iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

I got a really sweet comment on Bets Bluffs and Boxcars (my hualian fic) the other day where this lovely person was writing a uni report related to Macau and it made them think of the story! As a writer, it’s so cool to hear about things that randomly remind someone about an aspect of your fic

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

everything has a silver lining I guess. Dad was in the hospital this past weekend but he is home and resting now. All the hospital staff were really nice when we were there. I had a pretty brutal call shift yesterday but my med student wrote me a really kind card and nursing were so supportive too.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

🫂🫂🫂 don’t let us sit too long with our thoughts haha

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 22/05/2025

Thank you fren 💗💗🫂🫂 it’s getting a bit better. I am glad I can have some more rest this weekend

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 20/05/2025

life has been so annoying and tiring lately. when someone in the family is sick, it's so stressful. i really really feel for all my sick patients and their caregivers. sickness is hard. im so tired. i have another call shift tomorrow.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 20/05/2025

oh gosh im glad im not the only one that breathing exercises dont do the trick for 🫂 I hope your new therapist does take your feedback into consideration ❤️

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 10/05/2025

Aww Megs 🫂🫂 I definitely don’t feel so kindhearted in the moment 😆

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

For the older generation to be at peace with our decisions would require them to be at peace with their own. That’s why the truly content ones never bother us. And the next time some old bat tries to harangue me again, I’ll feel sorry for her own denial, and then keep on doing what’s right for me.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

Not unless it’s on our own terms. And we are okay with that. Even happy, relieved, and free. But the older generation can’t accept that yet. It breaks their minds—their precariously fragile beliefs. /How can you not yearn for this tiresome, thankless sacrifice that I have spent all my youth on?/

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

So they live their lives believing they are actualized, and brainwashing other young people to think that what they have is the dream. Except many young people don’t want that. We don’t want to commit to someone we aren’t sure about, or raise kids we aren’t ready to devote all our time and love to.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

They should be /happy/ and /fulfilled/ to have a husband, birth a child, raise a family. They keep believing this because what else can their ego accept? That they made the wrong decision? Made a sacrifice that wasn’t worth it?

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

The older I get, the more I believe this is the truth. They themselves were pressured into marrying, sometimes at the cost of their own wishes and aspirations. They were sold this idea that marriage is worth it. Marriage is the most sought after goal, the ultimate source of one’s family’s pride.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

I watched a video once where a very insightful lady shared that the reason why she thinks older women in Asian households get so up in arms over whether you (a younger feminine appearing person) has a bf/husband yet is that they are desperate to justify their own decisions in life.

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Danmei Dreams @danmeidreams.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

I commissioned a skeb-style “sketch” from @chapter56.bsky.social for the blog. I threw out a bunch of potential prompts with no idea what they would choose, and got surprised last night by this gorgeous illustration. I love artists depicting other artists at work. #tgcf #huacheng #xielian

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すぶた @dododobaan.bsky.social · 07/05/2025

殿下が元宵賑わってるなぁ〜て笑顔になれる世界に🙏てなったラジドラ…短編2はいま…どうなってるのじゃ…

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🍁Yuyun🌸 @yunster.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

New babies arrived 💕

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

Win of the day: loading all 4 winter tires into the back of the car all by myself 💪 me a year ago (or at any other point in my life for that matter) would not have thought it possible. Who knew working out would have functional use? /j

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 06/05/2025

but therapists really need to respect their clients if they say this breathing technique is uncomfortable or distressing. (Not about my therapist, but someone I was quite annoyed with recently.)

