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David

@davidese.bsky.social
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distress brief intervention practitioner ❤️‍🩹🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 mental health & wellbeing 🧠🧘🏼‍♂️ LGBTQ+ ally 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ mood boosts, tiny tips, smiles 😊

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David @davidese.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
Some days, strength isn’t measured by how much you achieve, but by how kindly you treat yourself Progress isn’t always loud or productive - it can be quiet, gentle and exactly what you need Give yourself credit for showing up in whatever way you can today 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
What seems unusual to one person may be an important way for an autistic person or someone with ADHD to regulate their nervous system Fidgeting, pacing, tapping or humming can all help Acceptance creates more inclusive communities
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
🧵 Many autistic people and people with ADHD use repetitive movements or sounds to manage sensory input, emotions or attention These self-regulation strategies can make everyday situations more manageable and deserve understanding, not judgement #mentalhealth #Neurodiversity
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
A lesson many of us learn the hard way. Glad you found that balance🙏🏾
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
Your shift ends when your shift ends Not when the inbox is empty. Not when you feel guilty. Rest is part of the job too Leaving on time isn’t laziness - it’s boundaries. Work will expand to fill every minute you give it You don’t have to give it all #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
Pride Month is a reminder that you don’t need to shrink yourself to be worthy of space or love 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💜 Live in a way that feels honest to you - whether that’s loud, quiet, certain or still becoming However you show up in the world you get to exist fully as yourself #mentalhealth #LGBTQ+
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
Sometimes the greatest gift isn’t advice, it’s being the person who answers the call, sends a text or sits beside someone on a hard day A steady presence can offer comfort, reassurance and hope when words fall short Never underestimate the difference simply being there can make ✨ #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
Compassion isn’t a radical idea Choosing kindness, respect and understanding helps create a world where more people feel seen, supported and valued 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
Growth can look like staying warm-hearted while becoming wiser about where your energy goes Not every door deserves an open invitation Protecting your peace, time and emotional wellbeing is a sign of self-respect, not distance 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
You may focus on what’s unfinished, while others see your courage, persistence and ability to keep moving forward Growth isn’t always easy to recognise from the inside, but every step counts Offer yourself the same compassion you so often give to others 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
When someone else’s actions sting, it can help to remember that their choices often reflect their own experiences, emotions and struggles Protect your peace by focusing energy on what you can influence - your boundaries, mindset and next steps forward 🌱 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Chances are, you’ve featured in someone’s best memory without realising it 🌟 A kind word, a warm smile or a moment of understanding can stay with someone for years Keep spreading good vibes - they travel further than you think 💫 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Absolutely. It’s amazing how a single insight can change the way we approach life, relationships or ourselves. Those moments of clarity can be so powerful, and it’s one of the reasons therapy can be such a valuable experience
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
What a valuable insight from your therapist. Kindness and trustworthiness really do make such a difference when it comes to healthy, lasting relationships. I’m so glad you’ve found a connection that brings you happiness
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Life’s VIP list is surprisingly low-key: the people who share the last biscuit, admit when they’re wrong, stay humble after a win and make others feel seen The best flex? Making life a little better for someone else ✨🫶 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
✨ If your brain responds better to interest than urgency, work with that. So make planning ridiculously fun 🌈 Use stickers 🎨 Add colours ⭐ Reward tiny wins Your planner doesn’t need to spark joy. It just needs to spark enough interest that you’ll come back to it tomorrow ✨
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
Tonight’s bedtime routine: clear the brain inbox 📥📝 Before bed, try a brain dump. Write down every idea, worry, reminder, and random question about penguins And leave yourself a note for tomorrow. Think of it as a care package from present you to future you
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
🧵 When your brain feels like a browser with 47 tabs open, keeping things simple can help 🧠💻 👓 Focus on 1 task at a time ⏳ If it takes under 2 minutes, do it before your brain negotiates otherwise ✅ Keep a ‘ta-da’ list - because your brain deserves praise, not just more to-do lists #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
Every person deserves safety, dignity and respect. Our strength lies in diversity, not division Check in on neighbours, challenge misinformation, support those affected and choose understanding over anger Together, we are stronger ✊🏽
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
🧵 Imagine being judged by your skin colour or country of origin In these difficult days across Belfast, Glasgow and other cities, stand with people of colour and immigrants Keep calm, reject hate and build communities where everyone belongs #mentalhealth #SayNoToRacism
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
When anxiety shows up, treat yourself with patience rather than criticism Challenge predictions about what might go wrong, focus on what you can control and celebrate every social step no matter how small Confidence often grows after action, not before it
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
🧵 Social situations can feel draining when your mind goes into overdrive Small changes can help: arrive early, focus on one conversation at a time, use grounding techniques and take short breaks when needed Progress over perfection #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
Sometimes the most helpful thing you can offer is your full attention Create space, stay present, listen without rushing and reflect what you hear When people feel safe, understood and accepted, sharing can become a little bit easier 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
If everything feels harder than usual, it may be worth asking: am I avoiding this or am I running on empty? Emotional exhaustion can make everyday tasks feel heavy Small steps, realistic expectations and support can make a difference 🌿
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
🧵 Not every ‘lazy day’ is laziness Sometimes emotional exhaustion shows up as procrastination, low motivation, brain fog or feeling overwhelmed by simple tasks Rest isn’t always a reward for productivity - it can be part of recovery 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
