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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

Yeah, I think you're probably right! Which is a shame in a way, I would have liked them to tackle the issue of redemption and forgiveness (or at least the question of whether it's possible) without going there, but I suspect a lot of viewers wouldn't accept that.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

I know this is an unpopular opinion but I didn't like BBC's #Unforgivable. It's a moving and well-acted piece of drama, but it perpetuates the narrative that sexual abuse causes sexual abuse (e.g. survivors are more likely to go on to become perpetrators.) Which is *not evidence-based.*

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

Sticking to your principles is expensive sometimes. I've turned down three paid gigs in two days because I will not promote AI.

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Sydney Screams Talks Toys @sydneytalkstoys.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

I don’t want your AI designed toys. I don’t want your AI written reviews. I don’t want your AI generated images. I don’t want your AI ever, at all, anywhere.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 04/06/2025

I need the methodology behind this "fact" because, no. One in three people is not doing that.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 06/05/2025

I'm soon going to write about being an s-type (submissive) with two D-types (Dominants.) What do you want to know, and if you have experience of this dynamic from either side, what are your thoughts?

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

Look I know everything seems to be written by fucking AI these days but there are actually still human content writers out there, and when you're rude to us about work we poured our skills and hearts into it still hurts.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

I tried "vibrating" orgasm gel and I regret all my life choices. That shit BURNS.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 21/04/2025

Cosy, secure polyam life: your partners gently making fun of you in the group chat (which is named for an obscure in-joke, obvs) 🥰🥰🥰

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 04/04/2025

(Also I moved a washing machine yesterday. Those things are heavy.)

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 04/04/2025

I often wonder why I'm usually some level of sore/stiff. Then I remember that I'm over 30, I work at a desk, and I like to sleep in the most unhinged positions imaginable.

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Strange Bedfellas - Friday 10/2 @ 4 PM CST @strangebedfellas.bsky.social · 02/04/2025

I meant to launch this last month, but better late than never! TIME FOR ANOTHER GIVEAWAY! Read the whole thread to find out how to enter our Double Rainbow Giveaway to win either an XL/Super Soft Philco or a Small/Super Soft Philco! Be sure to comment on THIS POST after you read over the rules 🌈💖

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 03/04/2025

So pretty! Would love to win either 🏳️‍🌈

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 02/04/2025

Pro relationship tip: date people whose tone when they pick up the phone sounds like you've made their entire day by calling. 💜

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 31/03/2025

Almost snorted coffee out of my nose @ "woo cuntstones" 😂

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 30/03/2025

Things I get excited about in my 30s: our new custom furniture pieces we ordered months ago are finally arriving tomorrow! #renovating

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Girl on the Net @girlonthenet.bsky.social · 28/03/2025

Reminder that Doxy is selling off old stock of the Doxy original (they're updating the look for 2025). You can get 40% off with code CLASSIC40 between now and... whenever they're gone. So be quick if you want a massive bargain. doxymassager.com/doxy-origina... (my affiliate link)

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

I love this!! I love colourful sparkly glowy ones ✨️

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

People who strap-on top: does the aesthetic of the dildo you're using impact how you feel about your gender and/or gender presentation?

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 24/03/2025

At the station waiting for the train to the other train to the shuttle to the airport to the plane to my girl 💜💜💜

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 18/03/2025

That's such a good question and a hard one to answer. For me, it was time above anything else. Time and finding connection again, both with friends and new lovers.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

I will never ever ever be with someone who shouts at me again.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

Build your relationship with yourself. Choose partners who help you to become the happiest and healthiest version of that self. Treat long term love as a group project. Maintain identities as separate people. Resist becoming a single unit. It's not romantic, it's creepy.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

It means we will show up for each other. We have each other's backs. We commit to working through conflict and problems together, to going on adventures together, to embracing everything the other person is now and everything they might be in the future.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

I don't believe in "The One" but I know someone is right for me when I feel my entire body and soul relax into a place of peace in their presence.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

Nomi and Amanita in Sense8. Their relationship is absolutely beautiful - full of fierce support, mutual protectiveness, and a genuine appreciation for everything the other person is.

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

You don't need to go to bed or wake up at the same time. Different sleeping schedules are just fine. Sincerely, me (gets tired by 11pm) and my nesting partner (semi nocturnal.)

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

Coffee followed by browsing something we're both interested in - a museum exhibit, art show, market, bookstore...

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Amy @ Coffee & Kink (she/her) @coffeeandkink.bsky.social · 17/03/2025

Text your "primary" to "check in" Noooope thank you, if my prospective meta can't leave us alone for one date I'm out.

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