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Ash 💖🖤

@eepy-lamb.bsky.social
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32 year old non-binary pal living in PDX. Software Engineer, EGL and Jfashion enthusiast, TTRPG nerd.

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Andri Óskarsson @andri.dk · 20/05/2026
I miss programming by hand. My day-job is now project-leading something that acts like a know-it-all junior developer on cocaine. Worst part is, that if you look past the obvious security issues it's the most productive I've ever been.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 11/05/2026
Ok starting the coord catch up. This was my Friday coord for #thegreatlace I got to attend the chantilly workshop that day so I wanted to rep the brand with this skirt. 🌸🖤 #egl #eglfashion #tgl #lolita #lolitafashion #gothiclolita #enchantlicenchantilly
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
Ackkkkk I'm so behind on coord posting here again. Like I have 11 coords worn since my last post. 😣 I do want to try and keep up with blusky as a coord archive though so I'll try and slowly catch up, but I don't want to spam...
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chantillyCat (she/they) @chantillycat.bsky.social · 02/04/2026
#thegreatlace 2026 tea party coord :D It felt good to violets and purple-max, as is my true form as an Overseas Purple Lolita. The company is always good at tea parties like this! ˚ʚ[ #lolitafashion #plussizelolita #egl #eglfashion #plussizeegl #jfashion ]ɞ˚
OP posed on a historic indoor balcony in a black/purple/gold violets and tea party themed lolita fashion coord. Their pose here has them holding out their skirtOP in the same lolita fashion coord and location, hands on the railing looking out
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
Late Chicago posting from #thegreatlace! This was my Thursday coord for travel and dinner with friends. Also my only sweet coord for the trip. 😅 #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #lolitafashion #sweetlolita #metamorphosetempsdefille #dreamingheartlemon #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 18/03/2026
Exciting!! 🙌
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 18/03/2026
Leaving early morning tomorrow for #thegreatlace!! So excited to see everyone. ☺️
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 18/03/2026
Another black and red goth coord from earlier this month when I went to Texas for a work event. Got to see me friend and we twinned skirts!! 🥰 #egl #eglfashion #gothiclolita #lolita #lolitafashion #atelierpierrot #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
Tysm!!
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
Last coord update: from the weekend. Was virtual twinning this with a friend! ❤️ #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #gothiclolita #lolitafashion #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
Coord for my first time seeing Ghost live! I also attempted corpse paint for the first time. The show was incredible! 🤩 #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #gothiclolita #lolitafashion #atelierboz #hnaoto #atelierpierrot #corpsepaint #gothfashion #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
Second coord from valentines weekend, for a little get together with some community members. ❤️🧸 #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #babythestarsshinebright #btssb #kumya #usakumya #sweetlolita #lolitafashion #jfashion #valentinesday
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
Valentines Cupid ouji coordinate for tea with my sweetie. ❤️🩸🥀🪽 #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #ouji #oujifashion #aliceandthepirates #hnaoto #jfashion #valentinesday
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
Ooops forgot to post coords to this app again. Small coord dump incoming…
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
Our chickens started laying!! 😍 here’s the first set of eggs I ever collected from them just today! 🐓🥚
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 10/02/2026
Happy birthday!! 🖤
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 07/02/2026
Milky chan coord from the winter lights festival yesterday! ❄️🌈💡 #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #lolitafashion #sweetlolita #angelicpretty #milkychanthefawn #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 05/02/2026
Date night coord from last night. 🩵🩷 #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #lolitafashion #sweetlolita #catsandcherrycake #metamorphosetempsdefille #angelicpretty #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
Alright, I decided real fast I want to do this. Bought a domain name: eepylamb.cloud - coming sometime this year!
eepylamb.cloud
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
Thinking about vibe coding a little website/app to display my EGL wardrobe and organize it a bit better. My google drive has served me well but it would be nice to have something easier to navigate/more presentable.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
I was one of the few who pre-ordered. 😭 I still would buy this dress in a heartbeat.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
We miss you!!! 🖤
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
Tysm!! 😊
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
Today’s coord from a date. ☺️ I got to wear my horn headdress and fairy lace corset skirt for the first time. #egl #eglfashion #lolitafashion #eglcomunity #gothiclolita #gothicfashion #atelierpierrot #angelicpretty #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
This is what happened to me! Not with a dress but a headbow. Someone repeatedly messaged me asking if I was selling it (I had never listed it) and I finally asked them to stop messaging me and then they messaged me again with a ridiculously huge (and honestly unbelievable) offer on it. 😡
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Wait what? I have not heard about this? Were they saying to message people who were selling their dream dresses? Or who had bought it in the past?