Not every trans person experiences gender dysphoria the same way - or at all There’s no single path to understanding your gender Whether your feelings are clear, evolving or difficult to describe, your identity deserves respect, support and affirmation 💙🩷🤍🩷💙
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
🧵 Being trans isn’t one single experience Some people struggle with how they’re perceived, some with aspects of their body and some with feeling out of step with themselves day to day Every journey is valid. No one has to ‘prove’ who they are 🏳️‍⚧️ #MentalHealth #TransSupport #TransCommunity
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
You may feel disconnected from who you are, as though you’re observing yourself rather than fully experiencing life from within It can be unsettling but is often linked to stress, anxiety, trauma or overwhelm Understanding what’s happening can be an important first step towards support 🤝💜
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
🧵 Following my post on derealization, here’s another form of dissociation: depersonalization While derealization affects how the world around you feels, depersonalization affects how you experience yourself It can create distance from your thoughts, emotions or sense of identity 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
That feeling of watching yourself go through actions without fully feeling connected to them can be really unsettling. I really appreciate you sharing your experience here - conversations like this help people realise they’re not alone in what they’re experiencing
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
You don’t have to be ‘falling apart’ to be struggling Sometimes it looks like showing up to work, replying to messages, laughing with friends - and still feeling disconnected from the world around you You deserve support, whatever your experience looks like 🤝💜
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
🧵 Derealization is a form of dissociation where the world around you can feel distant, unfamiliar or somehow ‘off’, even though you know it’s real It can feel like life is happening behind a screen and is often linked to stress, anxiety, trauma or exhaustion 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
Mental health support comes in many forms. For some people, medication is a vital part of recovery, stability and wellbeing Every journey is different, and the tools that help you thrive deserve respect Finding the support that works for you matters 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
Positive self-talk isn’t pretending everything is perfect It’s choosing a balanced, kinder perspective: ‘I’m learning’, ‘I can try again’, ‘I’ve handled challenges before’ Small shifts in how we speak to ourselves can support resilience and wellbeing 💚
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
🧵 Negative self-talk can sound convincing: ‘I’m not good enough’, ‘I always get it wrong’, ‘Nothing will change’ Repeating these thoughts can affect confidence, mood and motivation Notice the voice - just because a thought appears doesn’t mean it’s true #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
If joy had a dress code, it would be ‘come exactly as you are!’ 🌈 This Pride Month, make room for laughter, support and unapologetic self-expression The world needs your particular brand of sparkle 🪩✨ #mentalhealth #LGBTQ+mentalhealth #Pride
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
When the job takes a toll, self-care matters 💯 Prioritise rest, movement, healthy boundaries and supportive relationships Talking with colleagues, managers, unions or support services can help Your wellbeing deserves the same care and attention you give to your pupils
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
Stress doesn’t always look like exhaustion It can show up as struggling to switch off, feeling unchanged by time off, withdrawing from conversations or finding that everyday frustrations feel harder to manage than they once did
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
🧵 Teaching pressures aren’t limited to workload Aggression, violence, and repeated exposure to challenging situations can leave teachers feeling emotionally distant, disconnected from others or questioning their value despite making a difference every day #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
When emotions feel too much, try creating space between the feeling and the action: text someone you trust, use grounding techniques, go for a walk, hold ice, journal, or distract yourself with a safe activity. The urge will pass Support is available, and you don’t have to cope alone 💜
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
🧵 For many people, self-harm is a coping strategy used to manage intense emotional pain, not a suicide attempt It can be a way of expressing distress, coping with overwhelming feelings, or regaining a sense of control Understanding reduces stigma 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
When life feels heavy, remember: your superpowers are still there behind the mask and cape Fuel your strength, protect your peace, honour every step forward, release what weighs you down, know your worth, and notice the good around you Everyday actions. Extraordinary impact 💫🦸
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
Anger can be loud, hidden, or carried quietly through the day It doesn’t have to take over, and it doesn’t have to be ignored Sometimes the most helpful response is to give it space, move with it, and let the intensity settle before deciding what comes next 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
When someone is standing at a crossroads, they don’t always need advice What often helps most is knowing they won’t face whatever comes next alone Judgement creates distance; connection builds trust. Be the person who stays alongside someone when life feels uncertain #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
Good communities are like oversized hoodies: warm, comfortable, and roomy enough for everyone This Pride month, challenge outdated ideas about who belongs and make space for people to show up exactly as they are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💜 #mentalhealth #LGBTQ+MentalHealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
🌈 This Pride month, I’m recognising the positive impact of empathy, inclusion and allyship Feeling accepted and supported can make a real difference to mental wellbeing Together, we can help create communities where everyone feels safe, valued and connected 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ #mentalhealth #LGBTQMentalHealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
Wishing you a few days of steadiness, clarity, and space to simply be May challenges feel manageable, moments of calm come easily, and your energy be protected as you move through the week ahead 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
When distress spikes, thinking skills go offline. Before we solve anything, we calm the body first Cold water on your face can trigger the dive reflex, helping slow things down You’re not fixing the problem, just turning the volume down. Regulate first. Then problem-solve 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
When you’re carrying depression and suicidal thoughts, just showing up to work can be a huge achievement. Just be gentle with yourself today. If all you can do is get through the next hour, that’s enough. Small steps. Sending you strength and hoping things feel a little lighter soon 💙
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
I’m glad you’ve been able to reach out to 988 when things have felt especially heavy, and I hope you’re being gentle with yourself. Feel free to browse through my posts, follow if you wish, my account has a few tips and coping techniques that may help with how you’re feeling.
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