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Clare Lavery

@clerotto.bsky.social
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Creative writer, content creator ,Linguist ,trainer, activist Human Rights campaigner, Against all forms of violence against women & children Interested in systems reform & healing from trauma & adversity in education & communities Language Matters

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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
Some afternoon walks are WHY walks Walking is a questioner's balm A process A figuring out An unknitting of cares & woes A working out which way to go A way to digest the new A path to letting go #DifficileDaDigerire #VentagliDParole I don't know Why youtu.be/GtOcxj3NDBI?...
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Writing for Wellbeing @writeforwellbeing.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
The burning question on the day the clocks go forward. #ClocksForward #BritishSummerTime #DaylightSavingsTime
Well, did we do it? Has anyone heard? Did we save the daylight?
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
The Palm as symbol as a global series of protests for Peace fills our streets Millions The Palm of Christians on Palm Sunday We are here Not for a Perfect Life Not for anything but each other For our Love of Humanity We are Here youtu.be/HrKmDgk8Edg?... Palm Leaf - Matisse 1912
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
There you are isolated hiding in a corner with the darkest pieces no way can you see the Light No way can you imagine the bigger picture The picture that's so bright Share your pieces Open yourself to the Light
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
A key part of Recovery from betrayal or traumas A key lesson for you jigsaw players And those of us who help them No more going back to go forwards Take only the pieces that completed the bigger picture Nothing else
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
The wonderful part of coming out of the winter season A slow filling in of colour And new Life The excitement you feel as a jigsaw comes together Van Gogh- Irises jigsaw Durham fields in March
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
Taking a different route Switching routes Backtracking on your path Stopping to feed the birds Following your instincts Rewriting the Map All are permitted in Life All is forgiven Follow the routes destiny dictates #LungoStradeSecondarie
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
When Justice fails after violence It forces women & children down new paths The map of the 'Just World' is rewritten We are guided to keep the flame of hope alive For Others who follow down Paths unexpected Paths denied Follow the routes destiny dictates #LungoStradeSecondarie
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
How much is Lost in Translation? The Jigsaw puzzle of communication How many words are needed? How many words unspoken? How many pieces missing? #TuPerMeSeiLunaEStelle #VentagliDiParole @VentagliP Nothing's Gonna Hurt you baby Lost in Translation youtu.be/qV_lcpLPZ8Q?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
For all the helpers For all the healers Leading to accompany around the wind Wherever it blows Whatever path you choose to take #EppureIlVentoSoffiaAncora #VentagliDiParole It's hard to get around the wind youtu.be/Y0gSkYaTZfQ?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
Life is one big Jigsaw puzzle And some pieces just fit When pieces are shaken up You may well find the corner the middle the key that completes a picture Connecting solves bigger puzzles To Help Others Stuck on the Puzzle youtu.be/K0YEVNacmtw?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
One world we are Interconnected We cannot know the connections of other We make ourselves protagonist in a little corner While we are merely pieces In a much bigger picture We need each other 'One World' Mary Oliver
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
Full circle affair Sitting in the access to justice chair How much systems are gamesmanship a puzzle to onlookers How getting the pieces in the wrong places messes up so many cases 'When Men on the chessboard get up And tell you where to go' Alice KNOWS youtu.be/TKZVUtvjBdM?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference." –Robert Frost Carlo Levi
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
There are many ways we 'See' people sometimes in a gesture Sometimes in a tone of voice Sometimes in their aura Sometimes in their eyes Sometimes... youtu.be/ejU5YAHN3vQ?... Follow the routes #LungoStradeSecondarie
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
We are energised by walks energised by Nature energised by music energised by song energised by Art energised by creativity Routes to well-being Routes to Soul healing Find your way #LungoStradeSecondarie Mussorgsky's 'Pictures At An Exhibition' 1874 youtu.be/yUfSstK3MOc?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
