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Bella Smith ⭐

@bellasmith0705.substack.com
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Human Behavior/Psychology Enthusiast, Empath, Introvert, INFJ. Loves to write about life, psychology and relationships❤️❤️ let's connect: linktr.ee/bellasmith0705

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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 18/11/2025
Don’t let your pride or even just laziness get in the way of finding the help you need. And please, be very careful about where you get your information
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Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late to Reach Out
Prompt Yourself: Weekly Prompts November 17 — November 23, 2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 13/11/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 12/11/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 11/11/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 10/11/2025
some people stay in your life just long enough to teach you how to live without them.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 10/11/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 08/11/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 06/11/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 05/11/2025
i used to hate endings. they felt like failure. but now i see them as beginnings in disguise. you don’t lose people.tyou lose illusions. you lose versions of yourself that were tied to them. and what’s left is the truth. and that’s always worth keeping.❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 01/08/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 08/07/2025
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How Success Became the Most Confusing Thing We Crave
Prompt Yourself: Weekly Prompts July 7– July 13, 2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 02/07/2025
sometimes healing looks like: not texting back choosing silence over drama being boring on purpose quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 02/07/2025
we crave deep connections but settle for surface ones. we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off. but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 01/07/2025
you always try to be the strong one. but who do you turn to when you’re breaking? it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting. you deserve support, too.❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 26/06/2025
for those who know me and my way of writing, you will understand this. for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.
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You Think I’m Home, But I’m the Fire
The subtle way manipulation makes you question yourself
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 22/06/2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ on Substack
Someone told me, “You’ve changed.” And I took it as a compliment. I don’t want to be the same person I was last year, last month, or even last week. Growth means shedding old versions of myself, eve...
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 20/06/2025
you say “sorry” too much because you were taught your needs were a burden. but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong. start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 11/06/2025
"Your anti depressant med is not always the answer"
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Some Wounds Stay Buried But Still Bleed
If you can’t explain the pain, this is for you
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 08/06/2025
"Maybe clarity isn’t something we find , but just something that finds us once we commit"
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Life Often Reveals Its Meaning Only Once We Commit
Prompt Yourself: Weekly Prompts June 9– June 15, 2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 07/06/2025
I’m good. But never perfect. And I never want to be.
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Do You Consider Yourself a Good Human?
The honest confession of a good human
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 05/06/2025
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When the Time Is Right, I Hope I’m Still the One You Search For
If one day you look for me, I hope I’m still someone worth finding
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 04/06/2025
"We all crave reasons. But reasons don’t always help."
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Some Things Are Better Left Unknown For The Sake Of Your Heart
Why not knowing might be the healthiest choice
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 03/06/2025
"Some people think they’re weak. But there’s a danger to a person who’s swallowed every insult, every betrayal, every fake apology."
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What's The Dark Side of Good People
The hiden cost of always being nice
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 02/06/2025
You think you're behind because others look so put together. But everyone’s hiding something. No one posts the full truth. Your slow progress still counts❤️❤️.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 01/06/2025
Choosing pain over guilt doesn’t make you the hero that this world desperately needs. But at least you do not add to the villains that this world is already full of.
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I’d Rather Hurt Than Be the One Who Hurts You
If someone has to bear the pain, I would rather it be me
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 31/05/2025
"We don’t always get the ending we hope for. And sometimes, that’s the blessing."
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I’ll Always Be Thankful You Happened
Not every connection is meant to last, but some are meant to teach
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 30/05/2025
Emotional exhaustion feels like: 😪Wanting to cry for no reason 😪Avoiding texts 😪Not even enjoying things you used to love Rest isn’t selfish.❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 29/05/2025
You grew up thinking love meant fixing people. That if you loved hard enough, they’d stop hurting you. But love isn’t suffering. You’re allowed to want calm. Peace is love, too.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 24/05/2025
"Man is nothing else but what he makes of himself." – Jean-Paul Sartre
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 23/05/2025
"When you finally accept that no one is coming to save you, you stop being a victim and start being the one with the pen."
