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Deborah Farmer Kris

@deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social
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All things child development. Author of “Raising Awe-Seekers: How the Science of Wonder Can Help Our Kids Thrive” and a bunch of picture books. Curriculum advisor for PBS KIDS’ “Carl the Collector.” I box, read, embroider, mom, and walk the dog.

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Greater Good Science Center @greatergoodmag.bsky.social · 16/12/2025
Understanding why we help others reveals the balance between emotion, values, and rational thought.💡
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Our Favorite Parenting Books of 2025
Greater Good picks our favorite books to nurture resilience, open-heartedness, awe, play, and empowerment in parents and their children.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 06/11/2025
Coming this Sunday in "The Boston Globe Magazine": my piece on raising humble kids in our confidence-obsessed culture. Because humility isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. www.bostonglobe.com/2025/11/06/m...
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Want to raise intelligent kids? Teach them humility — and this powerful phrase. - The Boston Globe
As someone with nearly two decades of teaching experience, I know speed is not always a sign of mastery.
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Multnomah County Library @multcolib.bsky.social · 03/07/2025
Try You Have Feelings All the Time by @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social‬ if you're looking for "Articulating different feelings (frustration, shy, nervous, etc) for toddler!" #AskALibrarian
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You Have Feelings All the Time — Multnomah County Library
You Have Feelings All the Time — Kris, Deborah Farmer, — "Written from the perspective of a parent speaking to a child, this book helps preschoolers with all the feelings they have by showing them tha...
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Alt National Park Service @altnps.bsky.social · 15/06/2025
We’re closing in on the 3.5% rule! 8.6 million and counting! We’re in awe. Lots of events still happening make sure to be counted. Big towns, small towns you showed up.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 02/06/2025
I found a Calvin and Hobbes strip that is basically the cliff notes to my new book (and yes, cliff notes dates me). parenthood365.substack.com/p/calvin-and...
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Calvin and Hobbes Said It First
My youngest recently made his way through the full Calvin and Hobbes catalogue — all 3151 strips.
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Christopher Pepper (He/Him) @mrpepper.bsky.social · 28/05/2025
Teens need more chances to experience awe. Here’s how to do it By Deborah Farmer Kris www.cnn.com/2025/05/27/h...
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Teens need more chances to experience awe. Here’s how to do it | CNN
The emotion of awe can be powerful for young and old alike. A new book by Deborah Farmer Kris suggests why and how teens should make time for wonder.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 25/05/2025
After 10 picture books, my first book for older humans (aka adults) comes out on Tuesday. 💜 I don't know about you, fellow writers, but those two months leading up to a launch are just . . . . I'm ready for a long summer's nap! #Authors #Writing #Debut #BookBirthday #WriteSky #WriterSky
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 22/05/2025
It officially took three years to write "Raising Awe-Seekers" — but really it took 47 years of living. parenthood365.substack.com/p/what-its-l...
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What It's Like to Birth a Book
A 47-year-journey in ~1000 words
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 20/05/2025
I woke up to I this review of "Raising Awe-Seekers" on Goodreads. 😭 "A luminescent guide to parenting with wide eyes and an open heart—like a hug from science itself. Kris’s book is a beacon of light in the parenting canon, reminding us that wonder isn’t frivolous—it’s foundational." #booksky
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
Gratitude to @mindshift-kqed.bsky.social for running an excerpt of my new book "Raising Awe-Seekers: How the Science of Wonder Helps Our Kids Thrive." #booksky www.kqed.org/mindshift/65...
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How Experiencing Wonder Helps Kids Learn | KQED
Being in awe of something can prime kids for learning new things.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 08/05/2025
I've worked with PBS Kids for a decade. Years before that, I WAS a PBS kids. It's a neighborhood I know well, and it's worth protecting. @pbs.org www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5zZ...
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10 Things You Need to Know About PBS KIDS
YouTube video by Raising Awe-Seekers
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 07/05/2025
I *was* a PBS kids growing up. They say never meet your heroes, but I’ve worked with PBS KIDS for going on 10 years, and I believe in this organization now more than. It's a neighborhood worth protecting. parenthood365.substack.com/p/10-things-...
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10 Things You Need to Know About PBS KIDS
It's a Neighborhood Worth Protecting
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 01/05/2025
My debut parenting book got a starred review in Library Journal! I know I should be above getting excited about a "gold star" -- but I've spent 4 years pouring my heart into this book and this is one of those things that might help it get into more hands. www.libraryjournal.com/review/raisi...
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Raising Awe-Seekers: How the Science of Wonder Helps Our Kids Thrive
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 30/04/2025
Here’s my joyful & unsettling childhood memory about discovering my own power. It's a memory and lesson that arose from hours of unsupervised time in nature. I am so grateful my parents gave me time to be bored. substack.com/home/post/p-...
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A Scientist and a Monster Met at an Ant Hill
Both of them were me
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Anya Kamenetz @anya1anya.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
What a sweet piece. Made me tear up. greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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How Moments in Nature Help Kids Thrive
Helping our kids find awe in the wonder of the natural world is good for them—and for us as parents.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 25/04/2025
Thrilled to have an essay published in the Greater Good Science Center Magazine @greatergoodmag.bsky.social - one of my favorite publications. greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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How Moments in Nature Help Kids Thrive
Helping our kids find awe in the wonder of the natural world is good for them—and for us as parents.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 23/04/2025
It's hard to describe the wonder of the Boston Marathon -- but I tried. parenthood365.substack.com/p/the-marath...
