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A website written by and for child abuse survivors. - by Mike McBride www.childabusesurvivor.net www.childabusesurvivor.net/reviews photos.mikemcbrideonline.com

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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 4h
New Post - Sharing – Feeling lonely? This can cost you up to six healthy years
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Sharing - Feeling lonely? This can cost you up to six healthy years
This is only the most recent research showing the negative impacts of loneliness and social isolation on mental and physical health. And yet, we live in a world that continues to make it harder and harder...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 29/09/2026
New Shared Link - Healing the Whole Family: A Graphic Novel on Intergenerational Trauma trauma.blog.yorku.ca/2026/09/heal... Trauma
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Healing the Whole Family: A Graphic Novel on Intergenerational Trauma - The Trauma & Mental Health Report
Healing the Whole Family is a graphic story written by Grace Chiang in collaboration with mental wellness consultant Eunice Yuen and artist Nealie Ngo. The...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 29/09/2026
New Shared Link - Insomnia linked to higher risk of dementia, suicide, stroke and other major health issues: Study
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Insomnia linked to higher risk of dementia, suicide, stroke and other major health issues: Study
Insomnia may be linked to an increased risk of stroke, dementia and several mental health conditions, a new study finds.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 26/09/2026
From the Archives - Sept. 25, 2026 You’ve Already Done Hard Things #MentalHealth #Survivor #CSA childabusesurvivor.substack.com/p/from-the-a...
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From the Archives - Sept. 25, 2026
The off-week trip through 24 years of blog posts.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 20/09/2026
New Post - Sharing – Vulnerable adolescents face sharp drop in mental health service access
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Sharing - Vulnerable adolescents face sharp drop in mental health service access
We are failing to protect kids from trauma, and them failing to provide proper resources to assist them after that trauma. There's no nice way to put this failure.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 20/09/2026
New Shared Link - 71% of Americans Say They're Completely Exhausted gizmodo.com/71-of-americ... MentalHealth
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71% of Americans Say They're Completely Exhausted
A CDC report shows that people are not feeling relaxed and restful in the United States.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 19/09/2026
Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #199 Out late on a school night What small, fun thing can you do today to lift your mood, or the moods of the people around you? #MentalHealth childabusesurvivor.substack.com/p/child-abus...
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Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #199
Out late on a school night
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 18/09/2026
New Shared Link - Mental health matters: How to help someone struggling in silence www.observer-reporter.com/living/healt... MentalHealth
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Mental health matters: How to help someone struggling in silence
When someone is struggling with thoughts of suicide, the warning signs are not always obvious. While talking about wanting to die or expressing feelings of hopelessness are signs to take seriously, changes...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 17/09/2026
New Post - Sharing – When the Alarm Won’t Stop Ringing
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Sharing - When the Alarm Won’t Stop Ringing
The point, however, is that having intrusive thoughts, anxious thoughts, is something we can talk about, even make jokes about. It happens. We can't always control what messages our brains want to send...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 17/09/2026
New Shared Link - Dealing with Anxiety and Depression psychcentral.com/depression/h... Anxiety, Depression
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Dealing with Anxiety and Depression
Living with both anxiety and depression can significantly impact your life. Tips, like developing healthy habits and taking supplements, may help you cope.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 16/09/2026
New Shared Link - When the Alarm Won’t Stop Ringing
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When the Alarm Won’t Stop Ringing
Intrusive thoughts, irrational fears, and a brain that doesn’t always know best
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 16/09/2026
New Shared Link - Reading for pleasure linked to better mental health and greater empathy www.news-medical.net/news/2026091... MentalHealth
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 14/09/2026
New Post - Sharing – Chronic shame may drive destructive thought patterns in abuse survivors
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Sharing - Chronic shame may drive destructive thought patterns in abuse survivors
I don't always recognize myself as a survivor of emotional abuse, because the physical and sexual abuse was more obvious and memorable, but this description sounds familiar, and the reality of shame because...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 14/09/2026
New Shared Link - Facebook Is Hosting Huge Numbers of Horrifying AI-Generated Videos of Violent Child Abuse, and Meta Is Barely Even Pretending to Care About Taking Them Down futurism.com/artificial-i... SocialMedia
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Facebook Is Hosting Huge Numbers of Horrifying AI-Generated Videos of Violent Child Abuse, and Meta Is Barely Even Pretending to Care About Taking Them Down
Facebook is hosting huge numbers of horrifying AI-generated videos of violent child abuse, and Meta is barely taking them down.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 13/09/2026
New Shared Link - Do You Believe in Yourself? kindness-compassion-and-coaching.com/self-worth/s...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 12/09/2026
From the Archives - Sept. 11, 2026 This is a traumatic date - yesterday was an important date too. #SuicidePrevention #MentalHealth #Trauma childabusesurvivor.substack.com/p/from-the-a...
