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Daniel C. McGlothlen

@dcmcglothlen.bsky.social
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Queer, post-gender, art collector, pornographer, foodist, progressive, hypnotist, husband, father, grandfather, kink family spokesperson, board gamer, educator, atheist, silly bear. Tacoma. With wabbit & cats. Also find me @visiblerestraint.bsky.social

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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
This video. Queers and women. Yes. Queers and women. ❤️ www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFA1...
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Troye Sivan - She’s the Best (Official Music Video)
YouTube video by TroyeSivanVEVO
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Sleepingirl | חוה שושנה @sleepingirl.info · 31/07/2026
I really, really want to finish Learn Hypnokink. I dont know that it's possible for this year -- there's just so much -- but I feel a lot of pressure to produce a widely-accessible and polished hypnokink 101 guide. I just really want my version of that to exist.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
So. Lady Gaga should play Dusty Springfield. Right? RIGHT?
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
Oh. Now I want to go back into the restaurant business so I can open a restaurant called Lust and Gluttony. Do I have any investors?
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
It's just... Monday night. Can anybody identify it?
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 10/05/2026
Christianists.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 23/04/2026
Hey! I don't cross-post over both my accounts often, but here's one.
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Bucky @buckaroo-who.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
So it is “evening wood” if you pop it before going out for the night? 🤔😝 #fcf #muscledad #dadbod
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
Happy Sunday... youtu.be/sJQiqTZfakQ?...
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Billie Holiday - Fine And Mellow - The Sound of Jazz
YouTube video by jaspersj23
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
Also: New James Blake (“Trying Times”) New Chet Faker (“A Love For Strangers”) New Soft Pink Truth (“Can Such Delightful Times Go On Forever”) New Beck (“Everybody’s Gotta Learn Sometime”) Newish Yellow Ostrich (“Trying”) New Gorillaz (“The Mountain”) Newish Dope Lemon (“Golden Wolf”)
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
So… Pillion. Let’s skip asking ourselves if we see ourselves in it. Let’s talk about it as a piece of filmmaking. Did anybody else think of Georgy Girl when they saw it? Georgy Girl was a fairly weak, ersatz British New Wave film from 1966. Now that I’m looking at Pillion through that lens…
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 16/03/2026
So… The Bride. I can’t believe how POLARIZING this movie is. We fucking LOVED it. The negative reviews I’ve been reading all seem to be missing the point: it’s CAMP. Maggie Gyllenhaal set out to write and direct A FEMINIST REMAKE OF THE BRIDE OF FRANKENSTEIN. What did these idiots EXPECT?
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 08/03/2026
My Black Tie Affair for the night.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 16/01/2026
Today it's been thirty two years since I met my hot, funny, incredibly sweet husband. Poor bastard. I love him so much. It must be super uncomfortable.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 26/12/2025
Boxing Day fit.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 25/12/2025
Happy panettone French toast day to all who celebrate!
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 21/12/2025
Okay. I'm not too proud to admit I've stayed caught up on Heated Rivalry and read all six books. I read the books (devoured them) in less than two days. It's been a pretty good ride. Now I'm making my husband watch it. Poor bastard. #heatedrivalry And yes, E5 pretty much killed me.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 11/12/2025
It's my wabbit's burfday. He doesn't have a BSKY account but that won't stop me from celebrating him here, too! 😍
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 19/10/2025
Selling art at the Seduction Seattle Erotic Art Festival Fundraiser. I love this stuff.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 26/06/2025
Etta James | Misty (Live from 1986) www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ea2... It starts slow. The beginning has a "this is pretty good for a hotel lounge in 1973" vibe. Then at 2:18 she reminds you WHO THE FUCK SHE IS. And the rest of the performance is just a RIDE. Do yourself a favor...
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Etta James - Misty
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 21/06/2025
It was a hard, long battle... But this art we bought in the spring of '24 in Lisboa is finally in our home. It's called "Tirando o Medo do Dancar" ("Taking The Fear Out Of Dance") and we love it so much. Vanessa Paz (Brazil, 2023 | Recycled Ceramic Sculpture with shoe polish and ceramic paint).
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
bsky.app/profile/thet...
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lostinsea88.bsky.social @lostinsea88.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
More recently, @idolbound.bsky.social became the inaugural suspension on my new tripod
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Race Bannon @racebannon.bsky.social · 17/02/2025
At least 3,000 and growing at San Francisco City Hall. #50501 #NotOurKing
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 13/02/2025
9-22-21 bird: "James Blake show at the paramount..."
