Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 18hSome notes on these pictures: 1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you? 111589
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/09/2026I am now on Hank Social. Same screen name. hanksocial.com/u/bigdumbbearhanksocial.comBigDumbBear (@BigDumbBear)Cigars. Leather. Bears. Service. 3520
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Probably not gonna wear this hat to BLUF night next weekend 😅 31420
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 25/09/2026Objects in mirror are closer than they appear 1229610
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 24/09/2026Good morning from Palm Springs! The days are getting shorter... which means it's finally getting cool enough for morning walks. 42455
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 21/09/2026Cooler weather means morning hikes are on again for the season here in Palm Springs 826111
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMountainHanzie @hanzie67.bsky.social · 20/09/2026Hiking the Dolomites. 🌿 2523
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 19/09/2026Caught up with a high school classmate today... "One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…." I'm impressed by 16-year-old me. 2491
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 17/09/2026I generally read as unapproachable, I know. I tend towards being quiet and respectful towards others, especially fellas I really want to get naked with. (I blame the Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention Policy - I was a student there in 1990.) I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go. 4600
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Went to the place and did the thing last night 726312
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Wishing the inimitable @bearspanks.bsky.social the happiest of birthdays today - it's my 57th and his 45th. Spankings gladly accepted, obvs. 1626113
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 15/09/2026Practicing Resting Bear Face for deployment in LA next month 122644
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 14/09/2026Proof that the most handsome Dads are generally found at Palm Springs pool parties 🥵 2692
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 14/09/2026If you ever wondered what my voice sounds like… 1121
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 13/09/2026Morning, son. Fetch your Dad a cup of tea, would ya? There’s a good boy. 142783
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 13/09/2026If I were to wear hankies in my back pockets, what colors would you expect to see!? 8200
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 11/09/2026L-R: @armocub.bsky.social, @mentordadsir.bsky.social, @woofymcgrrr.bsky.social, @bigdumbbear.bsky.social, @leathernudist.bsky.social. 📸 by @armocub.bsky.social. 419410
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 10/09/2026The Southern exception: when a boy says “Hey, boys” to a group of Sirs or other superior men This also applies if you call me Sir without discussing the matter beforehand If you’re not from the South and do either of these things, i *may* have words with you 21996
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 01/09/2026Day 6: still locked for @mentordadsir.bsky.social Three more sleeps until #Delta2026 828018
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/08/2026Day 4 locked for @mentordadsir.bsky.social Five more days till #Delta2026 523713
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 28/08/2026#FCF: @pikemanville.bsky.social definitely fits that description, woof 🥵 01211
Reposted by Big Dumb BearZuttoman @zuttoman.bsky.social · 08/07/2026@desertdadbear.bsky.social all bound up 21213
Reposted by Big Dumb BearChris Pratt @cpratt.bsky.social · 07/06/2026welp, I’ve now lived long enough to see my own name on the Criterion Channel 😎 2801
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 3 of 4. 437645
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 2 of 4. 230135
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 24/12/2025That time @desertdadbear.bsky.social asked to see my gloves. May Santa bring you what you want for 2026. #CigarDaddy 439519
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 4 of 4. 953766
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 1 of 4. 935030
Reposted by Big Dumb BearZuttoman @zuttoman.bsky.social · 06/12/2025More rope on @desertdadbear.bsky.social 921112
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 04/12/2025Just getting started. With @desertdadbear.bsky.social 730720
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 03/12/2025For the second time of my life, ran into one of these earlier this week... not a fan. Talk about a buzzkill :/ www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-con...mayoclinic.orgSex headaches occur more often in men-Sex headaches - Symptoms & causes - Mayo ClinicLearn about the causes and treatment of this type of headache. 580
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 03/12/2025Cigar training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social (Re-posted with the CORRECT Bluesky handle. Old post deleted because you can't edit on this platform, which is annoying AF. 🙄 My apologies to anyone scandalized by my previous post.) 624813
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 02/12/2025#PuppyPile 📸 by @desertdadbear.bsky.social 72466
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 30/11/2025With @desertdadbear.bsky.social 832119
Reposted by Big Dumb BearMentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 30/11/2025Rest, well earned. With @desertdadbear.bsky.social 32216
Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/11/2025Flew Basic Economy to Fort Lauderdale for Pig Week… but wasn’t expecting THIS 📸: @mentordadsir.bsky.social 52259