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baxstar jonmarie ferguson

@bjthehetheygay.ca
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(gender+neuro)queer writer, researcher, aspiring novelist. white 🇨🇦 immigrant in 🇲🇽. animist. anarchist. abolitionist. reparationist. landbacker. journalist @well.beings.news portfolio at bjthehetheygay.ca

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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 06/04/2026
Logged into Bsky Tracker for the first time in a while and apparently I am on two "MAGA" lists (a follow and a block list LOL). Sorry to disappoint, but even if I wasn't a loud leftist, I am literally neither from nor in the USA. This is the only "MAGA" I support: land back, reparations, abolition.
Linocut street art in Oaxaca picturing an Indigenous person with the phrase MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN, implying "America" to be the entire continent.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 31/03/2026
Happy Trans Day of Staying In and Having a Nice Snack to all who celebrate!
Hi! My name is BJ. Today is an international holiday called Trans Day of Staying in and Having a Nice Snack. Please help me celebrate by sending me $5-20 for a nice snack :) My favorite snack is pizza. Send funds to bexvankoot@gmail.com — thank you!
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 21/01/2026
Here's an image from The Dysphoria Bible of the author's hand before and several years after starting hormone therapy. genderdysphoria.fyi/en/second-pu...
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 19/01/2026
You cannot tell me that anyone who can read thought this was a real letter from the FBI. These are not words!
Blurry gibberish on the PDF sent to The Needle as evidence of the received FBI letter. The text is garbled, inconsistent, and even blurred beyond recognition one can tell that these are not coherent words and sentences.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 06/01/2026
I love meal-on-a-bun meals. Here you can get a tamal or chilaquiles on a bolillo for breakfast and they are both excellent. Also, "slappy" is an incredible name for a pie sandwich.
torta de chilaquiles verdes con cebolla morada, queso y crema.Torta de tamal verde
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 01/01/2026
Not me trying again and getting it twice lmao
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 01/01/2026
lol ok no tho
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 01/12/2025
Are we doing this right?
My kitten (now 10 years old, pictured 10 months) perched on my head as I wear a hoodie.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 28/11/2025
My favorite part of this work is the interviews. I get to chat with incredible people, doing amazing work, in unprecedented times. And it doesn't hurt to consistently hear from my sources how vital my work is, and how grateful they are to me for doing it. wellbeingsnews.com/upgrade
Black Friday HOT SALE at well.beings.news
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 23/11/2025
Have none of y'all ever considered just... having actual energetic boundaries? Like if you are having visions of the people who masturbate thinking about you, that's 100% a you problem. Tell your guides to keep that shit to themselves ffs.
Post saying, "Stop masturbating to spiritual people if you don't have consent. We can see you, feel you and our guides will also tell us your name.

