Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/08/2026I’m approaching my body with curiosity, gentleness, and love. No means no, even when the conversation is with my own body. Trans healthcare should include helping us learn how to live in our bodies, not merely getting us through surgery. 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/08/2026If you’re post-vaginoplasty and struggling with dilation, tightness, discomfort, or just understanding your new anatomy, pelvic floor PT may be worth asking your care team about. I wish I’d had this kind of hands-on education much earlier. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/08/2026Had my first pelvic floor therapy session after vaginoplasty yesterday, and I am so happy and thankful today. 🖤 I learned more about my body in one session than I expected—and came away with so much more confidence, understanding, and hope. #TransHealth #Vaginoplasty #PelvicFloorPT #TransJoy #Trans 120
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/06/2026"To become the new flesh, you must kill the old flesh." #quotesporn #transgender #transhumanism #sciencefuture 010
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/06/2026I think the hardest part of #healing has been processing how to navigate the #sunk-cost sadness. I gave them all I had for 14 years, sure. Instead of #growing together, we grew apart and they took advantage of me without me even realizing. Love is not one-sided. "Well, done with that." 010
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/06/2026My sweetheart made spice cake for me! She actually loves me. #sweetheart #transjoy #healing #aftertrauma 010
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 03/05/2026Falling for #straight girls. Why can't we help ourselves? Listening to her, giving honest heartfelt #advice, and she knows I am open to more but she's not into #women #romantically. So I'm there for her, and #coping through laughing at the situation. #wlw #saphicproblems #stillcaring #friends 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 27/03/2026From the ruins I rise #goth #annebloom #gothmusic #healing #transformation open.spotify.com/track/4jSkrk...open.spotify.comThe Lady in Black 010
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/03/2026I hope you can guard your heart and enjoy what you can 020
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/03/2026I'm currently living in FL, and that sounds like a recipe for a bad time. If, at this point of time, they are planning an Israel trip then they sound like a sketchy group at best. I survived enough religious trauma to spot the hotspot before I fall into it and this looks like one. Maybe just a call? 140
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/03/2026The hurt is still here, but it’s softer now. It feels like a wound that stopped bleeding and is slowly knitting itself together. The feeling underneath the sadness, it's something like #resilience; something like understanding. Maybe that’s the real trade I made in those fourteen years. #Healing 020
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/03/2026Having a moment. Thank you Xana for all the pain in this album that is reflected in me. open.spotify.com/track/7wouO0...open.spotify.comJanuary 000
Reposted by Mina HarknessDragon Cobolt @dragoncobolt.bsky.social · 20/02/2026The thing about fascist morons is this: they are capable of noticing real problems they are utterly incapable of ever, ever, EVER, being CORRECT about them 214030
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13/02/2026If you haven't caught up, I'm sorry, there's still time. You just have to put forth the effort, it isn't forced on #GenX, it isn't curated for #Millenials. Get up, do the work, have fun. I hope this reaches people who need it. These longing videos and sentiments are a #glamourshot, not a #polaroid. 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13/02/2026Yes, we have lost #thirdplaces. Yes there is a little too much surveillance, but we connect so much more now, deeply. We have the selves we wave like a #flag and the selves reserved for those we trust, it's #beautiful, it is #known. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13/02/2026People who took the time, time they didn't have to teach us how to take their place. So now we long for people to do the work for us again. The #holidays don't feel the same. #Socializing takes effort. #Events take planning. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13/02/2026These #80s and #90s #nostalgia videos are something else. "We lost so much". This is some real rose-colored-glasses nostalgia here. I was there. It was shit. It was chaos. It was all held together with popsicle sticks and binders. #IwasThere #life #lookback #childhood #adolescence #growingup 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13/02/2026Find me drifting like a ghost In another world for a while. #reading #books #fantasy #romance 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/02/2026I picked up a bunch of new books on our 'cule date two days ago and let me tell you, I am absorbed! Fantasy, Poetry, Horror, I love the feeling of slipping between worlds. #books #fantasy #reading #joy 010
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/02/2026Rep for an amazing person. I just watched her #interview on #WeNeedToTalk. It was truly #inspiring. #RósaAriannaMcGowan We Need To Talk www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRBv... Kid Bookie - Rose McGowan (feat. Rose McGowan) www.youtube.com/watch?v=ECvt...youtube.comKid Bookie - Rose McGowan (feat. Rose McGowan)YouTube video by Kid Bookie 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 09/02/2026You don’t need #closure from people who never offered clarity. #quote #healing #emotionalabuse Sometimes people believe something is true, because it fits how they want to see you. 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 09/02/2026Moments where I wasn’t necessarily seeing myself directly represented, but I was finding pieces of myself anyway. Through corners of stories that weren’t written with me in mind. It’s a kind of emotional renovation. Taking what exists and shaping it into something that can hold you. 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 09/02/2026It struck something familiar inside me, a recognition of a practice I’ve been doing instinctively for most of my life, long before I ever had language for it. I started thinking about all the characters and narratives I’ve claimed over the years. Either to myself or to my tribe. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 09/02/2026Today I came across a #quote in "It Came From the Closet" that resonated deeply with me. The phrase was “reparative reading,” described as the way marginalized audiences creatively engage with stories that were never meant to sustain them. #queer #quotes #reading #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #pride #books 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 03/02/2026I am strengthening my #goddessera. The #path parts before me. I am light. I am fire. I am passion. I am joy. All the pain, all the disappointment, all the failure, all that I have endured, this is ash that I rise from. It is fuel to build. #phoenix #reborn #pagan #witch #Inanna #Lillith 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 30/01/2026All that was taken from me has been returned. They don't know me or where I am. They don't know of my circle. They wouldn't recognize me on the street. Access to me has been denied. Every lie on their lips burns. 