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ChildfreeAndHappy

@childfreeandhappy.bsky.social
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Consciously childfree and happy. In a world that idealizes parenthood, I stand for autonomy, not apology. No hate, just clarity.

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Lisa Currie 🫘 💖💜💙 @currieous.bsky.social · 19/03/2026
Childfree by Choice Research Participants Needed! Must be aged 18+, consider yourself childfree, have taken steps to prevent pregnancy for yourself or your partner(s) at any time in the last 10 years, be able to take the survey in English, and live in the US or its territories. 1/
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 31/03/2026
It's easy to be a father and hart to be a mother. #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
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𖹭 Lena ₊˚ ✩ ₊˚ ⊹ @lenamp4.bsky.social · 31/03/2026
i dont fw greys anatomy like that but christina yang was the only positive and mainstream representation of a childfree woman we had at the time
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
Old but gold ✨️ #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
“Life satisfaction, and the ability to exert one’s will on one’s life, are higher for people who’ve never had children.” #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice www.yourtango.com/self/study-finds-…
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Study Finds Childfree People Usually Share A Rare And Enviable Trait That Makes Life More Exciting
Most people who want and have kids assume that anyone who is childfree is missing out, but a new study found that adults who choose not to have kids have an openness to experience that their family-te...
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
"The details of my life have, at times, felt secondary, even tertiary, to the discussion of toddler sleep schedules and diets." #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice observer.co.uk/news/columnists/arti…
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The problems faced by childfree women are dismissed as tr...
Crude sexist caricatures of non-mothers being ‘left behind’ should offend us all
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
[...] his temper tantrums and messy eating habits have motivated several [...] to go their entire lives without ever raising children of their own. #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice theonion.com/2-year-old-unaware-he-…
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Childfree Rocks @childfreerocks.bsky.social · 17/02/2026
What show did the family arc ruin for you? . . #childfree #childfreelife #childfreelifestyle #childfreebychoice #childfreememes #childfreecomics #childfreerocks #comic #childfreehumor #idontwantkids #antinatalist #meme
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 17/02/2026
I have a list. It’s… extensive. #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
A woman in a formal chamber holds up an extremely long scroll of paper under the caption “Why don’t you want kids?
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 15/02/2026
#childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
People hate childfree women because we proved it was a choice.
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 14/02/2026
youtube.com/shorts/2joQPNtxW9s?si=_… #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
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Why a Woman’s Choice To Not Be a Mother Shouldn’t Define Her @TED #ted #shorts
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
#childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
I didn’t ‘end up’ childfree.
I escaped.
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 10/02/2026
#childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
My retirement plan is not ‘hope my kids visit.’
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 09/02/2026
#childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
Some people have kids because they want them. Others because they never realized they could say no.
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 08/02/2026
#childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 08/02/2026
"It’s an interesting conclusion to draw – given the childfree pay taxes that go into a range of services they’ll never use" #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice graziadaily.co.uk/life/opinion/chil…
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Why do we infantilise childfree women?
In her new book, author Poorna Bell explores why women without children are often infantilised. Read more on Grazia.
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jenmovies 🍿 @jenmovies.bsky.social · 07/02/2026
Any #childfree by choice peeps out there? I'm turning 47 soon and no ragretz. Life is peaceful and fun and I love my free time. I actually really like spending time with the kids in my network but happy to be the "aunty".
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
"Is parenthood for me? And if the answer is “I’m not sure”… why does that feel so hard to say out loud?" #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice www.independent.ie/podcasts/just-be…
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Medusa's Fuckass Weirdo Lover (Envy Evernight ✨🐍) @sangrium.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
The way that so many parents are obsessed with how childfree women live their lives is insane.. why are you so offended at the idea of other people not wanting to have children when the only thing that is ever brought up about having them is "oh, what are you going to do when you're old?" (1/2)
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emma ✿ @opaliteskies.swifties.social · 01/02/2026
good morning I’ve woken up wondering why it’s okay to tell childfree people they’ll regret it when they’re older but unacceptable to tell parents they’ll regret their children one day
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 31/01/2026
Parents make parenthood their whole personality all the time — and nobody calls that “sicko stuff.” In a culture obsessed with reproduction, being openly childfree isn’t performative, its pushback. Funny how that only bothers people in one direction. #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
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Jasmine Fledderjohann @jfledderjohann.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
In today's edition of *Things NOT to Say to a Woman You Know Is Childfree*: 'You would be a great mom. I'm sure you mother people in your life in many ways.' This may sound supportive, but actually it doubles down on the harmful and false notion that womanhood=motherhood.
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Population Balance @popnbalance.bsky.social · 30/01/2026
Luke and Stefanie reflect on how, free from strong family or religious pressure and true to their own desires, they were able to make an early, mutual decision to live #childfree. Listen to their story on your favorite podcast platform. #pronatalism www.populationbalance.org/beyond-prona...
