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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Ask @woofymcgrrr.bsky.social - I'm sure he does. I manage the evaporative cooler, he manages the heat pump.

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

mais je suis malheureusement ici et tu est en France …

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

There's always BearUnion Saturday night at CCBC if you don't want to commit to a day pass... also, the PS Cookbook Bears group has an event the next weekend at Western X: XXL

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Last summer in France was hot; this summer was even hotter. Hat tip: @mascularstudio.bsky.social August 2025

Me, in a poor, arms crossed, water dripping off of my beard

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

so happy to see that Scruff is now behaving like Instagram, right down to the usual "chat me up on Zangi!!" profile text

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Been a while since I wrestled but I’m sure it’d come back to me quickly, Sir.

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

No idea who that Chris Pratt guy is but yeah, what he said

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Agreed, Sir. Sadly, i have a couple of friends who had similar things happen to them - and who still don’t feel comfortable sharing any kind of explicit pictures of themselves. Infuriating.

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Well, it's far from the worst thing to happen... that picture was an accurate representation of who I was at the time, at the very least, and hey, my dick looks huge, so what the heck. It could've been worse!

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

"The only winning move is not to play" 😊

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I'm a big fan of living in the present, so yeah: hard agree!

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Thanks! Definitely a one-off for me; I've almost never looked like that, but it did have its charms, I suppose.

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

yeah, what's extra weird is that i met the guy here in Palm Springs a decade later and he didn't offer an apology (and I didn't ask, of course) - but even so, that's way worse than someone setting up a fake profile using your pics, yeeesh. I think you win this round, handsome.

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Agreed; sadly, it almost seems like a rite of passage. I don't think I know anyone that hasn't happened to...

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

2. Yes, that was me in 2015; I weighed 200 pounds. I've always been chunky, save for 2014-2019, when I lost a bunch of weight on purposes; I was around 280 before then, around 240 these days. 200 was healthier, granted, but I like the way I look better these days. I'm 6' 3", by the way.

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Some notes on these pictures: 1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

it’s already taking me longer to write this comment than it would have taken you to click that link, but because I’m a nice guy, it’s something like Recon but without the security/privacy issues etc. It launched earlier this year.

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