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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

U know, ppl really need to be careful when idealizing revolutionaries because let’s face it…half the time a revolutionary is just someone who wants to take a swing at being the next oppressor

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

Holidays in the middle of the week don’t hit at all 🤦🏿‍♀️

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

A lot of Israelis are conflicted because they feel like having compassion for Palestinians means betraying their ppl…it takes a really big person to have compassion for ppl who they think have wronged them…this is a very complicated issue and once again Hamas isn’t getting enough blame for this 🙄

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

Reclaiming what is meant to shame you is one of the greatest acts of rebellion there is (disclaimer: I do not support cruff and dunce culture but I get it, it’s a response to societal oppression and rejection). open.substack.com/pub/themortl...

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Cruffcore, Trap Dancehall and the Persistence of Jamaica's Marginalised Youth

Note: This essay draws on the work of several Jamaican scholars, including Donna Hope, Carolyn Cooper, Obika Gray, and Deborah A.

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

Mentally drained and I hate myself for wasting my energy 😤

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

Anywho think I need to take a trip down to Giscombe’s for some 20lb dumbbells…when I’m working arms my weight range is 3-15lbs and the 15s were not doing it for me at all 💪🏿

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

So my Guilded Age peeps buss me pon Downton Abbey and I am hooked!!

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

Ppl say women are competitive and while that’s true I also notice a lot of men will dislike another man just because he’s accomplished

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

Funny the other day I saw a post online that said to decenter men u have to decenter the one in ur head, then I saw this…is the universe trying to tell me something? www.girlonline.in/p/kill-the-m...

girlonline.in

how to kill the man inside your head

A feminist's guide to unlearning internalised misogyny.

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

Damn…gotta go buy my nephew one of those ugly ass bags w the shark teeth 🤦🏿‍♀️

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

Sunday corny movie of the day: the oxford year on Netflix…30 mins in and I’ve already identified annoying tropes such as 1. Obnoxious but well meaning attractive American arrives in England 2. Awkward meeting of love interests and a love hate flirtation starts….man I hate these movies 🙄

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

What makes u rate a book as DNF? For me if it doesn’t catch me by the end of the first chapter I’m stopping…naah wait till me reach 100 pages 🤷🏿‍♀️

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

My sister has access to my home security cameras…was doing laundry yesterday and just heard a voice from above say yaah wash tho 😂 🤦🏿‍♀️

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

Can’t wait to finish this book I’m reading…nothing is happening 🙄

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 01/08/2025

Hey a never last year PSOJ did waah tek whe emancipation day?? smdh Yeeeah we haven’t forgotten that….anywho emancipation day y’all!!

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

Truth is, victims don’t speak out because being a victim is shameful…no one wants to feel weak or overpowered…there is a reason victims are blamed and judged sometimes

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

Ppl need to understand the power of the media….the media implies and shapes opinions and actions

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

All I want is one thing….one thing that I want to come to me with ease….me haffi fight fi every damn thing??? 😩

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Kmt left my charger at work…no phone for the rest a d day then 🤦🏿‍♀️

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

U know those types that do nice ppl just to say that they did?? 🙄🙄🙄

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Yeeeeeah I don’t like this person anymore

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

My boss ain’t at work today…ima leave too 🤭

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Everytime I read comments under Gleaner or observer page I realize we need to do something about our education system asap!!!

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Nothing is as good as strong feels….this morning’s workout was awesome 💪🏿

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Never settle or ull live to regret it and take it from me, regret is worse than heartbreak …be patient and hold out for what u want and deserve

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

It’s crazy how many women are laid up with, dating or even married to men who hate women 🤦🏿‍♀️

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Melissa Jo Peltier @melissjpeltier.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

This is why Republicans want to kill it. It makes American kids too smart & empathetic.

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

Hot take: Hamas isn’t being held responsible enough for their role in causing the horrible situation in Gaza…the October 7th attacks was a ploy at getting Palestine it’s independence (which they deserve) but this was a horrible wasy to go about it and clearly they don’t care about their ppl

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

Man say being a politician is a downgrade…then why summuch a unnu a run it dung??? Man Foh 😂 😂

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

Here listening to an R&B playlist while I work and so far I’ve heard 2 happy songs about love and about 6 songs about the heartache that comes with being in love…have relationships always been this distressing? This is a very interesting observation

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

Realizing my memory is getting better these days

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

Now why did I have to manually spin my fan blade for my fan to start?? Look here nuh badda wid it!!

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

If somn isn’t working it just isn’t 🤷🏿‍♀️

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

U know after a while, ppl need to work on their trauma and stop expecting ppl they are in relationships with to bend over backward to appease them 🙄

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

When it comes on to family and money of u can’t give it, they shouldn’t get it…never lend money to family…gonna be tense for no reason 🙄

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

When u look at me u can tell I workout…u can also tell I don’t say no if someone offers me cake either…ppl me eat a piece a chocolate cake over the weekend Issi…wanna go back to the weekend to eat it again! 😋

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

S3 episode 7 of and just like that is showing me that as old as Carrie is, she hasn’t gotten over her toxic view of what a relationship should be…I don’t see her and Duncan working either, Carrie is an almost 60 year old woman that still chases toxic relationships…she still believes relationships

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

U know, sometimes if u follow chatter on the internet it can ruin your day…someone commented on the Idaho 4 murders talking about how one of the guys that got murdered was 6’4 and 250lbs how could he allow that to happen…do y’all know how disorienting it is to be awoken out of deep sleep?? Ppl

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Jon Cooper @joncooper-us.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

Decisions, decisions …

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Emma Lewis @petchary.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

In #Kingston 🇯🇲 Solidarity and support for our Haitian brothers and sisters 🇭🇹

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

Tik tok investigator has become a real profession 😂 yeah I watched all this guy’s videos

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

Ok what Hamas did on that fateful day in October was disgusting…but I’m not seeing a war here, where are the Hamas casualties? All I’m seeing is innocent civilians being terrorized…this is not making sense!

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

I’ve been waiting for this moment since I woke up this morning….bedtime!!!! 😴

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 25/07/2025

There is someone I know who is very colorist…she insists on not procreating with dark skinned men, because she is dead set against having dark skinned children (esp daughters)…I used to judge her for being a self hating colorist, and while I still believe she is wilding, I get it…life is way easier

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Average Barbie 💁🏿‍♀️ @drealnikkim.bsky.social · 25/07/2025

Why extroverts feel like everyone has to be extroverted like them? 🤦🏿‍♀️

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