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Oh thanks! I have never seen this vid! I have actually sold to a lot of people with 0 feedback and never had issues with them. Idk what it is I've just had terrible luck with rude messages in the last month, all from established users with feedback.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Yeah, people have told me that it has been bad for a while. I think I've just been extremely lucky up until this point. But just this month I've been bombarded with rude and annoying behavior on Lacemarket. 😭
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Someone asked me to ship out of country and with a payment plan when I have the listing set to US ship only. Which is not as bad but like still... 😭 I'd like to sell on my preferred terms.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Does anyone else feel like LaceMarket etiquette is seemingly non-existent these days? Recently had a person repeatedly harassing me over private message asking me to sell something I'm not selling, and people arbitrarily asking me to lower the price on a listings I have offers turned off on...
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 27/01/2026
An extremely good week for gaming. All 3 of my TTRPG games are on. And I've played 3 nights in a row. I don't know how I managed to be in 3 games at once again, but no complaints.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 27/01/2026
Coord from last weekend’s swap meet. I wore my extremely cheap diamond honey dress cause I knew I was going to be sweating a bunch from set up/tear down, but supplemented it with BTSSB. 😆 #egl #lolitafashion #eglcommunity #eglfashion #sweetlolita #babythestarsshinebright #btssb #jfashion
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chantillyCat (she/they) @chantillycat.bsky.social · 27/01/2026
I finished my 2025 Wardrobe Post in time hell yeah 😎 Hopefully no one saw me fumble with which link to send lmao I think I FINALLY figured it out this morning ˚ʚ[ #lolitafashion #egl #eglfashion ]ɞ˚
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2025 Wardrobe Post | Notion
This is not the usual wardrobe post—I’m just gonna stick to neat stats. I find this type of stuff interesting, and I’ve been meaning to sit down in front of my Notion tracker to get some stats/views t...
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 20/01/2026
Tattoo in question. Done by deerbatstats on instagram. It turned out so cute. 🥰 but also so itchy rn lol.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 20/01/2026
Got tattooed yesterday and it’s already so itchy. 😭 Normally it takes a couple days to start being itchy. Please kill me. 🥲
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 19/01/2026
Looking forward to see what you come up with. 😊
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
Yay the jam cookie is looking so cute!! Have you considered doing the heart almost like an ita bag? I think the plastic would give it a shiny jam look, and then people could use it as a ita bag or pin on a different fabric color for different jam flavor to match their coord. 💕
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
I think the jam heart cookie would be really popular!! You could also do a chocolate variation for the chocolate-litas? (See first pic). Also I was thinking for a black cookie an Oreo could be cute. I’ve included some other pics of cookies that I think would be cool to see!
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
Understandable! Personally would just love to see more variety in cookie designs compared to what’s already available from other brands now. But I also appreciate that you’ve used higher quality/more durable materials with your previous releases. :)
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
These look very similar to the swimmer biscuit bag designs. Which I know is super popular right now. But I’d love to see something unique! Have you considered the frosted circus animal cookies? That seems very on brand!! 💕
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 17/01/2026
Coord for lunch today!! 🩵 #egl #eglfashion #eglcommunity #lolitafashion #lolita #sweetlolita #angelicpretty #jfashion
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 17/01/2026
Oh yay!!! Idk if we’ve ever met before but definitely try and say hi in person at the swap. ☺️
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 16/01/2026
Ohhhhhh! Well if it was on a date I'm available I might show up! I'm Portland based and sometimes attend the Seattle meets (I'll be at the upcoming swap). 😀
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 15/01/2026
Oh wait, maybe classic? 😂
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 15/01/2026
What is ECL? Casual Lolita? 🤔 sorry I’ve never heard that acronym used before. 😅
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 14/01/2026
I saw these listed on LM and thought they were cool! I've seen way less Lolita adjacent things be allowed on Lace market, idk. 🤷 Probably people not doing enough research and just blindly reporting...
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 14/01/2026
I feel you. We really are in the worst timeline.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 13/01/2026
Also I personally enjoyed the menial task of small problem solving. Even if not everything I was writing was a bespoke complex algorithm I did get satisfaction from making shit work with my own effort.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 13/01/2026
I am so tired of reviewing AI slop PRs. If I have to review another 2k+ line PR that’s barely been looked at by the person who supposedly wrote it I’m gonna yeet myself out the window. And no one is actually reviewing my PRs manually anymore. I’m not learning from my coworkers.
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Ash 💖🖤 @eepy-lamb.bsky.social · 13/01/2026
I think AI has ruined my enjoyment of software engineering. It does not foster collaboration with coworkers. It is further isolating in an industry that already feels isolating as the standard is work from home.
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