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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 18/11/2025

Don’t let your pride or even just laziness get in the way of finding the help you need. And please, be very careful about where you get your information

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Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late to Reach Out

Prompt Yourself: Weekly Prompts November 17 — November 23, 2025

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 10/11/2025

some people stay in your life just long enough to teach you how to live without them.

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 05/11/2025

i used to hate endings. they felt like failure. but now i see them as beginnings in disguise. you don’t lose people.tyou lose illusions. you lose versions of yourself that were tied to them. and what’s left is the truth. and that’s always worth keeping.❤️❤️

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 02/07/2025

sometimes healing looks like: not texting back choosing silence over drama being boring on purpose quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 02/07/2025

we crave deep connections but settle for surface ones. we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off. but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 01/07/2025

you always try to be the strong one. but who do you turn to when you’re breaking? it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting. you deserve support, too.❤️❤️

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 26/06/2025

for those who know me and my way of writing, you will understand this. for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.

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You Think I’m Home, But I’m the Fire

The subtle way manipulation makes you question yourself

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 20/06/2025

you say “sorry” too much because you were taught your needs were a burden. but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong. start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 03/06/2025

"Some people think they’re weak. But there’s a danger to a person who’s swallowed every insult, every betrayal, every fake apology."

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What's The Dark Side of Good People

The hiden cost of always being nice

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 02/06/2025

You think you're behind because others look so put together. But everyone’s hiding something. No one posts the full truth. Your slow progress still counts❤️❤️.

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 01/06/2025

Choosing pain over guilt doesn’t make you the hero that this world desperately needs. But at least you do not add to the villains that this world is already full of.

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I’d Rather Hurt Than Be the One Who Hurts You

If someone has to bear the pain, I would rather it be me

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 30/05/2025

Emotional exhaustion feels like: 😪Wanting to cry for no reason 😪Avoiding texts 😪Not even enjoying things you used to love Rest isn’t selfish.❤️❤️

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 29/05/2025

You grew up thinking love meant fixing people. That if you loved hard enough, they’d stop hurting you. But love isn’t suffering. You’re allowed to want calm. Peace is love, too.

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 24/05/2025

"Man is nothing else but what he makes of himself." – Jean-Paul Sartre

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 23/05/2025

"When you finally accept that no one is coming to save you, you stop being a victim and start being the one with the pen."

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You’re the Author, Not the Victim

Life’s unfair but your response is always yours

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 23/05/2025

You're not overreacting. You’re just reacting to years of holding it all in. Your pain didn’t start today. It’s been building. Give it a voice before it turns into silence that eats you alive.

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 22/05/2025

Signs you're growing: You pause before reacting You set small boundaries You start saying “no” You care less about being liked That’s healing, even if it feels awkward.

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 16/05/2025

You replay things in your head because no one gave you closure. So you write your own. In your mind. Over and over. That’s not madness. That’s grief with nowhere to go.

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 14/05/2025

You always laugh when you’re uncomfortable. You joke when you want to cry. That’s how you survived. But you deserve to feel things without hiding them behind humor. Your pain is valid.

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 13/05/2025

Stop blaming yourself for: 1. Things others did 2. Times you didn’t know better 3. Being too young to speak up You weren’t supposed to fix it all. You were supposed to survive it. And you did.❤️❤️

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 09/05/2025

Some days, the smallest things feel impossible. Showering. Replying. Getting out of bed. That doesn’t make you lazy. It means you’re tired in ways people don’t see. Give yourself grace. You’re doing more than enough.

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