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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 08/09/2026

Anniversary alert! It’s been five years since I started building this world of mine––big changes are afoot. Now please me by procuring an item off my Throne wishlist. Here’s a snapshot of me getting touched up by the fabulous Patrick Santa Ana during one of my photoshoots. More BTS coming soon.

An Asian femme with long black hair dressed in a black latex gown and matching opera length gloves. They are seated at a round table in a Chinese banquet hall with an array of dishes set in front of them. A makeup artist in a black t-shirt is re-applying the femme's lipstick with a brush.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 27/08/2026

"I am a puddle on the floor. Domina does not dismiss you until she is satisfied and you are entirely broken into pieces..and yet somehow more whole than before." What can I say, I have a way with words. See what all the commotion is about on #NiteFlirt

A full-length mirror selfie of an Asian femme standing in a dungeon. They are wearing a black latex, high slit gown.

A written review underneath five golden stars. The review reads, "I am a puddle on the floor. Domina does not dismiss you until she is satisfied and you are entirely broken into pieces..and yet somehow more whole than before."

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 25/08/2026

Whip-smart or single tail. Which ones more lethal? I have both 🖤

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 24/08/2026

Gibbets are the summer’s sleepsack.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 22/08/2026

Spent a perfect afternoon seeing Tom of Finland and other classic kink imagery with Leather Daddy, @thevillainelle.bsky.social during their visit to LA.

Tom of Finland, 'Tom's Men,' 1970. A framed graphite drawing of a row of men bulging underneath their pants––expect for the central figure who stands naked on a rock. The men have gathered in what appears to be a park.

Namio Harukawa, 'Untitled 09,' 1990. A framed charcoal drawing of a voluptuous woman smothering a shirtless, tied-up man with her crotch against a vertical wood beam. Accents of red speckle the otherwise black-and-white drawing.

Tom of Finland, Untitled (Preparatory Drawing, from Kake vol. 13 - "Sightseeing"), 1973. A framed graphite drawing of three men pleasuring one another. Their bodies contorted on top of each other, as if in a game of Twister.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 17/08/2026

An audio version of my recent Substack—read by yours truly—is now available, replacing the automatic text-to-speech. While I appreciate the accessibility and the voice talent behind the TTS, the two versions are markedly different!

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 02/08/2026

9 months of chastity training. 4,213 total standards to date. I look forward to volume 2 📝

A table of contents listing all the standards completed between March 2025 and July 2026. It is organized into three columns: date, assigned lines, and quantity. The table of contents is inside a plastic sleeve at the front of an open three-ring binder. The submissive who is responsible for all these lines is presenting the binder in their hands. The room they are in is flooded with red light.

A pair of two silver keys in the palm of a slender, elegant hand in front of a submissive kneeling in the middle of round Persian rug. They are wearing a shiny, black form-fitting dress. The room they are in is flooded with red light.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 01/08/2026

Some people want a pair of Louboutin’s Kate or Hot Chick heels. I want their collab with Matières Fécales.

A pair of custom white Louboutin heels, backstage at the Matières Fécales Fall Ready-to-Wear 2025 fashion show.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 29/07/2026

Babes and toys alike, please give me your recs for my Paris trip this fall. Art, food, shopping, and kink suggestions are welcome!

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 25/07/2026

Thank you for the Bordelle, p

A mirror selfie of an Asian femme with long black hair, standing in a dressing room while wearing a red Bordelle set and round, gold metal pasties. The lightbulbs of the vanity mirror frame two sides of the picture.

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Sophie Ladder 🌸 Las Vegas @sophieladder.com · 15/07/2026

THE SPREADSHEET is back online now hosting using Proton (Google took it down) drive.proton.me/urls/Z216J4S...

screenshot of the site restrictions spreadsheet

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 14/07/2026

Serving rubber and restraint 🖤

Two Asian Femmes clad in all black latex. One is wearing a gown with opera length gloves while the other sports a catsuit. They are in a Chinese banquet hall, poised around a round table draped in red. There is an array of food on display, including dimsum, steamed vegetables, and char siu. On top of the table's Lazy Susan is the centerpiece of the feast––a femme submissive hogtied with jute. The submissive is also wearing latex as well as a pair of shiny black, red-bottomed heels.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 14/07/2026

Serving rubber and restraint 🖤

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 12/07/2026

My latest Substack about my travels to TP. HCM and Singapore is now out!

