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Mariani

@donepretending.bsky.social
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Late-diagnosed (48yr) neurodivergent. Fascinated by ‘unmasking’, the intersection of neurodivergence with generational trauma, and the double empathy problem (also fungi, geopolitics, etymology, puns, photography & PC strategy games) #autistic #adhd

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Katie Mack @astrokatie.com · 25/01/2026
A reminder to the news media: “conflicting accounts” is what you say BEFORE the incontrovertible video evidence appears. After that, your job is to ask why one side is lying, not to repeat the lie and pretend no one knows the truth.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
I feel the same way. Finding out more is compulsive but also calming / satisfying.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
Nice! (unlike the other ICE). First time I’ve seen it. Beautiful, but extremely delicate.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
Thanks for confirming. Was exciting to find, first time I’ve seen it.
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MeteoSchweiz @meteoschweiz.ch · 28/11/2025
Grosses #Haareis​​ im Sihlwald: Verantwortlich für die schönen Frisuren ist das Zusammenspiel von feuchtem Totholz und frostiger Luft. Mehr dazu: www.meteoschweiz.admin.ch/wetter/we… Fotos: @danivumalvier.bsky.social​
Foto von Haareis, welches aus einem moosbedeckten Ast wächst.Foto von Haareis, welches aus einem moosbedeckten Ast wächst.Foto von Haareis, welches aus einem moosbedeckten Ast wächst.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
I found something similar, although not sure they are also exidiopsis effusa. Take a look, same thing or something else? bsky.app/profile/done...
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
The forest was mainly birch and pine.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
Found these beauties on a frosty early morning walk. Has been very damp and cold recently. Extremely delicate. Possibly hair ice / Exidiopsis effusa? Any other ideas? #fungifriends
White, hair-like fungi. Possibly Exidiopsis effusa, more commonly known as har ice. Forms rarely in very specific, damp and freezing conditions. White, hair-like fungi. Possibly Exidiopsis effusa, more commonly known as har ice. Forms rarely in very specific, damp and freezing conditions. White, hair-like fungi. Possibly Exidiopsis effusa, more commonly known as har ice. Forms rarely in very specific, damp and freezing conditions. White, hair-like fungi. Possibly Exidiopsis effusa, more commonly known as har ice. Forms rarely in very specific, damp and freezing conditions.
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Danielle Froom 🏳️‍🌈 @danifroom.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
The fact that the regime is executing citizens in the street and then asking for lists of citizens who voted against them might raise a few alarm bells.
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AndrewRoger @andrewroger.bsky.social · 24/01/2026
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 25/01/2026
Makes a lot of sense. For years I used to beat myself up over all the little things. I developed an almost constant internal monologue of self-criticism. What’s worse, I found myself being just as critical towards others. Learning to stop that, helped me see what I was doing to myself.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 12/10/2025
When what was broken learns its rest, I will look up again And find the stars unchanged, And myself made lighter for the waiting.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 12/10/2025
Still, the stars do not withdraw They burn for all, Even those who cannot lift Their eyes just yet.