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You’re the Author, Not the Victim
Life’s unfair but your response is always yours
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 23/05/2025
You're not overreacting. You’re just reacting to years of holding it all in. Your pain didn’t start today. It’s been building. Give it a voice before it turns into silence that eats you alive.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 22/05/2025
Signs you're growing: You pause before reacting You set small boundaries You start saying “no” You care less about being liked That’s healing, even if it feels awkward.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 20/05/2025
"It’s hard to stop repeating until you admit what you’re repeating."
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Why We Keep Making the Same Painful Choices
The cycles we carry without knowing
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 16/05/2025
You replay things in your head because no one gave you closure. So you write your own. In your mind. Over and over. That’s not madness. That’s grief with nowhere to go.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 15/05/2025
"you don’t have to stay stuck with them just because you love them."
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Some People Don’t Change Because It’s Safer That Way
Choose where your energy should be directed
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 14/05/2025
You always laugh when you’re uncomfortable. You joke when you want to cry. That’s how you survived. But you deserve to feel things without hiding them behind humor. Your pain is valid.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 13/05/2025
Stop blaming yourself for: 1. Things others did 2. Times you didn’t know better 3. Being too young to speak up You weren’t supposed to fix it all. You were supposed to survive it. And you did.❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 12/05/2025
"Warning: This is going to hurt."
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You’re Not in Love, You’re in a Fantasy
Time to stop doing this to yourself
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 10/05/2025
"something you might need to hear right now"
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Don’t Pressure Yourself to Be “Okay” Just Because the World Wants You to Smile
Not being okay is still healing
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 09/05/2025
Some days, the smallest things feel impossible. Showering. Replying. Getting out of bed. That doesn’t make you lazy. It means you’re tired in ways people don’t see. Give yourself grace. You’re doing more than enough.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 08/05/2025
Some days you’ll feel like no one understands you. Like you’re too deep, too emotional, too everything. But someone out there is looking for a heart like yours. Don’t change to be liked. Stay soft. You’ll be seen.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 07/05/2025
If you feel numb, try this: Drink cold water Step outside for five minutes Text one honest thing to someone you trust Touch something soft Sometimes your body forgets you’re safe. Remind it gently.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 05/05/2025
"If I had a twin, she’d walk around wearing the version of me I was too scared to keep. And I think I’d stare at her a lot longer than I ever stared at my own reflection."
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I Erased My Old Face and Now I Miss Her
I wish I had a twin who never got surgery
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 29/04/2025
"According to the topdogtips website, there are 17 countries that still eat dogs as of 2024."
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What I Would Tell If You Only Understood Me Fully
What if an animal learned to speak a human language?
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 28/04/2025
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What I Wish I Knew
Prompt Yourself: Weekly Prompts April 28– May 4, 2025
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 10/04/2025
Sometimes I think I’m hard to love. Not because I’m unlovable, but because I feel too much. I read between every word, overthink every pause, and break my own heart before anyone else can. If you feel like this too, you’re not alone.❤️❤️
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 26/04/2025
Signs your childhood still affects you: You apologize too much You’re scared to ask for help You think love has to hurt You feel guilty when you rest It wasn’t your fault. But healing is your right.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 25/04/2025
"If you’ve got drafts lying around, why not join in?"
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Draft Day 2025 Is Here
For the writer who keeps saving but never posting, Draft Day 2025 is the sign you were waiting for
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 24/04/2025
You’re not clingy. You just learned to fear abandonment. You’re not too quiet. You just stopped forcing yourself to perform. You’re not overthinking. You just care too deeply. You are not wrong for how you feel.
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Bella Smith ⭐ @bellasmith0705.substack.com · 24/04/2025
"Just because one person couldn’t love you, doesn’t erase the possibility that someone else is out there waiting, dreaming, wishing for exactly who you are."
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You’re Someone Else’s Dream
Dream you didn’t know you were
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