An array of dishes displayed on a round table in a Chinese banquet hall. There is an Asian femme wearing black, opera-length latex gloves peeking from the corner of the image. Superimposed is a text that reads: "S.E.A. Travelogue, Reflections on my time in Saigon and Singapore, plus upcoming plans for Paris, Silver-Tongued Journal, dominaxuan.substack.com".

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 01/07/2026

Got to see Rosalía live last night!! Obsessed with her voice, the staging, Yudania Gómez's conducting, the choreography by (LA)HORDE, the waves of bass blasting from the speakers and through my chest...

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 22/06/2026

Submission and service is often conflated. While they can certainly happen in conjunction with each other, their meanings are not interchangeable.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 13/06/2026

Spent my first night out in LA at an artist lecture by Panteha Abareshi, as part of the One Archives’ current show, NEED ME. A fascinating talk about the un-s*xing and f*tishization of the disabled body for the pleasure/use of the abled bodied onlooker and the ways their work subverts that.

A retractable projector screen sandwiched between a set of gray stairs and a black platform inside a library archive. Projected on the screen is a slide that reads, "Panteha Abareshi: On F*tishization and the Politics of Care; Need Me at the One Archive." The text is superimposed on a rainbow of colors radiating from the center of the slide. Between the artist's first and last name is an illustration of a wheelchair.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 13/06/2026

Officially back in Los Angeles! Expect phone lines on and correspondences answered by next week.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 07/06/2026

My time in SEA is now coming to a close. I'll see you soon LA! More glimpses and insights from my travels are in the works––until then, vicariously enjoy Sài Gòn's cafe scene.

Oshima's in Ho Chi Minh City. It is a tranquil cafe with a stone path in front and lots of surrounding greenery. The building itself features a veranda with a glass covering.

A drink called Amber Meadow––consisting of earl grey tea, orange juice, cinnamon, and honey––on a small round table. The drink is garnished with a small yellow flower.

A mirror selfie of an Asian femme with long black hair, wearing a black tank top and shorts. They are standing in a minimally designed restroom.

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Saint Avery Carter | NYC @saintaverycarter.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

My project, the Black Leatherdyke Calendar still needs your help! Our fundraiser raised $2541, but our goal is 4,000. Please donate if you can and share far & wide! Thank you ❤️🖤💙

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 03/06/2026

Hearing my peers' glowing reviews of The Maids at St. Ann's Warehouse makes my desire to see it even stronger. Hmmm, if only I were whisked off to NYC before its last performance in mid-June. Attentive playthings who've read this story of mine understand how significant this play is to me:

A photograph from the 2014 stage production of The Maids, starring Cate Blanchett and Isabelle Huppert, overlaid by text. The image depicts both actresses in front of a set consisting of a vanity and chair, floral bouquets in glass vases, and a long rack of clothing arranged by color. There is also a video projection upstage. Blanchett, a tall white woman with platinum blonde hair, snarls at her scene partner as she drags her around stage on the train of a red floor length dress. Huppert, a smaller woman with red hair, wears a maid's uniform. The text reads, "A Night at the Theater: A piece of flash fiction on the eve of my birthday in June!"

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 01/06/2026

Guess who's birthday it is 🎂

An Asian femme with long black hair, dressed in a latex gown and matching opera length gloves. They are seated at a round table in a Chinese banquet hall with their chin gently resting on their gloved hand as they look straight towards the camera. Set in front of them is an array of dishes--sliced fruit, barbecue pork, dim sum. Splashes of red, from the tablecloth to the upholstered seat of the femme's chair, accent the room.

