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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 11h

Switching medicines Going to go on a GLP1 and a new Finasteride Minoxidil combo. Cancelled my peachy gummy subscription. Fighting back on my physical health and going to start doing more on it. Fighting back on my mental health too. I have to claw at my financial health now. #gaygeek #wellness

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 15h

I’m so thankful I didn’t go to the #glutenfreefest in spring grove Chicagoland IL today. I’ve been gluten free for 14 years and I know for a fact how overcrowded and that they weren’t able to accommodate all the guests. A perfect fall day caused it.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 16h

I’m not a regular dad, I’m a queer gay dad. Maybe a little bit cool. Mostly want to get back into shape and know better what’s ahead. #gaydad #gaygeek

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

One day I’ll meet these two. Happy October 3rd for all queers gays theys and girls who celebrate mean girls day.

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Mean Girls: It's October 3rd

ALT: Mean Girls: It's October 3rd

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Queer men in their 40s only want one thing and it’s this. Well maybe this and to have some fall fun.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I am not use to in my commercial bank for shows ads against democratic senate candidates in IL but also them saying oh, Julianna Stratton supported El Sayed in Michigan who likes Hasan Piker so don’t vote for her. Like honestly, that’s your argument. Not even her own record. Team Julianna 4 me.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I would legit lose it if these were both streaming or on physical media so I could consume these on the regular. As a late millennial gay, I learned so much from these women. Judging Amy and Murphy Brown need to be out already. #gaygeek

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

This is not knocking a pit sweat kink, but I feel like they are probably behind why 24, 48 and 72 hour deodorant doesn’t actually work that long. Like I don’t get why they are allowed to claim that as a deodorant company when I feel like I have to reapply it a few times on low impact days even.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I know there are some good fall months to do it, but biggest thing I want to do is touch more grass and lose weight because that’s going to get my anxiety under control. The less weight I have, the less my panic will be. And I know that’s not body positive of me but I have such health problems

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Seeing Jill Stein pop out of her groundhog cave to prepare to gather votes but ultimately prove as useful to this country as a fart in a crowded elevator on a hot summer day. Notice she hasn’t helped with one thing these last two years.

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Here I Am Rita Repulsa

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Sometimes I look geeky in public and embrace being a queer dad type.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

My Sunday scaries are Monday scaries since I have to go in person Tuesday - Thursday unless I turn in my mental health doc to work and admit I’ve got a lot of anxiety

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

For me, it’s a tie between Super Mario World , and getting it in Christmas of 92. Little kindergarten me getting his own system. And then Final Fantasy Tactics and FFVII on the PlayStation and discovering RPG games and learning strategy.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

If also femme top blouses were more accepted, I wonder what 2015-2016 would have been like for me.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Sometimes i wish i could love myself bigger and plus size as much as I love plus size chubs superchubs daddy bears etc. That’s the hardest thing I struggle with in my mind. I know I’ll lose the weight again. But acceptance is key.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Chat is Widows Bay really Best Medicine after dark? I know I’m late to it but I can’t always be on top of everything.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

The toilets in NYC I love from a public planning space idea but my gosh, I would be panicking mid wipe that the door would open and that wouldn’t help anything and people have never had to change a diaper or be disabled that planned the 10 minute rule. Can people get 15?

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Duncan Sheik, I miss you. Spring Awakening. You were my soundtrack of my senior year of college. These lyrics never fail to make me cry. #springawakening

A tree with one leaf growing
Then lyrics
Those you've known and lost still walk behind you
All alone, their song still seems to find you
They call you as if you knew their longing
They whistle through the lonely wind
The long blue shadows falling

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Can it be Tuesday October 20th so I can get all my dudeoir nude photos back? I had such a blast doing the shoot, but now quite literally want to see my own ass

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

I’m just ready for the new iPhone but my phone is like I’m out of memory and I’m having to delete apps to tide myself over.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Any Republicans attacking Chris Gallant need to just be reminded their no. 1 GOTV is Scott Pressler who has the exact same past and they literally advertise him on events so, which is it?

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Richard Simmons' Shocked Reaction

ALT: Richard Simmons' Shocked Reaction

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

I’m doing a digimon rewatch and is it bad that I preferred it over pokemon because it felt more like mine in junior high? Also I own a set of digimon crests and my favorite two were always these two.

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Digimon: Gatomon & Patamon Dance

ALT: Digimon: Gatomon & Patamon Dance

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

I’m exactly 40. Pets: 3 Shih Tzus Identity: Queer barely Cis Otter Next Door Classic Gaymer, Former Barista, Engineer, Fandoms. Met over 700 stars at cons. Fan of all BHM Chubs Bears & Daddies. Body Positive. Struggles with own weight, in therapy. Going to get healthy for me. Please by my friend.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

This is 40 as an aging queer person and I would really like to see on my birthday some cake bussy cock huge tummy stomach and moobs from any BHM chub bears cubs superchubs and baddies of all kinds to be honest please #dirtyoldman #thisis40 #bussy #chubs please it’s my birthday

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Though my favorite birthday dessert is pie, all I want to see for my birthday is cake, big cakes in particular, hairy cakes, queer cakes, just butts in general. That would be a great 40th birthday gift to a queer barely cis geek #birthday #butts

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Nails painted. Bussy and cock and that area waxed. Blowout for hair coming. Nude body positive photoshoot on Tuesday for 2.5 hours. This queer person is ready to embrace 40. #thisis40 #queer

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

I genuinely want people to believe in harm reduction for politics but I feel like I need work on my messaging. Also I’m exhausted and not ready to be 40 in a few days. #queer #gayman #aging #exhaustion

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

I got fully Brazilian waxed today. Always act Kinsey 6 gay around them. Also my pain tolerance is pretty high since I’m just a rip and don’t count person. But my cock sack and bussy is free of hair. I really prefer it that way. I like the divine feminine masculine blur of gender. A lot to ponder

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

I love all forms of Star Trek. TOS- Academy. Always talk to me about trek. I never don’t want to talk about Star Trek. #idic #startrek #startrek60 #trekkie

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

All I really want is to collect dollhouses but of tv shows and movie sets I love

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Summer 2026, maybe not the best one ever, but I made it through. Next summer, I want to do more fun things again. And make it to the Ren Faire. But I pretty much hit the farmers market every weekend. Still need to swim though. But hey, we each move at our pace and that’s fine. Onward to fall.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

This is ridiculous. You can’t vote, but you can influence elections from Prison but also have 0 clue about the candidates you are calling OBO. And also likely candidates who could make their lives harder.

Oklahoma prison inmates work at call centers for super pacs

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

Realized I repressed the memories of working at an office job where I bought my own supplies because the man who ran the supply room refused to give them out and would yell at people who asked.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

This show talking about the normalization of cunt was everything.

Paul Baker saying the word cunt and normalizing it.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Life was better when it was 2004 and Ashlee Simpson was a little bit edgy and queer teens had an anthem to play.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

I don’t want to get my bussy and cock waxed but I also just feel like a smooth look again. But it hurts. Aging queerly is hard.

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

I laugh so hard when they say his first and last name every time #paulbaker #adults

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Zac Marshmallow @blondemarshmallow.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Honestly seeing all the death of all the beloved people who people universally adored reminds me that if death really did discriminate, it wouldn’t have taken the people I loved in my life way too young from Death. It’s oddly comforting in a world full of so much chaos. I gotta live for those gone

Love, death, life, Doesn’t discriminate between the sinners and the saints, it takes it takes and it takes and it takes.

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