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From the Archives - Sept. 11, 2026
This is a traumatic date - yesterday was an important date too.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 11/09/2026
New Shared Link - “Our voices need to be heard”: Stories of hope for World Suicide Prevention Day www.second-step.co.uk/our-voices-n... SuicidePrevention
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“Our voices need to be heard”: Stories of hope for World Suicide Prevention Day - Second Step
Content warning: this article mentions suicide and suicidal thoughts
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 06/09/2026
New Shared Link - Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #198
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Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #198
It’s September - World Suicide Prevention Day is Next Week
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Youth Mental Health Canada @ymhc.ngo · 05/09/2026
It's not our job to toughen our children up to face a cruel and heartless world. It's our job to raise children who will make the world a little less cruel and heartless. By LR Knost #kindness #compassion #mentalhealth #ymhc
A group of children smiling and looking down at the camera. Text: It's not our job to toughen our children up to face a cruel and heartless world. It's our job to raise children who will make the world a little less cruel and heartless. LR Knost
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 05/09/2026
Child Abuse Survivor - Issue 198 It’s September - World Suicide Prevention Day is Next Week #WorldSuicidePreventionDay #SuicidePrevention #MentalHealth #Trauma #Hope childabusesurvivor.substack.com/p/child-abus...
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Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #198
It’s September - World Suicide Prevention Day is Next Week
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 04/09/2026
New Shared Link - Talk To A Stranger—It’s Good For You
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Talk To A Stranger—It’s Good For You
We often underestimate how much small talk can impact our wellbeing. Research shows that even brief conversations with strangers can boost our happiness and sense of connection, but fear and anxiety often...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 04/09/2026
New Shared Link - “What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger” and Other Stupid Crap People Tell Trauma Survivors cptsdfoundation.org/2026/09/01/w... Trauma
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“What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger” and Other Stupid Crap People Tell Trauma Survivors
Does toxic positivity make you want to punch people in the throat? Let’s separate the lies from the truth, and discuss how to navigate these frustrating platitudes. Toxic Positivity- Ew! Snar…
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 03/09/2026
New Shared Link - Survey: 1 in 4 Kids Who Needed Mental Health Help Didn’t Get It
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Survey: 1 in 4 Kids Who Needed Mental Health Help Didn’t Get It
Carroll: New Orleans students are not getting the mental health support they need. They told us that because we asked. The least we can do is listen.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 02/09/2026
New Post - Sharing – Dolly Parton’s legacy includes an unfortunate reality of caregiving: Not taking care of oneself
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Sharing - Dolly Parton’s legacy includes an unfortunate reality of caregiving: Not taking care of oneself
I'm not sure what the solution to this is. I imagine it is likely some combination of better healthcare resources, better communities, recognizing the need to support caretakers at home and work, etc....
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 30/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – Why Trauma Returns Through Sex
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Sharing - Why Trauma Returns Through Sex
Because of this stigma, articles like the one above become rare, and important reads. The stories shared in it might feel familiar to you as you read them, or they may help you understand what many survivors...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 30/08/2026
New Shared Link - Why We Avoid the Conversations That Would Make Us Happier www.powerofusnewsletter.com/p/you-should... Community
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Why We Avoid the Conversations That Would Make Us Happier
Research shows we underestimate how much other people want to connect.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 29/08/2026
From the Archives: August 28, 2026 I can’t see your reaction to reading about my abuse; when I tell someone in person, their reaction is right there in front of me. It can be very uncomfortable. #Trauma #MentalHealth #CSA #Abuse childabusesurvivor.substack.com/p/from-the-a...
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From the Archives August 28, 2026
The off-week trip through 24 years of blog posts.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 26/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – Why Trauma Survivors Often Don’t Ask for Help Until It’s Almost Too Late
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Sharing - Why Trauma Survivors Often Don’t Ask for Help Until It’s Almost Too Late
It's one thing to encourage trauma survivors to ask for help. It's quite another to make sure the help available to them won't make things worse. There are too many unsafe people in this world who would...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 24/08/2026
New Shared Link - Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #197
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Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #197
Out of my normal routine
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 24/08/2026
Child Abuse Survivor - Issue 197 Out of my normal routine #MentalHealth #Trauma #Connection #ChildAbuse childabusesurvivor.substack.com/p/child-abus...
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Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #197
Out of my normal routine
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 23/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – Early intervention for mental health conditions can prevent escalation
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Sharing - Early intervention for mental health conditions can prevent escalation
We could make a massive improvement in society's mental health by getting involved earlier, but we somehow continue to do very little and hope it won't get worse. 
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 23/08/2026
New Shared Link - The Story My Brain Creates dawnlackey.substack.com/p/the-story-... Anxiety
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The Story My Brain Creates
Thanks for reading Healing Out Loud!
