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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 9h

I guess I will go finish chain gang all star so I know how this ends for us.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 9h

This is what people should be protesting. Not worrying about vigil.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

I mean when I’m stressed I punch puppies. (This is snark fyi to all you unfunny people)

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

What are you doing to yourself??? Also I have been guilty of watching my neighbors go batshit crazy over the weirdest stuff!

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

It’s clear this is a passive aggressive my boss made me write this so I’m going to blame “stuff” for my nazism, racism etcism. Either stand by your edgy sword or admit a paycheck means sometimes you can’t tweet bs. Also she never gets to lecture the rest of us on principles.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

His kid is THREE DAYS old. Just thought I would add that fact.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Here is what your apology should have said.

I take this back, fully retract it, and I apology for how I phrased this. I’m sorry.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

That “apology” was the whitest thing I have ever seen. I’m sorry I called a random Black person the n word but I went to bed late and then I couldn’t find my tv remote and then missed my alarm… so as you can see I’m not perfect and it’s unfair of you guys to not give me grace.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

You didn’t hear about successful open marriages for the same reason you don’t hear about the sexy attractive people orgies. All the insecure, ugly and weirdo people suddenly want an invitation or have opinions.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

There is a reason every Black person at the Oscar’s went to check on will Smith after the incident and ignored Chris Rock

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I guess the tantrum didn’t yield the results they wanted.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Every day BlueSky tests how sex positive I am…

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I don’t think rape is limited to men being perpetrators but they represent the majority and you can fuck off with name calling. Like right the fuck out the fucking door.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

And the bad vibes thing is because we don’t listen to people when they give out warnings because status is more important than understanding that anyone can be a rapist. Even dumb YouTubers

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

That is because you still think rape is sex gone wrong when it’s a person extract power over someone else and getting off on it. Rape requires a series of deliberate choices that the rapist can stop at any point. That isn’t myth it’s facts.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

The victim isn’t responsible for the current discourse. They are not obligated to make people feel better or worse about their choice to continue to consume his work. That is soley on an individuals moral compass. I see a lot of people bringing up the victim as a straw man.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

My god was that response inappropriate.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

What’s particularly annoying to me about his absolute smug response and the rape apologist essay is they keep pretending they are trying to shield the victim.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I got a lecture from my son because I said I liked the rainbow flag better than the new one. After said lecture, I put my beloved twink nephew/son on the phone and we laughed at him.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

My team knows they can’t lose the game the regular way and invents new ways.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

He only did this because he got outted. Had he not been outted he would have happily pretended that it never happened.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

The best thing someone did was acknowledge how hard that period must have been and how I must of had quite a bit of emotions about it and let me share what I was comfortable with sharing. Just the acknowledgement that hey something shitty happened was enough.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I successfully prosecuted my abuser as an adult. It was horrible, very public process. Most people in my life just pretended like it wasn’t happening. Not unsupportive but clearly very uncomfortable with it.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Isn’t she like his core audience?

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

And to add it’s not clear he doxxed the actual victim or someone else.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I got my account locked (something that has never happened before) for telling him I hope she beats his ass again.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

That entire exchange made my day. You made him so mad!

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I like how Altman tried to come out as the rational voice on the other side and I was like your dumb ass is mad you didn’t think of it first.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

A word salad of bullshit with people talking about how nuanced it was.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I just also want to state that no one wakes up in the morning and say I’m going accidentally rape someone. Usually there is an established pattern of boundary pushing and path littered with other victims that decided it wasn’t worth the headache of reporting.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

If Jeffries did start throwing punches half this site would throw a tantrum about decorum. Everyone thinks they are a gangster until they get punched in the face.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

We are harsher on cheaters than we are on rapists.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I don’t know why they bothered “wondering” about the victim. Just say you think rape has an expiration date and you are okay with having rapist friends. Much shorter.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

If you ever are curious who writes those letters on behalf of rapists for more lenient judgments, let me present exhibit A. Just say that if your friends rape people you will still be friends. And leave the victim out of it because you absolutely don’t give a fuck about them.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I think a big thing this person is missing is that there is very rarely ever one survivor…ESPECIALLY when they get a hand slap when caught.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

It might have been the truck on fire in Castro valley. Drove past it today.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

As a former crisis counselor, the bar they make you jump over to take the case is such bullshit as well. Short of stranger in the bushes with DNA, they usually won’t take the case.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

It’s pretty simple… maybe don’t respond to free pussy texts and these dumbass rapist wouldn’t be in the shit they are currently in. They probably won’t go to jail but they absolutely get to stand for our judgment. Play stupid games, get stupid prizes.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

These arguments aren’t new. Most rape cases aren’t stranger danger. The only thing that matters is did she want to have sex with those men after the initial threesome and the answer is clearly no which is RAPE. The burden not to rape someone is on the person initiating sex.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I don’t give a shit if she gangbanged 48 of them on meth. The second she was not enthusiastically consenting (and I would argue she never did) the 49-200 guys don’t get a turn because they were waiting for two hours. Tough shit. Take your dick and go home.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I read the complaint she didn’t really want to have sex with ANY of them except the first guy and when the first threesome ended she was not interested in any more sex. Her continuing to drink and do drugs has no relevance. Women get to drink and do drugs and have some sex and then say no more.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

If everything they did was in the up and up then they should have no worries about this being attached to them. I mean who doesn’t want to hire a guy who sends snapchats like that to his buddies.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

The nuance left the building with the Snapchats, period.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Why was she at the police station? I usually don’t go running to the police when I had a great threesome on drugs? Do you even hear how stupid this sounds? When the last time you reported a good time to the police for shits and giggles?

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

WTF cares about the threesome. It sounded like a hot mess by all parties. I do care about the other seven men who decided they wanted to take advantage of drugged out intoxicated woman who clearly didn’t want to sleep with any of them.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

There is no nuance in you shouldn’t have sex with a very intoxicated drugged out woman you don’t know and only know about because your frat bro sent you a Snapchat that said “Free pussy” and when you got there she pushed you away.

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

There is no nuance in you shouldn’t have sex with a drugged out intoxicated girl because someone send you a Snapchat that said “Free pussy”

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Coco the Nerd @coccoside.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Oh that was in there. That you get no leniency for being a bystander and you are obligated to step in either anonymously by calling 911 or stepping in immediately. I expect him to do the second unless his life is in danger. I also stressed how pissed off women are at this case.

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