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Singapore Professional Dominatrix Goddess Ashley | 華裔調教女王 @goddessashley.bsky.social · 28/05/2026

New travel plans for the rest of the year! 🇨🇳Chengdu: 3 - 10 Jun 🇭🇰Hong Kong: 2 - 6 Jul 🇺🇸SF: July 12 - 19 Jul 🇺🇸SF + LA/Seattle: Sep (TBC) 🇺🇸NYC: Nov (TBC)

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 28/05/2026

Spending my final days abroad in my beloved TP. HCM, just in time for my birthday next week. Wishing for more travel, a leather bullwhip, and patrons for my upcoming photoshoot ideas ♥️

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 28/05/2026

Some of my favorite dates are museum dates! Recently spent an afternoon at the National Gallery Singapore with the incomparable @lucythemistress.bsky.social

Wall decal outside the exhibition, Passion is Volcanic: Desire in Southeast Asian Art.

A selfie of an Asian femme wearing a black woven top and a green satin skirt, taken in a restroom mirror. It appears as if they are in an endless hallway, a visual illusion caused by two mirrors on opposite sides of the room.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 28/05/2026

A belated recap of my time in Singapore 🇸🇬 Thank you to the fellow Dommes –– @goddessashley.bsky.social, @lucythemistress.bsky.social, Mistress Wei, Queen Cynthia, Mistress Suzuran, Ms Lilith, Domina Delilah –– and subs who made my visit so special. I'll be back soon!

The Jewel Changi Airport's indoor waterfall, photographed at a distance. There is a wide walking path leading to the waterfall, with lush tropical greenery flanked on both sides.

A group selfie of five Asian femmes, taken in a mirror in front of a photobooth kiosk. Clockwise, from the top-left is: Domina Xuan, Mistress Suzuran, Mistress Lucy Khan, Miss Wei, and Queen Cynthia. The photo is satisfyingly symmetrical. Two of the five femmes flex their arm muscles while two others carry open umbrellas.

A group photo of four Asian femmes in a playspace. From left to right is: Ms. Lilith, Domina Xuan, Goddess Ashley, and Domina Delilah. All four femmes are decked in leather.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 18/05/2026

Hello Singapore! It’s good to be inside of you this week

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 17/05/2026

I’m currently planning a trip to Europe this October. Should I also make pit stops in Boston and NYC?

A selfie of an Asian Femme seated on an upholstered Mid-Century Modern chair in a minimalist dressing room. The femme is wearing a black lace mini-cocktail dress with their long legs and bare feet exposed.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 03/05/2026

The Domme, the space, the food

A selfie of an Asian femme, taken in front of a washroom mirror. An adorable neon sign of a cat reading the papers on the toilet hangs on the wall behind them.

An interior of a restaurant, it's kitchen visible in the back corner. A large display of natural wine line one of its walls.

A plate of smoked mussels with pan con tomate and salsa peanut, garnished with dill.

A plate of grilled squid with peanut shatta and watercress next to a serving of charred zucchini and snap peas with caesar dressing.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 31/03/2026

Dinner is served w/ @cococeleste.bsky.social 🍽️ Photographer: Lanee Bird Hair and beauty: Patrick Santa Ana Producer: Lenne Chai Production Assistant: Nathan Figueroa

Two Asian Femme Dommes clad in all black latex. One is wearing a catsuit while the other sports a gown with opera length gloves. They are in a Chinese banquet hall, poised around a round table draped in red. There is an array of food on display, including dimsum, steamed vegetables, and char siu. On top of the table's Lazy Susan is the centerpiece of the feast––a femme submissive hogtied with jute. The submissive is also wearing latex as well as a pair of shiny black, red-bottomed heels.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 20/04/2026

Learning about ancient petrified wood from the Chư Đăng Ya volcano

A collection of bowls, vases, and other household goods, all pleasantly arranged on a large, pedestal-like white table at Ohi Ohi Shop. At the center is the display are two medium-sized slabs of petrified wood. Due to high concentrations of calcium, these trunks of wood have turned ash white, with black splotches on their cross sections.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 20/04/2026

My time in TP. HCM is off to a wonderful start

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 14/04/2026

OOTO. I’m now off to Southeast Asia! During these next 1.5 months away, I will be taking a break from scene building and D/s dynamics in order to revamp other aspects of this work—whenever I’m not busy exploring, of course! Back to my regularly scheduled programming in June.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 11/04/2026

See leather, post leather

An Asian femme with lightly tanned skin and black hair clipped neatly in a bun wearing a black leather knee-length jacket, stockings, and heels. In their hand is a black six-foot bullwhip with its end draped on the floor by their feet. They are pictured standing in the distance amidst the brutalist architecture of the Westin Bonaventure Hotel. The femme is surrounded by tall concrete pillars that vault towards a glass ceiling. In front of them is one of several seating pods that line the floor’s circular walkway, each with red leather couches.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 07/04/2026

Always a treat to spend time with the ever captivating @cleoouyang.bsky.social and share what we've each been desiring. Now which dutiful s-b is up to the task of supporting our creative ambitions?

