Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 8hI tried to handwrap my friends gift because i thought that would be nice and heartfelt but then I remembered I suck at fine motor skills and made that part of the art 020
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 14hIve worn professional outfits the last 4 days, as required by my job. Today, you are allowed to wear jeans and a purple shirt, so im dressing casually. The last 4 days I didn't have any men flirting, today I got asked out twice just on my way to work. Do formal clothes scare men that bad? 030
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 15hK1 saying something seemingly innocuous and me saying "Keiichi needs to die" in response probably didnt help this perception 020
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 15hI guess I can see how the mix up happens. Their relative ages are rarely mentioned but K1 talks several times about how he's further ahead than everyone else academically. 120
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 15hOk actually im making my partner read it. He kept wincing everytime K1 made a sexual comment towards the girls which I thought was odd because they are really not that bad. I then learned he for some reason thought K1 was ~18 and the girls ~13. 120
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 16hi hate when i show him my favorite games and hes barely paying attention 🙄 170
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 08/10/2026Its really bizarre how Google maps assumes i would rather get 30 minutes later than take a 10 min walk. 040
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026"Just dont deal with it. They are shitty" this is how I was entirely socially isolated for like 20 years. im not sure "group where im not tier 2" is possible. Probably because im autistic and trans. 000
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Whats the correct answer when a friend group makes it somehow clear you are a tier 2 friend. When you are of lower social standing it seems unwise generally to "cause issues" but like yeah that did make me very sad 100
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Kind of stuff to non it people is already annoying 2. I resent that they felt a need to create a deadname account in the first place. You dont need that if its not connected to payroll 030
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Would chew me up about this, but they can't without coming across as transphobic. Im also not gonna make an active effort to try to clear up the confusion bc 1. I dont have access to whatever internal systems they use, so I dont have a way to prove this, and trying to explain this 130
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026its very clearly internally they made both a "Deadnane_Lastname" account and a "Alexy_Lastname" account that keeps confusing my higher ups and half my tools are connected to one and half to the other bc I didnt give them my legal name until signing tax stuff. I assume that they 140
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026realized the friendship with her took more priority in my brain actually when I asked someone "is (wife) going to be there" and forgot to ask about the guy entirely 030
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026I want to have sex with this guy in an open relationship, but I didnt want to be a pick me about it so I decided I should focus my attention on his wife and get her blessing so I've been dedicating significantly more energy into conversation with her and... Oops became friends with her and not him 230
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Is it because jeans at this point are not considered unprofessional but its annoying to get rules changed? 130
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 06/10/2026Why do so many workplaces have rules about jeans that are like "Jeans can be worn every 4th Friday." 130
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 05/10/2026My trainer keeps warning everyone that the closest restaurant has good food but that'll you'll see a lot of boob but she also assures you that the girls ARE pretty 040
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 05/10/2026"Are my Socks Clocky?" And Other Questions my Loved Ones Refuse to Answer Because of their Moral Cowardice 030
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 01/10/2026data leak at my college and the days following unauthorized attempts to use my card. awesome 040
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 30/09/2026and i got momentarily stunlocked between "well actually ig that's true" and "well on average happier people do probably" and "that's not the point." But its very funny in retrospect to me. yeah I mean I guess social isolation is pretty bad nowadays. 031
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 30/09/2026other day was crying because I felt too autistic to ever not be discardable in a friend group setting. and I was like its not fair for me to not be allowed to have friend groups when everyone else does. And then they were like what are you talking about most people don't anymore. 140
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 28/09/2026were friend groups made of people that go to bars/raves/we always very varying in age, is it a feature of the particular scene im on, or is it because people just go out less now, pushing ages upward. Other day the group was 2 23yos, a married throuple in their 30s, and a married couple in their 40s 020
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 28/09/2026And I dont have any subjective experience of being anxious. I also had my hand turn literally purple and numb once on shrooms. But this also happened on a separate occasion while sober (but it was my foot, not leg) 030
