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Dr. Crystal Dehle

@drcrystalclear.bsky.social
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Psychologist focusing on relational and sex therapy. Here to fight for a better, more inclusive, loving, fair, just world. Lover of science, books, nature, food, and cheese (cheese deserves its own category). Fuck the patriarchy. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇺🇸

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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 31/01/2026
It is just as vile when men support it, excuse it, ignore it, or stay silent about it.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 30/11/2025
I counter your claim with tomato juice
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 19/10/2025
It's ok to play. We never outgrow our interest in toys 😉
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 12/10/2025
Special KKK
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 13/09/2025
I'm Sorry with Andrea Savage
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 13/09/2025
We deserve better care systems.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 10/09/2025
Fix it with universal health care and eliminate the unnecessary insurance middleman that drives up costs and reduces quality of care.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 26/08/2025
This DOES NOT apply to abusive, coercive relationship dynamics.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 26/08/2025
Being able to feel hurt feelings while not getting too attached to your hurt is an important long term relationship skill. That doesn't mean suppressing hurt feelings, it means releasing them and moving forward in connection with your partner more quickly.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 01/07/2025
Or the kink/BDSM community
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 05/06/2025
LFG!
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
Emily Nagoski consulted on this series, and it shows!!!
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
Give it ALL the awards
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 06/04/2025
A beautiful, darkly funny, warm, erotic story of friendship, sex, love, life, death, healing, grief & connection. The portrayal of sexuality is positive, accurate & affirming. The writing is phenomenal, the casting is perfect, and the performances are nuanced & honest & real. I loved it so much.
m.imdb.com
Dying for Sex (TV Mini Series 2025) ⭐ 7.1 | Drama
| TV-MA
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
You cannot appease an abuser. Musk and Trump will continue to flaunt laws, rules, and norms. You must stiffen your spine, do what is right, and for God's sake, learn how to talk to electorate about what is happening or step aside so someone else can message our resistance effectively.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Schumer and Jeffries are weak cowardly leaders who lack the spine to show courage in the face of facism and corruption. They don't have a fucking clue how to communicate about the damage being done to the country, or stand up to resist it. It's time for them to go. #chuckschumer #hakeemjeffries
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 08/03/2025
www.tealandorangereport.com/p/billionair...
tealandorangereport.com
BILLIONAIRES: The Symptom And Cause Of America’s Decay
They’re the ultimate manifestation of a deeper sickness. And worse - they’re spreading it like a disease.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 07/02/2025
The cruelty is the policy
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Heather Cox Richardson (TDPR) @hcrichardson.bsky.social · 05/02/2025
February 4, 2025:
open.substack.com
February 4, 2025
Shortly after 1:00 this morning, Vittoria Elliott, Dhruv Mehrotra, Leah Feiger, and Tim Marchman of Wired reported that, according to three of their sources, “[a] 25-year-old engineer named Marko Elez...
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 01/02/2025
Project 2025 in full swing.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 28/01/2025
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 28/01/2025
Act now. This is a power grab that will undermine democracy.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 28/01/2025
Call your members of Congress and demand action.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
When will voters understand that political division and extreme partisianship are covers that allow billionaires to continue hoarding all the resources, wealth,& power while everyone else fights each other over bullshit culture wars. You are being ripped off by oligarchs that don't care about you.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
These actions will gut research and damage public health and health care.
open.substack.com
Trump Dismantles Healthcare in Real-Time
Science is on hold, and women are bound to suffer
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
Stop taking the good ones from us. There are so many other options.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 18/01/2025
With thousands of women (mostly queer women) at Brandi Carlile's Girls Just Wanna Weekend 6 music festival in Mexico.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 07/01/2025
"Under his eye"
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 05/01/2025
The Body Keeps The Score is problematic in a variety of ways. There are evidence-based interventions for trauma (and this is not it), and survivors deserve the best care available.
motherjones.com
What the most famous book about trauma gets wrong
People kept telling me to read "The Body Keeps the Score." I was shocked at what it actually says.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 04/01/2025
He keeps finding new ways to be terrible. #ElonMusk
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 01/01/2025
Great advice from Justin Lehmiller! Make 2025 more pleasurable!
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 28/12/2024
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 25/12/2024
I love this version so much.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
The entire season is fucking inspired!! GIVE THEM ALL THE AWARDS!
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 24/12/2024
Add in systemic racism, misogyny, anti-LGBTQ propaganda, and you've got a recipe for harm.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 23/12/2024
As a life-long Dem, I want the party to fucking fight like we mean it! Moving even more to the center is a trap (we're already basically former moderate Rs). Be direct, forceful, & clear: unfettered capitalism and corporate greed are to blame for nearly everything that is wrong with the US.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 13/12/2024
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
Cultivating responsive desire involves learning about the factors that facilitate sexual interest, as well as the factors that inhibit/shut down sexual interest. An AASECT certified sex therapist can help you create a personalized map of ways to better access your interest in being sexual.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
If you've been with your intimate partner for a long time, it's totally normal for sexual desire to shift from something spontaneous to something more responsive. Learning to cultivate responsive desire in your relationship can contribute to more satisfying sexual intimacy (& it can be hot AF 🔥🔥) 🧵
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
I'm visiting my mother in law in Marshfield, WI. She and her retired women friends are active, committed supporters of the Democrats, and she just told me about meeting you!
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/feature...
hsph.harvard.edu
Gender-affirming surgeries rarely performed on transgender youth
A new Harvard Chan School study found little to no utilization of gender-affirming surgeries by transgender and gender-diverse minors in the U.S.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
Don't believe the lies about gender affirming care. The WPATH standards outline clear and evidence-based guidelines for intervention. You can read them for yourself. Minors rarely get surgical intervention, and the detransition rate is extremely low. Gender affirming care saves lives. #lgbtqsky
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
I'm not here to sell anything. But this is a great way to share accurate, useful info about relationships and sexuality. #psychscisky
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 01/12/2024
👋👋👋
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 28/11/2024
Woodstock committing cannabirdism 😄
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 28/11/2024
Get a trusted friend to join you. It will help you see it through.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 25/11/2024
Does it seem wrong to anyone else that Woodstock eats turkey at the end of the Charlie Brown Thanksgiving Special? Isn't that cannabirdism? #Thanksgiving
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
But I want to know more about this kickboxing thing. I hear it's the sport of the future.
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Dr. Crystal Dehle @drcrystalclear.bsky.social · 21/11/2024
It's sexual violence, not sexual misconduct. Stop minimizing violence against women (and girls).
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