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ushasi.bsky.social @ushasi.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
"By refusing to give birth, I have birthed the version of myself that I always wanted to be." Can't help sharing such enlightening thoughts. @monaeltahawy.bsky.social #feminism #empowerment #women #rights #mitherhood www.guernicamag.com/childfree-by...
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Childfree by Choice
By refusing to give birth, I have birthed the version of myself that I always wanted to be.
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Aleeya @thiccgaiaa.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
I think the main reason for being childfree women should be fear of bringing sons to this world cause they'll eventually grow up and cause destruction can't imagine being the mother of a misogynist, an abuser, a pedo a rapist or a murderer
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
This is my idea of a full house. #childfree #ChildfreeAndHappy #ChildfreeByChoice
Illustration of a relaxed woman in a green bikini and sunhat sitting at the edge of a pool with a cocktail. Behind her is a quiet, stylish vacation home. Text at the top reads: “I’ve never been in a situation where I thought ‘kids would make this more enjoyable’.”
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月亮梦想 🌓 @beijixing.bsky.social · 04/01/2026
Given the way men whine about being single whereas women are choosing to stay single and childfree in droves I'm pretty sure this is projection since it's actually the other way around.
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Aleeya @thiccgaiaa.bsky.social · 04/01/2026
Arab/middle eastern men view women as baby incubators that they get triggered by me saying I hate kids and wanna be childfree, I know a girl who was unfollowed by an Egyptian man just cause she said she hates kids and wanna be childfree acting like a snowflake much? Lol
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Stella @stellabystarlight.bsky.social · 30/12/2025
I love kids, I love my friends with kids, but as the childfree person I would like to be considered once in a while too 😞
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Childfree Rocks @childfreerocks.bsky.social · 16/12/2025
Sometimes it’s hard being friends with parents. . . #childfree #childfreelife #childfreelifestyle #childfreebychoice #childfreememes #childfreecomics #childfreerocks #comic #childfreehumor #idontwantkids #antinatalist #meme
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Miss Lizzy @misslizzy.bsky.social · 28/12/2025
Childless Cat Ladies 2025
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Jim 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈🌊 @mamedesu466.bsky.social · 27/12/2025
Perceived Availability: Employers and colleagues often assume childfree workers have more free time and fewer obligations, leading to expectations they cover extra hours or postpone vacations. Im not available assh*le I have no one to help with life chores.
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Aleeya @thiccgaiaa.bsky.social · 26/12/2025
People get triggered by childfree content and I always ask myself why can't childfree people talk about themselves? There's a ton of "mommy and family" content and there are women whose entire personalities are about being mothers but ofc childfree people are told to stfu
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Laura Carroll @lauracarroll88.bsky.social · 26/12/2025
Check out my bio, site, including highlights of 20+ years in the media and on podcasts, #childfree writings library since 2009, my #LiveTrueBooks collection and more! lauracarroll.com
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I held a human brain once @glitchknitter.bsky.social · 26/12/2025
My house is extremely quiet and extremely peaceful. I am going to sit here and build some Lego with a cup of tea and just be incredibly relieved that I am childfree by choice. I don't know how the fuck you parents do it and I salute all of you 🖖
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 27/12/2025
Hope you had a wonderful Christmas 🎄 #childfree #ChildfreeByChoice ##ChildfreeAndHappy
Picture this: It's Christmas morning. It's quiet and gently snowing outside. You chose not to have children, so you get to sleep in for as long as you want. You didn't have to run around like crazy and go broke to make sure your kid(s) had a decent holiday. You can stay in your pajamas all day and do what you want. Life is good.
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Aleeya @thiccgaiaa.bsky.social · 25/12/2025
Having children is actually selfish being childfree is far from being selfish
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ChildfreeAndHappy @childfreeandhappy.bsky.social · 22/12/2025
What do you think about that? "I’d give anything to have a glass of wine with my mum on Christmas Day.” #childfree #ChildfreeByChoice ##ChildfreeAndHappy www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/37708957/…
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I'm sick of parents thinking they deserve Christmas off work - it's so entitled
A YOUNG woman has shared her frustration and slammed parents who think they are the only ones who deserve time off work at Christmas. Sasha Thomas, who describes herself as a “girl enjoying her chi…
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Aleeya @thiccgaiaa.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
Being childfree doesn't mean we're not busy I feel our time is taken for granted since parents fill theirs with their family life and want everyone else to work around them or boss everyone to be slaves for their kids, sorry but it's your family not mine.
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Jackie❤️☮️🇵🇸🇪🇺🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧🎵🖤♿ @bintymcfrazzles.bsky.social · 20/12/2025
My choice to stay child-free is buried under 6ft of cement and layers regularly get added. Last week at our work's Xmas do, it was someone talking about their episiotomy. I'm 51 and have no regrets. #childfree
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Anthony 🎸🦬⚔️🏌🏻 @anthonyonguitar.bsky.social · 21/12/2025
How us childfree folks feel at family Xmas parties
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