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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

Had my first pelvic floor therapy session after vaginoplasty yesterday, and I am so happy and thankful today. 🖤 I learned more about my body in one session than I expected—and came away with so much more confidence, understanding, and hope. #TransHealth #Vaginoplasty #PelvicFloorPT #TransJoy #Trans

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

I think the hardest part of #healing has been processing how to navigate the #sunk-cost sadness. I gave them all I had for 14 years, sure. Instead of #growing together, we grew apart and they took advantage of me without me even realizing. Love is not one-sided. "Well, done with that."

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/06/2026

My sweetheart made spice cake for me! She actually loves me. #sweetheart #transjoy #healing #aftertrauma

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 03/05/2026

Falling for #straight girls. Why can't we help ourselves? Listening to her, giving honest heartfelt #advice, and she knows I am open to more but she's not into #women #romantically. So I'm there for her, and #coping through laughing at the situation. #wlw #saphicproblems #stillcaring #friends

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/03/2026

The hurt is still here, but it’s softer now. It feels like a wound that stopped bleeding and is slowly knitting itself together. The feeling underneath the sadness, it's something like #resilience; something like understanding. Maybe that’s the real trade I made in those fourteen years. #Healing

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/03/2026

Having a moment. Thank you Xana for all the pain in this album that is reflected in me. open.spotify.com/track/7wouO0...

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January

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Dragon Cobolt @dragoncobolt.bsky.social · 20/02/2026

The thing about fascist morons is this: they are capable of noticing real problems they are utterly incapable of ever, ever, EVER, being CORRECT about them

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

These #80s and #90s #nostalgia videos are something else. "We lost so much". This is some real rose-colored-glasses nostalgia here. I was there. It was shit. It was chaos. It was all held together with popsicle sticks and binders. #IwasThere #life #lookback #childhood #adolescence #growingup

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 13/02/2026

Find me drifting like a ghost In another world for a while. #reading #books #fantasy #romance

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/02/2026

I picked up a bunch of new books on our 'cule date two days ago and let me tell you, I am absorbed! Fantasy, Poetry, Horror, I love the feeling of slipping between worlds. #books #fantasy #reading #joy

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

Rep for an amazing person. I just watched her #interview on #WeNeedToTalk. It was truly #inspiring. #RósaAriannaMcGowan We Need To Talk www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRBv... Kid Bookie - Rose McGowan (feat. Rose McGowan) www.youtube.com/watch?v=ECvt...

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Kid Bookie - Rose McGowan (feat. Rose McGowan)

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

"You'll always be a ___" anchoring bias

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 09/02/2026

You don’t need #closure from people who never offered clarity. #quote #healing #emotionalabuse Sometimes people believe something is true, because it fits how they want to see you.

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 09/02/2026

Today I came across a #quote in "It Came From the Closet" that resonated deeply with me. The phrase was “reparative reading,” described as the way marginalized audiences creatively engage with stories that were never meant to sustain them. #queer #quotes #reading #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #pride #books

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 03/02/2026

I am strengthening my #goddessera. The #path parts before me. I am light. I am fire. I am passion. I am joy. All the pain, all the disappointment, all the failure, all that I have endured, this is ash that I rise from. It is fuel to build. #phoenix #reborn #pagan #witch #Inanna #Lillith

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 30/01/2026

It's days like today that remind me of how #thankful I am that all of the fake, low-energy people have been removed from my life. It is #providence. Through #Inanna i have found hopeful joy. Through #Lilith I have found strength and #pride. #returntosender #witch #queer #trans #pagan #thriving

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 24/01/2026

#Loving the #journey. Every once in a while Facebeef shares one of those "hey, remember 10 years ago" things. Today it was a pic of me with a beard. I tried so hard to #gender for my dad. For my partner at the time. I love acting, so it felt good to #perform.

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/01/2026

It's been a minute and my nightly ritual has taken a little longer than I intended. So as I quiet my mind again, let's speak into the #void again. I never thought I would make it this far. I feel blessed. I feel guided. Sometimes my vibration is with #Inanna. Other times it is now with #Lilith.

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Agedadventure. @agedadventure.bsky.social · 14/01/2026

ICE agents terrified of the pushback, as their families, and friends turn against them. As a result, DHS is having trouble getting volunteers to attack innocent citizens.

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bf haver @gospel-sod.bsky.social · 14/01/2026

one of the weirdest things about the current moment is how the national media have to pretend like they don't know what this is about. official government social media accounts are posting about racially cleansing America and they have to pretend like it's not clear who the bad guy is.

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/01/2026

This was a nice #goodmorning! I totally forgot this #song existed. A very #wakeandbake #90s #music #vibe open.spotify.com/track/09T8so...