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
This Visible Restraint person is really into hypnosis.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 12/02/2025
I don't wanna jinx it, but right now the general contractor is saying that in 28 days we should be having the final walk through in our newly remodeled home. I can't believe what has been accomplished in the 40 days since they started this process! 😍
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 11/02/2025
It's not your imagination. I also have this pie hat in black. I love a PIE HAT.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 10/02/2025
😍
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 08/02/2025
8-22-21 bird… oddly, this was on the @visiblerestraint.bsky.social account. Never mind. It belongs here. “Her name is Nancy. And she travels.” I love Nancy SO MUCH.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 07/02/2025
I posted this on the bird on 8-25-21. I stand by it: “The thing about Weaponized Jesus is that it never runs out of ammunition. There's an unlimited supply of stupid (it's a whole farm system of stupid). And the will of the people and institutions that wield that weapon is almost inexhaustible.“
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 06/02/2025
@lostinsea88.bsky.social and I had a really good meal at #ricexbeans last night. We WERE gonna go have a cuddle night with the most three recent eps of Drag Race but we just watched each other RUN OUT OF GAS by the end of our delicious feijoada. #carbloadingmisfires ricexbeansny.com
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Silver 😵‍💫🐶🧠✨ @spacepupsilver.com · 20/01/2025
See it! Name it! Shame it! Fuck Artificial Imagery. It has no place in the world of advertising, in ANY genre, but today I'm going to talk about its use in fetish because its TICKING ME OFF, not just as an artist, but as a fetishist. To see Folsom use it, however casually, has cracked me! (THREAD)
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 08/01/2025
Using this as a diary for a moment: my wabbit and I are on an adventure right now (we're staying in this crazy AirBnB while our house is being gutted and remodeled). I love my life with this man SO MUCH. And I really DO love it when he dances.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 22/12/2024
My boyfriend @salt-n-ginger.bsky.social is taking my husband (who isn't on this platform, which feels like a bridge too far for him) to go see @bendelacreme.bsky.social and @thejinkx.bsky.social in their Holiday Show which none of us have ever seen before! We're SO EXCITED!
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 22/12/2024
Reposting cuz WHY TF NOT?
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 18/12/2024
Queer. Moving, beautiful, thought-provoking, gorgeously shot, perfectly scored, and brilliantly acted. www.youtube.com/watch?v=eknj...
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Queer | Official Trailer HD | A24
YouTube video by A24
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 14/12/2024
Here's a thing that happened: I got suspended from Meta platforms. It was my fault. I'm kinda FINE with it and I'm not sure I'm going to appeal it. I had lots of friends there. A lot of them have moved here. Honestly, Meta was giving me the ick anyway...
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 03/12/2024
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYUJPRbQ/
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Drea @dreawrites.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
The SEAF 2025 Call for Art is open, which means it's PSA time again! I got fancy and actually made images this year. I'm trying to help. I may not always succeed, but I'm trying.
(on a dark pink background with gold speckles) SEAF 2025 Call for Art PSA No. 1: When referring to books, Adult is just another category indicating the age of the audience it was written for, like Young Adult, New Adult, Middle Grade, and so on. It does not automatically mean it’s spicy.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
I've nearly stopped needing there to be an awkward pause before I answer the question, "How are you?"
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 02/12/2024
"Except the penis, of course," he said. "Nobody fully grasps the penis."
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 24/11/2024
5 Authors I've read 5+ books by: Samuel R. Delany Doris Lessing Robertson Davies Umberto Eco Elizabeth David It's really hard to pick. What about Jean Genet, MFK Fisher, Rupert Smith/James Lear, Agatha Christie, Dennis Cooper, Henry James, Jane Austin, Charles Bukowski, and William S Burroughs?
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 23/11/2024
I don't dislike theists out of hand. One of my partners is an ordained minister. I love him so much it would make you uncomfortable. But we have intense and contentious moments. "Debate" is our love language. We are strong enough (him in his faith and me in my atheism) to withstand challenges.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 23/11/2024
Soooo... if I know you in real life (I like to think of it as "meat space") but haven't followed you yet, lemme know who you are and I totally will. Thanks!
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 18/11/2024
This is the "See also" section in the Low Information Voter entry in Wikipedia, which, by the way, probably needs an update. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Low_inf...
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 15/11/2024
What do we think? "Xenohedonophobia"? Fear of unfamiliar pleasures? I think it works. Is there *already* a word for this? OTHER than "wet blanket", I mean?
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 15/11/2024
Drag Race UK Season 6 and Drag Race Down Under Season 4... GREAT queens. UK the challenges are wonderful and high-energy. Down Under... feels like it's circling the drain a little. Lazy Susan, though, is wonderful. I used to watch her recap shows on Youtube... I'm glad she's back on my screen.
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 15/11/2024
I mean - it's *such* a beautiful album. I love PWE... pwelverumandsun.bandcamp.com/album/night-...
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Night Palace, by Mount Eerie
26 track album
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Daniel C. McGlothlen @dcmcglothlen.bsky.social · 15/11/2024
I mean, I absolutely *am* scared and enraged and the rest of it, but a part of me is kind of excited that me rubbing my penis against somebody else's penis might feel dangerous and revolutionary again. #reframing #convertingfearintofuel
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