A classic dirty martini and a star anise-infused scotch whiskey on a small white table. In the background is a full bar with light emanating behind a wall of glass blocks.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 31/03/2026

Dinner is served w/ @cococeleste.bsky.social 🍽️ Photographer: Lanee Bird Hair and beauty: Patrick Santa Ana Producer: Lenne Chai Production Assistant: Nathan Figueroa

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Odette Engle @mistressodette.bsky.social · 28/03/2026

Public Amazon Wishlists are now a security risk! Third-party sellers can now access your home address from your wishlist. Do not use unless you have a P O box!

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 28/03/2026

Major announcement: I'll be living in Vietnam for 1.5 months, starting this April! Read all about it on my Substack 💌

A cropped black-and-white photo of three young, female guerilla fighters in Cà Mau, Vietnam. Each gracefully balancing on one leg with their arms outstretched in front and beside them. Superimposed on the image is a text that reads: "Returning to the Motherland, How an upcoming trip to Vietnam became intertwined with the world of BDSM, Silver-Tongued Journal, dominaxuan.substack.com".

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 20/03/2026

I recently switched one of my chastity subs to an online standard writing site that punishes her for every typo. Mess one up, get two more. She meekly reached out to me earlier today to share that her daily requirement of 50 standards had ballooned to 196…

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 13/03/2026

Expect a newsletter with an important announcement soon!

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 13/03/2026

Enjoying a day out with a screening of Pillion and some fragrant hojicha tea~~

The front interior of a minimally designed teahouse. There are shelves of various tea cups behind an elegantly pruned tree.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 17/02/2026

Happy Lunar New Year!!! To my fellow babes: Xuân chúc các bạn một năm dồi dào sức khoẻ, vạn sự như ý, tiền vô như nước nha! Literal translation: Wishing you all a year filled w/ good health; may your wishes come true and may money flow in like water! Translation for the devotees: Make it pour! 🧧💦

An Asian femme with long black hair wearing a sheer strapless basque with garters and seamed stockings. Their left knee is perched on a bondage, CBT chair in the corner of a room beside a fireplace. Two mirrors hang on the surrounding red walls behind them.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 04/02/2026

Just an off-duty Dominant getting a custom latex gown. Thank you to the good girl who made this happen ✨

A selfie of an Asian femme in a bathroom sink mirror. The wallpaper around the mirror is covered with botanical illustrations of carnivorous plants, flowers and reptiles. There is a gallery of mostly photographs featuring latex behind the femme.

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Saint Avery Carter | NYC @saintaverycarter.bsky.social · 02/02/2026

Happy Black History Month to everybody Black! To us: I love us. Thank you to everyone before me who remind me that we will survive & win, despite everything. To everyone else: Read a Black book, support Black immigrants, & thank the Black person you learned from last year, last week, yesterday.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 01/02/2026

Just wrapped up an incredible photoshoot with fellow babe @cococeleste.bsky.social and photographer extraordinaire, Lanee Bird! You'll be cordially invited soon...

A place setting on top of a red tablecloth at a Chinese restaurant. In front of the dinnerware are bundles of jute rope.

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M. Xuan @dominaxuan.com · 28/01/2026

A divine evening with one of my good boys–– Still thinking about this yuzu custard and matcha tart. And with his help, I have officially joined the cattle prod club. Thank you, g! you and I are about to have lots of fun...hehe 2026 is the year of more social dates 🤍

A dimly lit and cozy restaurant in the style of a french bistro.

A slice of yuzu custard tart with a layer of matcha on its surface, plated next to a dollop of vanilla chantilly.

A red cattle prod held in a slender and elegant hand above a wooden table.

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