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The Marathon That Moves a City
Boston's race is a ritual of resilience and wonder
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 22/04/2025
I got to talk to Good Day DC about my favorite subjects: Kids & Awe. www.fox5dc.com/video/1627397
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Surprising sources of awe
Child development expert and author Deborah Farmer Kris joined Good Day DC with some surprising sources of awe.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 12/04/2025
Things I stitch when the news keeps me up at night.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
Shout out to school librarians.
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Tressie McMillan Cottom @tressiemcphd.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
The library is the only place that Americans experience the fullness of what it means to remove goods from the market. It pings our consciousness. Hey we could love differently!
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 03/04/2025
In case you need these…
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
I watched the last two hours of @booker.senate.gov's speech with my 11yo last night. A few thoughts on our conversation parenthood365.substack.com/p/retaining-...
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Retaining the Floor
What my kid and I talked about in hour 22 of Senator Booker's speech
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Devin Elle Kurtz @devinellekurtz.bsky.social · 29/03/2025
I love being a human artist and creating something never before seen, out of my mind’s eye. I love making every decision with care. I love trying and failing. I love noticing mistakes and fixing them. I love it all.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 30/03/2025
“There is only one question: How to love this world.” Tonight’s stitch therapy…
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Mary Annaïse Heglar @maryannaise.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
“I insist on being shocked. I am never going to become immune. I think that’s a kind of failure to see so much of it that you die inside. I want to be surprised and shocked every time.” ― Toni Morrison
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
Three years ago this week, I got to interview Jamie Lee Curtis about why she writes books for kids. And she told me a story that lives in my head when I sit down to write. Maybe you need to hear it, too? #kidlit open.substack.com/pub/parentho...
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That Time I Made Jamie Lee Curtis Cry
Because we both know reading to kids is just that awesome
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
“All that I hope to say in books, all that I ever hope to say, is that I love the world.” EB White
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Our emotions and our senses are all wrapped up together. More in this week's episode. www.podbean.com/eas/pb-mr8j9...
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What Does Happiness Smell Like?
Our sensory system and our emotions are deeply intertwined. In this episode, Deborah Farmer Kris draws on her interview with neuroscientist Ethan Kross to talk about how our five senses can strengthen...
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 23/03/2025
“I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve (or save) the world and a desire to enjoy (or savor) the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.” ― E. B. White
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 22/03/2025
I was asked to speak to a district in Houston, *but* it was scheduled during my daughter's first art class at the MFA. So I booked a study room at the Boston Public Library and just finished talking to educators about the science of read aloud. Here's to museums, libraries, books, & teachers!
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 21/03/2025
Stitch therapy: a sense of wonder…
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 20/03/2025
Gah! Look at this adorable bookmark @freespiritbooks.bsky.social made for me to give out at school visits! #kidlit #booksky
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
When I was in colleges, I stayed at an inn in Savannah that smelled exactly like my late grandmother's home in Los Angeles. Sensory memories are mysterious and powerful. parenthood365.substack.com/p/smell-that...
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Smell That? It Might Be the Smell of Happiness
Let's talk about emotions & the five senses
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
Stitch therapy.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
Where are my #embroidery mavens and dabblers? I need more of you in my feed. Thread is therapy and art and politic. #fiberartists #artsky
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
“There’s no person in the whole world like you, and I like you just the way you are” Fred Rogers
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
I loved my convo w/ Ethan Kross, author of "Shift: Managing Your Emotions So They Don't Manage You" -- especially this insight: "So when do we use the emotional regulation tools or step in to help kids use them? 'It’s when the emotion gets too big or lasts too long.' www.kqed.org/mindshift/65...
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Tips for Helping Kids Manage Emotions When They're Intense and Difficult | KQED
Emotions can signal to oneself and others how one needs to be treated. Having some tools at the ready can help kids shift to a calmer state of being.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 16/03/2025
Stitched this up case any of you needed the reminder.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
When you stitch one of your favorite Fred Rogers quotes, it gives you a lot of time to think about it. ❤️
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Stitching with Mary Oliver tonight.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 13/03/2025
Holding room for both wonder and worry. open.substack.com/pub/parentho...
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The Peeper Frogs Are Back
And their chorus marks a day of beginnings and endings
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
Oh hey! The cover of the sixth (and final) book in my board book series is now public. I pinch myself all the time that Jane Massey agreed to illustrate these.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
Stitching Celtic knots is really, really, really delightful.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 10/03/2025
Dog + Rumi + stitch therapy
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
Stitch therapy, Rumi edition.
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
I’m gonna turn this into a stitching and embroidery account. I talk about my professional stuff on all of my other channels. If you like making beautiful things too, follow me, and I will follow you back. That’s the feed i need. #artsky
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 04/03/2025
Stitch therapy, Rumi edition
Stitched purple butterfly with the stitched lettering “you were born with wings. I prefer to crawl through life? Rumi”
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Deborah Farmer Kris @deborahfarmerkris.bsky.social · 03/03/2025
Stitch therapy.
Finished embroidery Circle. Reddish mountains surrounded by a Mandela sunrise.
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