving someone their first positive, affirming experience can be life changing.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Work is annoying, ask me TMI Tuesday questions to distract me and I'll answer when I can.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

Been a while since I've posted anything #FursuitFriday, so let's pop into the ol' time machine and remember a moment when I caught a @galefrostbane.bsky.social at FWA 2025. 📸: @foxyhop.bsky.social

Two fursuiters stare off into the middle distance just past the camera. On the left and slightly shorter is Gale, a Sabertooth with blue, black, and purple fur, a pink bandana, and big ol' teefers. On the right is Shadow, a snow leopard wearing a blue scarf around his neck.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Social Media can lead to such weird experiences, like people being super attracted to your character or the slice of you that they see online, when they wouldn't give you a second glance in real life.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

To help distract me from the heat, anyone want to ask me any hot TMI Tuesday questions? Or regular questions, whatever works.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

I'd like to think I've gotten pretty good about creating a calming and reassuring vibe when changing diapers. It can take some of the fun out of it when people don't get as huffy or 'excited' as they used to, but it's pretty nice to help people get used to diapers as a normal part of their life.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

Just thinking about testing people who are in denial about interest in ABDL or babyfurs by getting them to say the word "Diaper" out loud. If they hesitate or blush even a little then we might as well start leading them to the changing table right now.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

Important reminder: Wearing adult diapers doesn't have to be about being babied. Anyone in diapers can still be a Middle or even a Caretaker or Dom, and there's nothing about being diapered that stops you from being a top, either. It's just a (sexy) underwear choice, it doesn't limit your identity.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

Caretaker Tip: Help any Littles you babysit put their favorite plushies in diapers. After all, if their best friend is wearing one, and smells like fresh baby powder, why should a Little be self conscious about being diapered?

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 08/07/2026

I encourage Little and Regression coded activities with friends as a key form of mutual validation. Cartoons, coloring, having a plush nearby are things that kids were bullied or even punished for when they were young. Seeing that you're not alone, that these are okay expressions of self is healing.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

Are we still doing TMITuesday? Well, if so feel free to drop me a question, here or via DM.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

Diapers shouldn't just be about teasing and humiliation. There is every reason to praise someone for wearing diapers and giving them positive reinforcement. "I'm so proud of you for diapering up today." "You did such a good job with those tapes." "That diaper matches your outfit so well!"

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

Even after a long time being inactive on social media, one thing never changes. I only notice my typos after people have seen and reacted to them and there's no hiding my shame.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

Caretaker Tip: Keep track of sources of comfort for when your Little is feeling down or overwhelmed. Swooping in with the right plush to tuck into their arms, song to queue up, or snack to feed them can really turn their whole day around and remind them that they're not facing life's troubles alone.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 05/07/2026

Caretaker Tip: Just because you don't have a changing table doesn't mean you can't improvise some cozy vibes. Behold, the Blanket Fort of Diaper Changing:

A tent like structure composed of blankets and PVC poles over a diaper changing mat, with various changing supplies and a large collection of diapers and training pants of various types laid out around it to create a cozy environment.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 05/07/2026

Them, visiting family: I'm so diaper brained right now but can't wear. Me, "helping": Because you know you belong in diapers. The soft, comforting feeling of your hips being hugged by secure tapes, the rustle of plastic, the familiar, safe bulk...

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 02/07/2026

I know some folks like hypnosis fantasies where hypno can force them to do things they'd never do otherwise, but there also something fun about it only being used to nudge the subject towards a long denied desire, so they can be told "It only worked because YOU wanted this all along."

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 30/06/2026

Last repost: I might call it corruption, but what I really mean is breaking down the inhibitions that were keeping you from living your best, true life. You were always meant to find safety in vulnerability, to embrace your little side, to be in diapers. I'm just unlocking what was always there.

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Sylvia, Mother of Violation @estrogenandspite.bsky.social · 29/06/2026

Yes. This. This is what I mean.