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 28/09/2026both molly and shrooms make it hard for me to breath for reasons that are unknown to me. It could just be anxiety, but i would find it strange because its not panicking -> shortness of breath. Its iust randomly being like "oh i dont have enough oxygen" and just breathing consciously for a bit 140
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 27/09/2026I mean like clearly I'm not going to respond to your statement about how you wish you did X when you were younger with "yean its too late. Too bad" so like 020
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 27/09/2026"It's never too late to start" or "well you can always change that" etc. The reason I find it strange is because its generally in situations where I couldn't have reasonably answered otherwise without being a dick. 120
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 27/09/2026Interesting thing I've noticed is I've occasionally gotten told im positive irl. Like comments about having a positive attitude etc. Its kind of strange to me. It usually comes from an event where a stranger/acquaintance vents to me about something and I give basic advice like 130
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 25/09/2026Her last name is Slavic. So I assume she figured my name, Alexy, is a male name and assumed i was a trans man lmfao. 000
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 25/09/2026Had a situation where someone was distraught about calling me ma'am. She kept trying to make physical effort to call me sir, and it was obviously physically difficult for her to do. Until she asked me how I identified. At which point she without hesitation switched to she/her. 110
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 22/09/2026My brain has accepted me living in Houston but hasn't accepted me living in Texas. Texas is a place i make fun of online not somewhere I would be in. 130
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 20/09/2026Partner pointed out it sounds like im saying habibi to my cat when I say "hi baby" and its spreading across my friend group to say habibi to our cats 030
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 19/09/2026i get self conscious about taking longer than others so I tend to recheck less than I should. i probably should not do that though consider my errors tend to be "shit handwriting errors" and not "understanding" errors and half the people leaving before me have fundamental understanding errors 011
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 19/09/2026>gets an 85 in a test, and takes longer than everyone else Im a failure. I should have worked harder. I should probably drop out im too stupid for college. Why did I even think I should be here. I bet everyone else got an 100 (Notices the median is 60) okay never mind 120
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 19/09/2026I understand why it happens but its really annoying teachers tend to get annoyed when you ask questions related to their most obvious deficiency. Ie teachers with communication and diction issues getting really annoyed and touchy about being asked to repeat things they already said 000
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 18/09/2026My new job got delayed again. Going to be a month without insurance. In the middle of the school semester without vyvanse. This seems like the precursor to my life falling apart again. 020
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Having people override your decisions for "your own good" is one of the most viscerally uncomfortable things someone can do to me, i really have no idea how so many people not only tolerate it but encourage it 020
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 17/09/2026the thing about men doing benevolent sexism is that a lot of it gets reinforced by women with internalized misogyny so when I catch a guy doing that kind of stuff they tend to deflect like "oh sorry my ex told me to be more proactive" or we and I dont exactly want to be like "your ex was a low 120
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 17/09/2026MY disaster friends are troubled individuals who are trying their best to improve. YOUR disaster friends are wicked individuals who are draining your energy and refuse to get better. 040
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 17/09/2026The reason the in person class was canceled was bc not enough people signed up btw 010
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 17/09/2026if you work full time that means you are forced to take online classes that are there for people who don't actually want to learn anything snd just want to speedrun their degree 230
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 17/09/2026>in person class gets canceled >have to pick it up online >its only once a week and the teacher says she will end class 1 hour earlier than class end time man. 130
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 16/09/2026ai doesnt even do food this badly anymore why do they always somehow manage to make the most disgusting ai food possible 010
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 16/09/2026ai doesnt even do food this badly anymore why do they always somehow manage to make the most disgusting ai food possible 000
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 16/09/2026the fact people skip com is kind of distressing to me its honestly top 3 for me. 000
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Replaying chain of memories and its kind of bizarre how that game kind of figured out how to do Disney worlds perfectly 100
Alice @chickenface.bsky.social · 16/09/2026I was hoping it would make me scream irl and have someone actually wake me up to make it stop. 000
