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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 2h
I don’t know what it is but whatever it is, Dakota Johnson does not have it.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 2h
My efforts to meet new people have been good but tiring. I don’t wanna tell my story again, lol. Two to three outings a week is too many for this old bird. Time to slow it down a little bit.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 2h
Went to a Black Queer book club meeting. It was good, folks were lovely, discovered a cute town, I enjoyed the book way more than everyone else (that never happens in my dc book club, lol) and on the drive back, one of them did a fullllll birth chart reading. What more can you ask for? 📗: I, Medusa
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 03/10/2026
Social experiment = success. Making new friends is exhausting. Nevertheless, bla bla bla.
Candace taking a mirror selfie near a bank of elevators bc she can’t ignore a giant mirror.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 02/10/2026
Privately lobbying the pope over AI is just an absurd statement about where we are. Bluhhhh.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 02/10/2026
I can’t.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 02/10/2026
I’m running a social experiment tonight, hopefully fun(ny?) stories abound?
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/10/2026
My LEAST favorite new thing is when he’s like “I’m doing it!” and he’s going the opposite direction while kicking a ball
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/10/2026
No guilt! That child is well-loved and cared for, lol. This reminds me there was a moment that we were actually worried about his hearing. But he can somehow hear whispered conversations from two rooms away 🤨
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/10/2026
It’s so tiring. And then Iiiiii’m the bad guy when I yell the fifth time I ask.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/10/2026
Hi, yes, when do kids start doing things the first time you ask? I assume any minute now.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/10/2026
It felt v random but I know they love an occasional guest spot.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 30/09/2026
Not Deborah Vance on the Breakfast Club.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 30/09/2026
I think about the concept of legacy a lot, who it matters to, and why.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 29/09/2026
My kid turns 9 next week. I don’t even know what to do with that.
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Animated Calendar Flipping Months
ALT: Animated Calendar Flipping Months
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 29/09/2026
One day I’ll get over the price of hotels in NYC, but not today.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 28/09/2026
Okay, well the Montecito episode of Hacks was perfection. I’m not ready to say goodbye 😭
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 28/09/2026
Do you have a preferred recipe? I was recently informed I need to make birthday cupcakes to take to school 🙃
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 27/09/2026
She cute!
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 25/09/2026
What’d you get? We test-drove two recently.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 25/09/2026
It was so bad I went to the doctor, lol. She gave me a great anti-inflammatory and I have found leftover muscle relaxers 🙌🏾
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 25/09/2026
This is like the time I got a migraine and was like “people live like this???” Anyway, all forms of chronic pain suck terribly.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 25/09/2026
I have deeply fucked up my back and I’m sorry I was not previously more sympathetic to the chronically fucked-up back people.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 24/09/2026
Also some think going to therapy IS the work, when it’s merely step one.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 23/09/2026
This is hanging in kiddo’s class and…I hate it? I’m all about kid’s working on their independence but this feels like the baby version of doing your own research.
A children’s classroom poster encouraging children to ask two classmates for help before asking the teacher.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 22/09/2026
The 4,000 WhatsApp groups do not help.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 22/09/2026
Even when it’s good and important, sometimes we are plagued with Too Much Discourse about Too Many Things.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 20/09/2026
Right. So involved on a macro level, that she missed the important stuff right in front of her.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 20/09/2026
I quit football years ago but it feels like fans are SO quick to react these days. It’s week 2, yall.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 20/09/2026
The NHJ article is tooooouuuuggghhhhh to read. Parenting Black children in America is complicated.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 20/09/2026
I’m so aggravated lately that companies don’t even pretend to care about consumer harm anymore.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 20/09/2026
I’m cackling. This is the best I could find online and I’m not paying for it. But it was weirdly a thing!
Screenshot of beginning of article about zippers not working at the start of 2000
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 19/09/2026
Jay and I are telling Jack how everyone thought the zippers would stop working when the year 2000 hit and I’m crying over how dumb that was.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 17/09/2026
I’ve seen a few Black Mirror eps, I know this goes wrong, somehow.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 17/09/2026
This just unlocked a crazy childhood memory for me.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 16/09/2026
New La Roux?!?
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 12/09/2026
I will never get over W’s 9/11 paintings. Truly thought it was a joke when I first saw them. We all have our ways of processing trauma, or something.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 11/09/2026
I’m not going to say what immediately came to mind.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 09/09/2026
Was whatever about him in Fleabag but I just saw why everyone was talking about hot priest again and
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Mel B Fanning Myself
ALT: Mel B Fanning Myself
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 06/09/2026
Me, witnessing how people are boarding this plane.
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Johnny Lam: Stressed Out on MAFS
ALT: Johnny Lam: Stressed Out on MAFS
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 04/09/2026
We watched the trailer this week, it looks fun and silly.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 03/09/2026
Watching Deb and Ava snipe at each other is getting old but S4 of Hacks has some good bits (esp Dance Mom and the throuple).
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 03/09/2026
Recently went to test-drive a car and the guy gave us his car and said bring it back by 6:00. Left his wallet and vape and everything in it. This place is built different.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/09/2026
What is a 42-yo woman supposed to wear to a Jay-Z concert in London? I truly have no idea.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/09/2026
Our Pop Princess was in the thick of it but “Circus” and “Blackout” has some bangers.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 01/09/2026
I get some people aren’t phone folks but one thing I love about millennials and up is we call. Nobody is ever surprised to see my name on the caller id.
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 30/08/2026
How is the scammer story getting more foolish?!
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 29/08/2026
Might be alright 💕
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 29/08/2026
I’m terrible about watching Tiny Desks but this Isaiah Rashad one was delightful. youtu.be/kVzaq0RRYPQ?...
youtu.be
Isaiah Rashad: Tiny Desk Concert
YouTube video by NPR Music
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CAK @candacearm.blacksky.app · 28/08/2026
Idk what I thought it was but I was wrong. Alas!
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