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Mine abandoned me as a kid and only popped into my adult life when he wanted something from me (legal advice etc). The broken fence was his to mend and he never did.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

My moon clock gives me joy every day, but especially today on a full moon day.

A wooden clock painted sage green, but with only one hand that rotates and points at whatever moon phase we are in. The clock face has seven small moons in a circle around the face. At the top is a whole circle representing a full moon. Waning gibbous, half moon, and waning crescent shapes are on the right side face of the clock. At the bottom is nothing, representing a new moon. Then off to the left side are waxing crescent, half moon, and waxing gibbous shapes. The moon shapes are painted white.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Am I glad I can’t read the comment you are responding to because it is blocked for me?

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

lol “got away unharmed.” She wasn’t raped, but the fear of it is harm. She was harmed by that man.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Oooh I like this description of the difference between joy and happiness. I too am full of joy and often sad.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

What can we do in this space to ensure that that doesn’t occur with your pocket friends

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Dude, what a question. How high up the priority list should *your* freedom to exist be? Trans rights are at the top, simply because their safety, freedom, and healthcare are being actively threatened.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Lunch solo with the oldest (34) kid. A rare treat.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

I also love when teens come toward the end of the night so I can give them lots of candy, helping me to stay away from the leftovers

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

My teen boy would have his friends over to game as they were too old to trick or treat. Inevitably they would think about all the free candy out there and would raid our costume box, don a cape, or a hat, or a wig, call it a costume and off they’d go.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

This cis sis definitely GAF, and there is there is no “side” worth listening to defending JKR. But I LOLd at a reporter limiting her availability to 5 west coast business hours. She is an unserious reporter

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Forty. I had a first grader and a third grader. West coast so I was busy getting them ready for school. No clue until my mom called to tell me. I felt panicky about taking my kids to school but decided to anyway. I was humbled by the calm and confidence of the teachers who had to hold it together.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

shhhhhh Brandon go back to bed or something

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

My former neighbor was the brother of one of Jones’ lovers. He was on Ryan’s expedition and was shot in the ambush. He did NOT like to talk about it. I HAD SO MANY QUESTIONS I COULD NOT ASK.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

My crew patiently waiting for me to finish unloading the dishwasher, so they can be served breakfast.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Please update with how long it takes her to end the date

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

Hell yeah if you need someone to run your ground game, I’ll start knocking on doors. That’s how this works, right?

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

Nothing to do but hug it out and remind each other that it wasn’t true then, and it isn’t true now. 🫂🫂🫂

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

A male friend (who was my secret crush) told me once that I was a plain Jane. The kind of girl that was everyone’s friend but nobody’s girlfriend. That shit stuck.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

You don’t need to provide joy/wisdom/cleverness every night. Just curl up next to all of us on the Bluesky couch and take some deep breaths together. That will be more than enough.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Peter Gabriel (5) America (3) The Chieftains (2) B-52s (2) Cowboy Junkies (2) Elvis Costello (2)

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

I’ve not had to do such a stringent low fiber diet beforehand. Just no nuts or seeds for a week, and all liquid the day before.

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

I have had four colonoscopies and I have never minded the prep!

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

I can hear it now in my head without teeing up the song

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

Any Mrs Piggle Wiggle! Charlotte’s Web. Little House series

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

Hell yeah Brett. I’m here rooting for you. I hope you have the best possible outcome! ❤️

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Chatty Cathy (she/her) @cathyfarman.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

I’m too busy starting a war in the Middle East to rename a lake RN. But I’ve got some Taylor Farms sales mixes you could have

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