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 06/05/2025

these types of breathing exercises can be really aggravating and anxiety provoking. It literally does the opposite of calming me down. I get so fixated on the counting and following the rhythm and my chest starts to get tight. I think it’s fine if someone likes it or finds it helpful

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 06/05/2025

Idk if this is an unpopular opinion but I really really dislike grounding breathing exercises (counting the seconds of inhale/exhale, box breathing, etc). Maybe it works for some people but it drives me nuts if a therapist tries to tout it as the be all panacea of mindfulness. For some people,

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 05/05/2025

so I haven’t measured my height since high school, but today fiancee helped measure my height so I could have it for medical stuff…and somehow I’m 4cm taller than I thought I was??? 🤯 (either I grew more in uni or I need a new tape measure)

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 05/05/2025

HE LOOKED GOOD IN THAT DRESS DAMN RIGHT haha I love you guys

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 05/05/2025

I can’t draw this mental image, so I must describe it in excruciating detail so that I can transplant my brainrot onto your brain too.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 05/05/2025

Hua Cheng’s strong yet gracefully dextrous fingers, with black nails that gleam wickedly, tracing with deftness, as though drawing demonic talismans, encircling and flicking at Xie Lian’s dusky areolas, perked and speckled with gooseflesh, quivering where they sit on ripe fleshy pecs.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 05/05/2025

Tops that blush cutely 😌👌

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 01/05/2025

The way that so many of the manhwas I’m following are going on hiatus 😭

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

as an aside, I love when BL actually shows the super muscular characters exercising/going to the gym. It’s not just that having defined abs and biceps for no reason isn’t realistic, it’s that showing the character being so persistent at something that requires dedication is so hot.

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

Been feeling really proud of my work out progress lately. Daily things that used to get me out of breath like going up multiple flights of stairs or lifting heavy things now feel so much easier!! It’s been just over half a year since I started weight training and I’m finally feeling a bit stronk 💪

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

Gosh sending you so many hugs 🫂🫂🫂 moving is such a huge undertaking!!! I hope you and your lovely hubby can have some time to rest a bit soon ❤️ update me more on discord when you have a chance to catch your breath!!

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

Love you too Rebel!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I always love talking to you!!!!!!

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

Thank you!!! I feel so seen and am glad I’m not the only one! I hope you’re doing well and taking care of yourself too amidst your own busy-ness! I defo still look forwards to hearing from you ^^

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

🫂🫂🫂 thank you for always being so loving and supportive!! And yes! Even if I’m not so consistent here, I would love to keep sharing juicy thoughts with you on discord ☺️

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

For sure Megs, I would love to still pop on here sometimes and I love hearing from you too ❤️ thank you for always being so positive and making this a fun space 🥰🫂

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

for reading the things i have written and for your encouragements along the way. I might still pop on here once in a while to check out fandom posts or to share some small thoughts or reactions. i'll still be in touch on discord and DMs too ❤️

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

exercise and eat healthier. this also helps my mental health. this isn't an easy decision, but for my overall health, I'm going to take a pause from writing regularly. im really sorry to everyone who has been following along on my fics. im so so grateful to you

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

turns out I am not superhuman. I love writing and doing creative things so much, but it's hard to balance my time between my job, health, and hobbies. I realized after taking a break from writing that I slept better and could better maintain my

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 21/04/2025

Oh goodness!!! This is so gorgeous!

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Shan Noir 🐈‍⬛🔞 @shan-noir.bsky.social · 17/04/2025

HuaLian Arranged Marriage & Fated Mates pt 2! 6 years later presented as a new young alpha, Hong’er meets his betrothed again! Not once the spark dulled a little and he fell in love for the 2nd time 💕🥹 #TGCF #Hualian #HuaCheng #XieLian #hmong #omegaverse

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leaf ✨🌱 @paxfacere.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

calling all 18+ oubing / bingzha fans! 🪷nezha 2019/2025 fan server with 100+ members 🐉separate channels for sfw, nsfw, and nsfw+ 🪷separate channel for movie spoilers 🐉invite 🔗 in reply!

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E🌸✨ @electricteamd.bsky.social · 17/04/2025

maybe you already know this but I just realized while putting them together that the bottoms of the #oubing hand holding figures make their yin yang symbol and slot together perfectly while they join hands

Top down view of oubing hand holding figures showing that the bottom of each figure makes half of a yin yang symbol that can then slot together.

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