Reposted by Carissa Explains NothingBrooklynDad_Defiant! @mmpadellan.bsky.social · 08/03/2026This number should be at 100 percent. 1151414215
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/02/2026Anybody got a good recipe for eating the rich? 3280
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/02/2026I need you to understand the rage that comes after surviving men who were either pretending to be the victim or the hero while trying to fucking drown me as everyone laughed and blamed me. 1130
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/02/2026He came to inform the management that his breakfast was late 1250
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/02/2026The way people hate survivors more than abusers has to be one of humanity’s stupidest flaws. 0100
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/02/2026Dear Spring… hurry up. I need to see the sun again. 2360
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/02/2026Water is the first ingredient in Diet Coke. So yes, I drink plenty of water. 0100
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 26/12/2025I’m in Christmas colors all year 0630
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 26/12/2025My little Libby almost died a few days ago. I talked about it on Threads, Facebook, and Instagram if you want to see more. I’m still so exhausted from this whole ordeal but incredibly grateful for all the people who helped save her life. 2180
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 26/12/2025Eggnog in coffee is my favorite thing right now 190
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 26/12/2025I posted a picture of myself in a bathing suit on my Instagram last week and lost hundreds of followers that day. 😂 So that’s super great. lol 190
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 26/12/2025The correct ratio of potatoes to everything else 1130
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 26/12/2025Two Christmases ago I was being nice and giving a gift to my damn stalker because I didn’t know he was the stalker. Last Christmas I was being cheated on. This Christmas was so good if for no other reason than no men creating pure chaos and suffering in my life while I take care of them. 080
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 07/11/2025I really don’t understand the Starbucks bear thing. Put your coffee in an empty honey bear bottle and be done with it already. 170
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 19/10/2025Are you a person who has a fear of setting your feet down on the floor to get out of bed and a gremlin reaches out from under the bed and grabs you? Then don’t get a cat. 2160
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 17/10/2025“I hate when you remind me of what I did.” WOW, what a coincidence. I ALSO hate being reminded of what you did but I live with the pain every day. It’s absolutely harder for me than it is for you. 170
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 17/10/2025The teenage version is “okay, I’m just going to do my hair and makeup and FaceTime three friends and finish my math homework real quick. Oh, and I can’t find my shoe.” 0101
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 17/10/2025Save trimming the bangs for a more emotionally stable day 050
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. To be abused so horrifically and so publicly while being mocked and lied about and daily being encouraged to kill myself to “make the world a better place” and yet here I am… still fighting, still smiling, still loving, still breathing. 0120
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025I never in my wildest dreams thought any of what happened was possible, or that it would happen to me. I lived the worst case scenario. I’m still trying to put my life back together 190
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025me murdered then tried to trick me into going to meet him (he was impersonating someone else) at a certain location, maybe to kill me, and when that plan fell through he killed himself the next week. 120
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025any of this was possible and I never thought it could happen to me. I never knew that so many evil people existed. I never knew so many people would find it funny and literally enjoy trying to publicly abuse me to death. I never knew someone I thought was a caring friend would actually try to have 130
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025The stalking and harassment was constant. It seemed like he never slept. When you watch documentaries like Unknown Number, please remember that these are real nightmares that real people have had to survive. I absolutely never knew 130
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025publicly spread insane lies. According to DMs sent to me, the goal was to “destroy my life and never stop.” My stalker was creating fake social media accounts to monitor me, send me messages, and to spread lies about me by sending DMs and posting comments about me. 220
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025He did all of this while impersonating other people to attempt to frame others for his crimes. It was only a year ago that I learned my stalker’s true identity. In addition to his direct attacks on me, my stalker communicated with various people to. 120
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025recording me in my home, using spyware to monitor all of my communications, harassing me and nearly everyone I knew and had regular interactions with, impersonating me, and attacking every part of my life from my business to my family and friends. 120
