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Bibulous1

@bibulous1.bsky.social
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Kinky male. Older but not old. Didn’t understand it all for ages but does now. Baker of fine breads and good at cards. Interested in meeting like minded folk.

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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 36m
It was indeed quite a lot of pain on purpose. But it transported me to a calm, or serene even, place, somewhere I haven’t been for a while. @ht-honey.bsky.social was with me and it was a pleasure to see her transported to her own version of that same place. @hellomisshunter.bsky.social was our guide
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I’m signed up for a bit of “pain on purpose” tomorrow (IYKYK). It may be quite a lot of pain on purpose. Hmmmm.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Look what @missksting.bsky.social left at my London pad! The cane not the jacket. That was already here. She got to use it first naturally. Oof
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Why do estate agents insist you are t there for viewings? They then send round a 20 year old who has never sold anything in their short life, has never owned a home and knows nothing about my house so can’t answer any questions. I dunno. 🤷
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Apparently bank holiday bum day is still a thing. Here’s my entry. I’d put it on Sinful Sunday if only….
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
“Shall I wear this?” I said, ahead of our dungeon session. I can see my low-dose GLP-1 regime is taking some weight off. But I also see I need to get back in the gym and prevent the further descent to “old man” shoulders. Like my dad’s were at the end. Withered where they had been powerful.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
“We can play at your place”, she said, “I can bring ‘some’ toys!” Some toys… @missksting.bsky.social
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
You in Pret? The older gent in the corner? Iced latte Been shopping. Prolly buying a hat. Hang on, the brand on his bag is Regulation. He’s just taken something out and photographed it on the table. Peek over his shoulder! It’s a new butt plug! Old bastard’s been in a sex shop! Who’d have thought!
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
God, I miss Sinful Sunday and @mollysdailykiss.bsky.social “s wonderful blog. Where else would a late 50’s man, bit overweight, have found the confidence to post pictures of himself, through that getting in touch with his body for the first time. Late 60’s now and still benefiting.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Big man on a hotel bed. Yes, there may be a bit of a mark on my bum, but blame @missksting.bsky.social and her prison strap.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
Travelling again. The security guys had to open my bag at the airport as I had left a >100ml liquid bottle in there after I’d taken the bag to a rental dungeon on Sunday. It was a special cleaner for sex toys. He definitely gave me a look.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
Her reaction to these was delicious, constantly wanting to touch me through the thin fabric, making me hard so they could barely contain me. I felt more virile than I have in years. But still she was stroking and touching until sex became inevitable. I’m wearing them now to be back in that moment.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
More underwear. Soz It’s hot & we all want to wear the minimum, right? Don’t want to go commando cos eww. Hence these. About 2 square inches of the lightest cotton. Plus a certain person liked the idea of seeing me in them. Also: these would have been £20 in Prowler instead of £7.50 for a 3 pack.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
I’ve switched to the image I use elsewhere as my Avi. I love this so much. Kinky. Switchy. Card player. Pretty much me. 😊 I originally found the image on the left and flipped it for the one on the right.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
So after seeing @blancogogo.bsky.social’s advice below, I looked up Kiniki as a place to further explore my swimwear fetish and this is what happened.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
As invitations go, this is a good one:: “Make me so that the only thing that exists is you and what you are doing to me.”
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
Multi-tasking. I’m sat on a beach with my boys. They’ve got earphones in so conversation is not required. I’m also whatsapping hot, perverted ideas for future play with a kinky lover. It’s getting little out of hand!!
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
As something of a swimwear fetishist, I approached this with keen anticipation. I was looking for: Best swimwear for foreplay Best bikini for spanking Best one piece for a dominatrix Best bikini bottoms for men. Zip Nada Nothing! A very narrow review IMHO
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 05/05/2026
ANNDDD…. as of today I’m another year older! Which is really quite old. I guess that’s what the post below was about. Reassuring myself that I’m doing OK for my now 68 years! Cooking a family dinner for tonight with my chef son. Other son coming down Thursday. Nice.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 02/05/2026
I’m not on here much these days. But I’m still around. Still having amazing kinky sessions with the most gorgeous friends. Getting older. Bit of arthritis. Looking to downsize my house. Still travelling. Playing a bit of poker here and there. Mostly there. It’s not a bad life really.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 02/05/2026
Mango Gout. Nah. This one doesn’t work.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 22/04/2026
Window shot in Las Vegas. A few years ago.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 13/03/2026
I MAY have eaten my entire yearly ration of hot cross buns in one24 hour period. And it’s not even Easter yet.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 13/03/2026
I fell down a bit of a hole last night watching Jessie Buckley interviews and video clips. She is… What I mean is…. Hmmmm Force of nature doesn’t really cover it. She’s on Desert Island Discs on R4 right now.