Honestly just ask the person you wanna masturbate to if you can. You might be surprised who says yes and if you can't contact that person and ask then you definitely have NO right or place to be masturbating to them. Fucking up people sacral and your own. It's raggedy. Stop."
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 08/11/2025
Zohran Mamdani campaign style sign reading "TRANSGENDER FOR EVERYBODY"
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 08/11/2025
Gender is a performance and I'm Aimee Mann who hates playing vampire towns.
Aimee Mann on Buffy in an incredible red black and white striped suit with tie playing guitar
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 20/10/2025
I am going to scream.
Hello Mr. Ferguson, I came  across your request for LGBTQ health and wellness providers and I thought I would submit my business as a likely candidate. I am the CEO of ELYS and we are a new startup company officially launching in November. i have enclosed a breakdown of how ELYS plans to help the LGBTQ communities.
For the LGBTQ+ community, safety isn’t always a given. Whether you’re out, coming out, or navigating spaces that don’t always understand you, the ELYS Hot Button is your one-tap lifeline for those “what if” moments.
Here’s how it works:
• You press the Hot Button in a possible loss-of-life situation.
• Your pre-written message—crafted with clarity, love, and legacy—is held for 72 hours.
• If the danger passes, you cancel it. If not, your truth is sent to your trusted circle.
It’s not just tech. It’s emotional armor.
It’s not just survival. It’s self-expression, even when you can’t speak.
Whether you’re traveling, navigating family dynamics, or simply want to know your story will be honored—ELYS is there. And for those who want to go deeper? The ELYS Library stores your documents, music, photos, and videos to be released after death. It’s legacy, curated with pride.
It’s a declaration:
Your voice matters. Your story deserves to be heard. Your safety is sacred.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 12/09/2025
So apparently the symbols that law enforcement told the WSJ was "transgender ideology" was actually the code from the Helldivers 2 video game for calling the Eagle 500kg bomb airstrike. Fuck everyone involved in publishing that story.
From them.us: "At a press conference on Friday, Utah Governor Spencer Cox said that there were etchings on bullet casings found within the rifle. One unfired casing read “Hey fascist! Catch!” which included an arrow up, arrow to the right, and three down arrows. A second included “if you read this you are gay lmao," with a third reading “oh bella ciao, bella ciao, bella ciao ciao ciao.” The casing from the fired bullet reportedly said “notices, bulges, OWO, what’s this?”"Game fan art showing the code.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 11/09/2025
There has been speculation...
Image of a bullet with the TRN (Turin) brand stamp. "It's worse. TRN is a common brand stamp for bullets from some manufacturers. The department of justice probably thought this means trans rights."
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 11/09/2025
Forever grateful for @transjournalists.org
Various outlets have reported that authorities have found ammunition engraved with expressions of “transgender and antifascist ideology” alongside a weapon purportedly associated with the killing of Charlie Kirk. The Trans Journalists Association urges caution in reporting this characterization of the ammunition without elaboration or caveats, especially as some reporting has already cast doubts on the veracity of these claims.As of this statement, law enforcement officials have not described the actual words or engravings or released photos of the ammunition. News organizations should be as transparent as possible about how details about the engravings are being confirmed, both to increase accuracy in reporting and build trust with audiences in a breaking news environment.It should also be noted that “transgender ideology” is a term coined for and used in anti-trans political messaging to falsely equate identity with politics, which is a way to frame transgender identity as a political choice rather than an innate identity. As it is often unclear what actions or political positions the phrase actually refers to — not unlike how “the homosexual agenda” is an amorphous term that has no real definition — reporters should be careful about using this term because it is used exclusively to attack a minority group for political gain.When the term “transgender ideology” is used by a government source, news organizations should prioritize direct quotes and, to the greatest degree possible, identify the source and evidence. In such cases, news organizations could report the findings as “ammunition engraved with what authorities described as ‘expressions of transgender and antifascist ideology’ without providing details of the actual terms engraved.”
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 10/09/2025
Doing some work trying to get bylines updated to unify my portfolio under my new name, and just realized that in 2016-2018 after I stopped working for Yahoo! they were just... taking my Instagram posts and republishing them in their style section??? What the actual fuck???????
Screenshot of a post on Yahoo! Style that is just a picture of my front yard hammock and flowers talking about having a BBQ.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 09/09/2025
Good times.
Some piece of shit named "jordnfc" calling me a "fat tranny" because he didn't get my joke.Kristen Schaal is a horse.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 05/09/2025
No?
Scene from Bojack Horseman where Diane says, "I can believe this country hates women more than it loves guns." (The word "trans" has been added before "women" in the caption.) Princess Caroline responds... "No?"
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 02/09/2025
🤔
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 22/08/2025
"the left"
URL of one of the first pieces published on "left-wing" news site The Argument, "we have to stay at the nazi bar" arguing in favor of continuing to use Twitter.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 20/08/2025
I'm so grateful to have met @lexroman.com and to have had their support in the launch of @well.beings.news. The new world we want to live in needs our creative work and I for one can't wait to see what y'all are going to make. www.revenuerulebreaker.com/no-monopoly-...
It's a no one is coming to save us moment. And I think PART of the answer to our current crises is building back up independent writing, podcasting, and video. Whether you're making a funny show about what it's like to be a parent in 2025 or reporting on ICE raids in your neighborhood, you're playing an important role in how we all see and navigate the world. Maybe, in the past, we could rely on institutions to offer that, but we can't anymore. It's on us now. And I believe we can do it. Or at least that we can DO SOMETHING.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 13/08/2025
These two links are the ones you gave me. If you want them changed all you had to do was say so.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 31/07/2025
Apparently the Tea app has been just storing everyone's photo ID in an unsecured firebase bucket and now all that data is available to the public. But yeah sure no danger at all to requiring ID verification to access a website.
Alex Cohen

@anothercohen

Follow

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There is "I fucked up"

And there is "I built an app and accidentally leaked the drivers licenses of thousands of women on the internet" level of fucked up

RIP

Lain on the Blockchain

@CryptoCyberia

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Even worse than this, the images have location in the metadata. People are making maps of all the users.

