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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

There is a world of difference between someone's words causing you to do some self-reflection and making amends for the harm you have caused.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I, for one, find people who frequently break up and get back together again in very public ways (say, by changing their relationship status on social media sites) to be completely normal and stable and not at all great big red flags. 🚩🚩🚩

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

I am literally gagging over the “queen” that needs to be lavished with gifts who only learned about FemDom less than two weeks ago.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Anyway, I am just an asshole on the Internet with a shitty opinion and what I think doesn’t matter in this situation so void screaming it is.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I have seen this shit so many times before. When I was in middle school two of my friends were brutally murdered. Watching people who literally bullied them claim to need grief counseling so they could get out of class made me sick. The examples go on from there.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Watching people come out of the woodwork to make sure they get on the eulogy bandwagon is vile. People who literally came into the scene after he had moved away, for example.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Someone who was very influential in the local scene in the late aughts and early teens has passed away. I met him a few times, but wouldn’t have know him if I had passed him in the street. His passing is noteworthy, and I am sad for those who called him friend.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Orrrr you have heard of them but what you have heard ain’t good.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

That moment when you see someone who has “decades of experience in the local community” who you have never heard of until they started shitposting.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

And folks wonder why I'm not interested in going to more "femdom" oriented events. I'm interested in service, not being taken advantage of because nobody will touch my penis.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Another local "femdom" I follow frequently whines about needing a job and often asks people to buy her things like a fancy coffee (which, sadly, several of the more men who are desperate for attention in the area do).

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Oh, look. Another local kinkster went to a Femdom oriented event and less than a week later is joining a FinDom and Pay Pigs group. This is someone who has talked publicly about being under employed in the past.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I find this is one of the best things about getting older in general. What am I gonna wear tonight? A kilt, a t-shirt, and my Doc Martens. It is like the Steve Jobs wardrobe of kink. Toughest decision I have to make it what pithy message will be on the shirt.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

There is a word for the kind of person who constantly reminds you how lucky you are that they are able to control their rage. Abuser.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

My empathy ends where your cruelty begins.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

But somehow it’s ok for the local club to host a littles event that is being run by a cis-gendered 51-year-old who actively posts about how he is unicorn hunting for a 20-something little for he and his wife? Cool. Cool.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

So, like…the polykink community has a fairly universal belief that unicorn hunting is bad, right? It is also generally frowned upon for middle-aged folks to view littles themed events as a way to find a little.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

My God it is refreshing to be around people who have nothing to do with FetLife for a few hours.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Remember 9/11? Miss me on that shit. Remember 9/10.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

We have created an environment where someone like Trump can be elected twice. A man who openly attempts to bribe the citizens to vote for his party and encourages his supporters to “cheat like hell”. A man who has plunged us back into another unwinnable war in the Middle East.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

My hottest of takes: Osama Bin Laden did exactly what he set out to do on 9/11. He won. Al Qaeda still exists. The Taliban is back in power. Meanwhile here in the US we have systematically watched our freedoms get chipped away in the name of security.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

I dunno, man. I would be pretty annoyed if I spent $150 to attend an educational weekend if several of the classes were made available for free at other venues just a few weeks later. I mean, unless my money went to a delicious lunch buffet of quinoa and pulled rotisserie chicken. /s

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

I dunno. Chalk it up to having a few near death experiences and knowing that my health is gonna be precarious for the rest of my time on this big blue rock. I have an amazing partner, some crazy cats, and a nice home. It is enough. Everything else is gravy.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Sent this to an old friend of mine yesterday. I used to worry that this kind of thing made me boring but as I have gotten older it has only solidified. I used to have FOMO. I really don’t these days. In fact, I often have the opposite (JOMO - Joy Of Missing Out).

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

This is me. I can follow recipes very, very well.

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Joshua Eaton @joshuaeaton.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

“There’s a new Mr. Beast book.” You bolt awake in your workshop in Mainz. It’s 1450. You’re Johannes Gutenberg, and you’ve changed your mind. The future cannot come to pass. Your printing press must burn.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

I swear I will never understand people. If I ask a someone if they can do something for me I don’t need to be told all the other ways I can do that thing. I didn’t ask for advice. No is a perfectly valid and acceptable response. (And all I was asking is if someone would grab me some damn water!)

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Remember that time that a cis-gendered male dungeon owner got run out of town on the rails because he kept using his status as a means to enter into situations with your and/or inexperienced member of the scene? Remember how everyone agreed that was predatory and gross? Pepperidge farm remembers.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Listen, I have known a LOT of people in my life who have amazing skills but otherwise do not have their shit together, but I am not asking those people how to balance my fucking checkbook or how to recover mentally as well as physically from my cancer situation.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

In his class you will learn the subtle art of guiding your bottom through emotional struggles while learning how to help them down the spiritual path to enlightenment through the gift of submission.”

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

“Boo Boo Kitty Fuck (he/him) is 32 and lives with his parents. When he isn’t slinging cigarettes and taquitos at the local Circle K he likes to experiment with gas station drugs and play Skyrim on his busted ass PlayStation 3.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

One thing I will never understand about the kink scene is the shocking number of classes about subjects that are related to mental health and well being that are being taught by people who have no expertise in the field and do not lead lives that indicate they have their own mental house in order.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Something is rotten in the state of Denmark. My spidey senses are tingling today and I don't know why, but my neck is so stiff from tension I can hardly move it.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

I don’t need or want to have a fancy exercise routine. I just want to walk a few miles a day. The universe seems to have a problem with that, though. Or I am very good at making up excuses.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

You had everything working against you this morning but you did it anyway. So proud of you.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

You have massive credit. You kept me alive, and you keep me happy.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Seriously. I am so much hotter in my fifties than I ever was at any point in my life before this.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

I legitimately do not understand people on FetLife who complain about the fact that Facebook is suggesting people from FetLife to them as friends who then CONTINUE USING FACEBOOK. Facebook isn't going to change, people. Either accept that and live with it or quit the service.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

One of my big stress tells is pain in my neck. I have been feeling mostly stress-free lately, especially in the last week, when I was away from work and mostly disengaged from FetLife. Both things came back today, and I was (and still am) excited about being back at work. My neck is killing me.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Nothing goes better with Monday morning coffee than a healthy dose of damage control. I swear to God if someone made a movie about this “community” nobody would make it because the plot would be so boring and predictable.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 31/07/2026

Someone on my FetLife feed loved a poem today that had the line "one plus one isn't always two" in it, and if that isn't the most FetLifey thing I've seen in a long time I don't know what is.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

Why can't we just be honest and say "I need money" or "I would like presents for my [insert event here]". False humility, also not so great.

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

But one additional thought - I really wish people would stop saying that "people suggested" they should set up GoFundMe campaigns, Amazon Wish Lists, etc...

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Crocosaurus @crocosaurusrex.bsky.social · 09/07/2026

But...writing that post won't change anything, and it would take a lot of time. Time I could spend doing something more productive, like learning more about PowerBI.

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