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025The sheriff’s detective told me in an email in April that I was the victim of the craziest stalking case she had ever worked and to never let anyone make me believe otherwise. The stalker worked his way into every aspect of my life, tracking my locations, 120
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 09/09/2025The stalking ordeal has been over for 5 months but sometimes it’s still so hard for me to wrap my head around it all. I try to not think about it as much as possible, but it’s hard to ignore because the impact on my life was catastrophic. 1481
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/08/2025When your abuser destroys your mental health, sees you breaking down under the crushing weight of the abuse, then tells you the one who actually needs therapy is you. 3284
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/08/2025Now I’m posting long-form content and discussing things I prefer to test out on the patrons first. 😁 I have the *other* Patreon too. I’ll hide that link and discount somewhere in this thread. 😂 Main Patreon discount code is AUGUST patreon.com/CarissaExpla...patreon.comGet more from Carissa Explains Nothing on PatreonPost-purity culture ramblings and some sexy selfies. 060
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/08/2025Just pushing through a little rough patch (okay, a big rough patch but what else is new) and thought I’d make a discount code for the Patreons for anyone interested. Originally this was a place where I put a bunch of pictures and talked about purity culture. 190
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 04/08/2025Just stubbornly refusing to give up ❤️ 2490
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 03/08/2025Obviously I’m not asking for your answers to every single question, just what stands out to you the most based on your own life experiences, education, previous experiences with people suffering abuse, etc. Any thoughts? I’m processing a lot and curious what others would have to say. 6/6 040
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 03/08/2025What opinion do you have about people abandoning her? What sort of things would you advise she do to get help, to be heard, to get her bills paid, to maintain some kind of normalcy in life, to stay alive and as healthy as possible, and to heal when the crimes cease? 5/6 150
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 03/08/2025Next part of the question: What would you say to anyone in her life who won’t believe her? What would you say to the people who see her suffering and take advantage of her for various selfish reasons? What would you say to people who blame her for the crimes happening to her? 4/6 140
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 03/08/2025her friendships, her family relationships, her dating life, her outlook on the future, her finances, her will to live, etc.? What ways would you expect she might behave that are different from what is normal for her? How might you see her personality change? 3/6 140
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 03/08/2025threat always lingering so she is constantly on alert that it’s going to happen again at any time and she’s powerless to stop it), how do you expect this to impact her life? How do you expect it would impact her ability to work, to care for herself, her mental health, her perception of reality, 2/6 140
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 03/08/2025I’m having some early morning thoughts and I’d like input. First of all, big CW for talk of SA. Don’t read further if this conversation will be triggering for you. If a woman is experiencing a form of sexual abuse constantly for two years (the actual crime happening sometimes daily and the 1/6 1100
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 02/08/2025It’s possible there might have been a plan to murder me at a donut shop… and other truly bizarre things that I survived. I’m writing a little bit at a time about the stalking ordeal and mostly sharing it here: www.patreon.com/posts/day-i-... 0130
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 02/08/2025Netanyahu is a war criminal. Donald Trump rapes women. Stop electing psychopaths. 0190
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 29/07/2025If you know what a “sword drill” is… hi, friend. How goes the faith deconstruction? 070
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 29/07/2025THE MOST EMBARRASSING PICTURE OF ME IN EXISTENCE 🥴 Bless my stupid little heart 181303
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 25/07/2025There isn’t actually a score. Women can share their experience with the man (good or bad) and give him either a red flag or a green flag. 010
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 25/07/2025The grim reaper was supposed to come get the old, racist, orange man… and he did. Be more specific with your prayers next time. 0180
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 24/07/2025Forget credit score. She wants your Tea app score. 180
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 06/05/2025I think I need to do a TikTok series teaching people how to NOT be stalkers, because this shit is too damn common right now. 2264
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 05/05/2025Reading the unspeakably cruel comments people left on a video of a beautiful disabled baby boy is something that makes me wish there was a hell. 2210
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 05/05/2025I’ll always stop for a selfie with a rainbow, even if I look silly to the other people in the parking lot 23357
Carissa Explains Nothing @carissaexplains.bsky.social · 05/05/2025It is not the responsibility of women to heal the men who harm us. 825226