LDR the Tea app stores everyone's photo and ID unencrypted in a public firebase storage bucket.

The lawsuit for this is gonna be insane

Canada

Hodson Ray

Was this vibe coded?
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 25/07/2025
What the fuck.
Screenshot from Grindr saying "The following is not allowed: no zionist, no zionists"
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 21/07/2025
In a book I just started reading about frontline (healthcare) grief.
"In 2019, a small study by researchers Bar-Ilan University in Israel found a "self-specific neurophysiological death-denial index" in our brains, which makes it easier for us to associate death with the faces of strangers than our own, suggesting that we may be hardwired to fear and deny the possibility of our own deaths."
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 20/07/2025
Honestly all of this is shitty and if trans people tell you it's dangerous, maybe you could consider we fucking know what we're talking about, given we are the ones living through it? But I truly cannot believe y'all are going this hard for a man who admits he doesn't understand how pronouns work.
“The trans issue for me is so novel,” Newsom said. “I'm trying to understand as much as anyone else the whole ‘pronoun’ thing.”

Newsom added that “gender-affirming care for children” is a “tough” topic—that while some constituents have told him that it “saved [their] child’s life,” he’s also read reports like the one “the UK just came out with,” a likely reference to the widely-rebuked and highly-propagandized “Cass Review.”

Newsom did not weigh in on the common use of GAC for cis children. Gender-affirming hormone treatment is never given to young children except in cases of precocious puberty, where it is the standard protocol for anyone regardless of their gender identity. Gender-affirming surgery is also never performed on trans children this young, but unnecessary genital surgery on intersex youth often is.

Then Ryan and Newsom agreed that human brains are not “fully developed” until age 26—the number anti-trans activists often cite in policy proposals to eradicate evidence-based health care for trans youth. There are no major, reputable medical organizations that endorse this policy, and no states have adopted it into law, but Puerto Rico is considering a GAC ban to the age of 21 years old.

Finally, and perhaps most disturbingly, Ryan compared trans kids to “furbies” who are “showing up to school in a kennel” and using litter boxes. He might mean “furries,” an internet subculture where people dress up in colorful animal costumes, which is often falsely, and pejoratively, conflated with transness. “Furbies” are a popular singing-owl toy from the early aughts.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 19/07/2025
Maybe you should tell him that. www.erininthemorning.com/p/newsoms-bi...
Earlier this year, the Governor said he “completely aligns” with some of the gender politics of far-right extremist Charlie Kirk and faced widespread backlash from constituents.

Nonetheless, he appeared to double down on the sentiment and then some this week on the Shawn Ryan Show podcast. The whopping four-hour conversation (which was not exclusively about LGBT issues) started by questioning the participation of trans athletes in women’s sports, cascaded into sowing doubt about evidence-based gender affirming care, and landed on fake news about schools providing litterboxes to kids who say they’re animals.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 14/07/2025
Did you know philodendron can flower? It is apparently rare for indoors, but the plants in my bathroom are THRIVING and this is proof. This is the second of two blooms that popped out at about the same time. They apparently only stay open for a few hours, less than 24 based on mine!
Open white philodendron bloom spathe last night, with a very prominent spadix. Side view. Last night.Open white philodendron bloom spathe last night, with a very prominent spadix. Front view. Last night.Partially closed white philodendron bloom spathe last night, with the spadix retreated. Noon today.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 09/07/2025
lmao this fucking guy
Emily Sundberg on X

Substack's co-founder @Hamish McKenzie is going to start... writing for media gossip site Breaker (which is built on Beehiiv).

substack

Substack Co-Founder Hamish McKenzie shares his thoughts every fortnight with Breaker. Here he's seen at the Substack WHCD afterparty in Washington, DC, April 26, 2025. (Photo by Shedrick Pelt for The Washington Post via Getty Images)

Hamish's Hot Sauce

Brand new to Breaker, every fortnight, Substack co-founder Hamish McKenzie (above) will share with Breaker subscribers his unbridled thoughts and insights on the media industry.