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 23/08/2026
New Shared Link - Parental loss doubles children's risk of mental health disorders
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Parental loss doubles children's risk of mental health disorders
A new, large-scale Curtin University study has found children who experience parental loss are twice as likely to develop a mental health disorder, compared to those living with both parents.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 22/08/2026
New Shared Link - A family guide to early mental health intervention
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A family guide to early mental health intervention
Learn the fundamentals of psychological wellness and find expert educational tools to foster open conversations about mental health.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 21/08/2026
New Shared Link - The real reason many Americans are cutting ties with their parents and siblings
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The real reason many Americans are cutting ties with their parents and siblings
Estrangement is rarely caused by childhood abuse or a pushy therapist. Instead, it reveals a collision between two ideas of what family should be.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 21/08/2026
New Shared Link - Mental Health Is More Than a Personal Matter trauma.blog.yorku.ca/2026/08/ment... MentalHealth
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Mental Health Is More Than a Personal Matter - The Trauma & Mental Health Report
What shapes our mental health? It is easy to imagine psychological distress as something that exists entirely within an individual, a chemical imbalance, a diagnosis,...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 20/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – Good News for Sports Fans—Watching the Game Could Actually Boost Your Mental Health
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Sharing - Good News for Sports Fans—Watching the Game Could Actually Boost Your Mental Health
It makes sense; sports can become a community, and we know how much that can benefit our mental health:
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 10/08/2026
New Shared Link - Mental Health Challenges: Meditate or Medicate? www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/conf... MentalHealth
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Mental Health Challenges: Meditate or Medicate?
The real question is not whether to meditate or medicate, but what support is needed to heal.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 09/08/2026
New Shared Link - Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #196
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Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #196
What makes America different when it comes to Mental Health?
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 09/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – Mentally, are young people really worse off? Or are they better at admitting they’re struggling?
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Sharing - Mentally, are young people really worse off? Or are they better at admitting they’re struggling?
Today, young people are more likely to report it. This is a good thing, but it raises the question of whether the increases are real, as opposed to people being more likely to report struggling. This...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 09/08/2026
New Shared Link - Moral Fatigue in the Age of Advanced Information: Understanding, Surviving, and Responding
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Moral Fatigue in the Age of Advanced Information: Understanding, Surviving, and Responding - Interconnected Earth
Since 2020, the world has faced historic events, leading to a rise in moral fatigue as we strive to understand and respond to these challenges.
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Interconnected Earth @connectedearth.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
Overwhelmed by wildfires, political chaos, and economic uncertainty? That exhaustion is moral fatigue — a natural response. Focus on what you can influence; your attention and action still matter. buff.ly/V0DKcZB #MentalHealth #PurposefulEngagement #MoralFatigue #CurrentEvents #CompassionFatigue
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Moral Fatigue in the Age of Advanced Information: Understanding, Surviving, and Responding - Interconnected Earth
Since 2020, the world has faced historic events, leading to a rise in moral fatigue as we strive to understand and respond to these challenges.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 07/08/2026
Child Abuse Survivor - Issue 196 What makes America different when it comes to Mental Health? #MentalHealth #Trauma #Depression #Research childabusesurvivor.substack.com/p/child-abus...
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Child Abuse Survivor - Issue #196
What makes America different when it comes to Mental Health?
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 05/08/2026
New Shared Link - Healing After Suffering: Find Yourself After Loss or Trauma www.goodtherapy.org/blog/healing... Trauma, Healing
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 05/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – Why Young People are Using AI for Emotional Support
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Sharing - Why Young People are Using AI for Emotional Support
It turns out that young people aren't just being silly when they use AI to help with their mental health. They get real benefits from it, despite all the risks that come along with those benefits:
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 04/08/2026
New Shared Link - From the Archives - July 31, 2026
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From the Archives - July 31, 2026
The off-week trip through 24 years of blog posts.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 04/08/2026
New Shared Link - Depression, Loneliness, and Memory Problems Are Worse In Middle Age, But Only in America maximumfun.org/episodes/dep... MentalHealth
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Depression, Loneliness, and Memory Problems Are Worse In Middle Age, But Only in America | Maximum Fun
Unpacking troubling data (for Yanks) with researcher Frank Infurna, plus a Mike Doughty update.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 03/08/2026
New Shared Link - Coloring's Impact on Mental Health and Well-Being www.tomorrowsworldtoday.com/art/coloring... MentalHealth
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Coloring's Impact on Mental Health and Well-Being
Celebrate National Coloring Day on August 2nd and explore the benefits of coloring for creativity and mental wellness.
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 03/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – Trauma survivors process angry expressions differently on a subconscious level
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Sharing - Trauma survivors process angry expressions differently on a subconscious level
This doesn't surprise me. Growing up in an abusive situation taught me to be on the lookout for danger, and nothing was more dangerous than people on the verge of being angry. It's only natural that I've...
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Mike - Child Abuse Survivor @childabusesurvivor.net · 02/08/2026
New Post - Sharing – New research challenges the idea that memories of childhood maltreatment can’t be trusted
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Sharing - New research challenges the idea that memories of childhood maltreatment can’t be trusted
The takeaway, of course, is that we should believe survivors when they talk about their trauma; they do know what they are talking about. Secondly, maybe we should stop trying to convince ourselves that...
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