Tumbler post from oldbootbutch

corruption not as in turning you into something you're not, but rather. corruption as in unlocking the person you secretly already are. corruption as in making you admit the things you feel embarrassed or guilty for wanting. corruption as in being the first person to give you those things, and being the person you will remember every time you let yourself want them from now on.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 20/09/2025

After BFC, let me just say thanks to everyone who took the time to say hi and especially to everyone who helped make me feel included. Sadly I didn't really get to attend any of the events I wanted to this year, so I'm sorry to the friends who were running panels, I wish I could have stopped by.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 09/09/2025

So while I've occasionally joked about charging for babysitting services like bedtime stories, changes, all that good stuff, in all honesty the idea is pretty uncomfortable for me. Caretaking is all about the emotional connection for me, and faking that for cash just would not work for me at all.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 08/09/2025

A quick word of advice for folks looking for attention from caretakers: Sometimes you're gonna have to make the first move. I know that's tough and scary, but us Big types can't always tell if folks are interested, so a polite introduction to see if there's maybe mutual interest can be helpful.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 07/09/2025

It's cute how some boys never grow out of blushing during a diaper change any more than they grow out of their diapers. Good thing Mister Shadow is all about making the Littles he babysits comfortable even in these tender moments. 🦊: @kit-stripes.bsky.social 🎨: www.furaffinity.net/user/hokkigai

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 06/09/2025

Once again, the A in ABDL stands for adult, which means accepting that adults like different things. Please don't try to tell people that they "have to" express an interest in this kink or community in the same way you do. It's fine to give people a safe space to explore, but don't force things.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 05/09/2025

Keep your friends close, and your bratty delinquent raccoon friends closer. You can see me demonstrating here with Strut, who managed to behave the whole time I was giving him uppies, at least until I had to put him down again. 🦝: @nite.bsky.social 📸: @smallishwolf.bsky.social #fursuitfriday

One fursuiter, a snow leopard, has picked up a second, a raccoon, in an outdoor environment surrounded by other fursuiters. It's really cute, I promise.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 04/09/2025

Oh yeah I'm gonna be at @babyfurcon.com next week, who am I gonna see there?

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 04/09/2025

Some of the most humbling, and fulfilling, moments I've had as a caretaker have been when people let me know that something I've done or said has helped them experience a Little headspace despite anxiety or self consciousness. Those are huge hurdles for many people and it feels really good to help.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 03/09/2025

Caretaker Tip: Don't be afraid to interrupt your Little's gaming session for a diaper check or change. It's a good reminder of what they're wearing and of their real age even if you let them pay big kid games. Bonus points for loudly announcing what you're doing so any friends on voice know, too.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 03/09/2025

When I first started it in the fandom, I constantly heard that artists were just being bombarded by folks faking friendship for free art, and I resolved to never be that guy, but I think I overcorrected. I feel like I ended up too distant and cautious for years and I probably messed up friendships.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 02/09/2025

"Aww, look how cute you are, kneeling there with your collar, harness, and diaper. Doesn't it feel good to know that I'm holding your leash, telling you what to do, what to think? I thought so. Now then, let's see how well trained our new Service Puppy is after finishing Obedience School."

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 01/09/2025

Now I'm not saying that I tease just because I think huffy pouting is cute, but I'm sure implying it real hard. And hey, just look(or listen), he really is a crinkle butt! 🐺: @iannaxieas.bsky.social 🎨: @applepup.bsky.social

Two anthro characters, a snow leopard and a wolf, are standing side by side. The snow leopard is wearing a hoodie and pants, the wolf is wearing a button up shirt, checker pattern scarf and pants, with the waistband of an adult diaper peeking out. The snow leopard is patting the wolf's butt and saying "Aww what a little crinkle butt" while the wolf pouts and blushes.

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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 31/08/2025

Your excuse for not being in diapers is that you're "not a baby"? What's that got to do with anything? There's plenty of other reasons to be in diapers. They're comforting, they make you feel safe, it makes the babies who do need them feel better, or just simply because I said you belong in diapers.

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