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David

@davidese.bsky.social
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distress brief intervention practitioner ❤️‍🩹🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 mental health & wellbeing 🧠🧘🏼‍♂️ LGBTQ+ ally 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ mood boosts, tiny tips, smiles 😊

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David @davidese.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
Some days, strength isn’t measured by how much you achieve, but by how kindly you treat yourself Progress isn’t always loud or productive - it can be quiet, gentle and exactly what you need Give yourself credit for showing up in whatever way you can today 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
🧵 Many autistic people and people with ADHD use repetitive movements or sounds to manage sensory input, emotions or attention These self-regulation strategies can make everyday situations more manageable and deserve understanding, not judgement #mentalhealth #Neurodiversity
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
Your shift ends when your shift ends Not when the inbox is empty. Not when you feel guilty. Rest is part of the job too Leaving on time isn’t laziness - it’s boundaries. Work will expand to fill every minute you give it You don’t have to give it all #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
Pride Month is a reminder that you don’t need to shrink yourself to be worthy of space or love 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💜 Live in a way that feels honest to you - whether that’s loud, quiet, certain or still becoming However you show up in the world you get to exist fully as yourself #mentalhealth #LGBTQ+
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
Sometimes the greatest gift isn’t advice, it’s being the person who answers the call, sends a text or sits beside someone on a hard day A steady presence can offer comfort, reassurance and hope when words fall short Never underestimate the difference simply being there can make ✨ #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
Compassion isn’t a radical idea Choosing kindness, respect and understanding helps create a world where more people feel seen, supported and valued 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
Growth can look like staying warm-hearted while becoming wiser about where your energy goes Not every door deserves an open invitation Protecting your peace, time and emotional wellbeing is a sign of self-respect, not distance 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
You may focus on what’s unfinished, while others see your courage, persistence and ability to keep moving forward Growth isn’t always easy to recognise from the inside, but every step counts Offer yourself the same compassion you so often give to others 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
When someone else’s actions sting, it can help to remember that their choices often reflect their own experiences, emotions and struggles Protect your peace by focusing energy on what you can influence - your boundaries, mindset and next steps forward 🌱 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Chances are, you’ve featured in someone’s best memory without realising it 🌟 A kind word, a warm smile or a moment of understanding can stay with someone for years Keep spreading good vibes - they travel further than you think 💫 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Life’s VIP list is surprisingly low-key: the people who share the last biscuit, admit when they’re wrong, stay humble after a win and make others feel seen The best flex? Making life a little better for someone else ✨🫶 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
🧵 When your brain feels like a browser with 47 tabs open, keeping things simple can help 🧠💻 👓 Focus on 1 task at a time ⏳ If it takes under 2 minutes, do it before your brain negotiates otherwise ✅ Keep a ‘ta-da’ list - because your brain deserves praise, not just more to-do lists #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
🧵 Imagine being judged by your skin colour or country of origin In these difficult days across Belfast, Glasgow and other cities, stand with people of colour and immigrants Keep calm, reject hate and build communities where everyone belongs #mentalhealth #SayNoToRacism
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
🧵 Social situations can feel draining when your mind goes into overdrive Small changes can help: arrive early, focus on one conversation at a time, use grounding techniques and take short breaks when needed Progress over perfection #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
Sometimes the most helpful thing you can offer is your full attention Create space, stay present, listen without rushing and reflect what you hear When people feel safe, understood and accepted, sharing can become a little bit easier 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
🧵 Not every ‘lazy day’ is laziness Sometimes emotional exhaustion shows up as procrastination, low motivation, brain fog or feeling overwhelmed by simple tasks Rest isn’t always a reward for productivity - it can be part of recovery 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
🧵 Being trans isn’t one single experience Some people struggle with how they’re perceived, some with aspects of their body and some with feeling out of step with themselves day to day Every journey is valid. No one has to ‘prove’ who they are 🏳️‍⚧️ #MentalHealth #TransSupport #TransCommunity
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
🧵 Following my post on derealization, here’s another form of dissociation: depersonalization While derealization affects how the world around you feels, depersonalization affects how you experience yourself It can create distance from your thoughts, emotions or sense of identity 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
🧵 Derealization is a form of dissociation where the world around you can feel distant, unfamiliar or somehow ‘off’, even though you know it’s real It can feel like life is happening behind a screen and is often linked to stress, anxiety, trauma or exhaustion 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
Mental health support comes in many forms. For some people, medication is a vital part of recovery, stability and wellbeing Every journey is different, and the tools that help you thrive deserve respect Finding the support that works for you matters 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
🧵 Negative self-talk can sound convincing: ‘I’m not good enough’, ‘I always get it wrong’, ‘Nothing will change’ Repeating these thoughts can affect confidence, mood and motivation Notice the voice - just because a thought appears doesn’t mean it’s true #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
If joy had a dress code, it would be ‘come exactly as you are!’ 🌈 This Pride Month, make room for laughter, support and unapologetic self-expression The world needs your particular brand of sparkle 🪩✨ #mentalhealth #LGBTQ+mentalhealth #Pride
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
🧵 Teaching pressures aren’t limited to workload Aggression, violence, and repeated exposure to challenging situations can leave teachers feeling emotionally distant, disconnected from others or questioning their value despite making a difference every day #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
🧵 For many people, self-harm is a coping strategy used to manage intense emotional pain, not a suicide attempt It can be a way of expressing distress, coping with overwhelming feelings, or regaining a sense of control Understanding reduces stigma 💜 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
When life feels heavy, remember: your superpowers are still there behind the mask and cape Fuel your strength, protect your peace, honour every step forward, release what weighs you down, know your worth, and notice the good around you Everyday actions. Extraordinary impact 💫🦸