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Spotify – Web Player

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 01/01/2026

Happy New Year! And your ex is a piece of shit. Don't text them. You're finally healing. You're better off without them. #relationships #newyear

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 01/01/2026

#HappyNewYear! This is the first full year away from the dark cloud that tried to suffocate me. Gods, I can't believe I tolerated so much for so long. I was different then, I didn't like the person I was either, so I grew from the ashes. #Happier, #healthier, #sexier, without you (😍 Ashnikko)

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 23/12/2025

Sometimes I remember shit my useless #exspouses would say. Gods,I was so #desperate to be #loved, so desperate for #kinship. They were SO #BORING! Convinced of their frailty, unaware of their baaaaasiiiic #personality. #toxicEx #relationships #healing #divorce #inspired #goth #pagan #toHexOrNot

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

You know what, this is where I sometimes #vent as I walk my #healing path. So, I've heard of the problems my #exes have fallen into, and that some are trying to #heal and #grow too. Good. I can look back and wonder what it was like from their #perspective. I made #mistakes and our path was difficult

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 14/12/2025

I'm recovering from top surgery! I'm so happy to be out and about again tonight! Everything went incredibly, I'm so happy! I'll give better updates after a little more recovery. 💕 #update #life #trans #transjoy #transfemme #queer #topsurgery #goth #bestlife

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 08/12/2025

Well folks, I'm 24 hours I'll be out of surgery and full-breasted, like a nice suit? Idk, lol, but I'm not nervous. Promise. Well, maybe just a little bit... But I have an amazing support team. This is going to be amazing! #surgery #hrt #trans #transfemme #transjoy #topsurgery

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 04/12/2025

Fucking mood! #moss #ashnikko ya girl got her blood test back and she's healthy as FUCK! Low BP, great levels, and #topsurgery on mother fucking Monday! #transjoy open.spotify.com/track/0MWkCS...

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Halloweenie V: The Moss King

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 03/12/2025

I've been playing WoW since 2004, I have finally achieved the true endgame: homeownership. Azeroth has granted me a house at last. I’ve fought gods, dragons, and my own subscription lapses, but nothing compares to placing furniture on purpose.🏡✨🗡️ #WorldOfWarcraft #WoWLife #PlayerHousing #WelcomeHome

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 26/11/2025

Florence + The Machine’s Sympathy Magic is weaving into me tonight. That line about no longer trying to be worthy… it hits like a release spell. Letting go, being enough, breathing easier. This song is a whole mood of becoming. ✨🖤 #music #witchy #healing #florence open.spotify.com/track/6ExwNw...

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Sympathy Magic

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 14/11/2025

I have woken up on the day after another revolution of my #life! Yesterday I had such a great #birthday with many #friends, I even went back to St. Pete for it. It was great seeing everyone and being #fun #loving #weirdos together. I #love you all! Here's to another year! youtu.be/E5NaqkM2k6E?...

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DJ Cummerbund - Enter The Sandstorm

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

Happy Halloween 🎃 and Blessed Samhain 🌙

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 29/10/2025

It's wild, being in loving #relationships where partners actually #celebrate your #birthday and express their love. Gods I'm #thankful. Sometimes I look at the #wasted years, but I've recognized that it wasn't #love, it was a #lesson. I have much better #boundaries, silver linings from being used.

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 25/10/2025

They'll never admit what they did, what they said just to hurt you, or how they used you. Let them suffer, wither, and die, away from you. #relationship #healing #Lilith

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

In my #feelings; the death and wasted opportunity, #relationships that kill, I had to let go and turn around. They won't change, I tried so hard. #toxic and #cruel for no benefit, it ended with my #disgust, because the truth was too hard? Whatever, they can rot. open.spotify.com/track/3AI5hg...

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Spotify – Web Player

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 20/10/2025

I just watched #Crush (2022) and it is such a beautiful #love story! It was also wonderful to see #RowanBlanchard get her high school years that I missed when #GirlMeetsWorld ended. I love her acting and #MeganMullally is a #queen! I appreciated the development and friendships, just wonderful.

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 19/10/2025

Today i realized 3 things. A partner wants to grow with you, love brings peace not pain, and our exes were creepy fucking weirdos and we would have left sooner. Helping someone who kills you inside daily isn't worth it. #narcissisticex #abuserecovery #relationships #healing #doingbetter

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 12/10/2025

It's a "fuck that #ex who #drained your #light every chance they had" kind of wake up. So I'll wrap in that #energy and use it as #fuel to #beBetter, to #liveBetter, to #loveBetter! #relationships #healing open.spotify.com/track/1BpV8I...

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Just Like a Pill

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 10/10/2025

Orpheum tonight served! Dead On A Sunday and Bridge City Sinners gave the flavor tonight! They were so good and had the crowd in their hands! #goth #music #DeadOnASunday #BridgeCitySinners #concerts #transjoy

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

Gods I feel so much better! This past weekend was so wonderful that I was inspired to commune with Lilith. So I made an agreement. If I had a dream that night with Ex#3 and it was positive, I would reach out. I even gave a framework for what I would say. I had the dream. #Lilith #dreams #toxicEx

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 04/10/2025

Still buzzing from Absolution Fest Night 2! Dildox burned the room down. Dead Cool had us all enthralled. Dancing Plague was pure chaos and passion. Creux Lies with dark elegance and a cover of “Cuts You Up.”, and Qual brought aggrotech chaos. 🖤 #AbsolutionFest #Goth #Darkwave #CommunionAfterDark

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Just got back from Absolution Fest Night 1 at Crowbar in Tampa. Incredible night, but I fell completely in love with Alice — hypnotic, haunting, and utterly unforgettable. 👑 It is known. #AbsolutionFest #Goth #Darkwave #Crowbar #CommunionAfterDark open.spotify.com/track/4bRfZ9...

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Me and You

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Mina Harkness @deshmiriai.bsky.social · 01/10/2025

Pride is a protest rise of the oppressed pick a side are you peaceful or possessed imitation game operation minced meat algorithm making sure eyes dont see #BambiThug #REDRUM #Pride youtu.be/_tL_nYXO_3I?...

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Bambie Thug - REDRUM

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