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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Fun fact: If you talk about abuse long enough, people will start asking why you hate men. ☕️💜

Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Threatening to "take the children" in the divorce is abusive. Children are not bargaining tokens to trade for continued marriage. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

How racism covers for misogyny. When men of one ethnic group horrifically oppresses women of the same ethnic group, we blame the culture, not the men, despite the fact that all men of every culture or race repressed women of their group in some way. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

The graph of ICE Agents who would be slave catchers if they had been born before the Civil War is a perfect circle by the way. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

If I told you that I only blame men/boys for teen pregnancy, you would be shocked. But for centuries, we have always blamed girls. Mind you, the fathers or most teen pregnancies are GROWN MEN.☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

"She was drunk, what did she expect?" A hang over. She expected a hang over. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

"Women shouldn't put themselves in unsafe situations." What 👏 Makes 👏 the 👏 Situation 👏 unsafe?! 👏

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Cassandra, Prophet of Doom-🐧verified @stacy17.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Today’s feel. Enjoy the cats, too!

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Yes. Thank you!!!!! I need every man who gets this to repost. ☕️💜

"Does all men include you and me?!"

Two muscular men shake hands: you, me, agreeing on Respecting women's caution of men.

Yes. Any woman who doesn't know ys, should be on guard against us. We may know she's safe, but she doesn't know that.

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Massimo (mirror) @rainmaker1973-m.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

A girl adopted an injured deer and showed how, over time, it turned into just another little dog. Original post

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Men harm more children daily than women experiencing a full psychotic break do annually. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

"Every man is potentially dangerous." "All people are dangerous." "You know what, you are absolutely right. Now I will continue to treat you as dangerous because you're a person, not because you are a man, happy?" ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Child marriage is a softer term for child sex trafficking. It should be banned globally. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Tw: SA Rape does not happen without the presence of a rapist! A woman can lie naked at night on the beach and if there is NO rapist present, she will wake up a little cold with sand in uncomfortable areas. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

The reason why the "not all men" rhetoric is so problematic is that it denies pattern recognition. Once women began to realize that a lot of men were behaving the same way, they stopped blaming themselves. Not all men is a way to blame the woman for the behavior she keeps encountering. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

This is a PSA from Planned Parenthood. ☕️💜

Vasectomies aren't meant to be reversed x20

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Lost an acquaintance today because I reminded her that a woman's desire to hurt someone who has hurt her is perfectly valid. We have to stop infantiliziny women. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

They believe if they repeat the lie enough it will become true. It was never true. It will never be true. ☕️💜

Two stick figures stand before a white board with a math equation written on it. One stick figure is doing the equation incorrectly. The other says "Wow, you suck at math"

The next image is the same except one stick figure has long hair, implying that they are a woman. The other stick figure now says: Wow, girls suck at math.

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Anger is not a "masculine emotion." To deny women the ability to feel and express anger is to deny our humanity. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I have a genuine question. Have we taught girls "not to rape." Is this a genuine lesson that we sit down and teach them? And if so, why were the boys not present? I had a co-ed sex education. I learned about consent and rape alongside the boys. Why do we keep saying teach boys not to rape then?

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I'll give a damn about misandry when women cause equal physical harm to men as men cause to women. Not more. Just equal. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

It still tickles me that in the year 2026, after women have lost national access to abortion care, and while men actively call to end our right to vote, people think "misandrist" is an insult. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

What I have learned from the anti-adoption, anti-surrogacy crowd is that it is A-okay for a woman to not want to be pregnant as long as you also don't want to be a parent. For a woman, a child is a reward for suffering. If you don't suffer, you don't deserve one. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Everyone gets so up in arms when a woman chooses surrogacy, but we all quietly accept that all men, of every sexuality, outsource pregnancy to (usually poorer) women. It's only morally wrong when women do it. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I am finding that people against surrogacy have to reduce it to convincing a poorer woman to take on the risk of pregnancy in order to make their argument work. When surrogates come forward and state they were not poor/didn't do it for money, it's crickets. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

The Cornell survivor was lured to the frat house by a male "friend." It's not a betrayal if you never trusted them, and then men ask why women don't trust men. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

If you ever believe man truly and honestly wants to be a father to his children, see how he reacts to being the sole parent for an extended period of time. If the idea of being a "single father" for a week angers or frightens him, he is not ready to be a parent forever. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

When men refuse to place the blame on fathers for sons who grow up to be abusive, they admit that father's are not necessary to child care. That whether the father is present or not, the blame will fall on the mother. She might as well do it alone. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

People like to say that if liberals stop having kids conservatives will "win" because they will inherit the country. And my response is, why would liberals care? Neither they, nor their children will be left to suffer a world ruled by conservatives. This ignores that politics is not hereditary. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

A man today tried to insult me by saying I never knew my father. He took a gamble. He was wrong, and I became confident in dismissing everything he said. So ladies, when a man insults you, know that he is taking a shot in the dark. Sometimes it hits, sometimes it misses. Don't take it to heart. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

The problem with seeing the humanity in sexual predators is that they use your empathy to get a second chance, then they try it all over again. The low chance that they will not reoffend is not worth the trauma of a new victim. ☕️💜

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Susan Rinkunas @susanrinkunas.com · 27/09/2026

NEW: A Texas woman died after being denied an abortion and her family sued the state and her doctors for violating her right to life. They say the ban should be struck down. It's one of several cases challenging abortion laws under state constitutional rights to life and liberty @autonomynews.co

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New Lawsuits Argue That Pregnant People Also Have a Right to Life

Lawyers are fighting abortion bans in state court by establishing that pregnant people have a right to life and liberty—or at least self-defense.

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I disagree. The argument I have been given by many feminists is that we can educate the men to end male violence and patriarchy. If we cannot educate them until patriarchy is fully ended, then education is not a viable option.

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

"Educate your boys." Okay, we educated them. They are doing it anyway. What is our next step? ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Men who show fear or disdain for "raising another man's child" are not trustworthy. No this does not include "childfree men." ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Most women will never know that their son turned out to be a rapist. They will hear a rumor here or there, maybe hear him make an off-color joke. But they will never know he is capable of participating in a gang rape for 7 hours. And this is the most uncomfortable truth a woman can ever face. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Please understand that if victims of abuse were more likely to become abusers, then women would overwhelmingly be the majority of abusers. This is simply not true. ☕️💜

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Cozy Cat Cafe @cozycatcafe.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I agree that boys can be raised into decent human beings, but today I saw someone reduce that argument to "Don't be a terrible mother" and it solidified my stance that the best course or action is to simply not have children. ☕️💜

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