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
Anger can be loud, hidden, or carried quietly through the day It doesn’t have to take over, and it doesn’t have to be ignored Sometimes the most helpful response is to give it space, move with it, and let the intensity settle before deciding what comes next 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
When someone is standing at a crossroads, they don’t always need advice What often helps most is knowing they won’t face whatever comes next alone Judgement creates distance; connection builds trust. Be the person who stays alongside someone when life feels uncertain #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
Good communities are like oversized hoodies: warm, comfortable, and roomy enough for everyone This Pride month, challenge outdated ideas about who belongs and make space for people to show up exactly as they are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💜 #mentalhealth #LGBTQ+MentalHealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
🌈 This Pride month, I’m recognising the positive impact of empathy, inclusion and allyship Feeling accepted and supported can make a real difference to mental wellbeing Together, we can help create communities where everyone feels safe, valued and connected 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ #mentalhealth #LGBTQMentalHealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
Wishing you a few days of steadiness, clarity, and space to simply be May challenges feel manageable, moments of calm come easily, and your energy be protected as you move through the week ahead 💚 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
When distress spikes, thinking skills go offline. Before we solve anything, we calm the body first Cold water on your face can trigger the dive reflex, helping slow things down You’re not fixing the problem, just turning the volume down. Regulate first. Then problem-solve 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
A boundary isn’t a wall. It’s a door with a lock You decide what comes in, what stays out, and when it’s time to close it Boundaries aren’t about controlling other people. They’re about being clear on what you need to stay well ❤️‍🩹 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
Life can feel like a loading screen with no progress bar But behind the scenes things may be buffering, building and brewing Growth isn’t always obvious while it’s happening. So stay curious, keep going and remember - you may be much closer to your next plot twist than you think ✨ #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
Maybe wellbeing isn’t having everything figured out Maybe it’s drinking some water. Opening the curtains dramatically like you’re in a period drama. Sitting somewhere quiet for five minutes Simply remembering that you’re allowed to exist without having to earn it ☁️ #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
Big feelings can feel impossible for young minds to carry alone Our steadiness teaches safety, trust, and resilience The goal isn’t to match the storm - it’s to become the safe place they can return to while learning how to weather it 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
Pause is part of being human, not a reward for pushing yourself to the limit Quiet moments help us reset, breathe, and return to ourselves with a little more softness You do not need to keep proving your worth. You are allowed to slow down, take space, and simply be 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 27/05/2026
Growth isn’t always loud or obvious Sometimes it’s simply getting through the day, trying again, or being kinder to yourself than before Progress can look subtle while still being life-changing. So keep going and remember, those small steps still move you forward 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is press play on a movie that feels safe, familiar, or comforting Rewatching a favourite story can calm the mind, offer a temporary break from stress, and remind you that it’s okay to rest from the noise of real life for a while #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
Sunny days can feel freeing for some, yet overwhelming for others For people living with agoraphobia, brighter weather and busier spaces may heighten anxiety, panic, or the fear of being trapped Compassion matters - not every struggle is visible #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
🧵 5 anxiety tricks that aren’t ‘just breathe’ advice: 1. Hold an ice cube for 30 seconds. Cold snaps your brain out of the spiral 2. Name 5 orange things (or pick your own colour). Specific tasks interrupt panic faster #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
Some struggles don’t need perfect answers - they need someone who checks in, shows up, stays present and helps carry the weight for a while A quiet message can change a heavy day. Send the text. Make the call. Knock the door. Sit beside them Just being there can make a difference 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
Heatwave reminder 🌡️ Some meds used for low mood/anxiety can make it harder for your body to cope in high temps ☀️ Keep water nearby, stay in the shade when you can, avoid overdoing it in peak heat, wear light clothing, and please, check in on friends, neighbours & yourself 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
Fanore Beach, County Clare 🌊 A short break, a long exhale Time outside won’t fix everything, but the waves, wind and space can soften the noise for a while If getting out feels too hard today, pause and listen to calming nature sounds online Breathe slowly. Notice what you hear 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 23/05/2026
Imagine if kindness went viral faster than outrage Tiny acts, gentle words, checking in, sharing hope - they ripple further than we realise The world changes quietly when people choose compassion on purpose Be someone’s safe place today 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 23/05/2026
The LGBTQ+ community deserves spaces where they can breathe freely, speak honestly and exist without apology LGBTQ+ identities are not ‘too much’, a phase or something to fix Real support celebrates people for who they truly are, not who others expect them to be or become 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ #mentalhealth #LGBTQ+
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 22/05/2026
When life feels loud, try shrinking the moment One steady inhale. One thoughtful choice. One limit that protects your peace Small acts of self-care can help you find solid ground again 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
A small act of kindness can pull someone back from the edge of a hard day A text. A smile. A genuine ‘how are you really?’ It’s that simple - so do it! In a world where too many hurt others, be the healer. People never forget how you made them feel 💛 #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
When your thoughts start running in circles, try filling your day with things that steady and restore you - wonder, self-kindness, supportive people, laughter, creativity, fresh air, and moments that remind you who you are beyond the noise Small shifts can create breathing space 🌿✨ #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
Ticked a bucket list moment off today 🦅 A reminder that wellbeing can live in the small moments too - trying something new, being outdoors, feeling present Protect your mental health by making space for experiences that make you feel alive #mentalhealth
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David @davidese.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
You’ve made it through messy moments, self-doubt spirals, and days that felt heavier than anyone realised - and you’re still here, still trying, still growing That deserves more recognition than you give yourself Quiet progress is still progress ✨ #mentalhealth
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