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dr. rich traditions, JD @helldude.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
one of my core values is "high quality seafood at an affordable price"
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 28/02/2026
So how is a pro Dominatrix in the midlands who I only saw twice about 10 years ago a follow recommendation on my instagram? The account I use for family and friends and where my identity and face are not hidden. I’ve about had it with social media.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 19/02/2026
Thursday finds me heading to the Midlands on a train. I’m going to a party. Yes, that kind of party! 🍑👏🦯 Nervous much.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 05/02/2026
I’m afraid to say I’ve finally taken my blog down. The UK safety act is too much of a barrier and I don’t want to either sanitise the blog or put age checks in. I’m going to download all the writing and may yet turn it into a book. A memoir of my exploration of kink and the growth that came from it.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 02/02/2026
Thought for the day. It’s a male paedophile scandal, yet the only person in prison is a woman. It’s an American paedophile scandal, yet the only people shamed are Brits. Just how wide and deep must the cover-up be over there?
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Every now and then one of Ferns’ posts from the past hits a spot. Like this….. I like bruises too. Bruises I’ve been given. Bruises I’ve caused. Mmmm
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 29/01/2026
Five jobs I’ve had: 1) Bar man (all over the shop) 2) Cider delivery (Brum) 3) Supermarket worker (Oslo) 4) Ski instructor (Scotland) 5) Intercepting other people’s radars 🤐
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
If I still have any followers who voted for Brexit, feel free to unfollow me and crawl into your own little hole. And take your 90 minute non-EU customs line with you. I know this is less tolerant than my normal fare but that’s just how I feel at this point in time.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 18/01/2026
Airport breakfast. Going skiing ⛷️ for first time in 6 years. We’ll have to see how my repaired heart gets on living at 2,000m. Travelling with one son to stay in the hotel Where the other is head chef!! Nice.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 30/12/2025
Travel, Beach, Job. Travel is definitely in the plan. May have to include beach travel in that. But “Job” That’s a funny one. I told my therapist the other day that I’d realised my life revolved around avoiding boredom. That’s too low a bar now I’m healthy again. I need to do something.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 25/12/2025
Happy Christmas to any and all who remember me here. Starting the day alone for the first time but made a proper breakfast. Family Christmas dinner at my brother’s later. 3 dogs and a baby so should be fun. Let’s meet in the New Year.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
Just got cold called by someone who had my name and number and wanted to talk about my Painaspleasure. com domain. WTAF!
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
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Girl on the Net @girlonthenet.bsky.social · 19/11/2025
More amazing guest blogs from dudes on #InternationalMensDay... this piece from @bibulous1.bsky.social about exploring kink in his fifties
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Guest blog: Exploring kink in my fifties | Girl on the Net
What is it like to discover your kinks and desires later in life? This guest blogger shares his journey exploring kink in his fifties, sixties and beyond.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
So. While I waited for an adult to talk me out of it, I turned 10 years of blogging into a 50 minute Edinburgh Fringe show about a boarding school survivor who went exploring the kinky underworld and ended up finding himself. Now what???
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Girl on the Net @girlonthenet.bsky.social · 11/10/2025
"She had been captured by the secret police while checking a dead drop for messages from her spy." This time last year, a deliciously creative #kinky scene between @euclideanpoint.bsky.social and @bibulous1.bsky.social 😍 www.girlonthenet.com/blog/kinky-i...
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 13/09/2025
NEW: I’ve been lucky enough to play the Dom to some wonderful submissives. @missksting.bsky.social let me Dom a Domme! painaspleasure.com/2025/09/13/d...
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DOMMING THE DOMME
When my dominant side gets let out it’s usually, as you would expect, with natural submissives. Yesterday I got to find out what it would be like to dominate a Domme.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 14/09/2025
Malta, I am in you.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 13/09/2025
NEW: I’ve been lucky enough to play the Dom to some wonderful submissives. @missksting.bsky.social let me Dom a Domme! painaspleasure.com/2025/09/13/d...
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DOMMING THE DOMME
When my dominant side gets let out it’s usually, as you would expect, with natural submissives. Yesterday I got to find out what it would be like to dominate a Domme.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 12/09/2025
How it started. How it’s going. This is me - a month or so after my heart op and now. Cardiac rehab is working. 💪🏻🏃‍♂️
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
I just looked up nipple clips on Amazon (left mine in a dungeon a few weeks ago). Reader, I have questions. * Why for men/for women? I thought nipples were nipples. * Beginner? Fair enough I guess. * Adult? Of course adult! Eww * Nipple clippers! WTAF? Dear God, Nooooo!!!
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
I just looked up nipple clips on Amazon (left mine in a dungeon a few weeks ago). Reader, I have questions. * Why for men/for women? I thought nipples were nipples. * Beginner? Fair enough I guess. * Adult? Of course adult! Eww * Nipple clippers! WTAF? Dear God, Nooooo!!!
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 10/09/2025
Personal trainer (over video): I’m glad you got back from your lunch in time. Me: I managed to get an Uber Her: So you’ve just eaten! Feeling OK to exercise? Me: Sure. No problems! Her: What did you eat? Me: Errr. Lunch was more of a time for our meeting rather than what we were doing.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 07/09/2025
I am now “my alarm went off and I couldn’t think why I’d set it till 2 hours later so wasted my cinema ticket” years old. Not a welcome development.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 06/09/2025
Here’s a hot bit of audio for your Saturday morning.
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Bibulous1 @bibulous1.bsky.social · 05/09/2025
Conversation overheard as I walked past 3 men sat having a beer outside my local: “When I got nicked for doing all those Bang & Olufsens….” Winchester may not be all it seems.
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