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Big Dumb Bear

@bigdumbbear.bsky.social
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6'3"/190 cm, 240 lbs/110 kg bear in Palm Springs, California. Married, demi, subordinate. Partial to cigar men, BDSM, and leathermen. Dad to a couple of amazing boys. BigDumbBear on Hank Social, Recon, and Scruff; cpuready on Instagram. BLUF #5146.

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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 18h
Some notes on these pictures: 1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I am now on Hank Social. Same screen name. hanksocial.com/u/bigdumbbear
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BigDumbBear (@BigDumbBear)
Cigars. Leather. Bears. Service.
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Probably not gonna wear this hat to BLUF night next weekend 😅
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Happy Dolly Parton Day, everyone.
Me wearing a T-shirt that says “Find out who you are and do it on purpose. - Dolly Parton”
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Objects in mirror are closer than they appear
me, standing outdoors in a blue jock and hiking boots, in front of the mountains in Palm Springs, California
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Good morning from Palm Springs! The days are getting shorter... which means it's finally getting cool enough for morning walks.
Me, shirtless, standing outdoors on a mountain with Palm Springs in the background
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Cooler weather means morning hikes are on again for the season here in Palm Springs
My butt, outdoors
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MountainHanzie @hanzie67.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Hiking the Dolomites. 🌿
Hiking the Dolomites. 🌿
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Caught up with a high school classmate today... "One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…." I'm impressed by 16-year-old me.
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
One year ago this week 🥵
Me on all fours getting fucked by a big strong handsome bear in Madrid
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
I generally read as unapproachable, I know. I tend towards being quiet and respectful towards others, especially fellas I really want to get naked with. (I blame the Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention Policy - I was a student there in 1990.) I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go.
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Went to the place and did the thing last night
Me smoking a cigar
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Wishing the inimitable @bearspanks.bsky.social the happiest of birthdays today - it's my 57th and his 45th. Spankings gladly accepted, obvs.
two furry bears in a room at Steamworks Seattle
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Having a Dad moment here…
Me in white briefs
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Practicing Resting Bear Face for deployment in LA next month
me in Langlitz breeches with padded knees, Wesco boots, and a short sleeve leather shirt
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Proof that the most handsome Dads are generally found at Palm Springs pool parties 🥵
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
If you ever wondered what my voice sounds like…
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Morning, son. Fetch your Dad a cup of tea, would ya? There’s a good boy.
Just a standard issue dadbear standing outside in the desert
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
If I were to wear hankies in my back pockets, what colors would you expect to see!?
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
L-R: @armocub.bsky.social, @mentordadsir.bsky.social, @woofymcgrrr.bsky.social, @bigdumbbear.bsky.social, @leathernudist.bsky.social. 📸 by @armocub.bsky.social.
Five men in leather, two with cigars.
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Me in the 80s without stupid AI
me laying down across some hay balesprom night 1987Note the stencil on the back of my jacket and the Birkenstock Boston clogs :0a sign in Radebeul, GDR, 1988
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
The Southern exception: when a boy says “Hey, boys” to a group of Sirs or other superior men This also applies if you call me Sir without discussing the matter beforehand If you’re not from the South and do either of these things, i *may* have words with you
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Day 6: still locked for @mentordadsir.bsky.social Three more sleeps until #Delta2026
Me, on my knees, arms behind my back, head bowed,naked, wearing Sir’s collar, dick in a cage, happy to be of service to Sir
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Smokeout 2026
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Day 4 locked for @mentordadsir.bsky.social Five more days till #Delta2026
A middle-aged white bearded dadbear on his knees, head down, one hand behind his back, with a caged dick
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
Good morning from the desert
A middle aged white bearded bear in bed, Sir’s collar around his neck, smiling
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
#FCF: @pikemanville.bsky.social definitely fits that description, woof 🥵
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Hump day
Me getting fucked a couple of years ago in Madrid, woof
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Zuttoman @zuttoman.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
@desertdadbear.bsky.social all bound up
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
Morning cage check for SIR
A 56-year old dadbear on his knees, naked, caged cock, Sir’s collar around his neck, leaking through his cage
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
The current state of the Bear
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Chris Pratt @cpratt.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
welp, I’ve now lived long enough to see my own name on the Criterion Channel 😎
The Helvetica documentary credits - Special Thanks to a number of people who helped finance or otherwise supported the film
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025
Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 3 of 4.
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 03/04/2026
Good morning from Smokeout 2026!
A white-bearded dadbear sitting on a towel on a sofa in a Las Vegas hotel room. He’s got a shaved head, is smoking a cigar, and his semi-erect cock is visible
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
Vegas baby
A storefront sign seen in Shikoku, Japan, that says Nice day, Nice smoking, TOBACCO, Smokin' CleanA middle-aged, white-bearded, furry-chested dadbear smoking a cigar, wearing leather suspenders/bracesMe, smoking a pipe at Palm Springs Leather Pride, with various handsome leathermen in the backgroundMe, smoking a pipe at the Portland Eagle with an exceptionally handsome leatherman in the background
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025
Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 2 of 4.
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 01/03/2026
The current state of the Bear
Me, in a jock and work boots.
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 24/12/2025
That time @desertdadbear.bsky.social asked to see my gloves. May Santa bring you what you want for 2026. #CigarDaddy
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025
Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 4 of 4.
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 13/12/2025
Throat training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social Sound on. Part 1 of 4.
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Zuttoman @zuttoman.bsky.social · 06/12/2025
More rope on @desertdadbear.bsky.social
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 04/12/2025
Just getting started. With @desertdadbear.bsky.social
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 03/12/2025
For the second time of my life, ran into one of these earlier this week... not a fan. Talk about a buzzkill :/ www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-con...
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Sex headaches occur more often in men-Sex headaches - Symptoms & causes - Mayo Clinic
Learn about the causes and treatment of this type of headache.
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 03/12/2025
Cigar training with @desertdadbear.bsky.social (Re-posted with the CORRECT Bluesky handle. Old post deleted because you can't edit on this platform, which is annoying AF. 🙄 My apologies to anyone scandalized by my previous post.)
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 02/12/2025
#PuppyPile 📸 by @desertdadbear.bsky.social
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 02/12/2025
Meanwhile, on Instagram
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 30/11/2025
With @desertdadbear.bsky.social
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MentorDadSir🔜LA, Palm Springs @mentordadsir.bsky.social · 30/11/2025
Rest, well earned. With @desertdadbear.bsky.social
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Big Dumb Bear @bigdumbbear.bsky.social · 29/11/2025
Flew Basic Economy to Fort Lauderdale for Pig Week… but wasn’t expecting THIS 📸: @mentordadsir.bsky.social
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