"Zohran's win in New York says something important about politics: how you talk to people now matters as much as policy. The old style-polished soundbites in staged settings, hiding more than you reveal-is over. It breeds distrust. The new way is speaking organically, to anyone, unafraid to show flaws. Our communication system has shifted from broadcast to conversation. Kamala Harris and Andrew Cuomo are the old way. Trump and Zohran are the new. CNN is out; TikTok is in."
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 09/07/2025
Fuck this scumbag omg "After the march against gentrification, Carney wants to take the opening match of the World Cup to Canada"
Tras la marcha contra la gentrificación, Carney quiere llevar el partido inaugural del Mundial a Canadá

Buscan aprovechar los conflictos migratorios de Trump así como los episodios de violencia en la CDMX. La pelea de Noem con la FIFA.

***

After the march against gentrification, Carney wants to take the opening match of the World Cup to Canada

They seek to take advantage of Trump's immigration conflicts as well as the episodes of violence in Mexico City. Noem's fight with FIFA.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 09/07/2025
What should I read next?
Screenshot from Storygraph of four LGBTQIA+ horror books: 

Benothinged 
Brainwyrms 
We Can Never Leave This Place
Everyone on the Moon is Essential Personnel
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 28/06/2025
I really loved interviewing Fae Johnstone for @well.beings.news and am super excited to be following her work, including this piece for the YWCA Toronto blog: www.ywcatoronto.org/blog/Shared-...
"my three steps (straight-gay-trans), and the journey through each as the world changed how it treated me, formed in me an analysis of gendered oppression not based in discrete categories of identity, but as an overarching system seeking to maintain the marginalization of all those deemed inferior, all those whose gendered and sexual existence fall lower on the hierarchy of cisgender, binary, heterosexual and male. I have come to perceive homophobia, transphobia and misogyny each as an expression of gendered violence. To me, they are three sides of the same oddly-shaped coin. Whether I am called a c*nt, a f*ggot or a tr*nny, it is coming from the same place: a desire to control who we can be, who we can love, and how we can live."
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 27/06/2025
Yair Lapid literally called for an end to the war bud.

יאיר לפיד - Yair Lapid
@yairlapid on x.com

The time has come to end the war in Gaza.
Leadership must know how to change strategy when it stops working.
This is going nowhere.
No one understands anymore what we’re gaining from this.
Every day, our fighters are dying.
They are lions, but the time has come to put an end to this.
Make a deal, bring back the hostages, end the war.
Let Egypt manage the Strip.
We will eliminate Hamas, but wisely, cunningly, after we regroup.
The IDF needs to sit on the perimeter, separating the border communities from Gaza.
Enter the Strip to thwart terror, choke them economically, prevent smuggling.
What we’re doing now isn’t working.
It’s not right to let IDF fighters sit inside Gaza and serve as targets for more and more attacks.
We can’t wake up every morning to “cleared for publication.”
I supported this war.
We all supported it.
But it’s no longer working in our favor.
The time has come for courageous decisions that will strengthen us for generations.
For our national resilience, for our children –
the time has come to stop.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 25/06/2025
Birthday magic ✨
It's me! In drag makeup! In front of a gorgeous arrangement of papel (pues plástico) picado.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 24/06/2025
Only one way to find out!
My mango cardamom birthday cake for tomorrow, with writing on top that says: "Fellas, is it gay to eat delicious cake" LOL
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 23/06/2025
I'm not only getting responses from people who work in completely unrelated disciplines, but I literally just got a response from a "medical weight loss" clinic. Wearing my "you have got to be kidding me" face for the rest of the day.
A goat head in a rainbow cloud with an inverted pentagram on its forehead, a flame above, with rainbow horns. Rainbow text below says, "Not today Jesus"
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 22/06/2025
cool
A google search for "fat pride" brings up one fat pride flat (3rd result) and seven "fat fetish pride" flags.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 20/06/2025
Um, the word "women" pretty explicitly does not include minors. The word you are looking for is "girls." You are talking about sex trafficking girls.
"The complaint, filed in U.S. District Court Southern District of New York, details so many disturbing claims about Fat Joe's alleged sexual relations with women - including minors - that it contains a trigger warning on the first page of the 157-page document."
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 19/06/2025
lmao
Julie Bindel, I think on Twitter: "Just been accused of transphobia by GPT Chat and I'm not even joking"
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 19/06/2025
Her bio is public.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 17/06/2025
Had the absolute blessing of getting some professional photos done on Saturday and omg y'all they are so good. A couple of fun ones.
Making a "I'm a dinosaur and Imma get ya!" face LMAOCheckered suspenders over my "GLORIFY OBESITY" sure looking fat as fuck and happy as hell.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 16/06/2025
Canadians are so fucking unserious.
DEMOCRATS ABROAD Notice: "We've changed the 'No Kings' theme of other events around the world to 'No Tyrants,' so as not to mix messages in a country with a monarchy. We are also swapping out 'No Crowns!' in favor of 'No Clowns!' Come dressed as a Tr*mp clown--DT himself, or one of his cronies. Think bad blonde wig, orange face, long red tie, or whatever gets your creative juices flowing!Images from the Simpsons "No Homers Club" scene ('it says No HomerS, we're allowed to have one!') superimposed over an image of Queen Elizabeth peering out a window, with Charles face imposed overtop of hers. The sign says NO KINGS CLUB instead of NO HOMERS CLUB.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 15/06/2025
I have seen some truly unhinged posts about an adult woman being a sexual person in her own art and I'm just going to leave this here.
The Zach Sang Show / Via youtube.com