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Brett "Solidarity 2026" Banditelli @banditelli.org · 28/09/2025
Hi. It's me. 2 weeks later. This is done. 58 frames over 3 seconds, *50* layers in the final image. WOO. This was a long edit, felt like ACTUAL work so unless I get it again with the actual sunset I doubt I'll be editing more like this. Psyched for the final piece tho! 🪶
Three pelicans diving after sunset, with a sailboat and a tanker in the distance, 2 terns also fly, the pelicans are shown in their dive motion
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
Perhaps I didn’t write that clearly. I wasn’t stating that all narcissists are abusive. However, some are, and in those cases, autistics like me make great targets.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
Graphene has the required properties at a microscopic scale, however, we can’t produce it at the lengths required for it to work in this application.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
I know! Those pesky excuses just keep getting in the way. Maybe if we ignore them they’ll just disappear. After all, it’s what politicians do.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
Building a colony on mars is more feasible
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
And that’s before we have to over engineer it to account for fatigue and environmental degradation: oxidation, UV, thermal cycling, wind loads and impacts etc.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
Even our best macroscopic fibers have a tensile strength short of what’s needed by about an order of magnitude. And it’s even harder in practice - the above assumes they can be made over the entire length with zero flaws.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
If only it was that easy. The tether has to be so thick that it would tear itself apart unless made of an ultra-strong, ultra-light material. The required strength-to-weight ratio is many times higher than any bulk material humanity can currently produce.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
I wonder if ogre meant back then what it means now.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Thanks, interesting. So nothing to do with Hungary. Likely a play on ‘Logres’, (ancient name for England and Wales) and Latin ‘orcus’. Seems first written record of ogre in French predates by about 250 years the Italian orco.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Thank you
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Nations will have no choice but to tax the big companies and redistribute. The alternative is an uprising.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Historically, industrialists like Henry Ford raised worker wages so that workers could afford the cars they built. That era is long gone. Now that the jobs are going too…
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
From the photo, it looks like it doesn’t have gills on the underside (although it’s hard to see clearly). I thought all Amanitas have gills?
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
There’s an old saying: all mushrooms are edible; but you’ll eat the deadly poisonous ones only once.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Please be VERY careful about foraging. Only eating those mushrooms that you 100% ID as being safe to eat. Ask an expert if unsure.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 20/08/2025
Cut off the stem and then place the cap face down on a sheet of paper (ideally half black / half white). Cover it with a glass bowl and leave overnight. You should be able to see any spores on the paper the next day.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Although I’ve heard arguments that it was a blend, with the French supposedly taking the Italian orco and combining it with hongrois in a play on words to derive ogre.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Given ‘ogre’ didn’t show up in the french language until the late 17th century, it’s more likely it was borrowed from the Italian.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Or it was borrowed from ‘orco’ the Italian word (which was derived from Orcus) meaning a man-eating monster or demon
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
That sounds (and the photo looks) very much like Pleated Inkcap (also known as Japanese Parasol).
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Please *don’t* risk eating them in case the ID is wrong, False Parasol is poisonous. Also, some deadly mushrooms have a white spore print.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
The second one is either False Parasol or the real Parasol. Although the stem seems short so likely to be the False Parasol. You can differentiate by taking a spore print - the false parasol has a green spore print and the other has a white one.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
If they’re Japanese Parasol, they don’t last very long. An added clue would be seeing them collapsed the next day or even that evening.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Yup, and some more: awkwardly, awkwardest, awkwardish, awkwardness…
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Hard to say from this angle. Did you get a look underneath - gills, pores, or smooth? Also roughly how big across was the cap? Finally, where did you find it (I can’t tell from the photo) - wood chips, compost, grass, or forest floor? That might help me narrow it down.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Hadn’t even considered that point. It’s a good one.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
Interestingly, xenophobia may not be a constant. There’s evidence to suggest it varies dependent on resource scarcity, threat perception and stability / instability. Could explain why nationalist do so well during challenging periods.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
It’s wonderful! This looks like Old Man of the Woods (Strobilomyces strobilaceus), but I’m unsure. Did you identify it?
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Trail Reverie @trailreverie.bsky.social · 05/08/2025
#fungifriends #fungi #mushroom
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Fungi First @fungifirst.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
The sheer size of this American Abrupt-Bulbed Lepidella (Amanita abrupta) 🤯!!! #mushrooms #fungifriends
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🍂🍄🍎Wintersweet 🍏🍄🍂 @wintersweetbou.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Underneath the destroying angel 🍄 delicate gills and collar shows she's the deadly lady of the forest. #fungifriends #destroyingangel #mushroom
Underside of a destroying angel- pale gills and collar
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
What timeframe did you use for the estimate? I imagine the shorter it was, the greater the energy required to accelerate and then slow the carbon.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
Possibly the most appropriate adjective I can think of in this context.
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Mariani @donepretending.bsky.social · 05/08/2025
Apparently this is also why fish eyes are so round.
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