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Decolonizing Love

@decolonizing.love
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We educate on how colonialism changed relationships and offer strategies to reclaim decolonized intimacy. www.decolonizing.love www.instagram.com/decolonizing.love www.tiktok.com/@decolonizinglove #FreePalestine 🇵🇸

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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 14/08/2026
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 11/08/2026
The desire for power is a pathological death drive, ultimately oriented toward the cancerous destruction of all life.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 07/08/2026
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 10/03/2026
Real harm should be named but movements lose themselves when carceral punishment replaces proportion, relationship, and real transformative justice.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 19/02/2026
Everyone’s talking about America’s Next Top Model doc but am I the only that's always seen reality TV as cruel to me. It preys on vulnerable working-class people psychologically, by dangling a carrot. Cheap to produce, modern Circus Maximus, the only ones it really empowers are studio heads.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 16/02/2026
I often reflect on the transcontinental Nazism and white supremacy ties of Elon Musk and Peter Thiel. Musk's maternal grandparents were Nazi Party members in Canada who relocated to South Africa for its apartheid system. Thiel, a German whose family did the same, joined them there.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 05/02/2026
Yup, we've been telling you repeatedly: the nuclear family is designed for control. Control of women, control of populations. That's why capitalist governments push it so hard. That's why marriage comes with tax incentives.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 15/12/2025
Heartbreak of the week: learning that Noam Chomsky has vehemently defended Epstein multiple times, including after his convictions, and considered him a good friend. I also learned this week that Chomsky said Antifa was a gift to the right. Don’t learn more about your heroes.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 09/07/2025
Shibari comes from hojojutsu, a martial rope techniques used to restrain and shame prisoners in imperial Japan. These roots include fascist policing. Post-WWII, artists eroticized them as kinbaku. Its origins, like Western BDSM, lie in carceral and colonial control.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 07/07/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 07/07/2025
Surving fascism as a polyamorist
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 27/06/2025
We could have just been like the bonobos but instead we decided to have a cognitive revolution
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 24/06/2025
She backed the Palestinian genocide and before that extended prison slavery. No matter who’s in charge, colonialism means endless hegemony and expansion. Until we dismantle the disease, colonizers will keep colonizing.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 22/06/2025
The West are colonizers and always have been and always will be until the colonialist mindset is uprooted. Gaining independence isn’t enough, because colonialism is a disease that stays long after.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 22/06/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 19/06/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 11/06/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 14/03/2025
They idolize figures like Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, and Martin Luther King Jr., presenting them as the sole models of resistance while conveniently erasing the histories of BIPOC-led armed struggles. Violent fights for liberation were crucial for securing our freedom
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 05/03/2025
Have you ever read anything more poetic?
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 03/03/2025
Tbh Trump causes so much chaos, the Zelensky thing just seems like he’s usual fuckery but indeed narcs also hold grudges
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 26/02/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 23/02/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 22/02/2025
I love how unserious we are about the apocalypse
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 20/02/2025
Except being two spirit that’s me. However I am queer. So just need to learn to fly 🤣
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 19/02/2025
When people show you who they are, believe them. Those who lack the moral backbone to stand against violations of humanity in one realm likely won’t in others. In this endgame, these are the moments that reveal what people are truly made of—whether their actions align with their professed values.
image with quote: Ta-Nehisi Coates in Seattle about the Democratic Party:
"If you can’t stand up against genocide, why should I believe you can stand up for democracy?"
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 17/02/2025
I love how Black women have collectively chosen not to be the world's saviors this time—especially after everyone made it clear they don't bat for us the same. We always survive. Some of y'all though, not sure you know how to. Anyways ciao.
black women watching the world burn while drinking coffee
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 16/02/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 15/02/2025
My first ever workshop at a University was today at the University of Toronto on dismantling the nuclear family. University of Toronto is ranked #1 in Canada and #17 globally. I STARTED at the top! 🏆😏🎉 Going on my American university tour beginning in a few weeks
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 11/02/2025
The dancer who waved the Sudan/ Palestinian Flag during Kendrick Lamar's half time performance is Zül-Qarnain. Here he is explaining why he did it and feelings about aftermath
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 11/02/2025
Before European colonialism, only a small percentage of societies upheld monogamy as the social standard, and those that did—such as Japan and China—were imperialist states. This is no coincidence; monogamy, private property, and hierarchical state formation go hand in hand.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 10/02/2025
Dancers in Black and one is on top a car holding a flag of Palestine and sudan
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 10/02/2025
The dancer who waved the Sudan/Palestinian Flag during Kendrick Lamar's half time performance is Zül-Qarnaįn. He runs a project called Open Book Platform which focuses on truth in media. He was released without charge. His Instagram handles are @openbookplatform and @fff_zulqarnain
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 10/02/2025
Uncle Sam: “Don’t be too Black, Kendrick. We just want you to jigaboo and shuffle.” Kendrick: You picked the right time for the wrong guy. Starts by repping Bloods and Crips, refusing to back down from rapping “not like us” despite Drake’s suit. A dancer holds up a flag for Palestine and Sudan.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 08/02/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 31/01/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 31/01/2025
Because the Roman and Christian churches inflicted epigenetic trauma by wiping out pagan prophets through burning witches, enforcing hierarchy, and brutally torturing European societies for over 1,500 years during the medieval era.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 31/01/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 28/01/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 24/01/2025
This is what they want to bring back Truly mad men
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 22/01/2025
Has any leader of a state ever admitted to rigging the elections before? The mask is off in a unprecedented way and that should terrify you
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 21/01/2025
When one voice controls all the stories, truth bends to serve power, because with absolute control, a single snap can erase reality. Kiss the ring, or vanish.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 12/01/2025
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 10/01/2025
It’s going to be really interesting how LA will be rebuilt considering it’s where the next Olympics will be held and the Trump government will certainly use it to show American might
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 10/01/2025
Until we dismantle colonialism—rooted in the belief that we are separate from the Earth and have the right to violently dominate it, and bend it to our will along with those we deem undesirable for our own gain—this cycle will only intensify. We need to harmonize with nature and each other.
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Decolonizing Love @decolonizing.love · 01/01/2025
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