Time telescopes like the wings of a bird disappearing over the horizon Times flies like speeded up Northern skies while you were silently waiting unexpected paths close up new ones open without expectation While you were hesitating Time Flies youtu.be/UkJBS0Zazmw?... Take whatever comes to you
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
Pick up that key Take it Set your compass In the half-light While others sleep Follow the route destiny dictates #LungoStradeSecondarie Half Light youtu.be/dbKlESSDE6o?... Carlo Crivelli 1430 1495 Madonna carries the Key
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
So much can lay us bare Yet we have strength to survive anything In time of greatest threat? Don't take an obvious route lie low Investigate People will read your inaction as harmless While you silently grow Destiny dictates #LungoStradeSecondarie Lazarus youtu.be/3Lg0GXh31SE?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
If you take an alternative route It may test your patience In a World that expects a lot Hold on in there Slow and steady wins the race Follow the mountain pass Follow the routes destiny dictates #LungoStradeSecondarie Days Gone Down youtu.be/I_4T0czSPrg?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
'Tutto si calma di memoria e resta il confine più dolce della terra una lontana cupola di festa' 'Everything calms in memory's wake only the sweetest trace-edges remain as distant observance' Alfonso Gatto #BarriereFragili Di Tempi Perduti Night Night
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
We put on ourselves by creating pedestals If we think someone is perfect If we make mistakes we can’t confide in an Angel on a pedestal. We build our own barriers to Love #BarriereFragili youtu.be/iq8_1-t9MqU?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
With the #accesstojustice agenda on #IWD2026 we are looking to remove barriers for women & girls to become their best selves #CSW70 an un-becoming of who we have been expected to be since birth Divenire - L.Einaudi youtu.be/b8SkX9CSJQo?... Sundown in Durham Image
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
Love blows moonlight through the ruins #BarriereFragili
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Writing for Wellbeing @writeforwellbeing.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
“In this world things are beautiful only because they are not quite seen, or not perfectly understood. Poetry is precious chiefly because it suggests more than it declares.” ― Anthony Trollope writingforwellbeing.co.uk #writing #WritingCommunity #WritersCommunity
Sky with glowing full moon behind a bird of prey silhouetted on tree branch
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
Following sunlit paths A lone deer hesitant On the city’s verges But light years away Keep the darkness of this current world at bay Nature’s barrier protects #BarriereFragili
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
We are drawn to each other Magnets “I should feel the air move against me, & feel the things I touched, instead of having only to look at them..we can neither hear nor feel nor understand.” D.H. Lawrence, Women in Love #benedettaUmanità Gravity youtu.be/MB2F6nagjKs?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
Like seeds in a potting shed We grow With sunlight and watering We take up Space Then shatter the Walls Blossoming #BarriereFragili #VentagliDiParole The Glass House youtu.be/8md1m6C5Dvw?... Susanna Ussing- 'The Greenhouse' Image
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
Respect the effort. Support the progress. Not just on 1 day #IWD #8Marzo #8mars Respect & Progress. Not just on 1 day #IWD26 #IWD2026 #CSW70 #DomesticAbuse #CSA Nurture the flame 🔥 Bring Equity with Peace 🫒 Access to Justice for Women Access to Justice for their Children
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
Not just one day Every day We live it We speak it We write it We sing it We nurture it
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
Every society an alchemy A synthesis of contrasts The power dynamics The games people play The Light and Dark The Love and the Underworld We barely scratch the surface as a tourist A whole Lifetime is needed to SEE the surface and deep structures
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 03/03/2026
If I could tell you… though I told you so In so many ways I told you so Carrying harvest apples I told you so Banging on your doors I told you so W.H.Auden- Villanelle Door-knocker Florence 🇮🇹
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
“You’re going to reap Just what you sow” Lou Reed Helibores, blossom and the trumpeting Narcissis on a restorative walk to welcome a blood moon There’s war on the airwaves but Life is bursting out of every verge
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
Thoughts for today
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Tom Gauld @tomgauld.bsky.social · 01/03/2026
My cartoon for this week’s @theguardian.com books.
Three panels showing a bench on a small hill in London on a grey drizzly day. A man in a fedora carrying a suitcase arrives, then he is joined by a woman carrying an umbrella and a man in dark glasses reading a newspaper. They all look shifty and hurriedly converse:
"Good."