In the clip, Dan asked the "Espresso" singer, "Are you 18 yet?" She replied, "I'm 17."

"Damn, you're so young!" he said. He paused and then continued, "Well, the question I had..." before proceeding to ask her if she's "into sexting"
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 09/06/2025
The similarities between this and the Mexica cosmology are wild to me. Now more than ever I'm convinced Quetzalcoatl did indeed traverse the oceans between continents in his snakeskin boat.
In the Canaanite cosmologies emerging in this same territory over 3,000 years ago, the olive tree as a bearer of light is central to the creation story of Sour صور (pronounced "soor"), the southernmost Lebanese city, known in English as Tyre, and one of the most important city centers for the Canaanite civilization, where its temples remain visible still today.

There were once two floating rocks off the shore of the sea that wandered aimlessly across the waters. The people of the shore were the First Humans of that place, holy and eternal as the earth itself from where they themselves one day emerged. On a particular day, the god Melqart evoked himself in a form familiar to deliver an oracle to these Earthborn people. With conviction, he instructed them how to make a "chariot of the sea," a vessel to traverse the salty waters where they could reach these wandering Ambrosial Rocks. Melqart described the vessel in detail, that they may build one to navigate the waters with success. He prophesied that once they arrived, they would find an olive free on one of the rocks which is as old as the rock itself, with an eagle perched on its top, and a snake wrapped around its trunk. They would find a self-generating fire that makes sparks from the center of the tree.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 04/06/2025
Blurry photos of the dark void out in the street for proof I wasn't hallucinating.
A dark void of a cat in some grass.A dark void of a cat on a rock.A dark void of a cat walking away.
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 02/06/2025
I am by no-means "anti-AI" but I will say that it's going to be a hard pass for me if the marketing material for your marketing class is very clearly written by ChatGPT. If you are not a hardline anti-AI person, what do you think about this?
Screenshot from a sales page: "Whether you're just getting started or you've been around the block, Summer School gives you the tools (and inspiration) to build a career that actually feels good. No fluff. No burnout. Just smart, rebellious marketing - the AMS way."
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 31/05/2025
I put two teaspoons of sugar in my mason jar iced coffee this morning and I think it's a little too sweet lol gag
1st person view of me holding 750mL of iced coffee in a mason jar in front of a cat
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 31/05/2025
Wtf bsky
Screenshot from Bluesky Tracker showing that @shelleybwoke's account has been deleted (bsky says suspended when I search here)
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baxstar jonmarie ferguson @bjthehetheygay.ca · 30/05/2025
Oh I'm going to have a full aneurysm over this one.
An Instagram post image of a notes app page that reads: 

3 Signs Your Gender Beliefs Aren't Really Yours

1. You feel a constant inner conflict or dysphoria.

2. Your beliefs limit who you can be or express.

3. You learned these beliefs from societal expectations or someone else's story.
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