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 30/01/2026It's days like today that remind me of how #thankful I am that all of the fake, low-energy people have been removed from my life. It is #providence. Through #Inanna i have found hopeful joy. Through #Lilith I have found strength and #pride. #returntosender #witch #queer #trans #pagan #thriving 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 28/01/2026"From the ashes i was reborn free. And from the grave i was rebuilt by what broke me!" #motionlessinwhie #goth #industrial #healingtrauma music.youtube.com/watch?v=jola...music.youtube.comMotionless In White - Afraid of the Dark [Official Video]YouTube video by Motionless In White 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 24/01/2026Getting to be me in my full size, stretching to the sky and across the penumbra, leaves me with a vibrancy in my soul that is seen in my eyes and felt in my touch. I #glow. I'm bringing #love. Reach out and glow with me. #inspired #beauty #healing #transjoy #Inanna #Lillith 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 24/01/2026Today, looking at me now in comparison, I am the phoenix. That person is ash, and that ash fueled my becoming. I am thankful for what I learned, and where I am finally, but I am most thankful for finally being able to let go of that character. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 24/01/2026#Loving the #journey. Every once in a while Facebeef shares one of those "hey, remember 10 years ago" things. Today it was a pic of me with a beard. I tried so hard to #gender for my dad. For my partner at the time. I love acting, so it felt good to #perform. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/01/2026I know that they will draw suffering to themselves. I can't say there isn't some satisfaction knowing it, but I'm not going to look for it. They're dead to me and the rot fuels my growth. They've never touched me. They don't know me; could walk past me and never realize. I am a #phoenix #reborn. 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/01/2026And #accepted that death. You cannot step twice into the same river, it's a broad #axiom. I did my best with what I knew and where I was. No lies can disguise that. It is known. #Karma can eat them, I've chosen not to hex unless they give me further reason. That was a discussion in itself. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/01/2026It's sad, but they are responsible for their #choices. I'm leaving them in the #past. Well, some of them. One is a part of my present and #future, it's #beautiful how decay brought life back to an old flame. No more #bindings, no more limiting #energy beating me down. I #grieved their #death. 110
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/01/2026I am continuing to #learn and #grow, blossoming. I hope that I continue to #inspire others. I've always worked for that, though usually by #sacrificing myself. I don't do that much anymore. I've #learned. I'm growing past the #disappointment my #exes left. They did their best with their limits. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/01/2026It's been a minute and my nightly ritual has taken a little longer than I intended. So as I quiet my mind again, let's speak into the #void again. I never thought I would make it this far. I feel blessed. I feel guided. Sometimes my vibration is with #Inanna. Other times it is now with #Lilith. 100
Reposted by Mina HarknessAgedadventure. @agedadventure.bsky.social · 14/01/2026ICE agents terrified of the pushback, as their families, and friends turn against them. As a result, DHS is having trouble getting volunteers to attack innocent citizens. 36850881131
Reposted by Mina Harknessbf haver @gospel-sod.bsky.social · 14/01/2026one of the weirdest things about the current moment is how the national media have to pretend like they don't know what this is about. official government social media accounts are posting about racially cleansing America and they have to pretend like it's not clear who the bad guy is. 10081341683
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/01/2026This was a nice #goodmorning! I totally forgot this #song existed. A very #wakeandbake #90s #music #vibe open.spotify.com/track/09T8so...open.spotify.comSpotify – Web Player 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 04/01/2026#relationships #drama #mood #music #zolita open.spotify.com/track/73uoSk...open.spotify.comSomebody I F*cked Once 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 01/01/2026Happy New Year! And your ex is a piece of shit. Don't text them. You're finally healing. You're better off without them. #relationships #newyear 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 01/01/2026#HappyNewYear! This is the first full year away from the dark cloud that tried to suffocate me. Gods, I can't believe I tolerated so much for so long. I was different then, I didn't like the person I was either, so I grew from the ashes. #Happier, #healthier, #sexier, without you (😍 Ashnikko) 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 23/12/2025If I had just #left them to their own devices instead of wanting to help out of #blindlove, I might have reached this happiness so much sooner. But here I am, finally living the life I should, far from the banal chittering and the misplaced #impotentrage. I'm thankful, and inspired every day. 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 23/12/2025Sometimes I remember shit my useless #exspouses would say. Gods,I was so #desperate to be #loved, so desperate for #kinship. They were SO #BORING! Convinced of their frailty, unaware of their baaaaasiiiic #personality. #toxicEx #relationships #healing #divorce #inspired #goth #pagan #toHexOrNot 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 16/12/2025This is my second holiday with my partner, and my new world. The old world I'm leaving dead behind me, including who I was when I was around them. I don't want to bring her into my future either. #toxicex #divorce #trauma #healing #abuse #gaslighting #pointlesscruelty #poison #transformation 000
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 16/12/2025The winds of my mind and my own hard childhood made me want to protect and nurture. I couldn't just walk away. #relationships are built on poorer things, for sure. But I don't believe they ever #loved me, for long. Not as I know it now. I'm #growing and #blossoming. Hopefully they are too. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 16/12/2025Overall, I needed #help. I was only ever the one #working. I was the only one who could #budget no matter how i tried it explain it to them. I think they wanted to be taken care of, more than anything. Their hard childhood made the idea very appealing. 100
Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 16/12/2025I tried to give them what I thought they wanted. I tried to #communicate effectively. I forgave their #cheating. The person I was is distasteful to me now, which adds to my #judgement of myself. I can see reasons they might make to #justify what I saw as #cruel and #manipulative. 100