"Very."
"Agreed."
Then they all walk off down the hill.

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Every month, the Espionage Book Club discuss a classic work of spy fiction at a clandestine meeting. To minimise the risk of exposure, infiltration or surveillance by hostile agents, conversation is restricted to the essentials.
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Lucy Antal aka Grab Your Spoon @lucyantal.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Away from all this *gestures* comfort is to be found in @rachelaliceroddy.bsky.social musing on honey and apples.
A recipe column with a central image of an apple, honey & poppyseed loaf cake, partially sliced.
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Durham’s foot-worn paths across the moors hidden & derelict farmhouses, cottages & barns look through the windows to the wild landscapes worn interiors hints of Pennine ghosts painted dwellings of imagination Paul Stangroom-The Windows Collection Favourite Hexham artist
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Your LENS on friendship & solidarity will change during & after betrayal People you trusted will protect the status quo People you cared for deeply will distance themselves Your ‘normal’ is no longer their ‘normal’ Their conflicts of Interest get in the way of integrity Good hearts will find you
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
This March UN focus is on Impunity The UN Women conference focus is on Access to Justice Impunity for all States, Institutions, Leaders who impede access to fair & equal process in Domestic Violence cases, child sexual abuse crimes & cross border assistance when fleeing violence
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Clean your LENS Make an inventory they say Photograph it untouched for years Film it Live it again at our convenience Fixture & Fittings Walls & Doors Tell us what you SEE The condition The Value The State it's in @seacharity.bsky.social ⁩@samsmethers.bsky.social #EconomicAbuse #CoerciveControl
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
The Fact Finding myth explodes A Factual Matrix in flames #LanguageMatters ‘findings of “FACT” made by judge…were in reality a finding based on a MISTAKEN FOUNDATION’. 'The judge FELL INTO a basic error by not establishing THE FACTUAL MATRIX' Translate: Not facts lawgazette.co.uk/news/family-...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Take your time In your stillness Measure the Power Balance the probability Then knock them down With a feather
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
After sitting on that chair for months & months And gorging on all that Italian cake A Bootcamp of Power Walks is all it takes Yeah Yeah Yeah For some friends in Texas & Turin youtu.be/sBSSPiRsprs?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Great training this week Thanks @unwomen.bsky.social Access to Justice is our focus this year A gendered lens is vital to guarantee just process #LanguageMatters are a key part of access to Justice for #VAWG but also for all children in the home We are here Progress Take up Space for Peace
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Focus of #CSW70 gendered lens is vital to guarantee just process Contextual considerations are paramount Cross-border cooperation & regulation of Child Protection standards, in domestic violence in homes, must conform to International Human Rights standards of Equity of Arms & Child's Voice
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
#LanguageMatters Lover Wife Mother Then you are judged ‘alleged victim’ in a system that requires victims to be soft, gentle & not strident or mortified But you learn to inhabit your activism softly to survive You inhabit the space In stillness You are not going away
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
The pursuit of Justice a lonely path Facing narratives created They said Battles of Words Storm clouds of defamation Misogyny knitted-systems Stuck on a witness chair No Woman defending herself & her children should endure such darkness Marquee Moon youtu.be/g4myghLPLZc?... #CSW70 #VAWG #IWD26
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Plant your seeds As lightly as a breeze Wait for your seeds to grow with patience Remove those swords from your back silently They will feel as light as a feather Elio De Luca- 'Fragility'
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
Well, there I stand 'neath the Marquee Moon waiting streets so bright The room was so thin between my bones & skin There stood another person a little surprised To be face to face with a world so alive How I fell I fell right into the arms of Venus de Milo youtu.be/dsOYZcP9o-4?...
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Clare Lavery @clerotto.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
‘Being moved by beauty can reorganize the sense of self. Sharing it can deepen connection and purpose’ #UnaFormaDiIncontro Art is a Form of Connection www.templeton.org/news/how-bea...
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